FabGuys.com forum: Being nervous going to a gay sauna

By *airy chap OP Man
15 weeks ago

Aberdeen

How may guys were nervous the first t time they went to a gay sauna on their own ?

I walked past the place twice before entering Baachus in Dundee.

With it being on a bus route with a bus stop nearby I used to make sure there were no buses coming down the road.

Then after plucking up courage would quickly enter the place.

Once in and paying my money I felt more comfortable.

As I changed into jyst wearing a towel I would go into the tv lounge and see if anyone was there.

Then sit down and watch the gay porn on the tv and slowly rub my cock with my legs slightly open listening to hear if anyone was in.

Tbc

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By *drich74TV/TS
15 weeks ago

Derry/Dublin city centre

My first time was green house Darlston. I think indrove there 4 times before driving into the carpark and then actually getting through the door I was shaking like a leaf but once in I loved it.

I am still always wary when walking in as although I don't care who knows I like man on man fun I just also like to be discreet.

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

I think we have probably all been there at some point. The first time is the worst for getting in there but once you've been once you will be back

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By *ediumsized2Man
15 weeks ago

Maidenhead

walked into a sauna and met a married neighbour

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By *airy chap OP Man
15 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Thanlfully the gay saunas have always been in a different town from mine but several times I have met guys from the same town as my own.

Luckily they have all been strangers.

Even when I went to the Steamworks in Edinburgh I was nervous but will definitly be back again.

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By *eff1961Man
15 weeks ago

Gosport

Love to go to one but to nervous to go on my own

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By *aturebottom2019Man
15 weeks ago

NOTTINGHAM

Being so nervous has prevented me from going to one of these Saunas

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By *anitMan
15 weeks ago

Grimsby

Went to one on my own in Nantwich, was quite nervous going in but just had the mindset that we are all there for a bit of fun.

Had a shower and sauna, wondered round seeing who was around and watching some fun. Ended up in the dark room with cubicles and gloryholes

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By *nobdeplumeMan
15 weeks ago

blackpool on sea

I'd love to go, ut just so unsure

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By *p22333Man
15 weeks ago

Witney

Just go and have fun

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By *azbillyMan
15 weeks ago

Ashby de la Zouch

Would love to go just very nervous

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By *ray_UKMan
15 weeks ago

Somewhere in DY

Decided to pay Heroes a visited for the first time couple of years ago. Was nervous and excited when I got to he door not really knowing what awaits ...walked in and found out it was naked day too.

I just go naked any day I'm there now.

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By *eil_gayMan
15 weeks ago

between nottingham and derby

I’m a little nervous but like most of you have said we are all there for the same thing but unfortunately the one in Nottingham is closed down

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By *izzMan
15 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

My first time I was really nervous at Northwich sauna parked and went to the door 3 times as I was walking back to the car after the 3rd time a guy said your first time I said yes I am really nervous. Hi said come in with me so I did he showed me the ropes and we had fun.still get nervous but happybto go in now

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By *treyu500Man
15 weeks ago

Australia

I didn't know about gay saunas. I did know about a nudist beach (crusing is common) literally 10 mins drive from my home.

Only part of the beach is nudist and the general public does walk there, although usually not that far down.

Long story short. I was incredibly nervous the first time I went there. Slowly got bolder and stripped off after a couple of visits. That led to some fun. And yes, I did encounter people I knew , both cruising and friends/neighbours 🫣. Risky lol.

First time in a sauna was a few months later. I was in Germany and had a friend with me so I wasn't that nervous thankfully.

I've helped a few other newbies visit saunas since. It can be quite daunting.

German saunas are in a league of their own. If you have been to one , it's quite the experience

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By *i jeffMan
15 weeks ago

ilkeston

"I’m a little nervous but like most of you have said we are all there for the same thing but unfortunately the one in Nottingham is closed down "

Think the only one now is in Mansfield x

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By *eoff_15Man
15 weeks ago

Bordon

My first time was at Tropics in Portsmouth. Very nervous, walked past the entrance 3/4 times before going in. As soon as I'd paid and got undressed I was amongst people like me. Felt so liberating to be with other naked men. Incredibly erotic being sucked off whilst other guys watched. Being going for about 15 years. Still huge fun.

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By *langefni bottomMan
15 weeks ago

llangefni

My.nervousness is why i havent been to.one yet, well that amd the.nearest one is over an hour away. Id love to.find someone locally that i could go with

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By *azaMan
15 weeks ago

Walsall

I am in the same boat as most of you guys I would love to go go but I am very nervous about it I read stories about other guys having in in them makes me want to go even more

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By *anofbronzeMan
15 weeks ago

Badsey

I was very nervous my first time sat in the car park for a long time. Heroes in Stourbridge.

Finally plucked up the courage to go in and it was fantastic. I went into the steam room first and was sucking cock within five minutes.

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By *asssgeguy100Man
15 weeks ago

Blackpool

My first time I thought I was going to have a heart attack

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By *hrisukbishareMan
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

I'm always nervous going to a new place and def share the original posting about walking past a few times. I now enjoy Bacchus and must go back again. When travelling I always try to find a fun new place. Amazing naked views and lovely attractions to explore.

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By *heshguy2024Man
15 weeks ago

Widnes / Runcorn

First time I went to a Sauna I was really nervous and think it showed. Never got any action but was really comfortable around guys being naked and playing with each other.

Second visit confidence had grown and was not so nervous

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By *oodtimebiboyMan
15 weeks ago

Bristol

I was studying part time in Birmingham and would travel there from Bristol. I used that opportunity to visit Greenhouse in Wolverhampton a couple of times.

First time I remember the place was empty, went for a swim naked, felt amazing, liberating.

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By *achsMan
15 weeks ago

Lisburn

I’d like to go to a sauna but to nervous

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By *icumloverMan
15 weeks ago

Tampa

Been many times over the years to one’s in both Tampa and Orlando, still nervous entering and exiting, not sure why but I do

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By *treyu500Man
15 weeks ago

Australia

"Been many times over the years to one’s in both Tampa and Orlando, still nervous entering and exiting, not sure why but I do"

Probably because you're married

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

I was very nervous…. My first time and subsequent times….. but really enjoy it when I get there….. just chilling with like minded guys…. Love seeing cocks getting stuff as we are chatting and being asked if I wanna play…(the answer is always yeah)…. Nervous hearing him putting a condom on…. But again the nerves go as I’m lubed up and bent over…..;-)

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By *ravelguyMan
15 weeks ago

ipswich

First one i went to was sailors in london,with two guys i knew from here,that helped a lot,been to a few around the country over the years

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By *oose1Man
15 weeks ago

doncaster

My first time was in Germany while in the army

There was a language barrier but soon was playing

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By *igs1974Man
15 weeks ago

glenrothes

I'd love to try bachus in Dundee but really nervous

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By *udly guyMan
15 weeks ago

kendal

I've been to all the Blackpool saunas started when the honeycomb was still there around 2000 a friend took me the first time which helped but yes I was nervous nowadays I'm probably more disappointed as these places seem to be dying off

Recently I went to the basement in Manchester I thought I'd hit the jackpot it was so busy but alas it was just a load of blokes walking around and not doing much really

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By *raig_KJMan
15 weeks ago

Southport

I first went into a sauna when I was 19.

I drove 105 miles to the Spartan in Birmingham, it took me ages to find it. I only had an A to Z.

I didn’t think anyone would like me. I was completely wrong.

Any one nervous

Park

Push the door open

Get Changed

Ask Attendant to show you round

Then

Go sit in the sauna and see what pops up.

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By *mizhereMan
15 weeks ago

Thame area

Love the Adrenalin of a sauna not knowing who's there or what's going to happen with all those horny men

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By *ilver Fox 132Man
15 weeks ago

canterbury

Yes I was the same at BGHS in Brighton, but the more I went the easier it was.

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By *mizhereMan
15 weeks ago

Thame area

"Yes I was the same at BGHS in Brighton, but the more I went the easier it was. "

Sure does and I love it

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By *ottom_83Man
15 weeks ago

Glasgow

Always wanted to go but nerves always got the better of me

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By *eightonpa1Man
15 weeks ago

Scarborough

My first time was a friend taking me. I said I'd never been & would like to go so he said you got anything on for the rest of the day. I said no so we went to Hull the Neptune. He even paid for me to have a full massage with sex at the end. The guy was 6' 5" slim ginger hair & blue eyes. I love ginger hair & blue eyes. He tells me to lay on the bench then says it up to you I can keep my clothes on or also be naked. I wanted to see as much as I could of this hunk of a man. So said naked gave a lovely massage I loved sucking him as he worked on my top half when it come to the bum let's just say I was laid in a pool of pre cum. I had never had my prostate worked like that I was moaning & begging him to stop but then say don't stop let just say he gave me a good fucking also. I loved it it became a normal Wednesday or Thursday afternoon fun.

When I go away to Blackpool or Newcastle I always have at least 3hrs in the sauna. Love the one in Newcastle

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By *ollyMan
15 weeks ago

Downham market

I've been to saunas about 8 times and live it, it feels so liberating walking around naked amongst other men with the same interests and enjoying sex with strangers

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By *unlover40Man
15 weeks ago

london

Would love to go but too scared. Would love to sit next to someone and glance at their cock as it begins to grow and see mine respond, waiting for the first touch mmm

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By *immy54Man
15 weeks ago

Cap d’Agde, Manchester

Prefer saunas to anything else.

Love the anonymity, not that interested in what a guy looks like just love the focus on cock fun.

Whenever I get the chance I’m looking for the nearest one, love wandering naked and having guys grabbing me, cooing over me.

Although I’m versatile most guys I come across in them are bottoms, subs or sissy’s are always a turn on for me so I’m always happy to oblige, usually I get a blow job but occasionally a bottom is able to take me.

Love the darkrooms too, the one in the steam room at Northwich is the horniest one I’ve come across but sadly not been there since pre Covid.

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By *treyu500Man
15 weeks ago

Australia

"Would love to go but too scared. Would love to sit next to someone and glance at their cock as it begins to grow and see mine respond, waiting for the first touch mmm"

Just go. You only live once...

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By *exyianTV/TS
15 weeks ago

southampton

once you thru the door first time

, u will love it and be back !!

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By *answitchMan
15 weeks ago

Belfast

I think the hardest part is going to the door. The rest is easy.

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By *rmanp5Man
15 weeks ago

elba park

My 1st time was so nerve wracking. It was in a really old one in Newcastle called Blue Korner ( long gone). I walked past the door a few times before going in. I was made welcome but I used to go lunchtimes and it was always quiet Had some fun though. I remember following a driving instructor in once and omg he took on 3 of us at once. It was so horny

After it closed I visited one in Edinburgh which was ok but not a lot happening then I tried Greenhouse in Darlaston on Naked day … omg what an eye opener. There were loads of cock and action was taking place in every nook and cranny. Can’t wait to revisit

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By *oe8088Man
15 weeks ago

Milton Keynes

I’m the same as a lot of guys have commented above. I think I’d be too scared to go on my own. Would love another older guy to go with me, it’d give me confidence. I get all over the country and I’ve been close to going into one in Plymouth but never managed it.

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By *ottomsotonsubTV/TS
15 weeks ago

SO14 0

Everybody's nervous going to their first one. I'd been to one for so long that I was nervous going to another. But once you're in there, you figure out what it's like and find the spots you like.

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By *anie1975TV/TS
15 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

I am always nervous trying to get into a gay sauna, so never get into one. Io I go to sauna and haman in a hotel In Morocco called Domaine Rosaroum.

I thought it was empty until I go in the sauna, a few elderly man sitting talking, which I don't understand a word. When to haman and relax, next thing I know a hand on my legs rubbing. That was fun

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By *mooth bodyMan
15 weeks ago

Weymouth

I’d love to go to a sauna, but like most I am shy if that makes sense. I’d love to be in the company of other naked men though.

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By *aster CaneMan
15 weeks ago

bridgemary Gosport

Go with a friend or fab contact the first time then you are confident enough to go on your own next time

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By *eg1988Man
15 weeks ago

sheffield

Love going to the Boiler Room in Sheffield

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By *plodge789Man
15 weeks ago

south Birmingham

I’m as nervous as fuck going.

However I just want to be fucked. Bare even better. Have no idea what to do

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By *he vetMan
15 weeks ago

cheshire

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By *he vetMan
15 weeks ago

cheshire

"I’m a little nervous but like most of you have said we are all there for the same thing but unfortunately the one in Nottingham is closed down "

Have you to Zeus sauna in Mansfield?

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By *unlover40Man
15 weeks ago

london

What’s the Locker room like? Do people have a drink nearby before going?

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By *raham2950Man
15 weeks ago

Derby

Used to love Chariots when I came down to London on business. Long gone tho now - anything replaced it??

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By *hrisukbishareMan
15 weeks ago

Edinburgh

"What’s the Locker room like? Do people have a drink nearby before going? "

There's nice pub in the square just by it. Prince of Wales maybe. Good food too.

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By *ravelguyMan
15 weeks ago

ipswich

"Love going to the Boiler Room in Sheffield "

It's card only now,no cash payments which makes it a bit tricky!

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By *lderbiguy2000Man
15 weeks ago

tuebrook

First visit the nerves where there and thankfully they calmed once inside. Friendly nod in changing room then walking upstairs with towel on to explore. Shower first and seeing cocks in shower certainly got me horny but nothing compared to sitting in steam room and feeling a strangers hand on my thigh and onto my cock

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By *raig_KJMan
15 weeks ago

Southport

"Love going to the Boiler Room in Sheffield

It's card only now,no cash payments which makes it a bit tricky!

Get a pre paid card

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By *aturebi65Man
15 weeks ago

hastings/rye area

First time very nervous finally plucked up the courage to go in the brighton sauna.paid got key for locker and towel went and got undressed had a shower no-one else about in area had a walk around few guys about decided to go in actuall sauna room one other guy in there .sat near him we were both watching the porn on tv .I finally though very nervous said to him it was my first time in a suana and I didn't really know how things worked and how do you know if someone is interested. He smiled and said like this at which point he's hand slowly moved up my thigh to eventually reach my cock .he then said come with me .he took me yo a cubicle were he started to suck me I noticed he hadn't shut the door i went to shut it but he said leave it open and to suck him witch I gladly did.out the corner off my eye i then noticed 2 other guys wanking each other watching me suck him .then he said to them its hes first visit come in and make it one to remember. Next thing I had 3 cocks all near my face while I took turns sucking one wanking 2 until they all cum .I was then wanked and sucked bye all 3 in turn untill I had cum.never looked back became a regular visitor after

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By (user no longer on site)
15 weeks ago

Yes, me too. Shy I mean

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By *ak502Man
5 days ago

Simmondley

walked by a couple of times,then went in, nice older lady on the desk,paid the fee then went into the changing rooms, I had no intention of wearing a towel. Felt great walking around smooth cock swinging free

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By *ak502Man
5 days ago

Simmondley

One time i was just just putting my things in the locker,standing there naked, a guy who had just got dressed said nice cock, I said feel free so he just started sucking me in the locker room.

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By *rease monkeyTV/TS
5 days ago

coventry

Love to be taken to a sauna by a horny top guy xxx

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By *bearcalledbobMan
5 days ago

Birstall, West Yorkshire

My first visit to a Sauna was to Spartan in Harehills, Leeds in the 90's. I was nervous as hell.

I'd done plenty of cruising & cottaging before so got knows how bad I'd have been as total novice.

Even now if I go to a new Sauna or cruising area I get a bout of the nerves. Once I'm through the Sauna door or I've walked round the area I'm my usual slutty self.

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By *acingfanMan
5 days ago

Huddersfield

My first time was with a guy I was seeing, so we just went for the facilities and day out. But I've been many times to many saunas since, including some abroad. Hawk's Gym in Las Vegas being the best.

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By *aptain BreederMan
5 days ago

Livingston

"How may guys were nervous the first t time they went to a gay sauna on their own ?

I walked past the place twice before entering Baachus in Dundee.

With it being on a bus route with a bus stop nearby I used to make sure there were no buses coming down the road.

Then after plucking up courage would quickly enter the place.

Once in and paying my money I felt more comfortable.

As I changed into jyst wearing a towel I would go into the tv lounge and see if anyone was there.

Then sit down and watch the gay porn on the tv and slowly rub my cock with my legs slightly open listening to hear if anyone was in.

Tbc"

I'd love to go to Steamworks in Edinburgh,unfortunately I just ain't brave haha

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By *acingfanMan
5 days ago

Huddersfield

I think everyone on this thread has said that they enjoy the sauna. Although there will be exceptions. I think that the wanting to go and not daring to must be awful. If anyone wants someone to walk into Steam Complex Leeds, or Plastic Ivy Dewsbury, then let me know. I will see if we can fix something up.

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By *odgercooperMan
5 days ago

East Midlands east Anglia

First on I went into was in Leicester its was called sauna 31 they were very friendly it was a small place nice sauna a few private rooms very large tv showing porn with a massive bed that would have held 10 or 15 guys had some fun on that think it later was called celts city happy days

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By *ichardgeorge44Man
5 days ago

Sheffield

Keep saying I will go to one, but being married to a woman and having kid, it worries like mad, but I sure I will soon x

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By *itom87Man
5 days ago

Wigan

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By *ijonnyMan
5 days ago

London

The first time I sort of dared myself to go. I was at a workshop drinks party and decided to do an 'Irish exit' and jumped in a can to Shoreditch. Cabbie didn't know the street which was embarrassing as I didn't really want to say 'the gay sauna' but he worked it out.

Nervous as hell walking in, but once inside a feeling of relief.

In the steam room a guy looked across at me, I smiled back and came across to start playing with me. I ducked his fingers encouraging him to play with my hole. He said he wanted to fuck me and I said 'you'd need condoms and lube' the guys sitting either side of me handed both to him. Within 15 mins of getting out of the cab I was being fucked in front of maybe 20 other men.

I fucking loved it!

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By *airy chap OP Man
4 days ago

Aberdeen

Once you get past the doorway and paid your money the nerves go away.

All you think about after that is what is on offer and what fun you might have, hoping that someone is going to play with you or let you play with them.

I don't worry what age they are as most are over 30 or over 50 when I have been in.

At Edinburgh there were a few who were in their 20's.

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By *manMan
4 days ago

wiltshire near stapleford

Unfortunately due to being disabled, I don't think I will ever get to go. I doubt if they have wheelchair access?

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By *ornyBiGuyCockMan
4 days ago

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First time I went I was so nervous I must have walked past it a dozen times before actually plucking up the courage to go in. I'm so glad I did. The guy on the door was so nice and he knew straight away it was my first time. Once I'd changed and put on my towel the lad on reception showed me around and then left me to my own devices. I headed straight to the cinema room and started wanking to the porn. There was around 6 or 7 other guys in there all wanking. It wasn't long before a guy came and sat next to me and reached out to touch my cock. I let him suck me and that seemed to be the signal for everyone to start playing. Within half an hour of entering the sauna I'd sucked 2 guys off and been fucked. Great day. It's been a while since I've been one but thinking about it has got me horny..I might go tomorrow.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 days ago

My 1st visit to a sauna I was not nervous just walk in at small sansa in Birmingham (unit) but then I found out greenhouse which was on my commute from work popped many times when I was on my way home from work loved naked days. Move to Devon in 2016 not been to a sauna since but going this Wednesday to steamers quay Torquay for the TV/TS event as a admirer and I'm a little nervous this time

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By *hepb2003Man
4 days ago

Bridgend

I remember buying my first gay porn.

I was in Old Market in Bristol and had walked past the sauna due the being nervous! Saw a porn shop, walked in, ignored the 2 or 3 men in there and asked the guy behind the counter “Where’s the gay porn, mate?”

He pointed it out, I paid for it and took it with me to the sauna. I think it helped psyche me up…

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By *ocky67Man
4 days ago

burry port

"I'm always nervous going to a new place and def share the original posting about walking past a few times. I now enjoy Bacchus and must go back again. When travelling I always try to find a fun new place. Amazing naked views and lovely attractions to explore. "

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By *iCuckNeedsCockMan
4 days ago

Stamford

My wife keeps encouraging me to go to one, but I'm not sure that I'm brave enough, and I'm not sure sure how they work and any rules etc...

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By *ad Bod ManMan
4 days ago

Gloucester

There’s one close to where I work I’m so so tempted to go and try it out

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By *moothbttomMan
4 days ago

tallagh

Yet an other stupid post , nervous going to gay sauna ?? Very sad if u r

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By *mizhereMan
4 days ago

Thame area

I was the first time but many many visits later love it

Naked days my favourite

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By *mooth subMan
4 days ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

Still not been to one yet 😕

May try the one in Plymouth sometime

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By *moothanSlimMan
4 days ago

Norfolk

"I've been to saunas about 8 times and live it, it feels so liberating walking around naked amongst other men with the same interests and enjoying sex with strangers "

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By *mooth subMan
4 days ago

my dom's cuffs near St Austell

"Yet an other stupid post , nervous going to gay sauna ?? Very sad if u r"

People get nervous in all kind of situations that doesn't mean their sad.

Feeling the need to try and put others down for something like this hmm well that is sad!

Anxiety and mental health is a real thing!

Some people really need to think before talking shit and making themselves look like such a nasty human being.

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By *ocky67Man
4 days ago

burry port

very well said he is the sad man

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By *V ShazTV/TS
4 days ago

Haydock

Chorlton was my first sauna.closed down many years ago.

It was more problematic parking the car than feeling nervous about going in.

Many a cock introduced to me there

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By *izzMan
4 days ago

Wolverhampton

I went to my first sauna 3 times before I went in .

Once passed the door and in the fun started.

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By *k73Man
4 days ago

Leicester

I was nervous first time but once inside completely relaxed and plenty of fun

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By *ight n whiteMan
4 days ago

nr Pencoed

I was really nervous like most guys. But now I've been to a few, once I get in there, undress and take a shower, I'm so relaxed. I can be myself, knowing for the next few hours will enjoy being in the company of like-minded guys with the same mindset as myself

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By *rac59Man
4 days ago

Rotherham

Love going to sauna being naked and chatting to guys and maybe having fun.i go to clubzeus mansfield naked Wednesday are great and the friday events are great too.if you going frist time try sundays

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By *ssexNewSubTV/TS
4 days ago

Coggeshall

I’ve always wanted to go to one but no idea of the etiquette! X

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By *ytheguy59Man
4 days ago

Hythe

I’d love to go to Tropics but working full time with a suspicious wife makes it so hard.

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By *ersfucker777Man
4 days ago

mansfield

I was, it didn't take me long to ease into it though

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By *igprick66Man
4 days ago

Clacton/harwich/col

The one in Ipswich has shut down nothing in Essex closest is London i think never been to one i would like to try it

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By *atchmo_Jizz!Man
4 days ago

Wolverhampton

I’m heading to the Greenhouse, Darlaston today. Lying naked on their sun deck with an erection is liberating!

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By *treyu500Man
4 days ago

Australia

"Yet an other stupid post , nervous going to gay sauna ?? Very sad if u r"

His profile says he's a genuine guy but he has the empathy and understanding of a crusty sock lol

Even "out" gay men are nervous at some first experiences. I brought a friend of mine to nude beach a while ago. He always wanted to go but didn't find the nerve to go alone. So we went as a group. He said he found it a very nervous but liberating experience.

By the time we got to the spot on the beach to set up our cabanna, he was completely at ease after seeing all the different body types and sizes along the way.

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By *tella tvTV/TS
4 days ago

Rosyth

My first was the Lane sauna in Glasgow, luckily a friend took me and introduced me to the place , OMG i became a regular ftom that day , i worked 10 minutes from it , loved it xxxx

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By *londebiguyMan
4 days ago

near Southport

"I've been to all the Blackpool saunas started when the honeycomb was still there around 2000 a friend took me the first time which helped but yes I was nervous nowadays I'm probably more disappointed as these places seem to be dying off

Recently I went to the basement in Manchester I thought I'd hit the jackpot it was so busy but alas it was just a load of blokes walking around and not doing much really "

Northwich is the place to go.

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By *ortsmouthguy99Man
4 days ago

Coventry

"Yet an other stupid post , nervous going to gay sauna ?? Very sad if u r

His profile says he's a genuine guy but he has the empathy and understanding of a crusty sock lol

Lucky to have a great friend like you

By the time we got to the spot on the beach to set up our cabanna, he was completely at ease after seeing all the different body types and sizes along the way. "

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By *erlin55Man
4 days ago

milford

First time is a bit nerve racking but once you are inside it’s ok.

My first time was in touch sauna in Swindon

Was an eye opener for sure.

I’ve been lots of times there o er the years.

I mainly use greenhouse in Newport now as it’s closer since I moved.

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By *aughty Bi 69Man
4 days ago

Willenhall

I worked near the greenhouse for 13 years biked past twice a day. To this day still not had the balls to go in.

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By *enstep12Man
4 days ago

huddersfield

Would love to try Plastic Ivy in Dewsbury for my first time with someone who as been before

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By *raig_KJMan
4 days ago

Southport

Guys

Gay saunas are just like gyms.

Get changed locker room etc.

You just exercise different muscles.

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By *pookyNerd75Man
4 days ago

Newcastle under Lyme

The hardest part is definitely that first step through the door, I found that too, but once inside the staff were amazingly welcoming, spent most of my first time just wandering around taking in all the sights, then I plucked up the courage to enter the glory hole area, had been a big fantasy of mine, it was so amazing to play with so many anonymous cocks!

Hoping to attend on CD/TV/TG day dressed, another fantasy I want to fulfill.

Id definitely go more often if it wasn't a bit of pain to get to.

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By *appylondonMan
3 days ago

West London

"I’ve always wanted to go to one but no idea of the etiquette! X"

It’s all very straight foreword. You can search for sauna etiquette guides and most list expected behaviour on their websites. Mostly it’s about being chill when you are approached or approaching someone, be polite if refusing or refused, and don’t be a dickhead so if they say no, leave them alone.

After you enter, undress and put your clothes in a locker, have a shower and wrap a towel around you unless it is the sauna’s naked day.

Go for a wander, if a someone fancies you he’ll catch your eye, touch you or start talking to you. If you aren’t interested just politely refuse.

In the sauna or steam rooms, find a spare bench and get comfy. Some guys sit with their towels around them, some (like me), will fold their towel and sit naked on it. Stroking your cock and looking at someone is an invitation to play, same goes for the porn cinema room. Or you can gently touch someone with your leg or hand, if they are interested you’ll know quickly. Or you could just try chatting and being friendly, being nice is surprisingly sexy.

If the sauna has private rooms, a shut door means it’s busy, an open door with a chap in there waiting is an invitation. If they are on their stomach it generally means they want to be buggered.

Glory holes are purely about the cock. Depending on the sauna, it may have glory hole cubicles, or holes in a maze. Etiquette is quite straight forward, if you want to have your cock played with, but it through the hole, if you want to play with a cock, kneel down and put your fingers through the hold beckoning them to put their cock through. Have fun.

Condoms and lube are freely available in various places around the sauna, whether you use them is up to you and whoever you have sex with.

Most saunas ban sex in jacuzzi and pools if they have any. Cleaning the cum out of them is not a fun task. Doesn’t mean you can’t play footsies, snog, fondle or indulge in a discreet quick bit of cock sucking. In my experience if meet a guy in jacuzzi and we want to fuck, we’ll find a room or corner to do so.

If someone is lying back in a sex sling, well, they want fucking.

Private rooms are typically just big enough to fit a washable mattress in them. Some saunas charge extra for private rooms (bloody Pleasuredrome). Most saunas have a paper towel dispenser in their rooms, so you can clean yourself up, or any mess you make.

If you want to be fucked, some saunas sell douches to use in the loos, or you can bring your own, or you can clean yourself out at home beforehand.

You will get sweaty, not just from the fucking, so jump in the shower every so often, especially before getting into the jacuzzi.

We are all there for the man sex, so there is not need to be embarrassed once inside. Just be chill and have fun.

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By *appylondonMan
3 days ago

West London

"Love going to sauna being naked and chatting to guys and maybe having fun.i go to clubzeus mansfield naked Wednesday are great and the friday events are great too.if you going frist time try sundays"

I really like being naked with a chap in a sauna, having a chat about life and whatever while stroking each others cocks. Friendly and sexy but in a chill way. Sometimes it ends up being very unchill with furious fucking, but that’s the risk you take.

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By *x Naked JoinerMan
3 days ago

Poulton

I have been to quite a few all over the country while working but can't remember how I felt on my first visit but while on holiday in Thailand I visited one , it was a huge building and my nerves were on edge , I walked in paid and was shown the changing room , the towel I had been given was the size of a large hanky , so nothing hidden , I have never seen so many naked blokes , after a while asked me if he could help me , when I asked why he pointed to my cock half erect I just nodded , that was an afternoon of numerous delights by numerous guys

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By *lderbiguy2000Man
3 days ago

tuebrook

First time was nervous but sat in steam room and having a hand on my cock then feeling a thick uncut cock to my left all nerves went

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By *DPDRTMan
3 days ago

Bristol

I visit Greenhouse in Newport, and Touch in Swindon. Any nervous guys want to to go, meet up, be shown around, please let me know.

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By *neeler bottomMan
3 days ago

WORCESTER

"I visit Greenhouse in Newport, and Touch in Swindon. Any nervous guys want to to go, meet up, be shown around, please let me know."

I would love to go to swindon with you

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By *ral AnnieMan
3 days ago

Camberley

I’ve been to quite a few over the years. The Sauna Bar in Bournemouth was the one I used most and also went to several abroad.

I’m always nervous but that also made me feel vulnerable and that was honey to a bear as far as the Doms were concerned.

I soon realised that the nervous vulnerable and submissive persona attracted a lot of interest so I used it to my advantage and had some memorable experiences.

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By *atinbloodMan
2 days ago

Birkenhead

Always been curious to go but between nerves, slight anxiety and the lack of knowledge of the etiquette, always prevented me from going.

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By *astguy7Man
2 days ago

Ross on Wye

The first time I went, my heart was beating so fast, and I thought my chest would explode. Was so many tempting sights, didn't know where to start. Had to pace myself. Never never I could so many times in reactively quick succession!

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By *0sckrMan
2 days ago

N-S traveller

First sauna I visited was the Lads locker room in Bristol, Old Market. I’d parked up before to watch guys come and go. Bit the bullet and walked in, paid my money and went through to the locker room and showers. Really nervous and very excited. I think it was a Saturday afternoon with half a dozen in.

After a wander around being followed by, I watched some porn and went to the glory holes. If there was someone in, their towel was above the door. My first taste of cock, and I’ve been hooked ever since,

I have seen good old orgies in there in the past, shame it’s closed.

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By *ikerdude1200Man
2 days ago

Durham

I'd wanted to visit a sauna for ages and eventually travelled to Newcastle and got as far as the door then bottled it and walked past. I did this on 3 or 4 separate occasions then the 5th time I thought fuck it and walked in. As soon as I was through the door those nerves id had for months totally disappeared and that was it. Payed my money they asked if id been before I said no and they explained a bit about the place where things were etc and left me to it. Been countless times there and others and dont think twice now. Do it you won't regret it.

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By *ralexpert1966Man
2 days ago

Leek

I'm midway between sauna sauna in northwich and greenhouse Darlaston.. which would people recommend and best days and times

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By *acyboyTV/TS
2 days ago

Southampton

I was a married guy taking all kinds of risks meeting guys in the woods, public toilets, in cars in parking area before i finally plucked up the courage to go to Pink Broadway, Southampton - gone now sadly. Nervous as shouting and yet the minute i was in i realised that the real risks i had been taking were the dodgy meetings places before. I felt safe in the sauna. There were free condoms, lube etc plus effective was there for the same reason. I quickly learned that a polite no thank you or even just a palm upheld in the direction of an unwanted approach was all that was needed. I started to wear my beloved lingerie and although i discovered that look wasn’t for all guys there most loved the fact that i was wearing nylons etc. Tropics is my current sauna of choice.

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By *raig_KJMan
2 days ago

Southport

Perhaps Saunas should have a meet and greet. For guys who are a bit apprehensive.

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By *appylondonMan
2 days ago

West London

"I was a married guy taking all kinds of risks meeting guys in the woods, public toilets, in cars in parking area before i finally plucked up the courage to go to Pink Broadway, Southampton - gone now sadly. Nervous as shouting and yet the minute i was in i realised that the real risks i had been taking were the dodgy meetings places before. I felt safe in the sauna. There were free condoms, lube etc plus effective was there for the same reason. I quickly learned that a polite no thank you or even just a palm upheld in the direction of an unwanted approach was all that was needed. I started to wear my beloved lingerie and although i discovered that look wasn’t for all guys there most loved the fact that i was wearing nylons etc. Tropics is my current sauna of choice."

Totally agree with that, I have never fancied the risks of meets in public places, cottaging or public cruising. Saunas are very safe places and I can relax totally in them, no need to worry about the police or being attacked. Yes it costs a bit, but you are almost certain to get sex and you can used the sauna facilities too.

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By *IPMANMan
2 days ago

LONDON

First saunas I went to were in Amsterdam. Spent a 4 day weekend there between the day sauna, night sauna and the bars. Never saw a single windmill or a tulip...magnificent !

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By *NBOTTOMSMan
2 days ago

Northants

Would love a top or dom guy to take me to a sauna, decide who uses me

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By *ottomslut0071Man
2 days ago

al over uk

My first time was heat in chorlton manchester proper seedy but so horny

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By *oey6666Man
2 days ago

somewhere near you

I don’t get nervous going into a gay sauna I just worry that i could bump into someone I knew

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By *lasboyssMan
2 days ago

Glasgow

First time was terrifying but worth it! Second time round I got an older daddy to take me and was even better

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By *erek123Man
1 day ago

cork area

Want to try, what is the protocol with phones and the like in sauna !!!

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By *appylondonMan
1 day ago

West London

"Want to try, what is the protocol with phones and the like in sauna !!!"

Leave them in your locker.

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By *acingfanMan
1 day ago

Huddersfield

"Want to try, what is the protocol with phones and the like in sauna !!!

Leave them in your locker. "
Some places allow them in the cafe/bar area.

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By *irralGuy20Man
1 day ago

Wirral

Extremely nervous about going to one despite being very very curious about it.

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By *eemebabyMan
1 day ago

Dudley

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By *rumB26Man
23 hours ago

Church hill,Redditch

The dolphin sauna in new Brighton is near you.

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