FabGuys.com forum: No shows

By *abrinaman OP Man
3 weeks ago

Worcester

We need a proper way of outing no shows.

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By *omo2026Man
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

Nothing worse especially when you have fully showered including deuce teeth brushed and smelling nice and semi naked and he doesn't turn up

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By *weddolMan
3 weeks ago

Chester

It would be handy, but it's bound to be liable to be abused.

Had a fall out with someone on the forum? Flag them up as a no-show.

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By *eedsbearmanMan
3 weeks ago

Leeds

"It would be handy, but it's bound to be liable to be abused.

Had a fall out with someone on the forum? Flag them up as a no-show. "

Exactly.

Just block and move on.

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By *k73Man
3 weeks ago

Leicester

Get quite a few times wasters that's why I won't travel more than 5 miles radius any more

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By *lifunTV/TS
3 weeks ago

derbyshire

Block button works well more blocks than my viewed list lol

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By *cott27886Man
3 weeks ago

darlaston

Pissese. Off. Washed showered clean.

Lingerie on. Stockings on....

Then a no show. Great.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
3 weeks ago

Bargoed

"We need a proper way of outing no shows."

Go onto their profile, then menu at the top, report user, there is an option for No Show.

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By *avid1968Man
3 weeks ago

Burslem

I totally hate them as someone that will dress for meets takes time to get ready.

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By *ighthole69Man
3 weeks ago

SPALDING

As has been said before, Block then move on, as a matter of fact, I Block ALL BLANK PROFILES that vist my page, no exceptions. Saves a lot of hassle.

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By *orwdMan
3 weeks ago

Sheffield

So frustrating especially when u have douched...grrr

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By *hagmenowplsMan
3 weeks ago

Hereford

"We need a proper way of outing no shows.

Go onto their profile, then menu at the top, report user, there is an option for No Show."
that is good to know thanks

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By *ottmforhardcoreMan
3 weeks ago

Crusing for tops

"We need a proper way of outing no shows.

Go onto their profile, then menu at the top, report user, there is an option for No Show."

That option should be removed.

All admin does is block you from viewing each others profile.

It's not the sites responsiblity to police and make judgements on no-shows or time wasters. That responsibility lies with you.

Just move on and block the other guy.

I know is frustrating and annoying. I recently did two round trips of 60 miles late at night for nothing.

But I choose to go, knowing in the back of my head this could be a waste of my time.

Again I repeat I made the decision. So my choice too travel.

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By *eatherloverukMan
3 weeks ago

near Skegness

just press the block button and forget, it's bloody frustrating but that's all you can do.

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By *witchbiguyMan
3 weeks ago

Multiverse

There should be a no show option like leaving a verification but how do you determine if they cancellation is genuine

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By *olchBiMan
3 weeks ago

Colchester

It's too open to abuse I think. What could be done is a bit more promotion of what the obvious red flags are- someone unverified but on a long time, someone who won't give you their full address 'until you are close', brand new/ repeated accounts, etc.

It was only after I learnt to spot them that I reduced no shows.

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By *jp HungMan
3 weeks ago

Ferryhill Northeast.

Save feeling let down just dont bank on them turning up great if they do.Their loss if they don't.

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By *acyjones2Man
3 weeks ago

Bamber Bridge

I've had my fair share of timewasters and usually block them and name them on my update status profile but I've also been blocked myself when I've had to cancel for legitimate reasons. Once was just about to leave for a meet when a family member turned up out the blue..

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By *lindfold subMan
3 weeks ago

Reading

I had a guy last night that came over to mine for some fun in my converted van outside.

I’d spent some time getting showered and douched. Then got dressed and was about to go out to my van to let him know I was ready and he text me to say there was someone walking down my street.

“Big deal” I thought to myself.

I told him they’d be gone in a second but could understand if he got nervous so even offered him to pick me up and take me to his but instead he just drove away and stopped replying to me on texts.

I was fuming and gutted. He would have been my first bbc as well which I was really excited about.

I even turned down a regular meet with a guy I’ve met before to meet this other guy and by the time the bbc guy drove away, my regular had already gone to bed so I ended up with neither!!

Should I name and shame him?

I wouldn’t do that. It’s not fair.

He was clearly nervous himself and maybe one day he’ll come back again.

If I name and shame him, he’ll definitely not come back… it also looks bad for other nervous guys if we start to name and shame them. It might put them off from meeting if they think we’re going to put their names onto our profiles if they’ve simply got nervous and bolted…

I’d rather deal with it in a more grown up manner and try to discuss what happened and try to fix it and make them more comfortable with meeting…

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By *ustOneBearMan
3 weeks ago

Neath

The no verifications for a couple of years is a very good indication that they are just window shopping.

I block, think how sad it must be to be them for a second, then move on

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By *wertyuiopMan
2 weeks ago

Slough

"It's too open to abuse I think. What could be done is a bit more promotion of what the obvious red flags are- someone unverified but on a long time, someone who won't give you their full address 'until you are close', brand new/ repeated accounts, etc.

It was only after I learnt to spot them that I reduced no shows."

Why would you give someone your address until you are sure they are close. Even better initially meet in a public place. If they refuse then block. Job done.

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By *ateshead24Man
2 weeks ago

gateshead

If they're first timers I will forgive a no show

I think we all remember the nerves from our first time so if odd one bottle out I can understand that

Or maybe im being too soft 😆

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"We need a proper way of outing no shows.

Go onto their profile, then menu at the top, report user, there is an option for No Show.

That option should be removed.

All admin does is block you from viewing each others profile.

It's not the sites responsiblity to police and make judgements on no-shows or time wasters. That responsibility lies with you.

Just move on and block the other guy.

I know is frustrating and annoying. I recently did two round trips of 60 miles late at night for nothing.

But I choose to go, knowing in the back of my head this could be a waste of my time.

Again I repeat I made the decision. So my choice too travel.

I’m sorry! But what?! This is far too sensible and measured and self-aware for the Forum.

Surely you need to lash out and blame someone: timewasters; other users; the site; moderators; the Government; society; etc etc.

(You are, of course, correct.)

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"If they're first timers I will forgive a no show

I think we all remember the nerves from our first time so if odd one bottle out I can understand that

Or maybe im being too soft 😆 "

How do you know it is only their first time of being a ‘no show’..?

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By *owzerMan
2 weeks ago

Chester.....

"If they're first timers I will forgive a no show

I think we all remember the nerves from our first time so if odd one bottle out I can understand that

Or maybe im being too soft 😆

How do you know it is only their first time of being a ‘no show’..? "

The voices...

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Nothing worse especially when you have fully showered including deuce teeth brushed and smelling nice and semi naked and he doesn't turn up "

I’m sort of hoping that it’s not just the special occasion of a meet for sex which might make someone brush their teeth. 😶

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By *ateshead24Man
2 weeks ago

gateshead

Well the truth is i dont

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Well the truth is i dont

I’ve worked out that you’re saying that you don’t definitely know if it is only their first time of being a ‘no show’…

Not that you don’t brush your teeth.

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By *ateshead24Man
2 weeks ago

gateshead

😆

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Heathrow

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Heathrow

Had the same thing from a newbi we had arranged a time and a place didge turn up?? Of course he didn't

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By *isitskentMan
2 weeks ago

Deal

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Had the same thing from a newbi we had arranged a time and a place didge turn up?? Of course he didn't "

He had a didgeridoo..?! To be frank, they’re not the most subtle instrument even when piped softly though the undergrowth of a cruising ground, so maybe he had sensible second thoughts.

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By *los slutMan
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

Only real way is to make it a pay only site

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By *heff24Man
2 weeks ago

Sheffield

"Only real way is to make it a pay only site "

Yeah, that'll show them!

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By *lackbootzMan
2 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"Only real way is to make it a pay only site "

Oh Lordie… not this old chestnut again… 🙄

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By *azmin999jmMan
2 weeks ago

wakefield

Get over it , it happens probably to everyone on here. It's happened to me many times . It makes those who do show worth waiting for. This is an incredible site, great value, and great fun.

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Heathrow

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By *ard8onMan
2 weeks ago

Darwen

"Get over it , it happens probably to everyone on here. It's happened to me many times . It makes those who do show worth waiting for. This is an incredible site, great value, and great fun. "

Absolutely agree

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By *immerBoyMan
2 weeks ago

bexley

Maybe a feature that says: Meet agreed - that has to be activated by both users. That way, if it’s a no show a this can be marked as such and less likely to be vindictive.

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By *ave.CMan
2 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

"Get over it , it happens probably to everyone on here. It's happened to me many times . It makes those who do show worth waiting for. This is an incredible site, great value, and great fun.

Absolutely agree"

I agree too, it's not the site's responsibility to worry about policing no-shows. The site is set up to make introductions possible, what happens between the 2 adults after that is totally between them..

You never know when your or there circumstances may change up until the last minute, I've had phone calls at last minute that prevent me going to the meet.

I personally would always message that other to explain, but not everyone so polite, or have the time if emergency..it's just life, get on with it

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By *eanDevizesMan
1 week ago

Devizes

I have driven 1 , 2 hours late night only to end up at a dark house. The guy hasn't been online since you left and phone goes to voice mail or they txt you with a lot of BS excuses on why they can't meet like their landlord has just turned up ?? it's 3.15am. You are left sat in the drivers cursing yourself for yet again thinking with your cock not the brain. i done it once where i nodded off waking to a few messages. Grovelling, forgiveness followed by an awesome fuck a week later. Life happens but here is the thing, just remember that not ond guy on here owes you anything. If you want here and now hire a guy . If some timewasting prick is a no show, let's face it there are countless on here (the genuine ones will send an apologetic message) so just block and stick with the good guys.

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By *ewBrumBiMan
1 week ago

Birmingham B15

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By *ewBrumBiMan
1 week ago

Birmingham B15

"Maybe a feature that says: Meet agreed - that has to be activated by both users. That way, if it’s a no show a this can be marked as such and less likely to be vindictive. "

And what happens when one party marks the meet as having occured, and the other doesn't?

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By *ighthole69Man
1 week ago

SPALDING

Just BLOCK and move on. Works for me.

I automatically block ALL BLANK profiles that visit my page,or,are hundreds of miles away, or, a bottom like me. I also visit Rosebay near me, and meet guys from there. 👍

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By *amTV/TS
1 week ago

Hartlepool

Totally pees you off wasted time .

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By *uriouscdingTV/TS
1 week ago

FALKIRK

Let down twice today

Block and move on

Also fed up with the inane messages,when you just sense inside they're timewasters

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