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southend

I’m

A married man who loves he’s wife but also adores cock.I want and need to explore my bi side want to indulge in hot sexy fun

With TVs ts and men but finding the right place is hard i cannot accommodate and that’s the problem. I’d love to meet up

With a regular willing partner where I could indulge my many fantasies and desires and belive me there’s lots I’ve so many things I want to try before the opportunity passes me by. I’m

Very clean good looking genuine and very discreet so come send me a message if your in my immediate area and you won’t fun read my profile and verification it’s says it all. So wanna give this married man a go I’ll worship your COCK and take as much CUM

as you can give me regards James x

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By *ibearbrumMan
1 week ago

BIRMINGHAM

Im the same

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By *mogy64Man
1 week ago

MIDDLESBROUGH TS3 0AS

A lot of us married men are in the same boat, can't accommodate, makes meets awkward

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By *ightasssissy abbey555Man
1 week ago

southampton

It's so frustrating wanting and needing to be a slut for men to use and to be my fem side

I think it about every single day

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By *ide girthMan
1 week ago

Edinburgh

Yeh same

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By *ichtea284Man
1 week ago

Beccles

"A lot of us married men are in the same boat, can't accommodate, makes meets awkward "

Yep that is definitely my problem

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By *hor66Man
1 week ago

Clacton

My problem as well, also when people do accommodate, finding an excuse to sneak out and meet

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By *ellMan
1 week ago

Ingham

I'm also in the same position. I find it hard to get away to meet.

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By *semetodayMan
1 week ago

warminster

I have to plan meets in advance which isn’t ideal. But I often make up an excuse to go cruising or to a sauna.

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By *ab-biguyMan
1 week ago

;-) Pembs ;-)

I'm a single male that lives alone, this doesn't seem to make meetings easier, I e even offered my place for others to use, but no takers.

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By *ohn069Man
1 week ago

HEMEL HEMPSTEAD

I’m married, bottom and enjoy giving head, nsa. I can accommodate weekday mornings while my wife is at work but my problem is other guys who want to meet but they can’t get away from their wives. It’s very frustrating

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By *ohn069Man
1 week ago

HEMEL HEMPSTEAD

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By *aneloveTV/TS
1 week ago

Dorchester

That can be a problem for married men lucky we have a forest nearby were married men walk there dogs .

Plenty of places for a cheeky bj or a quick fuck I enjoy them alot .

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By *ully63Man
1 week ago

Didcot

Like most on here. Married Top, but it takes a while to arrange a meet. Getting away is quite difficult sometimes. But I would take time off work.

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By *urious2024Man
1 week ago

pembs

So awkward to sort something

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By *aypee46Man
1 week ago

Nuneaton

I’m glad to hear that it’s not just me !

I’ve found that saunas are the best way for me to scratch that itch

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By *ilverfoxSwanseaMan
1 week ago

Swansea

If there was a paid for app with a monthly subscription that allowed users to visit AirB&Bs (with the bookings being made by the app) for sex with other users... would there be an interest in that?

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By *ohn069Man
1 week ago

HEMEL HEMPSTEAD

In the past I’ve used ‘Day Use Hotels’ to find a discreet bed. Many hotels have empty bedrooms kept for the use of walk in business men and women who just need a few hours downtime. Usually the booking is 9 - 5 or 10 — 4. Not expensive if you share. Check it on Google

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By *iman54Man
1 week ago

Alfreton

It’s annoying when you do find some free time and get to arrange a meet, something last minute comes up to ruin and make you look like a time waster!

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By *ankbuddylocalMan
1 week ago

llanharan

Same as everyone else. I love my wife dearly but the menopause has just completely stopped all sexual contact. I did have a local wanl buddy who was in the same boat but he moved away. So now Im stuck, dying to wank off guys cocks but nobody close who can accom. Wish I could find one to explore each other in a safe and relaxed location.

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By *exyianTV/TS
1 week ago

southampton

JUST USE YOUR LOCAL SAUNA

FAR EASIER

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By *opefuldevil69Man
1 week ago

luton

Same as everyone else. Also when you do make an excuse and get out for a meet, they bloody cancel or worse ghost you while your sitting waiting at the meet.

Sauna can be good if all else fails. Greenhouse is ok

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By *teve carrickMan
1 week ago

Redhill

Its the same for all us bi married men, im in a sexless marriage, wife got menopausal and gave up, cannot accommodate, not much excess money for hotels ,been burnt in the past and just very wary now

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By *teve carrickMan
1 week ago

Redhill

"JUST USE YOUR LOCAL SAUNA

FAR EASIER"

If you have one close to use

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By *lasgowlatexMan
1 week ago

Glasgow

Like many on here I am in the same frustrating situation. Many years ago you could arrange something at a hotel that had day rooms available but not now unfortunately.

Alas now we are restricted to that rarest of angels that can accommodate

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By *aucey04TV/TS
1 week ago

Bletchingley

Accommodating is difficult for me also

But I manage to grab the occasional home Fun

along with the occasional visit to other guys homes

I have also managed to arrange numerous outside meets and if I am honest I find these the to be the most erotic, exciting and satisfying

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By *eicfunguyMan
1 week ago

Leicestershire

I'm in the same boat!

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By *owerplay823Man
1 week ago

Lewes

I like pretending to be straight to my wife whilst actively enjoying cock

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By *uga40Man
1 week ago

Hemel hempstead

"I’m married, bottom and enjoy giving head, nsa. I can accommodate weekday mornings while my wife is at work but my problem is other guys who want to meet but they can’t get away from their wives. It’s very frustrating "
i have that problem hard to get away

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By *ave 202599Man
1 week ago

Sittingbourne

In the same boat as all of you

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By *orfolk69Man
1 week ago

Norwich

I look forward to when my wife goes away...which is only a few times a year

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By *ames WhyteMan
1 week ago

Near Manchester Airport

My wife knows about my not inconsiderable pecadillo and doesn't mind as long as I don't entertain under our shared roof, which I respect.

Much of the problem lies with locating alternative accommodation and then the other party making eleventh hour excuses for non attendance.

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By *antcockbiMan
1 week ago

Rotherham

Same. Finding someone who accommodates at the time I have free is very difficult to arrange. I do 24hr call out as well, which means sometimes 8 have to cancel with very short notice.

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By *eteor695Man
1 week ago

Glasgow

I would say most married men on here are time wasters. No offence to the real ones that want to meet.

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By *hris-in-WiltsMan
1 week ago

Chippenham

I have to agree with all of this except, married men are not 'timewasters'. We have limited free time, we have to be careful, we can rarely accommodate (Wives can tell!!!) and things do crop up unexpectedly (the extreme is my mum having a stroke and being hospitalised the other day!) On the positive side we are usually very good cock worshippers...

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By *arriedbiMan
1 week ago

Aldershot

Similar, especially as wife don't know I gay now only friends know, accommodation is the mega downside also long distance due to inability to drive X I persevere tho like most us do

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By *eniffer_subTV/TS
1 week ago

Sidcup

I love getting fucked and used by married guy's. Boy are they great fun and know what they want..

You just have to understand they have another life so can't just drop everything to play ....

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By *aff55Man
1 week ago

Wrexham area

I’m the same as everyone trying to get away from real life is challenging but have found so many people with little patience pidgeon hole you as a time waster which to those prepared to wait have found I’m anything but

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By *hongxdMan
1 week ago

Selby york

I'm same difficult to meet TV my cock yearn s for TV in boots x

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By *westbiMan
1 week ago

West Dorset

Most of the men iv met were married.I was and know that accommodation is a big problem.Also unexpected demands of the wife can scupper the best laid plans.

Here in West Dorset there are very few if any cruising spots.

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By *ecky57TV/TS
1 week ago

walsall

It’s a big problem on here so many married guys so we can’t accom. If I was single I’d dress every day

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By *amieforfun1973TV/TS
1 week ago

bognor regis

Agreed. Very much in the same boat here too although if I could accom then I’d probably be a right whore 😂

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By *eandevonMan
7 days ago

exeter

Being married and finding time is certainly difficult for me. Even more so with the extra busyness of work to Chuck on top of that.

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By *tephbicdTV/TS
7 days ago

Northampton

Love married men knowing him having their wife's husbands cock & cum especially if they bring their wife's used worn panties with them

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By *orfolkbarebottomMan
7 days ago

Gorleston

Also married. I would love to find a "friend" who could accommodate and pimp me out to local tops for bareback fun.

Getting out is difficult but as I do all the grocery shopping I can get away for short periods, I'd be happy to just suck and swallow.

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By *icuriousMan
7 days ago

bristol

So many of us married guys in the same situation

So very frustrating, to say the least !

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By *orcshornyMan
7 days ago

Worcester

My wife is used to me visiting steam railways. Living not far from Severn Valley Railway I used to go there but also have a meeting somewhere.

Also a train from Kidderminster took me to Birmingham Moor Street Station and I would have sublime sessions at Taboo Adult Cinema which was only a little way from the station.

After several hours delightful fun I would actually visit the Severn Valley Railway!

Sadly the cinema is now closed and missed by many cock lovers ...

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By *7joeMan
7 days ago

chase town

I am also in the same boat i used to be able to accom but our situation has changed so am now unable to accom and it is hard to get away i havent met with anyone now for must be coming upto 2yrs now and am desprate to hold and suck a cock i try to arrainge an outdoor meet but it always ends up they dont show up block me are just done answer me. Its is so so frustrating.

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By *heodoneMan
7 days ago

Queensferry

"Like many on here I am in the same frustrating situation. Many years ago you could arrange something at a hotel that had day rooms available but not now unfortunately.

Alas now we are restricted to that rarest of angels that can accommodate "

Are day rooms no longer available?

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By *ottiMan
7 days ago

Lytham

Gay man in lytham looking for regular married men to play with mostly oral

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By *hongsMan
7 days ago

Canterbury

My problem exactly

Married bi

Problem sometimes getting out on my own

So much so thinking of telling her, years ago asked me to take a picture when I had a guy massage me

So hopefully won’t mind. In a sexless marriage

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By *ohn069Man
7 days ago

HEMEL HEMPSTEAD

I googled last month and found one hotel in Hemel offering day use rooms. Sadly it seems to be a dying breed 😥

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By *lasgowlatexMan
7 days ago

Glasgow

"Like many on here I am in the same frustrating situation. Many years ago you could arrange something at a hotel that had day rooms available but not now unfortunately.

Alas now we are restricted to that rarest of angels that can accommodate

Are day rooms no longer available?

Unfortunately not, at least none that don’t require 15 forms of identification and all that goes with it. In the good old days it could be paid for with cash as well

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By *osh32Man
7 days ago

bolton

All of the above!!

It difficult finding a buddy who understands and has no expectations who can accom. I now just meet outdoors in the car but it’s not the best

Need trust too and that hard to come by

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By *igsdMan
7 days ago

Norwich

Yep same here, be good to find regular guy for fun and hopefully fuck me raw.

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By *imitedEditionBottomMan
7 days ago

Crowthorne

I used to be like that until my wife passed. I use to visit Saunas or guys that accommodated to satisfy my needs. Now I can accommodate I'm saddled with a lot of time wasters and fantasist's. You don't win either way.

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By *r.blue.eyes.86Man
7 days ago

Banbury

Same boat as many but fortunately stay in hotels with work regularly and try to use these to accommodate.

Had a lot of great meets in hotels and lots of lonely evenings wanking haha

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By *at1_4uMan
7 days ago

Bristol

Since changing jobs I now only get 1 day a week to arrange anything. Even then its only betweenn 9 and 3 a very small window.

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By *hubby62aMan
7 days ago

Pontefract

"A lot of us married men are in the same boat, can't accommodate, makes meets awkward "

Very, very true

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
7 days ago

West London

I only ever play when wife’s away from home or when I 100% know she’s busy all day. I’ve never accommodated but I’ve met a few other married guys at their places

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By *i cockseekerMan
7 days ago

Lincoln

Feel your pain, similar situation.

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By *aunchy692021Man
7 days ago

Downham Market

Same here , married Bi guy . It was great when it was only me who was retired , had most of the weekday to travel have fun and get back!

Very difficult to find an excuse to get out for some fun.

I did manage to get out recently with a horny local friend and had a wonderful morning sucking cock with him .

But , too long between meets these days! Need a local guy who can accommodate would help!!!

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By *ade crossTV/TS
7 days ago

chiselhurst

But we make it work

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By *anvas34Man
7 days ago

Nearby

This is where I'm fortunate. My wife knows and doesn't mind it. As long as it is never with another woman

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By *hrisWellsMan
7 days ago

Shepton

I know the feeling ut i want a fem cross dresser

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By *irralGuy20Man
11 hours ago

Wirral

Guys, a lot of hotel chains offer 'day rooms' which you can rent for a couple of hours.

Day rooms are used primarily for one reason - and one reason - and that is for sex. Those on reception do not really give a shit what goes on provided that the room isn't damaged in any way and that other guests aren't bothered. I can understand the concerns about possibly being recognise - simply book one a few miles away from home.

I've met a guy for hotel sex, my wife has a b/f she meets for day time hotel sex too - use them

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By *amieforfun1973TV/TS
9 hours ago

bognor regis

Me too

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By *nowball meMan
8 hours ago

MELKSHAM

Thank goodness it's not just me.

Im in a sexless marriage with older kids still living at home, so accommodating is a big no-no.

I can't just say "I'm going out ".

She will say " where you going?" just out of curiosity.

We have a shared bank account, so paying for hotels and saunas is also difficult.

Difficult times...

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By *in and TonicMan
8 hours ago

cambridgeshire

Well, I’m available Monday to Friday daytimes, and can accommodate, yet all I hear is excuse after excuse after excuse, for reasons why someone cannot meet!

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By *i_Horny_FukkaMan
8 hours ago

Altrincham

Personally I’m a believer in if you want to do this you make it happen. Too many blokes hide behind the married excuse and use it not to meet and just want to talk about what a bi life could look like. To be clear this isn’t everyone and there are some genuine blokes on here. If I want to meet men I make it happen in a discreet way and I never let blokes down as I wouldn’t want this to happen to me. Can’t meet every time but this also applies to non married men too. Ultimately if you want it, go get it. If not don’t get in the way of those that do, speaking from experience.

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By *reshmeat1000Man
8 hours ago

Douglas

"Thank goodness it's not just me.

Im in a sexless marriage with older kids still living at home, so accommodating is a big no-no.

I can't just say "I'm going out ".

She will say " where you going?" just out of curiosity.

We have a shared bank account, so paying for hotels and saunas is also difficult.

Difficult times..."

I'm in the exact same situation but I manage a few meets. I work outside of home 3 days a week so arrange the odd sneaky meet if someone can accommodate or in .y office when I know it's going to be free.

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By *i_Horny_FukkaMan
8 hours ago

Altrincham

"Guys, a lot of hotel chains offer 'day rooms' which you can rent for a couple of hours.

I've met a guy for hotel sex, my wife has a b/f she meets for day time hotel sex too - use them

Done this a number of times, even then when I have a hotel for the day and can host very hot and miss if anyone does show up

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By *ytheguy59Man
6 hours ago

Hythe

"Its the same for all us bi married men, im in a sexless marriage, wife got menopausal and gave up, cannot accommodate, not much excess money for hotels ,been burnt in the past and just very wary now"

Exactly the same here.

It’s driving me mad.

She runs the finances and so any unexpected spending is immediately a red flag

She knows I need man sex but hates the thought of me having any.

My only release has been cruising n a New Forest car park but they’ve put it paid to that by charging

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By *iuk74Man
6 hours ago

Leicester

Yes very difficult to get away at times to find a excuse as can never accommodate either

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By *hanclaMan
6 hours ago

Bridgend area

Same boat. I go to the local recycling centre and on my way back I pop into a known local layby. It's very hit and miss. I only look for older respectable looking gents. Works sometimes

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By *osharri441Man
6 hours ago

buntingford

Definately good to use day room bookings. Means a few private hours to meet in the morning, all nice fresh linen, nice shower to share, and theyre cheap between you. Holiday inn

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By *utch673Man
5 hours ago

Swansea

I have a house in South Wales that I've said many times I'm happy to let guys meet there.

But I've never had any takers 🤷

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By *arriedbiguy84!!Man
5 hours ago

brentwood

Yes I have had rude response when I suggest sharing costs before on this which is a shame..there used to be a good bi married meet in London at lunchtimes in hotels where everyone contributed £10 to the room and lots of fun was had in a lunch hour or two

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By *orny Polyamorous GuyMan
4 hours ago

Buckden

Have been that person for married men in the past and would love to be again

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