FabGuys.com forum: Turning off winks

By (user no longer on site) OP
5 weeks ago

Hi is there anyway of doing

This. Sure you could do this before

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By *autiously_curiousMan
5 weeks ago

Craigavon

Half the time I don't even notice I've been sent one!

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Colchester

No there isn't. Obviously people are looking at your profile because you are uploading photos and videos

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By *usicmanxxxMan
5 weeks ago

skem

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By *usicmanxxxMan
5 weeks ago

skem

I normally ignore winks

Especially the one who haven’t read the profile

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By *hinkTwinkMan
4 weeks ago

Crewe

"Half the time I don't even notice I've been sent one!"
Same, and then I bulk delete them. Even stating don't wink, people still do

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By *pforfunwithyouMan
4 weeks ago

Deeside

I love receiving winks they are a good conversation starter

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By *ipperTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I just got a wink from a faceless guy, no photos, and about 3 words on his profile, am I ment to reply with great enthusiasm at his generous wink? I just delete all the winks, they are an absolute waste of time.

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By *olin1951Man
4 weeks ago

worcester

Too true. Dud profiles, no photos, no message , just a wink. Instant delete

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By *londebiguyMan
4 weeks ago

near Southport

"I just got a wink from a faceless guy, no photos, and about 3 words on his profile, am I ment to reply with great enthusiasm at his generous wink? I just delete all the winks, they are an absolute waste of time. "

Nobody says that you must reply with great enthusiasm or otherwise.

They just winked.

They might not even want to meet you.

It's just a click on a screen.

Nothing special or contractual.

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
4 weeks ago

Glasgow

I look at them once a week, if I am not interested I bulk delete.

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By *oxvMan
4 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I always ignore them. I never see them when they arrive and I bulk delete them when I notice. I'd rather receive a message with some words and pictures. Call me old-fashioned.

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By *uffolkmale54TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Lowestoft

im to receive them, it means somebody has noticed me

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By *uffolkmale54TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Lowestoft

should of said, im happy to receive them.

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By *rytonTV/TS
4 weeks ago

Chatham

Why, just take it as a massive compliment.

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By *luteus maxMan
4 weeks ago

Waterlooville at night

I don't mind winks if there is a prospect of a meeting. Winks from bottoms over 200 miles away are annoying. So are ones where they have sent an email as well

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By *noncumdumpMan
4 weeks ago

Watford

It's just a wink. People seem to have forgotten that they actually have zero control over what other people do but are in control of how they respond.

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By *askia.TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I’m happy to receive winks from people, they are an icebreaker and can lead to a lot of fun…..and somebody who is currently miles away might be about to visit your area.

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By *u2usemeMan
4 weeks ago

hyde

Doesn't bother me receiving winks and freind requests as a sub I respond to both and strangely guys asking for pics who don't have any turns me on.

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By *acingfanMan
4 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I love a wink or a fab.

It's like bring winked at or smiled at in person.

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By *ickSeekerMan
7 days ago

Canterbury

I don't mind them. Some are pointless non-starters, some have led to interesting chat and more. They don't make or break my day

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By (user no longer on site)
7 days ago

It doesn't bother me I don't get why some people get offended over receiving them sometimes it's just a compliment doesn't mean that person is dying to jump into bed with you.

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By *hinkTwinkMan
7 days ago

Crewe

Other people are just the same as me... don't even notice when someone does wink.

I bulk delete them when I even remember they exist because I think its a lazy way to communicate.

Admin are never going to make changes to this site, especially something like that

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By *ice WankerMan
5 days ago

Lancs

I'd rather a message was sent instead of a wink. I ignore and delete most of the time.

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By *rytonTV/TS
5 days ago

Chatham

Why is it such a problem. Just ignore them. Personally its a great way a shy person can show interest.

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By *itherMan
5 days ago

Leeds

I agree with Kryton, some people are shy and/or not sure of your reaction. If you don't like the look of them " Sorry,not my type" or similar should do the trick then they know where they stand.

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By *odger300Man
3 days ago

Inverurie

Some guys are shy or lacking in self confidence (unlike me) so a wink is a way of first contact you never know x

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