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"Agree don't want to go near them." What are you riddled with? | |||
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"Take responsibility for your own sexual health, and not of that of others!" Exactly. | |||
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"Is it possible to have a option in the search page so that everyone who has bareback listed as a interest can be blocked from showing up in the search results?" And how would you deal with someone like me who has both Bareback and Safe Sex on their interests..? Because how I have my sex depends on real-time, real-life discussion and arrangements with the other party or parties, not meaningless blanket search options. You can only control how you have your sex with a second party. You have no control nor responsibility for how a second party interacts with a third party. Nor would that be healthy. That way madness lies. I can never understand if these paranoiac threads are kicked off by general naivety or disingenuousness. And when you start looking through the verifications of the “no to bb” and “I’ll never meet someone who has bb listed or has ever met someone who is into bb” frothers, you always find a verification from someone who does bb or has met someone else who does. Every time. | |||
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"Take responsibility for your own sexual health, and not of that of others!" THIS !!!!!! BRILLIANT POST | |||
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"Is it possible to have a option in the search page so that everyone who has bareback listed as a interest can be blocked from showing up in the search results?" please elaborate and inform how you can’t manage you’re own search and sexual health but asking to block those with bb ? Educate yourself | |||
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"Is it possible to have a option in the search page so that everyone who has bareback listed as a interest can be blocked from showing up in the search results?" Can also we have the option to block people who don’t BareBack Some of them are delusional sucking cock without a condom thinking they are safer than people who BB Most of us are tested regularly and take prep some of us even take Doxyprep for added safety | |||
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" You can catch all STDs from a blow job, except HIV." You can catch HIV with oral sex, it is just that the risk is much lower than Anal or vaginal sex | |||
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"How would that help you stay disease free? Guys who do bareback are usually on Prep, and therefore are safe from contracting HIV, plus they get regularly tested. More regularly than the "safe sex only" hypocrites who suck 10 dicks a month without a condom on any of them. You can catch all STDs from a blow job, except HIV. So if you think you are safer with someone who fucks safe only but whose dick you are sucking without a condom on it, you are mistaken. " Exactly this, I get checked regularly and I’m on prep, if a guy wants to fuck me safe that’s fine too. | |||
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"Surely it’s a very simple concept. Saving time and energy by excluding guys from your search who bb. They might not play safe but if they don’t, they’ll know that was a condition of meeting so they’ll be wasting their time." Did everything in this thread pass you by…? | |||
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"Is it possible" Is it possible - Yes. Will it happen - to date I can’t think of a single user suggested enhancement that has been taken on board and implemented, so I would say probably not. | |||
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"How would that help you stay disease free? Guys who do bareback are usually on Prep, and therefore are safe from contracting HIV, plus they get regularly tested. More regularly than the "safe sex only" hypocrites who suck 10 dicks a month without a condom on any of them. You can catch all STDs from a blow job, except HIV. So if you think you are safer with someone who fucks safe only but whose dick you are sucking without a condom on it, you are mistaken. " You can theoretically catch several STDs from giving/recieving BJs but the odds of doing so are v small, especially relative to the risk of transmission in unprotected anal. Gonorreah is the big risk through oral. | |||
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" You can catch all STDs from a blow job, except HIV. You can catch HIV with oral sex, it is just that the risk is much lower than Anal or vaginal sex" Hi. There isnt a single documented case of HIV being transmitted to someone in reciept. There are a few of it being transmitted to someone giving, but they are questionable and the risk of transmission is considered so low as to almost be theoretical in nature. In HIV terms oral sex is safe sex. | |||
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"How would that help you stay disease free? Guys who do bareback are usually on Prep, and therefore are safe from contracting HIV, plus they get regularly tested. More regularly than the "safe sex only" hypocrites who suck 10 dicks a month without a condom on any of them. You can catch all STDs from a blow job, except HIV. So if you think you are safer with someone who fucks safe only but whose dick you are sucking without a condom on it, you are mistaken. You can theoretically catch several STDs from giving/recieving BJs but the odds of doing so are v small, especially relative to the risk of transmission in unprotected anal. Gonorreah is the big risk through oral." BJ is only one type of oral sex and the number of STIs capable of being transmitted through oral sex is higher than through anal sex. The level of risk varies amongst individuals, but increases for anyone with cuts, sores, lesions, etc. HIV transmission is almost zero if properly using PrEP and it seems that some types of bacterial infection are reduced with doxyPEP. Gonorrhoea vaccinations are helpful in reducing risk. Of course, the best sources of information are available directly through NHS and other reputable organisations and not through third parties on this site  | |||
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"I have caught syphilis (twice), gonorrhea, and chlamydia, all while I was practicing safe sex. So it was all through oral sex. Luckily, because I listen to my body, I always found out straightaway, and I never transmitted these to anyone. I have never caught anything while doing bareback, which I started 8 months ago when I started taking Prep. Fight the real enemy: that's people who never get tested, because they claim that "safe fucking" protects them, and because they are so far in the closet that they are finding Christmas presents. " If you caught syphillis twice through oral you are a medical marvel. Some GUM doctors go tgeir entire careers and see a handful of oral syphillis cases. Transmission rates for giving oral to someone with syphillis are 1% and much lower for recieving. Chlamidya is pretty rare and as I said Gonoreah pretty common. Everyone should get tested. Everyone should look after their own sexual health. I just find it odd when people try and suggest oral is somehow equally risky as unprotected anal. It really isnt. | |||
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" You can catch all STDs from a blow job, except HIV. You can catch HIV with oral sex, it is just that the risk is much lower than Anal or vaginal sex Hi. There isnt a single documented case of HIV being transmitted to someone in reciept. There are a few of it being transmitted to someone giving, but they are questionable and the risk of transmission is considered so low as to almost be theoretical in nature. In HIV terms oral sex is safe sex." https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/hiv-and-aids/ Causes of HIV infection HIV is most often spread by having vaginal, anal or oral sex with someone who has HIV, while not using a condom. Think I’ll go by what the NHS say. | |||
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" … Hi. There isnt a single documented case of HIV being transmitted to someone in reciept. There are a few of it being transmitted to someone giving, but they are questionable and the risk of transmission is considered so low as to almost be theoretical in nature. In HIV terms oral sex is safe sex..." There is proven case of transmission from a man with a high viral load ejaculating into the mouth of someone with very poor dental and gum health. (Neither should have been doing what they were doing in their health circumstances, but that is besides the point.) There is a very strange repeated positioning in these threads - always by bi men - that provided they rubber up for anal they are otherwise invincible. It’s an a priori propter quid reasoning built around making themselves feel secure. | |||
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" You can catch all STDs from a blow job, except HIV. You can catch HIV with oral sex, it is just that the risk is much lower than Anal or vaginal sex Hi. There isnt a single documented case of HIV being transmitted to someone in reciept. There are a few of it being transmitted to someone giving, but they are questionable and the risk of transmission is considered so low as to almost be theoretical in nature. In HIV terms oral sex is safe sex. https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/hiv-and-aids/ Causes of HIV infection HIV is most often spread by having vaginal, anal or oral sex with someone who has HIV, while not using a condom. Think I’ll go by what the NHS say." By all means. But as an NHS doctor I can tell you that statement is ultra conservative and based on a theoretical and not actual risk, which is so slim to be non existent if you are recieving, and virtually unheard of if you giving. Think how many bjs take place every day, both standalone and as part of other sexual fun. If it was a viable path of transmission HIV would be much more prevelant, and we would certainly all be aware of people who became HIV positive in that way. | |||
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" … Hi. There isnt a single documented case of HIV being transmitted to someone in reciept. There are a few of it being transmitted to someone giving, but they are questionable and the risk of transmission is considered so low as to almost be theoretical in nature. In HIV terms oral sex is safe sex... There is proven case of transmission from a man with a high viral load ejaculating into the mouth of someone with very poor dental and gum health. (Neither should have been doing what they were doing in their health circumstances, but that is besides the point.) There is a very strange repeated positioning in these threads - always by bi men - that provided they rubber up for anal they are otherwise invincible. It’s an a priori propter quid reasoning built around making themselves feel secure. " I would be interested in reading more about that case if you have a link. But.... you think one case, in what sounds like perfect transmission circumstances, is evidence againt my argument transmission is unlikely? | |||
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" You can catch all STDs from a blow job, except HIV. You can catch HIV with oral sex, it is just that the risk is much lower than Anal or vaginal sex Hi. There isnt a single documented case of HIV being transmitted to someone in reciept. There are a few of it being transmitted to someone giving, but they are questionable and the risk of transmission is considered so low as to almost be theoretical in nature. In HIV terms oral sex is safe sex. https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/hiv-and-aids/ Causes of HIV infection HIV is most often spread by having vaginal, anal or oral sex with someone who has HIV, while not using a condom. Think I’ll go by what the NHS say. By all means. But as an NHS doctor I can tell you that statement is ultra conservative and based on a theoretical and not actual risk, which is so slim to be non existent if you are recieving, and virtually unheard of if you giving. Think how many bjs take place every day, both standalone and as part of other sexual fun. If it was a viable path of transmission HIV would be much more prevelant, and we would certainly all be aware of people who became HIV positive in that way." "… as an NHS doctor…"  🤔🤯 | |||
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