FabGuys.com forum: Same profile created over and over

By *omolo789 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

Hi, I have noticed an individual creating the same profile over and over, almost on a weekly basis. Each time he manages to use the same pics and the same name. The need to recreate the same profile over and over looks quite suspicious. Should the profile be reported to the admin?

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By *mma_EvansTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Colchester

It isn't against the site rules to delete your profile and then rejoin

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By *ant thisMan
2 weeks ago

balloch

Could be someone struggling to come to terms with their sexuality

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By *omolo789 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

Maybe he has to come to terms. I have seen people recreating a profile after years or even months, but this guy does it almost on a weekly basis. It seems to be a bit weird to me.

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By *ais1Man
2 weeks ago

Renfrewshire

May not be against the rules but it's a major 🚩 in my eyes

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By *omolo789 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

I totally agree with you, part of me feels like there is something not quite right. I have lost count how many times the same profile have been recreated, probably in the last two years or so.

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By *treyu500Man
2 weeks ago

Australia

"Could be someone struggling to come to terms with their sexuality"

Yeh, there's a guy like that near me too. I suppose deleting the account between horny compulsions makes him feel better/safer. I've blocked him about 50 times over the years. It's a bit annoying but doesn't bother me. I wish him well

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By *omolo789 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

Ok, I am not the only one then. I have blocked every profile he created, but it's getting tiring. Maybe I should contact him instead and find out why he does it all the time lol

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By *ightbumholeMan
2 weeks ago

Halifax

"Could be someone struggling to come to terms with their sexuality"

Only brave when d*unk etc?

Easy to run out of messages, but not likely that.

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By *3243Man
2 weeks ago

EDINBURGH

I knew a guy who used to do that. He did it to avoid detection by his wife. He only put it up when she was going to be away for a few days

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By *omolo789 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

That could be a possibility, but then it seems to be a bit extreme.

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By *teelballsMan
2 weeks ago

central london

I’ve met a guy several times over the last 10 years. He invents a profile when he wants to meet and contacts me. When it’s finished he deletes the account as soon as i’m out the door.

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By *iscretion69Man
2 weeks ago

Read

There is a guy in my area that does that too. He’s a time waster. He arranges meets then makes excuses then cancels at the last minute. Then he deletes his account then creates another account a week later and the cycle continues…………….

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By *los slutMan
2 weeks ago

Gloucester

There's someone in Gloucester who does this literally every week username is xxxx496 or following week it will be xxxx991 etc same profile same write up

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By *aid2TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Swindon

There's a guy near me who creates a new profile every month or so and always messages me. He sends the same pics every time. I've told him in the strongest possible way I will never meet him but he still messages me, it's been years now.

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By *laymate2025Man
2 weeks ago

Croydon

It’s either a guilt thing or someone not wanting to leave a digital footprint which is totalling legit and understandable

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By *laymate2025Man
2 weeks ago

Croydon

I don’t think we need to question why guys comes and goes from sex sites either lol

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By *omolo789 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

There could be millions of reasons why he does that. Now even if I wanted to report his profile, I can't because he has already deleted it in less than 48 hours lol

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By *elloyouMan
2 weeks ago

London

"There is a guy in my area that does that too. He’s a time waster. He arranges meets then makes excuses then cancels at the last minute. Then he deletes his account then creates another account a week later and the cycle continues……………."

Mostly it’s done by time wasters, I started to note their profile names, real names, face pics, and then add them to my profile for everyone to beware of these individuals. We need to keep these people away from this site.

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By *omolo789 OP Man
2 weeks ago

Doncaster

This one is an unusual case, somehow he has managed to use the same name, same pics, same description every single time.

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By *asyman321Man
2 weeks ago

north east

"Maybe he has to come to terms. I have seen people recreating a profile after years or even months, but this guy does it almost on a weekly basis. It seems to be a bit weird to me."

I tend to agree

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By *ustPeekinMan
2 weeks ago

Alresford

There’s a guy near me who does exactly the same thing. He does meet up though, but then deletes his profile. Maybe he’s just struggling with it and trying to stop. I can certainly relate to that from when I was young!

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By *abguysOfficialMan
Forum Mod
2 weeks ago

Nearby

It doesn't do any harm in reporting it, but as others have mentioned there are lots of reasons why people come and go

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By *acyboyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Southampton

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By *acyboyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Southampton

There is a guy in my locality that dies this every day or two and he’s told me it’s his way of remaining as safe from detection from his wife as possible. Personally i cannot imagine living like that but every one of us is different eh? I met him numerous times but then every time he rejoined he asked for a verification which in the eve got tiresome. I also found it a cheek that he always wanted to meet at my place, again so he could stay safer. I fronted him up about it and in the end decided that although sex with him wasn’t bad he just wasn’t worth the effort. I was honest with him though and told him that each and every time i see him i now block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I tend to do this, too. Certainly not every week, but, every several months.

I become very unhappy with the lifestyle which is anything but gay. I would call it the Sad lifestyle. Being inflamed with desire for people of my own sex, where nothing can come of it, other than usually highly unsatifactory sex with people that do not give a damn about us.

I find the overpowering urges wanes after a while and i can go without sex.

I feel very ashamed about doing this, quite often and try to flee from it.

I feel terribly guilty about it, as do many of my sexual partners, you know the type...ejaculate, pull out, dress without eye contact and are gone.

I always meet guys, when i can and have sex with them if i say i will.

I have found many guys that create profiles, promise to meet, say they are coming and disappear. These are time wasters. Guys who imagine coming, wank themselves off and leave the site.

There are many people like me, wrestling against this disorder. We are not wasting peoples' time or hurting anybody. If we were all banned, the site would be halved in number and nobody would get laid.

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