FabGuys.com forum: Is it too close to home?

By *traightdiscreetnaughty OP Man
2 weeks ago

bucks

On another app there’s a an MM couple that I’ve spoken to and they live on the same estate as me. I need to be discreet for various reasons but they need a face pic for any meets. They live on the same estate around the corner and I’m torn whether to send them one or if it is too risky and too close to home

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By *96969erMan
2 weeks ago

Keighley

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By *96969erMan
2 weeks ago

Keighley

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By *96969erMan
2 weeks ago

Keighley

Go for it!

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By *appychap32Man
2 weeks ago

Somewhere

Personally I think it's to close to home

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By *4ve002Man
2 weeks ago

Westerhope

To close. Especially if your married or not out.

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By *ractorMan
2 weeks ago

Town

I think it’s too close also.

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By *anbury nsaMan
2 weeks ago

Banbury

Too close I’d say. If you’re married and not out like myself it’s too risky.

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By *hefBttmNowMan
2 weeks ago

greenhill

Go for it…. Explain the need to be discreet.

If you are worried about whether or not they know you, how many gay couples do you know?

If you are worried about them exposing you, why would they?

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By *aygordon999Man
2 weeks ago

Shetland

Too close

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I doubt they would tell a yone if they want you go for it

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By *aking it gayMan
2 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

Pretty sure they would be very discreet

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By *akedfun55Man
2 weeks ago

Redditch

I've had a guy from the house opposite. Weigh them up if you can trust them ideal.

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

For me that would be too close to home but it depends on your own situation. Use your own gut feelings

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

I'd maybe admit to them you're near and share your concerns. I'm an out gay man and really, nobody is worried about what you do! It's your own paranoia.

I still see my 1st fuck as we grew up in same village. Its just a smile and he'll buy me to odd pint at Xmas.

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By *hameleon62Man
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

Too close Defo

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By *exyianTV/TS
2 weeks ago

southampton

depends if u married or with partner !

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By *ypherMan
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

Unless your going to meet them wearing a balaclava then they are going to see your face.

If someone requests a face pic i would expect them to send one first tho.

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By *hristof64Man
2 weeks ago

swindon

If they are a couple they have nothing to lose as I would suspect they are already out of the closet so to speak. I would be careful exposing who you are!

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By *lementaryMan
2 weeks ago

lancaster

Tad too close

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By *orth569Man
2 weeks ago

Newcastle

To close

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By *adboi58Man
2 weeks ago

Romsey

I have a young married guys who comes to me for naked fun and he lives 2mins from me

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By *hostCatMan
2 weeks ago

Hull

If it all goes great then no issues, but if it goes badly, turns nasty, then it can really mess up your life. People can react really oddly. I’ve met men who storm out screaming “I’m not gay, you are!” after fucking me all afternoon. Others who try to slip out between the rubber seal around the door hoping not to be seen, and other weird goings on.

It doesn’t matter so much if you’re single, but if you’re married with family, it can make their lives a misery, if the shit hits the fan, and that’s not fair on them.

I’d suggest a little distance doesn’t hurt. Have your fun, but keep your life safe as you want it.

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By *rease monkeyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

coventry

Go for it nothing to lose just have fun love to find nice gay couple close to have fun with xxx

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By *ockaholicMan
2 weeks ago

any town

"On another app there’s a an MM couple that I’ve spoken to and they live on the same estate as me. I need to be discreet for various reasons but they need a face pic for any meets. They live on the same estate around the corner and I’m torn whether to send them one or if it is too risky and too close to home "
I had the same dilemma a couple of years ago. Was messaging a guy and he sent me a face pic. He was openly gay and lived not far from me. I replied saying l knew him and that l would love to meet up but l needed his word that discretion was needed. He gave me his word so I sent him a face pic. He replied with the words, "l have been wanting you for a long time. My word is my word " We arranged a meet and it was the best thing that l ever did. He had no reason to out me. So l say go for it. Just be honest with them, voice your concerns and everything should be fine.

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By *unfollowerMan
2 weeks ago

Peterborough

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2 weeks ago

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By *acingfanMan
2 weeks ago

Huddersfield

"Go for it…. Explain the need to be discreet.

If you are worried about whether or not they know you, how many gay couples do you know?

If you are worried about them exposing you, why would they?"
A load of reasons. What if one of them suspects the other of seeing him alone? Someone ends up with an STI? They break up naturally and one goes off the rails? It happens by accident? etc etc etc

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By *nspectorrobMan
2 weeks ago

bradford

There here for the same as you as long as they know your discrete and hold the same standards xx

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By *iskitMan
2 weeks ago

Sudbury, Suffolk.

If they haven't sent you photos of them,so you would know them in the street, why would you send photos of yourself??

That makes it a one way street.

If you are married that's tricky, if they are an mm couple they are probably quite relaxed about being known about locally, so far less to lose !!

If it is one way that leaves you open to all sorts of privacy breaches or someone knocking on your door.

They may not even be a real couple, there are lots of fantasists on this site who just want a photo to wank to.

I constantly get asked for a face photo by guys on this site, when they don't have one of themselves.

When I explain that and ask for one of them, they just shut the contact down.

Don't risk it.

If they want to know what you look like, and vice versa, then just arrange to meet them somewhere neutral in public place, that way you are all on level ground.

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By *oilettoyMan
2 weeks ago

Too close, and just the fact that you are asking tells me that you already know that. Leave it well alone.

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