FabGuys.com forum: Tips on trying anal

By *omble23 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Burnham on Crouch

Hi everyone

I’m sure this has probably been posted before but does anyone have advice on your first anal?

I’m a bi guy, more sub than I realised. Up to now I have loved being with guys for fun. I give good head (so I’m told) but lately have been wanting to try and go all the way. Have had the odd finger and managed to get a mate partially in which felt good but I just seem too tight to get him in balls deep.

Would welcome any advice on how you managed your first. Cheers

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By *ellhunglow001Man
5 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Get some lube and start with a small butt plug. A vibrating butt plug is even better.

Also, apart from the initial small pain, being penetrated is heaven.

You will be surprised how ones balloon knot will open.

Lastly, relax and let it happen.

Enjoy

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By *omeasapMan
5 weeks ago

Essex

Lube. Start small. Take time to adjust.

I'll start with a clean in the shower. Lube. Fingers. Small toy. Two fingers. Stretch. Rotate. Feel. Listen to my body.

I'm at the stage I can lube a 7inch girth toy and adjust to it quick but it's more comfortable to sit with it and relax once in.

Practice

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By *ature boyMan
5 weeks ago

Erdington

Keen to hear advice too

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By *obby_000Man
5 weeks ago

Evesham

These have all been good tips. Thanks for sharing guys

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By *om5699Man
5 weeks ago

Rayleigh

Use lube. Practice using your fingers and lube inserting them into your anus.

Use a douche bottle - you can find them on various adult sites.

You may wish to use toys before being penetrated. Again you can get them on the adult sites.

When you get round to anal sex with your liver, ensure he has at most an average size penis. Also tell your lover that it is your first time. A good lover will take his time.

Try to relax. It is hard to do so. It will.be painful but when he gets passed the scphinter it is fantastic and the feeling of excitement takes over.

Good preparation, communication and a decent lover and you will be wanting it all the time.

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By *itom87Man
5 weeks ago

Wigan

Some good advice

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By *oose1Man
5 weeks ago

doncaster

I used to use an inflatable butt plug before meets

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By *endeepMan
5 weeks ago

Gt Yarmouth

All very good advice....im only recently been experimenting anally...butt, the easiest way to enjoy it is if you really are sexually turned on by the guy ur playing with...if still finding it to uncomfortable for full penetration plenty of oral stimulation plenty of lube...and as a last resort but Ive found enhencing the experience xxop-pers

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By *seableMan
5 weeks ago

Halesowen

Some great advice here, but please don't have sex with your liver

Since no one has mentioned it, and it's not for everyone, but for some a stiff drink can help you relax and take a stiff cock.

Also be sure the guy is willing to stop I'd you say stop.

My first didn't and it nearly ruined me for life.

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By *raig_KJMan
5 weeks ago

Southport

Douche.

Then

Lube

Then

Lube

Then

Lube his Cock

Then as you feel his Glans touch your hole, push like you are having a shit. Keep pushing till he’s balls deep. Then relax a bit. A good Top Will stop while you get use to it.

Relax a bit more

You ok, comfortable, with a man’s cock in you.

Then Grip it (Like you are completing a shit) and release.

Without a word, the guy knows you are ready.

Relax and take his cock.

If he rests grip it again.

Lube

Otherwise move a bit

Backup

Encourage the guy to Ejaculate.

Suck him clean.

Lick his balls .

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By *axtheoneMan
5 weeks ago

Liverpool

Try a vibrating finger sleeve..great for beginners too..stimulate the g-spot for a awesome orgasm 🥵

Can post a pic to you .

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By *axtheoneMan
5 weeks ago

Liverpool

Try a vibrating finger sleeve..great for beginners too..stimulate the g-spot for an awesome orgasm 🥵

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By *ardsoloMan
5 weeks ago

Harlow

Some advice, thanks

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By *ummerpvcfunMan
5 weeks ago

bridport

As well as all the good preparation advice finding the right guy that understands the first time assignment is key . Not just someone who’s going to slam you like a front door . Getting someone to take you at your own pace makes so much difference if he’s relaxed you’ll relax

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By *otsure03Man
5 weeks ago

witney

Lots of toying yourself before the real thing, plenty of lube and p oppers

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By *lan carterMan
5 weeks ago

Plymouth

I cant wait to get a real cock in me for the first time

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By *omble23 OP Man
5 weeks ago

Burnham on Crouch

Thanks for all the advice so far (and DM’s). Really appreciate people taking the time.

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By *ature boyMan
5 weeks ago

Erdington

Got to find the right guy

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By *obert 321Man
5 weeks ago

Hastings

I started with butt plugs working my way up to a 5". I then moved onto anal dildos, starting with a 5" then 7" thin and then finally a big fat 8.5" dildo. Use plenty of lube and always douche first. Just take your time and enjoy.

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By *upertedMan
5 weeks ago

Nelson

You claim to be too tight and I'd say you were rushing or too caught up in your head.

All fellas are tight but with time and relaxing you'd be surprised what you can take in! Unless you're really extreme too, you won't break anything and have a loose arse as some on here seem to imply.

I've a long term FwB who fisted me for the first time back in March.

Was all unintentional, with a usual finger before sex. The snogging got heavy and he pulled away a bit quick saying "Fuck fuck!" I thought something was wrong to which he made a fist and in the moment I could feel it!

Proper fist in my hole. I could feel him. He could feel me. Twas amazing.

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By *itom87Man
5 weeks ago

Wigan

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By *bsingMan
5 weeks ago

Chesterfield

My first (long long ago) went surprisingly well but my partner was super patient and gentle and he also had quite a slim 5 inches, totally spot on for stimulating the prostate just right which he did many more times after always bringing us both to climax. The only lube was spit!

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By *rooozerMan
5 weeks ago

Nwk

Plenty of lube

Sit on it so you can go at your own pace

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By *eltonbibttmMan
5 weeks ago

Pelton

As everyone has said plenty of lube and relax. Someone who is willing to take it easy with you. I've had plenty tops over the years who take their time till I'm used to them inside me and then the fun begins. I had a meet a few weeks ago and it had been sooo long since I'd bottomed that the first guy just couldn't get it in me, he was very thick. He didn't push it too much but kept rimming me and shot his load on my arse instead. His partner successfully eased in gave me a deep load

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By *ewtothis1000Man
5 weeks ago

Bristol

I got lube and then slide a carrot in, it small one end and slides in

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By *pthebum69Man
5 weeks ago

Kendal

Plenty of good lube and a sniff of po--ers does it for me

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By *rasshopper200Man
5 weeks ago

kendal

Definitely lube and lots of it had a bloke once who showed me what he did with lube and inserted it inside his anus a couple of inches with a syringe he then did it to me and I was amazed how big the dildos I managed to take with ease others on here are right you have to be in the right mood and being rimmed and fingered is a lovely way of opening you up and relaxing you time and lube —-pers do help but for me they make me soft so I can’t return the favour

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By *nal whoreMan
4 weeks ago

Snodland

My 1st time was very painfull as the guy just wanted his pleasure and wasnt bothered about me. It was my 1st time with a guy, never had intention of going with a guy but ended up in some woods at a country park. He got me to strip down to the sexy undies i was wearing, stockings, suspenders and a lace full body teddy. Before i knew what was happening he had me down on my knees and his hard cock in my mouth. After making me gag on his cock for a while he got behind me and rimmed my arsehole. I started to enjoy it but as soon as he had got my hole wet with his saliva he moved up and just rammed his cock deep in my arse. It hurt like hell but he just pounded my arse till he shot his load in me, pulled out and left me there with his cum drpping from my very sore hole.

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By *raig_KJMan
4 weeks ago

Southport

"My 1st time was very painfull as the guy just wanted his pleasure and wasnt bothered about me. It was my 1st time with a guy, never had intention of going with a guy but ended up in some woods at a country park. He got me to strip down to the sexy undies i was wearing, stockings, suspenders and a lace full body teddy. Before i knew what was happening he had me down on my knees and his hard cock in my mouth. After making me gag on his cock for a while he got behind me and rimmed my arsehole. I started to enjoy it but as soon as he had got my hole wet with his saliva he moved up and just rammed his cock deep in my arse. It hurt like hell but he just pounded my arse till he shot his load in me, pulled out and left me there with his cum drpping from my very sore hole."

I hope you cooked him a nice meal as well, to show your gratitude.

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By *acker11Man
4 weeks ago

Warrington

Love to try a cock myself

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By *itom87Man
4 weeks ago

Wigan

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By *odgercooperMan
4 weeks ago

East Midlands east Anglia

Get we cleaned out first use plenty of lube use fingers to start with and small toys and slowly graduate to larger use toys regularly ever dayvor so you soon get used to it and slowly use larger toys

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By *al6OMan
4 weeks ago

hornchurch

I found it easier if I mounted the top first ,I was in control nice and slow but once I got use to it then I jumped to all fours and let him have me

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By *anie1975TV/TS
4 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

A good douce, relax, breath in and out, relax yourself. Don't rush, the more you rush the more painful you gets. Ask your partner to go in slowly, an inch at a time, once it goes in, breath in and out. Use a lot of lube before. A good partner will help you if he know it is your first time and he is experience enough. It would be easier if you sit on him, you have the control of it, how much you want to take in. Once you get it in, you will enjoy it, the rest is heaven LOL

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By *oose44Man
4 weeks ago

liverpool

"I found it easier if I mounted the top first ,I was in control nice and slow but once I got use to it then I jumped to all fours and let him have me "

This is how I start off if I’m ever being fucked. I can control it better and my own pace. But once balls deep and ridden for a bit then I’m good for any position.

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I always use a butt plug before meeting someone’s it helps prepare me for what’s about to happen. Oh and lube, when you’ve got what you think is enough, add some more!

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By *oman303Man
3 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Lots of lube as everyone has said, i started with plugs and always wear one to a meet so that fun can start and there is no pain to worry about

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