FabGuys.com forum: Older married mens first times

By *hristy89 OP Man
16 weeks ago

city

Love to hear about how you older married men started having some bi fun.

Especially you men that are in 50s married for 25+ years and then suddenly decided to start having some bi fun....so hot hearing how you started, with who and how much you were surprised that you enjoyed it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *nowstorm61Man
16 weeks ago

Fife

I started in my 50s.....

Went for a massage in a guys flat. He had a table set up in a bedroom with all the aromatic oils. After a great massage he used all his oral skills to give me an amazing climax.

I couldn't resist the urge to reciprocate so sucked and wanked him to a climax.

I paid him £20 for the massage and left.....never looked back.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ick62Man
16 weeks ago

North Notts

I started with a gay colleague of my wife's after a night out with the guys where she worked

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I first met a guy when I was in my 50s. He was a similar age and also married. Started chatting here, then Skype. Eventually met up in a local woods for a chat. Of course we did more. First time wanking another cock.

Looking back I was always a little curious. Got married when I was 24 and have to grown up kids. I just easily pushed that curiosity to the side and got on with my family life.

For me smart phones and sites like this reignited my curiosity and made turning it into a reality possible. I’m not here to change my life. It’s just I have this over itch to scratch.

So definitely way passed just being curious.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ldsilverbuckMan
16 weeks ago

Wirral

I started in my 60's. A marriage that lacked intimacy for many years, so had a couple of long term lovers (not at the same time). Anyway, my last lover decided we couldn't continue. After a while - I joined FabSwingers without much success - until one day I was off work and was messaged by a gay bloke who travelled for work and was in the area for a few days. We chatted for ages and talked about all sorts and so we decided to meet for a drink. We met at his hotel bar and again talked about all sorts and what our experiences were. After a while, he asked me up to his room and we sat drinking coffee on the couch. He started rubbing my neck and my thigh - I reciprocated and the next thing we were kissing. Then it was off with our kit and we ended up with 69 and wanking. We both came and then we hugged. I left and we messaged for a while- met him at another hotel and had a fab time. He hasn't been back in the area and I have only had a couple of other experiences but who knows what the future holds.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Bodmin

Mine was a chance meeting in the woods one day when walking my dog, see my profile for the story xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *avid64321Man
16 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Absolutely wonderful. Guy said he was “average” but was much bigger than I expected. Sucked him for a while before he decided to take my cherry. Having experimented with plugs for a while found it easier than expected. He removed my plug and after a bit of resistance, slid in balls deep. Fucked me in four positions before finally shooting his load. Great experience.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ames50sMan
16 weeks ago

Worcester

My first time was in front of my wife with her helping him to enter me. Sadly with age she has gone off the boil so I'm riding solo these days.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icko7Man
16 weeks ago

Falmouth

Almost had the same experience.

I was encouraged by the girlfriend.

It drove her mental.

We fucked for days and bought a cock dildo.

Have those days gone !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aula HTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Blackpool

I was around 50 and had never really been interested in cock,always loved dressing up though.

I can’t remember how I found out about this site,but joined it and had a look.

Looked at lots of people nearby and eventually got brave enough to meet someone quite close.

I was so nervous!

Walked in and was naked with a man for the first time!

Sucked each other off and went home with cum still tasting in my mouth.

Now a proper slut and love my fwb with big cock fucking me!

Wish I had started earlier

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *i Biker60Man
16 weeks ago

bitown

My first time, in my late 50s, now I'm 61, was in a supermarket carpark.

I was on this site and looked who's near, an older gent, in his 70s, got in touch, he ended up giving me a BJ, while I kept lookout.

I had always been curious from puberty I suppose, but it took me a long time to come out, to myself if you like.

Had a few experiences since and hope to have some more.

Keep fabbing guys x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *shubMan
16 weeks ago

manningtree

I had played a little with guys before but lost my virginity in 2024 at the age of 58. It was something I'd thought about for a long time and finally made it happen. So glad I did.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *llie61Man
16 weeks ago

Winsford

I think my journey began about 20 years ago when I was single.

A woman I met introduced me to several new experiences... she strapped me to my bed,blindfolded me & fed me poppurzz... all firsts for me then... she mentioned that the pops were mainly used by gays as she played with my cock for 6 hours... an awesome night for sure...

Then some time after another lass had me using pops as she played with my ass...lots of rimming and her vibrators... another first... I remember saying that I could see why gays enjoy it so much...

The next step came when a gay guy messaged me on fabswingers and I went around to his an absolute nervous wreck... he gave me a massage with a happy ending... I could feel his hard cock sliding over my butt hole a few times & it felt really good...made me proper horny & very hard... never did get to feel a cock inside me, but that's life I guess...

I eventually joined fabguys and haven't looked back since!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

My 1st time I was 50,,ten years ago,,in a council run sauna,, man sat opposite me kept looking at my cock,,I started to get hard,,he asked if I needed help with it,,next thing I know I'm having My cock sucked by a man for the 1st time

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *entletouchMan
16 weeks ago

Edinburgh

My first I met in the City of Quebic pub in London

Known as the Elephants Graveyard

I was in my fifties

Back to the Cumberland Hotel nearby

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ogwhammerMan
16 weeks ago

Rainham KENT

I was in my late 30s and my 1st wife was a hot wife I started by eating her creampie then i progressed to sucking off one of her lovers. I remained oral only for about ten years. Then suddenly I was desperate to get fucked by now I was with my 2nd wife so my first fucking was in a sauna

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asy meMan
16 weeks ago

East Preston

My gay mate sucks me off at mine when the wife goes shopping then cums on my cock love it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oel2020Man
16 weeks ago

brough

Started young early teens

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orfyMan
16 weeks ago

Aylsham

"I first met a guy when I was in my 50s. He was a similar age and also married. Started chatting here, then Skype. Eventually met up in a local woods for a chat. Of course we did more. First time wanking another cock.

Looking back I was always a little curious. Got married when I was 24 and have to grown up kids. I just easily pushed that curiosity to the side and got on with my family life.

For me smart phones and sites like this reignited my curiosity and made turning it into a reality possible. I’m not here to change my life. It’s just I have this over itch to scratch.

So definitely way passed just being curious.

This definitely resonates with me. Similar experience although I was 64, and met in a busy carpark and quickly moved into the woods close by. Very horny hearing people talking normally so close!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *yrman57Man
16 weeks ago

Ayr

I started at 57, was looking for women on Fabswingers but got contacted by a guy.

Never given it a previous thought but decided to meet and here I am 10 years later.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hiamintyMan
16 weeks ago

rg25

Still waiting

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

On a beach in Spain. I was sunbathing naked and a guy offered to lotion my back. I innocently said yes. He did my back and then slid his finger into me.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hiamintyMan
16 weeks ago

rg25

"On a beach in Spain. I was sunbathing naked and a guy offered to lotion my back. I innocently said yes. He did my back and then slid his finger into me."
Lucky you !! Xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *earblokeMan
16 weeks ago

Bury

I started very young but I’ve had a handful of first timers. I love it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

In my mid 30’s n went to public toilet for a piss. 2 guys in there as I walked in, one of them bolted out so obviously something going on. The other guy just casually went to a cubicle where he left the door slightly ajar. I wondered what he was up so so just sneaked a peek, he immediately pulled the door open to expose the biggest cock I’d ever seen. Within 5 seconds it was in my mouth, I don’t know what was going on in my head to do that, but it awakened something in me that I’ve loved from that day onwards.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lvetMan
16 weeks ago

Rainham

I had my first encounter with a best mate at 16 but ignored it for sometime got married and children then I knew I needed some cock fun and met someone when I was 40 and we still see each other 20years on have had other men together threesomes and foursomes and have never looked back

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ave lookingMan
16 weeks ago

sunderland

Decided to call a number In a daily paper add was a TV offering services

Was shy but got a bj with happy ending

Went back a few times sex just got better even vers was good a thrill mostly top now but never say never

Still get a thrill

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *lcfiftyMan
16 weeks ago

Pontefract

Became curious about 10 years ago. Started watching gay porn, then joined cottaging.co.uk to chat with other guys. Was working away at times so this progressed to being able to meet guys while a couple of hundred miles from home.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

For me I started to get very turned on when I went into a cubicle in a public toilet and read some of the stories on the cubicle walls and door. I got so excited and very hard I just had to have a wank and I came with the most intense orgasm. This was 25 years ago.

I then started to explore and visit other public toilets but only to read more stories and check out guys who used the facilities. Nothing ever happened during any visits although I did have opportunities but I chickened out.

This led to finding out where some local gay dogging sites were and it was then that I had my first MM experience. I was parked up at a country park and this guy parked next to me. He got out and went to the back of his car and started to pee or so I thought. I could see in my side mirror that he had his cock out but wasn’t peeing he was just stroking his cock and making sure he was in full view of me in my mirror. I have to say I was very turned on and my heart was beating harder than ever. He approached my door and I had the window down already. “Hi, looking for any fun? “ he said. I turned my head and was faced with his cock. Fuck, this was actually happening.

I stuttered out a “yes” and he went around the other side of the car and got in the passenger seat still with his cock out and it was now fully erect and around 6 inches and cut.

I told him that I’d never been with another guy but had been fantasising about it for ages. He took my hand and placed it on his cock. I instinctively started to wank him slowly. He moaned and put his head back so I thought I was doing ok. He then put his hand across and stared to rub my cock through my jeans. I was brick hard by now. “Let’s get you out” he said and with that he expertly undid my jeans and had them pulled down and my pants down in seconds. He then leaned over and licked my wet knob and I gave out a gasp which led him to take me fully in his mouth. I was in heaven. This was the best blow job I had ever had as he sucked and bobbed up and down. I told him I was close to cumming and he just kept going even quicker until I exploded in his mouth. He swallowed the lot and got up with a huge smile on his face and said thanks. He said thanks? It should have been me that thanked him I thought.

I knew after that first experience I was hooked. Guys just turn me on so much and I feel much more relaxed and get more turned on with guys now than I do with my wife.

Hope you enjoyed my story.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

[Removed by poster at 02/01/25 11:45:39]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I became curious and interested about 7 years ago. I had a one off experience when younger. I also rang gay chat lines, late night, in my twenties, for some relief.

I noticed I became more aroused by cock in porn and watched bisex too. My turning point was becoming aroused seeing a fit young man drop his trunks at the gym. I was hard in the shower cubicle after.

I eventually joined Fab and have enjoyed some good top and bottom meets.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *otspur ParkMan
16 weeks ago

New Malden

Older married men are a big turn on for me....

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arry100EMan
16 weeks ago

coventry

First meet in my early sixties chatting on xhamster met at a garden centre to see if we trusted each other

All good wen5 back to his place both stripped of he had small cut cock we both enjoyed sucking each other off

Met a few times after always good then joined this site rest is history

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *arry100EMan
16 weeks ago

coventry

[Removed by poster at 02/01/25 23:36:25]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *haredShowerMan
16 weeks ago

en9 waltham abbey

I am 90% straight. Now thoroughly enjoying the 10% after a 50 year break.

First after the break - mutual wanking, sucked my first cock. I had practiced with banana and was pleased I was able to take his full length. Frotted on bed then 69 - he had said no anal but allowed me to lightly finger. He came dry due to prostate issues, then swallowed like a champ.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *en1810Man
16 weeks ago

Banbury

My first time with a guy was at 49.

Had been curious for many years. I finally plucked up the courage to visit a well known cruising area, near Exeter racecourse.

Within 2 minutes a guy walked up to me and started chatting. Told him I'd never done anything with a guy. He told me to relax,and started rubbing my cock through my trousers. In no time, he was on his knees sucking my cock, it felt amazing!

I heard a noise behind him, and spotted an old guy watching. I told my sucker, and he said " that'll be old Frank. He's fine"

Soon, frank was stood next to us. My sucker told him to take over, and informed him it was my first time.

What followed, was the most amazing blow job from old Frank, that I'd ever had in my life!! While the other guy was playing with my balls.

I was in ecstasy!!

I told them I was going to cum, and Frank just carried on till I shot my load.

They then kissed and shared my load, then cleaned me up.

That was it, I was hooked!

Went back there for fun many times after that afternoon. But never did bump into either of them again.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *azaMan
16 weeks ago

Walsall

My first time was in the local toilets I was curious about being bi I loved looking at guys cock and I was standing there with this other guy and he asked me if he could touch my cock and I said yes was very nervous about it but I loved the feeling of this guy playing with my cock then he said he wanted to suck me off of course I said yes I was in my mid fifties then and just love a good play with cocks now I may even prefer cock

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *exy_bottomTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Bedford

"Started young early teens"

Same for me, in teens.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ound 69Man
16 weeks ago

glossop

Mine was 50 ish always thought about it but never did anything when I was younger then started swinging with the wife and loved watching her with other women then she said you should do the same for me with a men very reluctantly I said far enough you’ve done it for me enough got to say never looked back probably enjoy cock fun more now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ocksuck rayMan
16 weeks ago

Gerrard cross

Mine was many years ago in a guys house I was working in ended up up him balls deep loved it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

1st was when I was younger with a cousin….then got married and watched some porn and had a stirring…found this site and off I went

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *erald94Man
16 weeks ago

Colchester

In the days, about 30 years ago, when local papers had small ads offering sexual services, I contacted cited a gay guy in Clacton with a view to finding out what it was like to fuck a guy. I went to his and did it and enjoyed my first male anal fuck

I was so intrigued about it that I contacted him the following week and got him to fuck me. That was my first

Since then I have been fucked 15 times and enjoyed each one

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ipling56Man
16 weeks ago

worthing

I had a domme who told me she wanted to watch me suck a cock. Eventually we met up in a hotel with a master friend of hers and went to his room. She put me in chastity and played with herself as I sucked his cock. As he was about to cum he pulled out and shot his load over my caged cock. Was told to get dressed and sent away.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ollo007Man
16 weeks ago

Pontefract

I was early 40's and married for 25 years my first time a couple of years ago. She started with the change and we went from the best sex life ever to nothing practically over night. I had a few experiments with a friend at college but that was it. We had a shared fab swinger's account and she wasn't interested in another guy joining us but a 3 way with another lady became vanilla haha. After a massive row I went to my mum's spare room d*unk and horny and sent a few messages saying I was bi curious. Pretty much straight away I got a reply from a guy who told me we could chat more on here and it turned out he was on the next street from my house. After a few messages he offered to pick me up and I told him it was okay I would walk to his to meet. I got to his street and after changing my mind a few times I sent him a message saying. " I think I know the house but I don't want to knock on your neighbours door accidentally and cause problems for you because it's late ". Walking Away he told me that he had a star in his window, I looked and it was a Xmas light star. I thought to myself it's now or never and the guy was happy for me to change my mind at

any time. I knocked with butterflies in my stomach and after the meeting I was no longer curious and regretted not doing it earlier haha. He answered the door in his pants and said shall we go upstairs? I followed him to his bedroom and realised it was my last chance to back out but I was so euphoric thinking about it and looking at his bulge that I just went for it started stroking his bulge and kissing him then he said shall we get comfortable and laid on his bed. I don't think I have ever gone from fully dressed to naked so fast in my life and I recall thinking that I'm a married man in my 40's naked with a throbbing hard on just about to get in bed with a guy that I have just kissed and I haven't been this excited since I lost my virginity. The encounter was short but sweet ( mainly due to me being so turned on) but I vividly remember pulling his briefs down and thinking wow I thought that cocks like that were in the pornos. I recall trying all of the wives best techniques on him and having a 69 before he said he was cumming so I sat up and started wanking him and he doing the same to me.I ended up with a hand covered in cum and I remember him saying that he was impressed with my load before dipping his finger in and tasting it. I was immediately hit by guilt, got dressed said goodbye and set off to my mum's thinking that I had tried and it was not for me. Who was I kidding 10 minutes later I was horny as fuck and thanking the guy and hoping to meet again which we did. Unfortunately I find it hard to meet as much as I would like to but have met him and others quite a few times since. I have a sort of gay bucket list I'm hoping to tick off and about a month ago I had my first 3 some with him and it was a last minute thing for me but amazing. Hopefully we're going to arrange another shortly;).

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tripe35Man
16 weeks ago

Manchester

Married for 25 years by by the time you’re 40-43? So married at 15 or 16/17?? You can tell I didn’t bother reading anything else because I couldn’t get past this BS

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ade60Man
16 weeks ago

Workington

Early 40s could be 44 or 45, so he could have married at 19/20.

WTF is wrong with ppl on this site?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkyfuckerukMan
16 weeks ago

Worcester

Would love someone to train my arse

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

[Removed by poster at 04/01/25 00:16:21]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

[Removed by poster at 04/01/25 00:17:16]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ini1440Man
16 weeks ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

First time was chatting to a guy about his wife i was so horny then out the blue he said I'd love wank you off...30mins later was in a lay by being wanked off.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *xcummMan
16 weeks ago

london

My earliest sexual encounters were with guys … much easier to get off than persuading girls to put out back then ..

My first proper encounter with fucking a girl was mmf 3way ..

the. When I started dating properly I left the cock alone for a while.

Nowadays I’m turned on by on line stuff, camming and the occasional guy on guy encounter .. the internet reawakened my interest in other guys.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *alpalMan
16 weeks ago

Scartho, Grimsby

I started looking at blokes in my mid 50s when wife went off sex on cam sites. Had first meet after we separated, the rest is history so they say

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *usiness123Man
16 weeks ago

Hamilton

it was about 15 years ago - found a sexy cd - dresser and that was my 1st experience on in th elat year have i popped my anal cherry and been fucked

no going back now -

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *om.stockingsMan
16 weeks ago

mold

Married and bi curious have been wearing nylon and heels for a few years and looking to suck cock. I had a play last year year and would like to try more nylon cock

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ranform71Man
16 weeks ago

Hinckley

I had my first cock when me and my now wife started dating. 15 years ago she mentioned she was bi. So I arranged a meeting with another couple and a single guy. All I wanted was my mrs and the other woman. How bloody wrong was I. I was eating the other lady and I thought my mrs was playing with my cock, so I carried. Who would like two hot girls at your disposal. Anyway, I happened to see my mrs out of the corner of my eye sucking the single guys cock. Then like a bolt I shot up, caught off guard. He was sucking me. After about thirty seconds I grabbed his head pulled him close and said “carry on, you felt amazing”

Long story short, I went through everything. Sucked cock and swallowed. Got fucked bare. Fucked both guys. I’ve never looked back and I’m kicking myself why I didn’t do it from my first twinge when I was in my late teens.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread