FabGuys.com forum: Searching for gay guys only

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can there be a facility to search for gay guys only frustrating going through every profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can there be a facility to search for gay guys only frustrating going through every profile "

Nice idea

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By *uckmytitsMan
over a year ago

Bournemouth

It does surprise me that isn't an option. It would be handy.

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By *allguy1959Man
over a year ago

Southsea

Totally agree

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By *ezzadMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Would be useful to search excluding cd/tv too-I’m not in the slightest interested in seeing it though I’m sure a cd/tv search would be useful too.

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By *estcum2020Man
over a year ago

Workington

"Would be useful to search excluding cd/tv too-I’m not in the slightest interested in seeing it though I’m sure a cd/tv search would be useful too."

You can untick TV/TS from search options or choose to search for this only in 'advanced search'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This would be a great function

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By *cillybiMan
over a year ago

isles of scilly

I have bisexual on my profile but am more gay and single

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By *nglishMan101Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

This would be a great addition to the site

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I'd like this option too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how do you define gay ? I’ve often been angrily told on here that anyone who touches a cock is gay regardless. So thats everyone then ?????

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

"So how do you define gay ? I’ve often been angrily told on here that anyone who touches a cock is gay regardless. So thats everyone then ?????"

It's people on here that classify themselves on here as gay, not bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While they're at it, I wish they could develop a filter to filter out people whose attitude is far from acceptable.

I categorised myself as bi even though I haven't actually had a sexual experience with a female but as I get turned on by gay, bi, straight and lesbian porn and fancy some females, I believe that I am bi. I'm not out as bi to friends, family nor work colleagues as it seems to be easier to just say I'm gay.

I wonder if it is coincidence that this thread was started close to bi awareness day

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By *nglishMan101Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Seems highly unlikely

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By *aveLondon2Man
over a year ago

nearby

" I wonder if it is coincidence that this thread was started close to bi awareness day

I hope so.. but sadly there are some folks that think being bi is not a real state of being.. or really just an apprenticeship to being gay.. Tolerance preached but not practiced fully in our?

LGBGT+ community.

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
over a year ago

Heathrow

There is search button for guys only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is as option you can choose either Gay, bi-sexual, Bi-Curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I wonder if it is coincidence that this thread was started close to bi awareness day

I hope so.. but sadly there are some folks that think being bi is not a real state of being.. or really just an apprenticeship to being gay.. Tolerance preached but not practiced fully in our?

LGBGT+ community.

This is a good site.

Admittedly, there are some who would prefer it to be gay only, and I understand and respect that.

But at the end of the day....

...we are all individuals with different sexual preferences.

This site caters for all and I'm thankfully for that.

We don't need to get so hung up on labels.

Just seek out connections that appeal to us as individuals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All such classifications are human constructs, whether they refer to race, colour of skin, sexual orientation etc etc.....

They serve to encourage division rather than unity......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But your down as bi yourself

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By *eepthroat1000Man
over a year ago

Glasgow, Scotstoun

I have been on a few different sites and find so much toxic masculinity on this one , the way a lot of the ,and i am truly sorry i have to say this,bi/marrried brigade treat people and all the phobic terms that are used it is like being in Glasgow in the seventies all over again

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By *rchard thiefMan
over a year ago

Accrington-ish

As he wants a search facility for gay guys, I'd assume he is only looking for gay guys. I'm a gay guy and I'd like a search facility for bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be useful to search excluding cd/tv too-I’m not in the slightest interested in seeing it though I’m sure a cd/tv search would be useful too."

There already is just a CD/TV search option and I think that's what's spurred the question as to why there is not a search only for gay men option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best meets I had been with gays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been on a few different sites and find so much toxic masculinity on this one , the way a lot of the ,and i am truly sorry i have to say this,bi/marrried brigade treat people and all the phobic terms that are used it is like being in Glasgow in the seventies all over again "

Haven't seen too much of that myself, and for those that do I just have a right good chuckle to myself. More often than not the ones bleating on loudest about masculinity / not attracted to men / won't kiss other men etc are also the same bi/married who continuously post pic after pic of themselves in women's underwear. Nothing very masculine about that I'm afraid. No point saying to them to come out the closet, as they seem far too busy with jumping into the wifes/gfs at every opportunity to come out of their own.

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By *einmeMan
over a year ago

Comber

" I wonder if it is coincidence that this thread was started close to bi awareness day

I hope so.. but sadly there are some folks that think being bi is not a real state of being.. or really just an apprenticeship to being gay.. Tolerance preached but not practiced fully in our?

LGBGT+ community.

This is a good site.

Admittedly, there are some who would prefer it to be gay only, and I understand and respect that.

But at the end of the day....

...we are all individuals with different sexual preferences.

This site caters for all and I'm thankfully for that.

We don't need to get so hung up on labels.

Just seek out connections that appeal to us as individuals.

Quite right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But your down as bi yourself

The option to opt out isn`t available , when completing the profile.....otherwise I would have selected the 'rather not say ' option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its like guys who say they are“straight” but looking to meet guys, puzzles me

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By *aveLondon2Man
over a year ago

nearby

"its like guys who say they are“straight” but looking to meet guys, puzzles me "

Demand!.. some gay guys like it, look for it, so supply meets it.. most don’t really mean they’re str8 anyway.

There’s a guy advertising here who is a power top, fucks guys senseless for long sessions.. he says he’s straight..

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By *arly RiserMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Morning guys. Personally, I'd like to look at the Hot Pics without seeing CD and TV stuff. I know we,ve all got our Prefs, but maybe categories - Men only (being men)/non Men(being whatever). Just my thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Morning guys. Personally, I'd like to look at the Hot Pics without seeing CD and TV stuff. I know we,ve all got our Prefs, but maybe categories - Men only (being men)/non Men(being whatever). Just my thoughts. "

You can

There's an option to see men only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can

There's an option to see men only

Click the drop down box that defaults to "anyone"

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By *arly RiserMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Thank you. But, presumably we're all men as far as the site/computer is concerned? Just men presenting themselves in a .... feminine

way?. But thank you for your reply. I,ll go and have a look. Enjoy your day.

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By *arly RiserMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Cindy Dreams: Got it!! Durrr! Thank you mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Cindy Dreams: Got it!! Durrr! Thank you mate. "

No probs.

Happy perving

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By *nglishMan101Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"All such classifications are human constructs, whether they refer to race, colour of skin, sexual orientation etc etc.....

They serve to encourage division rather than unity......

No they don't. Some people, me included are gay and want to use that "label".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding single gay guys on here is hens teeth.

Any genuine out there, message me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would be useful to search excluding cd/tv too-I’m not in the slightest interested in seeing it though I’m sure a cd/tv search would be useful too.

You can untick TV/TS from search options or choose to search for this only in 'advanced search'."

You can but you still get the guys who identify as 'man' in their profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can

There's an option to see men only

This option falls flat on its face when you select "men only" only to get a matter of 5 pictures in to next see a guy wearing female clothing, obviously it should have been in the TV/CD section.

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By *ondon RimmerMan
over a year ago

Islington

And ability to search profile text please.

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By *owymanMan
over a year ago

London Gateway

A cock is a cock, if its a guy one or bi one, what's the difference??

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By *eepthroat1000Man
over a year ago

Glasgow, Scotstoun

it can boil down to the attitude that a lot of bi/married men have

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By *ompeytopMan
over a year ago

Chichester

There are lots of improvements that could be made to the search facility but sadly I don't think anything will change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In your details be box you can enter your personal sexual detail bi-sexual Gay bi curious top or btm etc and preferences

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By *endyinascarfTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

" I wonder if it is coincidence that this thread was started close to bi awareness day

I hope so.. but sadly there are some folks that think being bi is not a real state of being.. or really just an apprenticeship to being gay.. Tolerance preached but not practiced fully in our?

LGBGT+ community.

This is a good site.

Admittedly, there are some who would prefer it to be gay only, and I understand and respect that.

But at the end of the day....

...we are all individuals with different sexual preferences.

This site caters for all and I'm thankfully for that.

We don't need to get so hung up on labels.

Just seek out connections that appeal to us as individuals.

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I wonder where this one went he didn't last long

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By *rivate blokeMan
over a year ago

winchcombe

I kind of think that's unfair on blokes who are bi who can't come out as gay to anyone but prefer gay men. Personally I find bi men who are comfortable with their sexuality a lot less hung up on labels. Don't ask for equality on one hand then ask for inequality on the other.

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By *arti G xTV/TS
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

"Finding single gay guys on here is hens teeth.

Any genuine out there, message me x

Single & gay & can even accom, not that, that makes any difference, guess comes down to what the guy is looking for at the end of the day, plus not always easy as have to work things around as most can't meet at weekends or evenings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lobot200Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Yes please good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Gay search.

Cd. Search

That would save a lot of times wasters. In my opinion

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By *onny567Man
over a year ago

liverpool

Ad love a secret gay boy friend to be lovers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The search function needs improvement for sure. Where are all the guts hiding ... Gay or otherwise. You think there hard to find try finding a top tv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex with Gay men is so much better. I'd love a gay top boyfriend

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By *arti G xTV/TS
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

"Sex with Gay men is so much better. I'd love a gay top boyfriend

Would love one of those also.

Will have to put in an order.

Make mine Mature top, chunky build, FWE cropped/bald, trimmed beard/goatee. Genuine & lives local I Wish.

Guess they are out of stock lol

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By *quafina152Man
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

I personally would like to be able to filter Bi-curious, Bi, Gay etc. We have the ability to filter via ethnic background and race rightly or wrongly. Yes we are all one people and need to treat each other with respect and shouldn't put up boundaries so i propose a new filter which is: No, i'm not married and have a wife and kids at home so i will never develop a meaningful relationship with you or put you first. Or Yes, i do.

Just a thought!

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By *einmeMan
over a year ago

Comber

"its like guys who say they are“straight” but looking to meet guys, puzzles me

Demand!.. some gay guys like it, look for it, so supply meets it.. most don’t really mean they’re str8 anyway.

There’s a guy advertising here who is a power top, fucks guys senseless for long sessions.. he says he’s straight.. "

What's his name ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex with Gay men is so much better. I'd love a gay top boyfriend

Would love one of those also.

Will have to put in an order.

Make mine Mature top, chunky build, FWE cropped/bald, trimmed beard/goatee. Genuine & lives local I Wish.

Guess they are out of stock lol "
amazon prime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be a fantastic tool, I am not sure if I am listed as bi on here but would be nice having the option for gay (guys that aren’t married)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion most gay guys say there bi any way. Not many genuine guys on here

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By *eepthroat1000Man
over a year ago

Glasgow, Scotstoun

"In my opinion most gay guys say there bi any way. Not many genuine guys on here "

maybe on this site but most out gay guys are just that out gay guys, so your opinion is wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can there be a facility to search for gay guys only frustrating going through every profile "

Here! Here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can

There's an option to see men only

This option falls flat on its face when you select "men only" only to get a matter of 5 pictures in to next see a guy wearing female clothing, obviously it should have been in the TV/CD section. "

I find that very frustrating too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about a ltr/nsa option?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can

There's an option to see men only

This option falls flat on its face when you select "men only" only to get a matter of 5 pictures in to next see a guy wearing female clothing, obviously it should have been in the TV/CD section.

I find that very frustrating too."

Yep me too

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By *oose1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I’m bi and like to meet bi and gay guys

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

"Would be useful to search excluding cd/tv too-I’m not in the slightest interested in seeing it though I’m sure a cd/tv search would be useful too.

You can untick TV/TS from search options or choose to search for this only in 'advanced search'."

Unfortunately that doesn't work - you can specify the types you are " into " but it doesn't stop your profile being flooded by the category you ain't interested in !!

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By (user no longer on site)
16 weeks ago

I know it's live & let live etc - I get that & understand it - BUT - when you are a GAY GUY INTO GAY GUYS only who look & dress like MEN - I really do find annoying to see lingerie lovers as the main focus on here these days - despite clicking the original types you are looking for or not looking for page at the start.

Am beginning to think the site is geared at TV's & CD's & no longer aimed at GAY MEN - rant over - throw the bricks & I'll throw them right back

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By *enny58transTV/TS
16 weeks ago

Wigan

Well do prefer to be with a gay guys but always happy to enjoy company whatever a person see themselves as

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By *ay12345123Man
16 weeks ago

Nottingham

Love to gay tops let them take turns on me

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By *iny cock xMan
15 weeks ago

Chester

Here

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By *oodster111Man
15 weeks ago

biggleswade

You can

There's an option to see men only

This option falls flat on its face when you select "men only" only to get a matter of 5 pictures in to next see a guy wearing female clothing, obviously it should have been in the TV/CD section.

I find that very frustrating too.

Yep me too"

Me too. I'm here to see / meet men, not men who think they look great in women's clothing. They're a total turn off. Just give us some proper filtering so we can decide if we or don't want to see them.

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By *ornyphil260Man
15 weeks ago

Barton

Would be good

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By *en22Man
15 weeks ago

renfrew

You can

There's an option to see men only

This option falls flat on its face when you select "men only" only to get a matter of 5 pictures in to next see a guy wearing female clothing, obviously it should have been in the TV/CD section.

I find that very frustrating too.

Yep me too

Totally agree. So many guys under "men" and their pic is of them in their poor wives underwear

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By *aveagoMan
15 weeks ago

Southend on sea

You can

There's an option to see men only

I agree.. gay guy here looking for 1-2-1

This option falls flat on its face when you select "men only" only to get a matter of 5 pictures in to next see a guy wearing female clothing, obviously it should have been in the TV/CD section.

I find that very frustrating too.

Yep me too

Totally agree. So many guys under "men" and their pic is of them in their poor wives underwear "

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By *WM04Man
4 weeks ago

Preston

Hear !! Hear !! I agree totally with your sentiments - it is frustrating when all you want to search for are gay guys & yet everytime I click on the men only gallery - there are always images of guys popping up wearing female attire , lingerie or not , I'm aware some of these guys might be gay & find dressing as such their thing but it's not to everyones taste - I just wish these types of photos were restricted to the CD/TV gallery - yea , I know each to their own etc - live & let live but as a gay guy - seeing men in female attire is just so NOT appealing !!

I know you'll say just click on by, I do , continually , but I just don't want to keep seeing them there in the first place - rant over - for now !!

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By *evGuy370Man
4 weeks ago

Beverley

Totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Totally agree.

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4 weeks ago

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By *onny567Man
4 weeks ago

liverpool

Sorry guys am bi but love being with gay guys

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By *oveitrawMan
4 weeks ago

Birmingham

Are some gay guys refusing to meet a guy if it says bi on his profile?

We're all on here looking for men aren't we? I don't care what they label themselves as

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By *arridMan
4 weeks ago

brighton

I didn’t realise some men didn’t want to be with bi guys. I’m sure if a gay guy met a bi guy he could be certain the bi guy had cleaned any cunt-spunk off his cock.

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By *awihMan
4 weeks ago

Aldershot

"I didn’t realise some men didn’t want to be with bi guys. I’m sure if a gay guy met a bi guy he could be certain the bi guy had cleaned any cunt-spunk off his cock. "

Quite simple really they may not want to hook up with bi men for their own reasons, just as they may not want to meet gay men who are already in a relationship especially if the person’s partner doesn’t know.

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By *eordieBumFunMan
3 weeks ago

Newcastle

I've no interest in meeting people cheating on their partners, and I totally don't have a problem with people not wanting to meet bi men when so many on these sites are just blokes married to women and sneaking about. I'm bisexual myself and single and out, but with some of the experiences I've had with those identifying like me I can see why some guys just don't want to bother. We all have preferences, chosing a sex partner is by definition exclusionary. People getting annoyed about being excluded is a red flag to me.

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By *treyu500Man
3 weeks ago

Australia

It just makes sense to have that option. Many of us are bi but it is a gay website.

I was quite hung up on the moral dilemma of meeting married men on here at first. Purely based on my own personal morals. But, I also didn't want to risk the drama of being dragged into something if they got caught because I lived in a reasonably small community where everyone knows everyone.

Unfortunately when I started meeting guys, I met a man at his home. He looked familiar but I couldn't place him. Something didn't feel right. Long story short his wife came home and I had to make a swift exit .....out the only exit which was the front door where I passed by her in the driveway. I was pissed off and mortified. I later learned that he had planned it because he gets off on the excitement of nearly being caught. Then I remembered he was a local butcher lol. Total cunt for doing that to me and to her. He also put me at risk of being outed .

Nowadays I don't care so much morally- it's their relationship and it's none of my business. Plus, "I'm out" and actively date both men and women so I'm less bothered by the secretive nature of some meets.

The gays are generally in open relationships anyway and many definitely break the rules of their open/monogamous relationship/. Whether it be with me or with someone else, I generally don't care and I've learned not to ask as I'm not the one in the relationship.

Others do care which is fine. They should have the option of preferences. I have met guys on here that I genuinely liked and we either became friends or friends with benefits because we didn't have to hide the fact we know each other.....

They were all out bi/gay men with the exception of one. And the hiding things became too tedious with that guy because his paranoia of being caught was contagious.

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By *awihMan
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Would be useful to search excluding cd/tv too-I’m not in the slightest interested in seeing it though I’m sure a cd/tv search would be useful too.

You can untick TV/TS from search options or choose to search for this only in 'advanced search'."

Correct BUT you can’t filter out CD’s most of which from observation are listed as some form of Bi. Being able to filter as those identified as Gay only should exclude most with CD images.

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By *lderguy4youMan
1 week ago

ROTHERHAM

Mmmm we definitely need a rim and suck only site..as I don't suck cock...yes very selfish I know..never sucked a cock never will...but will take a nice deep wet rimming and sucking from BI.gay straight. And tvs .tgirls.women...as long as they rim my nice clean ass I don't care who the tongue belongs too.lol..

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By *ookingaroundMan
7 days ago

Bristol

"Can there be a facility to search for gay guys only frustrating going through every profile "

Why, what does a bi guy have that you don’t like?

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By *oose1Man
7 days ago

doncaster

A bi back door is no different from a gay one

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By *awihMan
7 days ago

Aldershot

"Can there be a facility to search for gay guys only frustrating going through every profile

Why, what does a bi guy have that you don’t like?"

Think it comes down to things that have been covered in other threads. Finding time for meets being one of them. Also all the wife chat on a man on man site is quite off putting, as is all the dressing up in wife’s clothes. All this is on top of the problem of finding people who are reasonable local. Why just add to the problems if you are trying to actually meet people.

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By *ookingaroundMan
7 days ago

Bristol

"Can there be a facility to search for gay guys only frustrating going through every profile

Why, what does a bi guy have that you don’t like?

You are generalising and stereotyping an awful lot and rather re-enforcing the point that if a gay guy thinks all bi guys want to chat about their wives and wear women’s clothes, they are somewhat letting themselves down.

We rightly rail against lazy and negative stereotypes of gay people and I suspect we should be doing the same for bisexual people.

The fact that some people have boring chat on here doesn’t make everyone else who shares a sexuality with them invalid.

I really don’t enjoy much of the overt chat that gay or bisexual folks have on here, I find it puerile and sometimes grubby, but that’s me, not them. It would never ever make me think that I don’t want to engage with either group.

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By *awihMan
7 days ago

Aldershot

"Can there be a facility to search for gay guys only frustrating going through every profile

Why, what does a bi guy have that you don’t like?

We rightly rail against lazy and negative stereotypes of gay people and I suspect we should be doing the same for bisexual people.

The fact that some people have boring chat on here doesn’t make everyone else who shares a sexuality with them invalid.

Well you asked the question, I have given you the answer honestly from my perspective, if you don’t like it that is up to you. Personally I don’t have anything against bi guys, I have and do know a few BUT if I’m looking for something regular or more permanent then Bi just isn’t going to fit the bill.

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By *ookingaroundMan
7 days ago

Bristol

"Can there be a facility to search for gay guys only frustrating going through every profile

Why, what does a bi guy have that you don’t like?

We rightly rail against lazy and negative stereotypes of gay people and I suspect we should be doing the same for bisexual people.

The fact that some people have boring chat on here doesn’t make everyone else who shares a sexuality with them invalid.

I don’t understand your response.

Am I not meant to question suspect acts or beliefs? Am I meant to just take what you say and not point out the hypocrisy and inherently unfair behaviour behind it?

Apologies, I thought this was a discussion forum.

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By *treyu500Man
7 days ago

Australia

It's a matter of preferences and getting what you want without wasting each others time. Most of what was said about bi guys in here is very accurate. And this is coming from a fellow bi guy.

Some of the bi guys on here can't even admit that liking a man's cock or ass = being attracted to a man.

If he wants to filter those guys out - it's not hard to see why. Stereotypes exist for a reason. And this website has a big cohort of closeted married men. Let's call a spade a spade.

Theres lots of little quality of life changes that could make this website more enjoyable- more filter options, more sub categories in the forums for CDs/wife/panty talk. But, it's never going to happen. It's just a cluster fuck of unorganised chaos. And that's also part of the charm lol

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By *awihMan
7 days ago

Aldershot

I don’t understand your response.

Am I not meant to question suspect acts or beliefs? Am I meant to just take what you say and not point out the hypocrisy and inherently unfair behaviour behind it?

Apologies, I thought this was a discussion forum."

Well we are discussing the issue are we not. You may not like the answers you get to the questions you ask, but that is your issue.

The search facility has filters so that people can filter the results to get better matches in their results to the kind of people they are looking to meet - after all we all have different things that attract us or put us off people.

Some of us would rather exclude bi men from our search results because we are less likely to meet them for obvious reasons (as per another thread on the problem of getting away from the wife and family for example) so would rather only see people we stand a higher chance of actually getting to meet be that a one off or regular meet.

If you can’t accept that, as I have pointed out that is your problem, mine is not being able to narrow searches to better meet my requirements - it is nothing against bi men as such, but about the practicality of actually meeting them in the first place.

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