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By *m3232 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

maidenhead

Is there anyway of having that option listed so I can block people that have ticked that option

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By *rooozerMan
4 weeks ago

Nwk

Yeah would be good to block people who don’t match your requirements… for me would be ‘safe sex’

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By *m3232 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

maidenhead


"Yeah would be good to block people who don’t match your requirements… for me would be ‘safe sex’"

Then maybe you should request that option to be enabled.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
4 weeks ago

Bargoed

We only play bareback here, always have. But have spoken and met quite a few guys who despite having safe sex listed on thier profile and no mention of playing bareback, will quite happily play bareback.

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By *ot older guyTV/TS
4 weeks ago

exmouth

How about just scroll past anyone that has bareback on theyre profile or not get in touch with them,easy

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By *noncumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford

Not sure what good it would do. I'm fucking with plenty of men bare who don't have it listed on thier profile. Maybe just choose to ignore thier profile, or add them to your Blocked users list?

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By *winkbreederMan
4 weeks ago

South Lanarkshire

Yes most guys here will agree to BB play if asked nicely. ( no matter whatever their profile says)

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

NO SUCH THING as Safe sex other than wanking yourself. The guidance is called safer sex. This site incorrectly calls it safe sex, giving a false sense of security. They really should change it

You can get most STIs from oral sex unless you use a condom. The only way to avoid HIV is use a condom/dental dam for oral and anal or take PrEP. I suppose meeting an undetectable too seems to guarantee protection from HIV. I was told in the past by Terence Higgins trust, you can HIV from rimming, get that cling film out.

Good luck with the "safe sex"

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By *m3232 OP   Man
4 weeks ago

maidenhead


"How about just scroll past anyone that has bareback on theyre profile or not get in touch with them,easy"

I would rather not scroll on to their profile to start with so the option works better for myself and a lot of others that choose safe.

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By *noncumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford


"How about just scroll past anyone that has bareback on theyre profile or not get in touch with them,easy

I would rather not scroll on to their profile to start with so the option works better for myself and a lot of others that choose safe. "

That would just encourage guys to not list Bareback when they do actually do it. If you want to know, just ask. As things are we list things we are into, all of them, and its up to us if we have sex with anyone. I guarantee there a LOT of guys here who list Safe Sex on profile but not Bareback, yet have bareback sex, so your idea will not filter those guys out. Personal responsibility is paramount.

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By *arridMan
4 weeks ago

bRiGhToN

Wanking isn’t that safe if you fall off the bed.

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By *arsit1Man
4 weeks ago

Lucan

vast majority guys on here will play bareback if agreed in advance

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By *ip71Man
4 weeks ago

Darlington


"How about just scroll past anyone that has bareback on theyre profile or not get in touch with them,easy

I would rather not scroll on to their profile to start with so the option works better for myself and a lot of others that choose safe.

That would just encourage guys to not list Bareback when they do actually do it. If you want to know, just ask. As things are we list things we are into, all of them, and its up to us if we have sex with anyone. I guarantee there a LOT of guys here who list Safe Sex on profile but not Bareback, yet have bareback sex, so your idea will not filter those guys out. Personal responsibility is paramount."

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago


"How about just scroll past anyone that has bareback on theyre profile or not get in touch with them,easy"

Exactly, how simple can it be???? Its a fucking annonymous shagging site. Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

Just because some profiles say safe sex doesn't mean they adhere to that!

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By *askia.TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Many people, like me, will play bareback or safe…..so if you remove those with bareback in your search you might miss the opportunity to have safe sex with a great person.

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By *awihMan
4 weeks ago

Aldershot

Just remember filters only work if people are honest and accurate when they fill out their profile.

So even if there was a filter it may not give you reliable results.

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By *avey57Man
4 weeks ago

waltham cross

I understand people not wanting to meet someone who has BB ticked. Personally I love bb but would only do it with someone that I trust to be clean. I prefer it but there is a time and place for it. Even with people on prep, they can have other STDs and on top of that, you only have their word for it that they have taken it consistently.

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By *noncumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford


"I understand people not wanting to meet someone who has BB ticked. Personally I love bb but would only do it with someone that I trust to be clean. I prefer it but there is a time and place for it. Even with people on prep, they can have other STDs and on top of that, you only have their word for it that they have taken it consistently."

They take PrEP to protect themselves, not you.

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By *londebiguyMan
4 weeks ago

near Southport


"Is there anyway of having that option listed so I can block people that have ticked that option "

So many that list safe sex only play BB too.

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By *londebiguyMan
4 weeks ago

near Southport


"I understand people not wanting to meet someone who has BB ticked. Personally I love bb but would only do it with someone that I trust to be clean. I prefer it but there is a time and place for it. Even with people on prep, they can have other STDs and on top of that, you only have their word for it that they have taken it consistently."

People who say they practice safer sex can also carry STIs that are not visible.

The only safe sex would be no sex.

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By *lackbootzMan
4 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx


"… Just remember filters only work if people are honest and accurate when they fill out their profile..."

[Spoiler: Men lie.]

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By *lackbootzMan
4 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx


"How about just scroll past anyone that has bareback on theyre profile or not get in touch with them,easy

I would rather not scroll on to their profile to start with so the option works better for myself and a lot of others that choose safe. "

You should squirt some Domestos at the screen and wear oven gloves just to be on the safe side too when you see that word.

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By *awihMan
4 weeks ago

Aldershot


"… Just remember filters only work if people are honest and accurate when they fill out their profile...

[Spoiler: Men lie.]"

I believe it isn’t just restricted to men (although the other doesn’t bother me).

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By *estwillMan
4 weeks ago

Bracknell

It must be awful being so terrified of giving your wife a STI. I'm sure she'd prefer pubic lice to HIV. Condoms don't stop crabs. So, safer sex may still lead to divorce.

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By *ussextgirlukTV/TS
1 week ago

chichester


"… Just remember filters only work if people are honest and accurate when they fill out their profile...

[Spoiler: Men lie.]"

You mean like most of the married cheating dishonest men on here

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By *ldderMan
1 week ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

We're all big boys and I'm sure fully understand the risks. But still pick BB sex. I'm 67 and would still choose BB

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By *wansmickMan
1 week ago

Belfast

I'm not sure about all this "I need to block" furore. Surely God gave us all fingers and a phone with a scrolling mechanism. Just pass and move on FFS. How hard is it 🥱🥱🥱🥱

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By *hunky4uMan
1 week ago

Takingabreaktown

Oh while were at it, can we have a tick box for pink hair with blue blobs.

and

oh what about a tick box for massive cock

i could go on and on and on

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By *ookingaroundMan
1 week ago

Bristol

I need one for Athlete’s foot, I think it’s a disgrace this site is allowing people to spread fungal infections with impunity

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By *ayne DesireTV/TS
6 days ago

Gloucester


"Yeah would be good to block people who don’t match your requirements… for me would be ‘safe sex’"

Well said.

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By *ayne DesireTV/TS
6 days ago

Gloucester


"I understand people not wanting to meet someone who has BB ticked. Personally I love bb but would only do it with someone that I trust to be clean. I prefer it but there is a time and place for it. Even with people on prep, they can have other STDs and on top of that, you only have their word for it that they have taken it consistently.

People who say they practice safer sex can also carry STIs that are not visible.

The only safe sex would be no sex."

When first starting out, here, everyone told me they only do safe but all ended up bare.

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By *rooozerMan
5 days ago

Nwk


"I understand people not wanting to meet someone who has BB ticked. Personally I love bb but would only do it with someone that I trust to be clean. I prefer it but there is a time and place for it. Even with people on prep, they can have other STDs and on top of that, you only have their word for it that they have taken it consistently.

People who say they practice safer sex can also carry STIs that are not visible.

The only safe sex would be no sex.

When first starting out, here, everyone told me they only do safe but all ended up bare."

I get it so much - guys wanting to meet that have ‘safe sex’ on their profile:

Me : ‘I see you like safe sex but I only BB’

Then : ‘that’s fine, I love bb!’ !!!

Me : ‘why not list on your profile then?

Them : ‘ it puts some guys off

Lesson = no such thing as safe sex

Protect yourself in the best way for you

Make sure protected against Hep a & b, HPV (if within age range), M Pox, and coming up, gonorrhoea

Get tested regularly

If you are too discreet to go to a GUM clinic try home test kits

If you’re too discreet for either stick to self love!!

Make your choice, be happy with them and stick to them - then bloody enjoy yourself!

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By *awihMan
5 days ago

Aldershot


"How about just scroll past anyone that has bareback on theyre profile or not get in touch with them,easy

I would rather not scroll on to their profile to start with so the option works better for myself and a lot of others that choose safe.

That would just encourage guys to not list Bareback when they do actually do it. If you want to know, just ask. As things are we list things we are into, all of them, and its up to us if we have sex with anyone. I guarantee there a LOT of guys here who list Safe Sex on profile but not Bareback, yet have bareback sex, so your idea will not filter those guys out. Personal responsibility is paramount.

Exactly this "

But being able to filter out those who do list it on their profile would reduce the amount of profiles you have to wade through.

It is a bit like we can filter out TV/TS in a search but not CD. Which is a problem for those of us who find men wearing women’s underwear or clothes a big turnoff, just makes wading through profiles that much more tedious.

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By *awihMan
5 days ago

Aldershot


"Even with people on prep, they can have other STDs and on top of that, you only have their word for it that they have taken it consistently."

With regards to taking PrEP, you take it to protect yourself. If they don’t or haven’t taken it (or lied about taking it) that is their problem. As far as other STI’s go, of course that is still an issue.

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By *ookingaroundMan
5 days ago

Bristol

Into every life some rain must fall.

Stay strong in your trials, you will be rewarded in the next life.

Etc.

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By *raig_KJMan
5 days ago

Southport

We all have likes and dislikes.

When you select your own likes, the site should automatically stop other users not compatible from searching, looking for or contacting them. I see posts and profiles that are not interesting to me. I don’t want them being stopped from their pursuits. I’d just rather not hear anything about.

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By *ookingaroundMan
5 days ago

Bristol


"We all have likes and dislikes.

When you select your own likes, the site should automatically stop other users not compatible from searching, looking for or contacting them. I see posts and profiles that are not interesting to me. I don’t want them being stopped from their pursuits. I’d just rather not hear anything about.

"

How is it a good thing to be in an echo chamber where you never see or hear anything outside your comfort zone?

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By *arridMan
5 days ago

bRiGhToN


"Into every life some rain must fall.

Stay strong in your trials, you will be rewarded in the next life.

Etc. "

Huh! I thought that was a quote from Gladiator

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By *awihMan
5 days ago

Aldershot

For all those who don’t want to see better filters to help people search for better matches to the kind of people they are looking for. Here is a radical idea - lets have all existing filters removed so that everyone has see every profile in their search results no matter what the distance or other preferences.

After a few weeks (probably days) I suspect that everyone would be begging for filters even the ones some people are asking for to be added.

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By *nalleesaTV/TS
5 days ago

Birkenhead

Most have safe sex listed but they love bareback I always get asked for it .and usually do it bare xx

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By *raig_KJMan
5 days ago

Southport


"We all have likes and dislikes.

When you select your own likes, the site should automatically stop other users not compatible from searching, looking for or contacting them. I see posts and profiles that are not interesting to me. I don’t want them being stopped from their pursuits. I’d just rather not hear anything about.

How is it a good thing to be in an echo chamber where you never see or hear anything outside your comfort zone?"

I don’t like Mushrooms, no matter how much you dress them up.

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By *ochdalesubTV/TS
5 days ago

rochdale

I just want the feeling of all the veins sliding in an feeling cum inside my hole one person was near just didnt actually penetrate me a cum on my hole... Got bit exited for my ass

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By *loverfieldMan
4 days ago

Dalton-in-Furness, Cumbria


"Is there anyway of having that option listed so I can block people that have ticked that option "

Why don't you just search for profiles that have selected "safe sex" as one of their interests, and see what that gets you?

I have met plenty of guys who had, and we still fucked bareback.

But you own experience may differ...

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By *ookingaroundMan
4 days ago

Bristol


"We all have likes and dislikes.

When you select your own likes, the site should automatically stop other users not compatible from searching, looking for or contacting them. I see posts and profiles that are not interesting to me. I don’t want them being stopped from their pursuits. I’d just rather not hear anything about.

How is it a good thing to be in an echo chamber where you never see or hear anything outside your comfort zone?

I don’t like Mushrooms, no matter how much you dress them up. "

So remove them from view?

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By *lackbootzMan
4 days ago

Hayes, Middx


"… I don’t like Mushrooms, no matter how much you dress them up… "

What, with googly eyes and little mittens like Button and Tiny the mushrooms in the Munch Bunch..?

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By *eneral distanceMan
4 days ago

infinity and beyond

I see the sense in it, but I simply put on my profile as. Find part of issue is general approach is

Open profile, we look at pics, quick read and reply, wink or message

I will reply sorry do not meet guys into BB

Have never had a daft response

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By *raig_KJMan
4 days ago

Southport


"… I don’t like Mushrooms, no matter how much you dress them up…

What, with googly eyes and little mittens like Button and Tiny the mushrooms in the Munch Bunch..? "

No

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By *ypherMan
4 days ago

Newcastle


"Wanking isn’t that safe if you fall off the bed. "

Or you do it in the supermarket

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By *W9DaddyMan
4 days ago

Richmond

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By *haron1701ETV/TS
1 day ago

Southport


"Wanking isn’t that safe if you fall off the bed. "

Pmsl

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By *hagmenowplsMan
1 day ago

Hereford

I prefer to be fucked bareback and filled with cum

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By *umlover68Man
1 day ago

Worthing

I've had guys on here where it explicitly says 'Don't do BB' in the profile, and they have still gone in bare and dumped a load inside me or talked about doing it when we meet.

I have both BB and safe on my profile as I don't mind which we do, whatever the guy prefers to do

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By *yker76Man
1 day ago

staffs

No point

Men lie, even more so when horny..

Fact

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By *raig_KJMan
1 day ago

Southport


"No point

Men lie, even more so when horny..

Fact "

A hard Cock has no Conscience

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By *ernowcubMan
1 day ago

Solihull

Tbf using a condom is 'safer' sex. It's not 100% guaranteed protection because condoms skip and break (have experienced) and most STIs that aren't HIV can be caught from oral. Very few people use condoms for oral for obvious reasons.

It's not the 1980s / 90s, PReP and regular testing exist and are free. Everyone sexually active should be tested all the time. Apart from HIV (which PrEP protects against) everything can be treated.

I say this as someone that does use condoms in certain situations btw (abroad in countries with poor testing, at sex parties and cruising), but also BBs with people who I know get tested regularly and take PrEP.

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By *ernowcubMan
1 day ago

Solihull

Also, literally nothing protects against crabs and they are grim AF although very easy to treat via the chemist.

So if you're worried about giving something to your wife / GF / partner I would probably just consider avoiding extramarital sex, divorcing or sleeping in separate beds and avoiding sex with your partner.

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