FabGuys.com forum: Cannot Accommodate Cannot Travel

By *arcus Bezzant OP Man
4 days ago

North Ayrshire

How do those people who put this on their profiles ever intend to meet anyone?

I mean, where?

How?

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By (user no longer on site)
4 days ago

Probably looking to meet very locally only, for those that can accommodate. Could be someone that either works unusual hours and cannot make plans ahead of time and instead may only have the option for at the moment meets when they have the time.

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By *andy62Man
4 days ago

n east

"How do those people who put this on their profiles ever intend to meet anyone?

I mean, where?

How?"
eh how they going to meet unless like local outdoors cottagging

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By *ucksitupMan
4 days ago

Shrewsbury

"Probably looking to meet very locally only, for those that can accommodate. Could be someone that either works unusual hours and cannot make plans ahead of time and instead may only have the option for at the moment meets when they have the time."

Exactly this. They can’t accommodate but can meet those locally who can. It’s not that hard to understand. Is it?

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By *amie1402Man
4 days ago

Liverpool

Usually means they want you to pick them up and take them to your place or to a hotel.

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By *aucey04TV/TS
4 days ago

Bletchingley

"How do those people who put this on their profiles ever intend to meet anyone?

I mean, where?

How?"

Often wondered about these guys as well

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By *hilmeMan
4 days ago

Bournemouth

I think they expect you to go and pick them up and then back home, dream on

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By *hcdTV/TS
4 days ago

Ferndown

So many generalisations!

Mine is currently set that way because this week I'm otherwise engaged. When I'm looking for a meet either at mine or someone else's or outside, I'll change it.

No point wasting people's time trying to organise something this week with me that just isn't going to happen. Contact me next week when I can.

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By *ildwestheroMan
4 days ago

Llandrindod Wells

Either they expect you to pick them up and take them back to your place [did that once and it involved an 112 mile double round trip] or pay their bus or train fare. Either that or hope for meets within a short walking distant. Had one guy contact me and said we could meet and have sex in a park near where he lived. Said it was snowing so there would be no one about. I declined.

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By *uck me in KentMan
4 days ago

Medway

From those that put this on their profile, I've been asked to pick them up .. usually in the most unusual hours of the night/ early morning

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By *oe_66WFMan
4 days ago

Darton

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By *aryb60Man
4 days ago

mossley

If a profile cannot accommodate i move on. If I'm outside their age range i move on, if they do bb I move on

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By *arcus Bezzant OP Man
4 days ago

North Ayrshire

"If a profile cannot accommodate i move on. If I'm outside their age range i move on, if they do bb I move on"

So why didn't you just "Move On" from this easily ignored forum question?

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By *ishop666Man
4 days ago

ls19

They won’t you y try o do the travelling

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By *u2usemeMan
4 days ago

hyde

Lots of supposition on here but as Tom Jones sang... that's not unusual

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By *imon5262Man
4 days ago

Grantham

I am one of those so called time wasters that can neither accommodate or Travel and there is a reason for both 1 being wife is Housebound and I also have 2 adult kids living full time at home

2 I do not possess a car nor can I drive and if i cannot use my bank account to withdraw money as its a joint account and has been for 25 years.

I do meet locally and I don't expect to be picked up and dropped off

The guys I meet know these things about me. So before you make assumptions that were all time wasters think again there are reasons

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By *u2usemeMan
4 days ago

hyde

"I am one of those so called time wasters that can neither accommodate or Travel and there is a reason for both 1 being wife is Housebound and I also have 2 adult kids living full time at home

2 I do not possess a car nor can I drive and if i cannot use my bank account to withdraw money as its a joint account and has been for 25 years.

I do meet locally and I don't expect to be picked up and dropped off

The guys I meet know these things about me. So before you make assumptions that were all time wasters think again there are reasons

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By *tar33Man
4 days ago

North London (outer)

As usual, the answers here seem to have come from narrow-minded people who are too stupid to consider one or two other possibilities.

As I understand it, some guys enjoy cam or phone sex in which case they don't need to either accommodate, or travel.

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By *sdfjklMan
3 days ago

Clayton

Ask them.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
3 days ago

Bargoed

This has been asked loads of times.

I know someone who cannot accom as he lives with his elderly parents.

Cannot travel as he doesn't have a car.

He is fortunate that he lives near some local woods, so he arranges to meet guys there for outdoor fun.

So just because someone can't accom or travel doesnt mean they are timewasters.

Just means you have to ask and find out what the solution is.

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By *ighthole69Man
3 days ago

SPALDING

"Usually means they want you to pick them up and take them to your place or to a hotel. "

This, exactly.

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By *ewBrumBiMan
3 days ago

Birmingham B15

If only there was some way to meet virtually through the medium of video and/or audio...

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By *ucksitupMan
3 days ago

Shrewsbury

"They won’t you y try o do the travelling "

Well clearly that’s the answer 🤣

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By *incumbriaTV/TS
3 days ago

Cockermouth

"I am one of those so called time wasters that can neither accommodate or Travel and there is a reason for both 1 being wife is Housebound and I also have 2 adult kids living full time at home

2 I do not possess a car nor can I drive and if i cannot use my bank account to withdraw money as its a joint account and has been for 25 years.

I do meet locally and I don't expect to be picked up and dropped off

The guys I meet know these things about me. So before you make assumptions that were all time wasters think again there are reasons

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Good example.

I know that phrase looks strange at first glance , but try not to jump to conclusions

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By *lackbootzMan
3 days ago

Hayes, Middx

"Ask them. "

WHAT?!?!?!

Do you mean trying to ascertain information through direct enquiry as opposed to starting a Forum thread and allowing yourself the freedom of pointless fanciful speculation and judgmental grandstanding about other people..?!

WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT?!

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By *iono555Man
3 days ago

DERBY

Depends on circumstance? I can't travel much due to health, costs & family. Accom isn't impossible but it's difficult for the same reasons.

But... the only option on the profile is binary.

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By *itherMan
3 days ago

Leeds

"How do those people who put this on their profiles ever intend to meet anyone?

I mean, where?

How?"
I met a guy once or twice and he lived on the other side of town. I had to pick him up

bring him to mine then take him home. It was a real pain.

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By *ld4yngfunMan
3 days ago

Edinburgh

I once picked a guy up, & he suggested a quite park area, to go to.

He played with my cock, a bit, on the way there.

Once we got there, he pulled a knife on me, & stole £70.

Luckily, he did not use the knife.

He jumped out & ran off.

I will not be picking anyone else up.

Be aware.

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By *ean154Man
3 days ago

City.

"If a profile cannot accommodate i move on. If I'm outside their age range i move on, if they do bb I move on"

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By *ara de BumdiayMan
3 days ago

staindrop

They expect to be collected and returned.

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By *unMoonTattooMan
3 days ago

Wareham

Or they're just time wasting eejuts

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By *obert1950Man
3 days ago

Hockley

Remain here to keep in touch with past friends without using telephone numbers

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By *oose1Man
3 days ago

doncaster

Virtual meets

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By *ID89Man
3 days ago

Pembrokeshire

"Ask them.

WHAT?!?!?!

WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT?!

Love this

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