FabGuys.com forum: Post prostate cancer chat

By *onle81 OP Man
13 hours ago

Yeovil

Hi all

I was just wondering if there is anyone on here that is either going through or has gone through prostate cancer and would like to chat?

I know guys don’t usually feel comfortable to chat about these things however, from a personal perspective, I would have really welcomed support from that had been through this before

So I am now completely clear of this blessed thing and now exploring the next chapter of my sexual life which I am really enjoying

If anyone wants to chat, share experiences then feel free to either comment or drop me a message

I do realise this isn’t a story or a fantasy however there are limited options on the forum!

Cheers

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By *airyDivDadMan
13 hours ago

Whiston

Good luck to you in this next chapter. You seem relatively positive given what you've been through, so I hope that bodes well.

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By *onle81 OP Man
12 hours ago

Yeovil

Thank you for your kind words

Indeed I am always very positive and now adapting to my ‘ new normal do to speak

One of the things I have been considering with my wife is whether we invite a guy to join us, we both love the idea of a guy fucking my wife however not sure if reality would be the same!

If anyone reading has experience or thoughts please do share

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By *penallhrsMan
11 hours ago

Northampton

Mine wasn’t prostate cancer but Metastatic Melanoma

I was given a palliative diagnosis in July 23 of 9months and that was already having 6 ops to remove 9 tumours and a groin dissection.

I finished 28 sessions of Immunotherapy in November 25 and was told in remission in December after the usual 3 lots of various scans.

My journey started in November 2020, 5 weeks after a triple heart bypass so been ill since December 2019.

I know from speaking with others how invasive chemo is and I’m glad I’ve come out the other side.

Sometimes it’s difficult to put into words how it changes ur life entirely.

I hope uve had good support and that’s still in place now.

A positive mind helped me.

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By *ave3210Man
11 hours ago

Oxford

Hi all,

I’ve not been personally affected by these issues but just wanted to wish everyone well who has been affected by it.

For the initial poster, the pictures on your profile are incredible! I’m very envious of those big plums.

That aside, I’ve known a number of friends that have gone through this, so know how difficult it must be to not only go through it but have an opportunity to talk about it.

Take care all.

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By *yorkie1Man
10 hours ago

Barnsley

I had a radical prostatectomy in 2018 and have been cancer free ever since.

It inevitably made a big difference to my sex life.

I’m happy to chat privately if you’d like to know more.

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By *hyayrshire500Man
10 hours ago

close to you

Bowel cancer here, last chemo just started after a short break

Chemo is so hard to deal with as the side effects have been many and varied for me

I still get so horny all the time but I tend to lose my erection if I don’t constantly play with it my ejaculation is also much smaller than it was

Not sure if this is from having part of my bowel removed via a Caesarian section type op (yes I now have that classic pouch above the scar

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Onwards and upward and upwards

Stay strong guys

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By *hyayrshire500Man
10 hours ago

close to you

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By *riendsorFunMan
3 hours ago

hythe

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By *riendsorFunMan
3 hours ago

hythe

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By *riendsorFunMan
3 hours ago

hythe

Men should talk more about everything. There's no shame in anything to do with illness or the body. my grandad, dad and four out of 5 uncles so far on that side of family had it or have had treatment. One thing my grandad learnt was pelvic floors not many men know they should do them it helps bladder control, Erections as we age etc and he was told to do them to aid recovery and that had he been doing already it would of aided the leaking. Its not just bottoms who need to do them lol

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By *riendsorFunMan
3 hours ago

hythe

On a positive my grandad lived many years after treatment and also the next generation (so far fingers crossed) have had treatment and are all currently well. My dad s was 15 years ago now so stay strong

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By *heWiseManMan
3 hours ago

Cork City

Great to hear positive stories , had a Turp myself due to an enlarged prostate still having treatment 7 yrs later for interstitial cystitis but thankfully no cancer , wishing the poster all the best in his recovery

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By *riendsorFunMan
2 hours ago

hythe

I deleted and rewrite as it sounded negative what I put before

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By *riendsorFunMan
2 hours ago

hythe

I have mine tested every 6 months luckily have since I was early 30s as its so prevalent. What always makes me laugh is I do pelvic floors and everytime I think of grandad. Which sounds so weird but thats why it makes me laugh. Learned the fact from him but helps in other ways lol.

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