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By *uminme84 OP   Man
13 weeks ago

Aldborough

Has anyone got any advice on telling your missus or gf that you like dressing up in women's clothes.

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By *ar98kMan
13 weeks ago

guildford

It’s a very risky thing to do you could ruin everything. I told my partner before we moved together and quite early in the relationship so there was less to lose.

I just said that I liked to dress up in women’s clothing and also I was bisexual. She reckoned she knew as we used to play with her knickers on my nipples and cock until I came when she was on her period.

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By *achel63TV/TS
13 weeks ago

Hailsham

Be cautious of doing this. Lots of women love their men to be be real men and it seems to strike like a thunderbolt when you finally build up the courage to tell them. Trust me, i speak from experience.

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By *iss WednesdayTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Stortford

Think long and hard about it.

I ve spoken to many on here whose life has been ruined by a spiteful wife who forces through a bad divorce on threat of telling family and friends.

If you do want to persist, you need to start a conversation about sexual fantasies, maybe which porn turns you both on, mention Tv porn and judge the reaction.

Good luck either way

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By *iss WednesdayTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Stortford

Hi OP, how did you get on?

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By *ilknsatin123TV/TS
5 weeks ago

goldthorpe , Thurnscoe , bolton on dearne

What I did years ago before we was married one night I was fucking her I took her knickers off and just put them on me she said what you doing and laughed but I said I like wearing them we carried on fucking while I was wearing them she even began to like it pulling them up my ass as I got deep into her , this went on for years , but she’s not bothered about it now , but she knows I still

Wear them when she’s not home x

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By *oodheadRTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Higham /Bosworth 15 miles

I have only once and she was quite chilled about it really.

She didn't fancy dressing in stockings and knickers and I was going to bed first as she was in the bathroom second to me and she chucked them on the bed saying "if you want them, you wear them"

Played straight into my hands so on they went.

She came back I was already under the sheets. She said as she climbed in where did they go whilst at the same time getting a flash...

She chuckled and smiled and I peeled back the clothes so she could get a better look.

She chuckled and smiled some more and said get them off u'll stretch them lol

So I got away with it and I should have kept them on. She was a little turned on by it tho even if she didnt want to admit it her body and manner showed that.

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By *ylonplesureTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Stone (staffs)

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By *ummerpvcfunMan
5 weeks ago

bridport

You could just do what I did and get caught dressed in heels hold ups black underwear set underbust corset and pvc maid out fit 🤣

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By *antyperv1Man
5 weeks ago

Kettering

I regularly put my gfs knickers on under my pjs before she gets into bed at the weekend. She knowsoI like wearing them & makes me cum in them while wearing.

Can't remember how it started. Probably just like that years ago. She's never said she doesn't like it. Now she's on the change & not into penetration it seems to suit both of us.

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By *iStretfordMan
5 weeks ago

manchester


"What I did years ago before we was married one night I was fucking her I took her knickers off and just put them on me she said what you doing and laughed but I said I like wearing them we carried on fucking while I was wearing them she even began to like it pulling them up my ass as I got deep into her , this went on for years , but she’s not bothered about it now , but she knows I still

Wear them when she’s not home x"

This is how I approached it with wife. I would say she likes it. But she knows I do, so let's me wear in the bedroom now and then.

I have asked about wearing stockings etc. She looked at me funny and said no.....not going to push it.

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By *ickeMan
5 weeks ago

watford

This is dangerous ground something best kept to yourself.

I had x girlfriend messing about put her knickers on she thought very sexy and we played lots .

I mentioned to my wife .

She said why the hell you want to wear knickers? Her tone voice told me treading on dangerous path .

It was summer . So just said they seem lot cooler then mens boxer shorts .

She just nodded her head in agreement.

Left it at that .

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By *winsportMan
5 weeks ago

Wirral

I started to wear them after my wife had talked about bi guys, and thought the idea of me visiting a cottage turned her on. There was one reasonably close to home, which I used to frequent on a Sunday morning. From that we got talking about what went on, and we soon realised that I was more bottom. We thought the idea of wearing panties, suspenders, heels etc, would show what I wanted, and that's how it started.

The cottaging no longer happens, mainly due to there being nowhere open. She still likes me to wear lingerie when we have a play, and she'll happily rim me, and peg me.

She has drawn a line at anything more than lingerie, heels though, so no dressing fully, which I'm happy with.

We quite often go out with matching underwear, in fact, I've just ordered a bra and panties set for her, and I got the same panties, for our trip out into Liverpool next weekend....

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By *heStoryofOTV/TS
5 weeks ago

All good advice here, just tread carefully xx

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By *athyTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Nottingham

Told my gf and she loves me dressing, gradually added a chastity cage as well and she loves the power over me xx

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By *exylegs555TV/TS
5 weeks ago

D2

My wife found my clothes in the boot of my car unde the spare wheel lol cpl of wigs heels skirt a dress hit the roof it didn't cross her mind that there mine she thought I was having an affair and they were another woman s lol said the were probably the last guy that owned the car I got away wit that 1 then a cpl of months later came home from work parked the car went out when I got back home the clothes wigs heels the new clothes I'd replaced were in the middle of the floor had no choice but to tell her the truth she went in to the bed room locked the door didn't say anything then after a cpl of hours she came back out and said she wanted to see me dressed took me a cpl of weeks b4 I dressed up in front of her but when I did she told me I had to fuck all them out so I said OK and tought that was it but then she said that she would get me new clothes as I had got a clue lol but it could have gone the other way

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By *hiamintyMan
5 weeks ago

rg25


"My wife found my clothes in the boot of my car unde the spare wheel lol cpl of wigs heels skirt a dress hit the roof it didn't cross her mind that there mine she thought I was having an affair and they were another woman s lol said the were probably the last guy that owned the car I got away wit that 1 then a cpl of months later came home from work parked the car went out when I got back home the clothes wigs heels the new clothes I'd replaced were in the middle of the floor had no choice but to tell her the truth she went in to the bed room locked the door didn't say anything then after a cpl of hours she came back out and said she wanted to see me dressed took me a cpl of weeks b4 I dressed up in front of her but when I did she told me I had to fuck all them out so I said OK and tought that was it but then she said that she would get me new clothes as I had got a clue lol but it could have gone the other way "

So lucky to have such an understanding wife x

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By *vsindyTV/TS
5 weeks ago

A place where sheep are warm, or Burnley.

As others have said, it can be an extremely tricky moment. Only you know your wife's moods and ideas....has she given you ant indication that this is an area where she would be, if not comfortable, then at least willing to listen?

From my experience only, my wife and I would sometimes dress up in stockings and suspenders together for a bit of bedroom fun, but when I accidentally (and it was a genuine accident ) left out a receipt for some lingerie I bought, she asked me what it was. I told her it was a gift for her, and when out that afternoon for a drink (after quite a bit of liquid courage) I confessed that the underwear was for me. We had quite a long discussion about it, in which she indicated she thought it wasn't right, but in the end she didn't say for me to stop but she wanted no part of it.

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By *ockedlingerieMan
4 weeks ago

corby

For me it started off slow with a random decision one day of me wearing one of her thongs from the day before. Wasn’t really into it at the time so was new to me too and very exciting, tried it on and liked it so thought fuck it and kept it on under my clothes for the day.

Later on when we were out at some shops she joked about having a wedgie so I said me too and showed her the waist band of the thong I was wearing. She was a bit confused why I was wearing her underwear but didn’t seem too bothered by it.

From then on I would do it more often, started to buy my own thongs and eventually graduated to wearing full lingerie. I didn’t try to hide it from her so she knew and for the first few years of doing it she did think it was weird and wouldn’t really play into it as I’d like.

Years later and I am wearing lingerie 24/7 don’t own male underwear at all and she’s into it now. I wear sexier stuff than she does most of the time, I hang out around the house with her in full lingerie, sleep with her in it and wear it under my clothes everyday.

All of this led me to getting into chastity years ago too, same sort of situation slowly introducing it to her and now she loves keeping me locked up and putting my mouth to use while keeping me denied and horny

I’d say to most people to go for when it comes to letting their partners know about dressing or whatever it is, just do it slowly and the right way. Try not to just fully spring it on them head to toe fully cross dressed out of the blue when they’ve had no idea of it before after years of being together

Good luck

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By *ndstorm45Man
4 weeks ago

Wakefield

My significant other knows everything about my bi/cd life and is very cool with it.

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