FabGuys.com forum: Never been with a guy

By *ames_mtb OP Man
3 weeks ago

Ashton

I’ve never been with a guy but I have always fantasied about it. I’m now well into my 30s and have been debating with myself for the past 5 years if I should try new things with guys. I have only ever been with a woman, but the more I watch porn the more I dirty chat with lads the more I want to try cock.

Any advice would be much appreciated

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eston1Man
3 weeks ago

Bordon Hampshire

Try it you will probably like it but if you don’t at least you will have tried no venture no gain as they say

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onnieabcMan
3 weeks ago

north down

Do t leave it too late in case you want more.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aza1234Man
3 weeks ago

Walsall

[Removed by poster at 03/02/26 12:28:17]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *aza1234Man
3 weeks ago

Walsall

Don't leave it to late I did I didn't discover my bi side till late in life and wish I had started earlier in life I have missed out on so much like the others have said try it out if you don't like it you have at least give it a try

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ack4more500Man
3 weeks ago

Muff

Go for it you won't regret it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *exacumMan
3 weeks ago

Bedlington

The more you think about it the more you will want to do it.

I left it till my 40s until I just couldn’t resist the urge anymore, wish I’d done it earlier, found out it my preference now

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *eams GuyMan
3 weeks ago

Gateshead

I love being naked with men , they do a lot more than women do , plus i love sucking cocks & being fucked

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *urrey TelMan
3 weeks ago

Ripley

Don't over analyse it too much - before or after.

I can't say I was ever in this situation because I was at the other end of the age scale, but if and when you do experiment, you'll hopefully realise either that it just wasn't for you or all those thought that held you back were stupid.

If it's just for the sex, at the end of the day, it is just sex. With different bits involved, but fortunately having the same bits, you have more of an idea what to do.

One thing though. Try not to do the spunk and run thing. There's always the chance that if you do it, if you've over worried about it, that when you've shot your load, the guilt/shame will flow in and you'll go into flight mode. Try not to. The other person involved might very well feel like absolute shit if you do that.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ames_mtb OP Man
3 weeks ago

Ashton

I think I’ll juts have to bite the bullet and try cock lol I’m sure it’s as good as it looks and u all make it sound

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onaberdeenMan
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

[Removed by poster at 03/02/26 21:18:47]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *onaberdeenMan
3 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Sorry - typos

No looking back and no regrets as lust overtakes fear!

Just enjoy and plan next meet!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *irralGuy20Man
3 weeks ago

Wirral

Life is very short, dont leave yourself wondering 'what if'?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *irexMan
3 weeks ago

Hertford

I didn’t start until I was nearly 40, thought about it a lot but never did anything about it. Depends on personal circumstances but give it a go - it’s quite illuminating how tastes and fantasies change!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzuesatinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

wallsend

Interesting i have experimented and found that i wanted more

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ewi1964Man
3 weeks ago

Albufeira, Algarve, Portugal

As a friend once said to me 'try everything once and the fun things twice'

Personally I thought all my Christmases had come at once and I've never looked back! Be kind to yourself and go for it. At least you'll know one way or the other! Good luck xx

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzuesatinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

wallsend

Definitely more accepted these days

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzuesatinTV/TS
3 weeks ago

wallsend

Definitely more accepted these days

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iGuyCheshireMan
3 weeks ago

local

Find someone who will guide you, but allow you to go at your pace, and do what you want to try done get pushed into doing what they want.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *asy meMan
3 weeks ago

East Preston

Nothing nicer when you see a nice hard hung cock pop out and then you start to play with it and see it cum

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *autiously_curiousMan
3 weeks ago

Craigavon

Can't think anyone here is going to say, "Don't do it," as we are all here doing just that.

Start small and think about what you really want. First meets are usually tricky enough so aim for a wank to porn together and see how it goes?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ural guyMan
3 weeks ago

Near Ellon

So took me a long time to try, then I had a gap and now I play quite regularly! For me it’s just the cock I am liking, it’s sex and that’s great way to look at it. I have been tempted in circumstances to do way more than I ever believed I could, just felt natural and the horn 100% tool over !! Also the first time your hand touches a different cock I am sure it will be electric ! Warm Silky soft and hard at the same time, just wait till it slips into your mouth !!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *reshmeat1000Man
3 weeks ago

Douglas

Just don't end up regretting not having tried it if you think you might like it. Just make sure you feel a connection to whoever you meet. GOOD LUCK.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By * man in spainMan
3 weeks ago

cumbre del sol

I would go for it take it slow till you know what you like trust me it's the best sex you will ever have x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *udi222Man
3 weeks ago

Harrogate

I was in a similar situation. Thinking about it but not acting on it.

I decided to figure out exactly what i was looking for then used this site and others to try arrange it. I stuck to my preference. Took a while but i'm very glad i didn't just hook up with the 1st guy who offered.

My route to guys involved mmf 3 ways with some mild guy on guy interaction to start with.

Go at your own pace and ignore pressure/demands from others.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *avid1066Man
3 weeks ago

Birkenhead

i want i guy inside me

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ac1774GMan
3 weeks ago

Wakefield

My advice is to go for it, what have you to lose, I had all the feelings you are on about when I was married to my 1st wife, I had to try it, I arranged a meet with a guy and loved it, been obsessed with cock ever since. I married again but have never stopped meeting guys for fun, tbh I wish I'd of stayed single as I would definitely be gay.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzuesatinTV/TS
2 weeks ago

wallsend

I’d love to hear more about peoples experience or advice

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *archcocktailMan
2 weeks ago

March

I was bi curious, though about playing with another cock but too nervous and no idea where to start.

I was out in my push bike and a car slowed down and tv/ts with a skirt and I could see her stockings tops. She said are you looking for fun and I said yes straight away, she looked and said go to farmers gate just ahead.

I stood next to the gate and she got on her knees, I was shaking a little and so nervous and she pulled my tracksuit bottom down and my boxers and I was hard and watch her suck take my cock in her mouth, it is a wonderful feeling and afterwards I thought I should of down this twenty years ago .

Take a chance and go for it and enjoy x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *i-Guy1966Man
2 weeks ago

Gravesend

Regret the things in life you tried, rather the things you did not.

It's a big step taking that first cock in your mouth and another big step letting someone cum in your mouth. BUT, my experience is that once you are passed that first psychological hurdle, you won't look back.

Anxiety is all that stands between you and some very enjoyable experiences, however- initially, be very clear about what you're after.

Good luck!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *urgye2001Man
2 weeks ago

southampton/ealing

Some good and useful advice on this thread. I can confirm from personal experience that once fucked, even if unexpected, most of us after due consideration, want it again. I know I did, I had resisted getting fucked for many years and attempts, but when at age of early 30's and an attempt was made, I thought " oh well, let it happen " and it did, and by the same guy for each of he next 6 Saturdays. Just now had a phone conversation from friend visiting Pakistan who " introduced " me to a guy on video who had a nice cock, knob in particular, who is in Fareham, so hope to experience that knob, one way or another !

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ravelguyMan
2 weeks ago

Ipswich

Find someone patient who will take their time,only do waht you're comfortable with and set limits with him beforehand, wish I was closer would love to introduce to the joys of man on man fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *livebi69Man
2 weeks ago

Near Gainsborough

It's better to regret something that you have done rather than something you haven't.

Until you try it, you won't know. But I think most guys on here wish they had started earlier, I know I do

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *tsuptoyou69Man
2 weeks ago

lowestoft

"Interesting i have experimented and found that i wanted more"
i am like you suzie now i have tried it i cannot get enough love to suck and be fucked i just love it mmmmmmmmmmm

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ollo007Man
2 weeks ago

Pontefract

I experimented with a friend in highschool and then nothing until I was in my early 40's. The wife started the menopause and our sex life basically ended. I went from wanking to regular straight porn. To watching some bi porn but feeling guilty after I came. After a big Barney and storming off to my parents. I found myself pissed horny and created an account on the sister site and putting bi curious... Expecting so sexting and maybe swapping dick pics at the most. Turns out fate had different ideas and I ended up in a neighbour's bed sucking cock. Walking back to my parents I could smell his aftershave on me and felt guilty... I'm not into guys am I? But by the time I was back in my parent's spare room I was wanking thinking about what had just happened and messaging him to ask if we can meet again. Wasn't long before I had swallowed my first load, fucked my first guy, been fucked for the first time and more recently sucked two cocks at once while I had my first mmm. I wish I had started earlier, so give it a go. As long as you explain to the guy and he's happy with you going as little or as far as you are willing to and possibly changing your mind at any time. You have nothing to lose. If that's the case then you can always say to yourself that you tried and it wasn't for you! Good luck.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *icklover5Man
2 weeks ago

newport

Came to manfun very late in life. Always wondered but could never pluck up the courage as was married etc. Got divorced and finally met up with a great older guy who had plenty of patience and understanding. Wish I'd tried it earlier. If you can find a guy yiu think you click with and have a good repore with. Chat meet up get naked and do what, comes naturally. Yiull probably have guilt pangs afterwards but they soon pass and you'll learn to relax around cock and really enjoy it. Just rember you both there to have fun and enjoy man man fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzuesatinTV/TS
2 weeks ago

wallsend

It’s really interesting hearing about everyone’s experiences. It is very encouraging to hear that my feelings are similar to many.

Keep your experiences coming, please

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *rouserhunk888Man
2 weeks ago

wednesbury

Careful though it’s addictive lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hong cumMan
2 weeks ago

Devon

The only downside having sex with a guy for me was that I should have done it years ago . I’ve always had the urge but didn’t act on it until a year ago I’m now 56 lots of wasted years. But plenty of time to catch up on. Do it you’ll love it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *hong cumMan
2 weeks ago

Devon

[Removed by poster at 13/02/26 13:58:24]

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzuesatinTV/TS
2 weeks ago

wallsend

It seems to be a general consensus, that it’s absolutely something every guy should do and don’t knock it until you’ve tried it and I’m once you have you will never regret.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *iguy73Man
2 weeks ago

Oldham

I was the same, didn't try anything until I was 40 and loved it more than I could have ever imagined

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ndstorm45Man
2 weeks ago

Wakefield

I've been curious 20 odd years and experimented secretly but never had anal. I'm now 'out' as bi to certain people, gf included, and have sucked quite a few cocks now but still an anal virgin.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzuesatinTV/TS
2 weeks ago

wallsend

How did you all find kissing a guy for the first time?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *oel2020Man
2 weeks ago

brough

It’s so nice

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzuesatinTV/TS
1 week ago

wallsend

Love to hear more stories

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *orthfieldsnickMan
1 week ago

West London

OP reminds me very much of my situation

I’d been curious for years and just got to a point where it was taking up so much time thinking about it and fantasising about it, I decided I just needed to do it and find out for myself. I’m very glad I did, it was a great experience and didn’t seem like such a big deal after I’d done it

Others are right it’s addictive, I only wanted to “try it once” just to see, but I’ve had a few meets now, however it’s not something I do a lot, I jus like having the option to dabble now and again when I feel like it

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *inkydickMan
1 week ago

yeovil

I was very late in life( late sixties) when my wife passed away. I felt very horny one night and want on the internet looking for a man to have sex with, Quite a few false starts before I met a guy and invited him over. I explained I hadn’t any experience of gay sex and didn’t know what I wanted.

He calmed me down and said we should start slowly and proceeded to kiss me. I quickly responded and told him that I loved it and wanted more.

He said we should get naked and started to take my clothes off, kissing me all the time, by then I was moaning in anticipation what was to follow.

Both now naked he took my hand and went into the bedroom and pushing me down on my back started to suck my cock. By that time I was a quivering lump of jelly. He flipped me over and proceeded to lick and kiss my hole. I was crying for him to use his cock and fuck me but he said he wanted to ease and expand my tight hole before taking my anal virginity. That was for another night. In fact it was another 3 months before he took my cherry as I had left London and moved to Somerset.

So I was now 70 when I had the glorious event of finally getting fucked and that started me loving the feeling of being fucked ,meeting other guys, going to naked gangbangs and enjoying myself.

Would I have started earlier, I don’t know.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ytheguy59Man
7 days ago

Hythe

I’d been thinking of man sex since my mid 30s but I was nearly 40 when I had my first adult experience.

I was walking on Southampton common in my lunch hour minding my own business. I stopped to look in a pond and this guy suddenly appeared next to me with his hard cock out.

I followed him into the bushes and the rest is history as they say.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ictor36Man
7 days ago

Billericay

Maybe start with a sauna during a quieter time, relax, get an eye for what you want. That way no pressure, everyones pretty much naked or in a towel.

It can be a little imposing if you go round someones place, you might feel as though you have to do something you dont want to or are comfortable with.

But chances are... You wont regret it, the only regret will be if you dont try

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzuesatinTV/TS
5 days ago

wallsend

Keep tge experiences coming x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andman73Man
5 days ago

North

This is totally me, I'm desperate to have an experience but equally terrified about it.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uzuesatinTV/TS
3 days ago

wallsend

Keep it cumming, guys

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread