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By *onnylikesitall OP   TV/TS
1 week ago

bristol

I had a meet today with pantiess---e,i got there on time at the place he asked. no show then he blocks me. WTF.

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By *ichelle999TV/TS
1 week ago

colchester

That is so annoying 😑

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By *lutttyChristineTV/TS
1 week ago

Walsall

Had similar earlier. I had arranged to go to a guys house who lives about 12 miles away. Got there parked up. Checked my phone there was a message saying his brother had turned up but would be gone by 12.30 some 3 hours later. He asked me to wait until his brother left errr I don’t think so. I left and went back home. Tried messaging him when I got home. He had blocked me. His loss as far as I am concerned.

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By *esliebTV/TS
1 week ago

Scunthorpe

I have to admit, I had arrange to go this genuin gays house.

But not familar with the area and huge traffic accident blicked my way, was police ambulances, fire engines and even the air ambulance there.

The traffic was blocked everywhere

I informed him I could not make it.

I know he was upset with me

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By *pankswitch2Man
1 week ago

lochgelly

Just had a no-show myself arranged to meet he just didn't turn up no message or anything so annoying.

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By *ady CharlotteTV/TS
1 week ago

staffordshire

had this a few weeks back from a guy who has been before, arranged a mon nite meet, pm'd him friday to ask if still on, yes was the reply, pm'd him monday, no response, shock horror he didnt turn up, msg again asking where are you, no response, msgd him asking what happened, no reply, his status showing he had been on regularly. I wouldnt mind but my meet opportunities are very few and far between and i do stress this. I could have met another person, plus the wasted time and effort in doing make up and all the stuff us gurls have to do.

its most annoying, but you only burn your bridges once with me, so he can fuck off in future, best way to be i find in this situation. So try not to stressit, move on and block them. x

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By *ac1774GMan
1 week ago

Wakefield

What about the idiots that give you an address and say just walk in when you get here, erm no thanks

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By *imidlanderMan
1 week ago

Coleshill

Happened to me yesterday will be there in 10 mins he said two hours later he was miles away. I just block them straight away.

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By *hippet 2Man
1 week ago

Perry barr

Yeah best way ignore them. Maybe not even blockmthem.let them keep sending messages and read and dont reply play there game. But im.the same. Cant meet often work and family.arrange days in advance and no response even been online but i always think there loss. I find 1 or 2 decent ones innthe end

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By *hades55Man
1 week ago

chester

I lost my bottle on my 1st meet about 5 times, but the chap was very patient and under standing and eventually we got it together.and had many a good time.

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By *nterestingtimes2Man
1 week ago

wendover

Is there a reason people don’t name and shame?

Surely admin are able to see any message trail and verify what’s being said

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By *alkbimMan
1 week ago

Falkirk

It is so frustrating x

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By *obert 321Man
1 week ago

Hastings

I've had a few no shows or late cancellation, it's disappointing but part of being on this site! Still I've had some great meets, with people who are becoming regulars!

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By *anbury321200Man
1 week ago

Norwich

I had arranged to accommodate mrchips this afternoon at 2.30. He gave me his telephone no for me to text details. We were in contact on here up to about 10. I went shopping and lunch, sent message I was having lunch he replied he was watching porn. I contacted both on here and by text, no response even though he was on here and received my texts. Why???

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By *lderGuy48Man
1 week ago

CARDIFF

The last five meets I have arranged have been no shows. A nuisance as I can rarely make time to get out and then either be given the flimsiest reasons or just be cut dead.

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By *iscreetvirginMan
1 week ago

farnham


"What about the idiots that give you an address and say just walk in when you get here, erm no thanks"

What is with that

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By *westbiMan
1 week ago

Bridport

Iv been lucky with only one no show.Usually if someone has a good verification you can be confident they will show.

I know there are some idiots about however I have met some very nice guys and gurls.

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By *esliebTV/TS
1 week ago

Scunthorpe


"What about the idiots that give you an address and say just walk in when you get here, erm no thanks"

I will never have a meeting that want you walk

He maybe genuine, but I am never going take that chance on the first meeting

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By *uteboy26Man
1 week ago

Stamford (nearby)

Had my fair share. If a guy can't stick to arrangements they should just be honest and say, I will deal with my disappointment and probably give them another chance in the future... and I have experiences where this has resulted in a great meet down the line. What I can't abide is those who make arrangement, don't show or ignore when you get near their place and don't try and communicate. Sure things change, just let me know.

In my view name and shame is pointless, you will probably just drive them to set up another profile and treat the next guy with equal disrespect. I think best thing is use the report function with the no-show option, with some details of what happened or rather didn't lol! I tend to do this but only after I have given someone a fair chance to explain what went wrong: A few hours after generally, not when I am immediately pissed off, and after I have asked once or twice what went wrong and not got a response. In my experience the mods take action and at least it indicates to the person that it has been noted that their behaviour was not acceptable. Up to them how they respond to that, but at least you are doing your best to protect others from similar treatment and improving the site for everyone. For the record, I would say I only do this once or twice a year.

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By *ayne King100Man
1 week ago

bridgemary Gosport

If I'm meeting a group, I say just come in and up the stairs . Proof you are in the right place is the door on the latch

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By *heshyone777Man
1 week ago

Exmouth

I’ve had a couple where we’ve agreed to meet. I’ve driven to one and arrived on the street, messaged him for the house number and nothing. Another time I’ve walked to the address, I’ve been in constant contact with him and he claimed that his mate was still there and was due to leave soon. An hour later he’s still there. If they don’t want to meet why not say so instead of the pretence.

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By *gincourtMan
1 week ago

Long Eaton

We have sinister types in the area, whose only apparent aim is to get addresses. On the strength of that I only give the post code. The street is not long, so all you have to do is say "look for the odd/even number house, with a (unique object) on the windowsill/doorstep."

Your address is only compromised if they have actually walked past the house. If they have just sat there, never intending to travel.

Sad that you have to play at being George Smiley, to have some cock fun.

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By *ow22Man
1 week ago

Pwllheli

No shows or ghosting too common these days - late cancellations can live with as things can crop up

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By *atehantsTV/TS
1 week ago

Petersfield

Same sort of line to this post is getting requests for people that’s only joined 1 hour ago - I never make plans with anyone under 1 months been joined

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
1 week ago

Glasgow


"Is there a reason people don’t name and shame?

Surely admin are able to see any message trail and verify what’s being said"

Report it to Admin and let them do their thing. Nsming and shaming will get you blocked.

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By *ranform71Man
7 days ago

Hinckley

I/we never travel. We’ll give our address out. If they turn up, that’s great. If they don’t, then we carry on regardless and have amazing sex by ourselves.

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By *aptain200Man
7 days ago

Wigton

I think we have to accept that a certain percentage of people on here deep down don't want to meet, but have the thrill of setting a meeting up.

They may also simply be bottle merchants. Of course, we can all get caught out and have to not show up, but as everyone says, at least have the decency to say so and formally cancel, as opposed to leaving it and disappearing. To me, it's just basic manners.

Life happens, but please, if you're not going to show up - please simply say so!

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By *dsissytartTV/TS
7 days ago

Gosport

Had many like that

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