FabGuys.com forum: Is this app still gay?

By *ich65 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Chorley

I'm not on the sister site - Fabswingers, but sometimes it seems like I am, especially with some of the stories.

The name 'Fabguys' suggests to me that it's for guys who are interested in meeting guys, so why do so many talk about wives and girlfriends.

If I am interested (which I'm not) in straight sex stories, I would go to the other site.

KEEP A GAY SITE GAY

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I think a lot of people here are bi and or in the closet with their bi/gay levels. So its also a place for them to talk about their love of the female of the species along with the male.

Honestly, imo, they should just combine the swingers and guys websites together. Give us options to block any and all content that we dont want on our specific homepage feed... and just don't read what we dont want to read on the forums. I mean its hard to not read something right?

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By *b72Man
6 weeks ago

Moray

It’s not exclusively for gay men. It’s also for bi guys, so some of them are interested in talking about wives/girlfriends

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By *rytonTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Chatham

Im not attracted to men whatsoever but love cock im on both sites but fab swingers I find to many straight men on there. And half are actually bi but won't say. So waste so much time getting out of them.

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By *hornedGuysLover62Man
6 weeks ago

Stoke-on-Trent

I am a Married Guy, but took this as a Site to look for hook ups with Guys. If i read anything on someones Profile regarding want to talk about G/F's or Wives, i avoid starting a Conversation. Likewise the same goes with Guys who want me to wear Ladies Underwear/Stockings etc.

There will always be a Cross Section of 'Bi' Guys who will converse about Women, the clues are there, so you have the choice to avoid or block them, a bit like changing the TV channel if you don't like something. I think it would be wrong to exclude a particular group because of their interests.

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By *lackbootzMan
6 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx

"… Honestly, imo, they should just combine the swingers and guys websites together. Give us options to block any and all content that we dont want on our specific homepage feed... and just don't read what we dont want to read on the forums. I mean it’s hard to not read something right?…"

We should just put you in charge of the sites and watch them crater within a week. 🙄 🤦‍♂️

Why would you give both user bases something that 80% of them would need to block half of from the word go?! Lunatic idea.

Fab management is hardly setting the word alight with its offering of content options, specifics and blocks in the current climate

And nobody is forced to read anything - but finding something you want to read becomes an issue in a jungle. It’s hard enough here sifting through reams of panties and camel-toe and “Rachel Riley - oooh do her!” drivel without making it a Sargasso Sea of female themes.

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By *iHusbandMan
6 weeks ago

Mold

I’m bi- attracted to women, but on here because I’ve also been having & loving sex with men for as long as I’ve been sexually active. I’m not gay & I’m not straight, but like all of us on here I’m on the site because men get me hard.

I don’t mind the threads about straight sex. I don’t read them because it’s not why I’m here, but even the guys on those threads are here because they want other guys- could be for long term attachment, could be for fuck & go. They could say they’re gay or bi or straight but like cock or whatever, I don’t mind. All I know is within five minutes of meeting anyone here I’d have their hard cock in my hand.

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By *arcus BezzantMan
6 weeks ago

North Ayrshire

Well said!

! Same with all thd sickening talk of "Panties"

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By *riefs56Man
6 weeks ago

South east

"Well said!

! Same with all thd sickening talk of "Panties""

Same ,also chats where guys say " wife is in next room"

I am unsure why they are logged on? But a few good gays ere...for now.

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By *awihMan
6 weeks ago

Aldershot

No, and why has a thread about “seeing your wife get fucked hard” got any place on a man on man hookup site - the only place that should be is on the swingers site; or are the pervs afraid what their wife’s reaction would be to the misogynistic talk about them they see to think it is OK to engage in here. They are just ruining this site, but the mods don’t seem to give a dam.

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By *eepdelverTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Taunton

If you start a gardening chat site im sure you will end up with people talking about motor cycles or the state of the government. Just a fact of life.

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By *awihMan
6 weeks ago

Aldershot

"If you start a gardening chat site im sure you will end up with people talking about motor cycles or the state of the government. Just a fact of life."

Not with proper moderation.

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By *eepdelverTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Taunton

I would bet that this sites moderation is no more than a computer set up to pick out certain words and phrases or suspect photographs.

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By *entletouchMan
6 weeks ago

Edinburgh

My Forum stories have no women involved

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By *bear67Man
6 weeks ago

Aldershot

Totally agree. I'd rather this site was kept for M/M sex only. There are plenty of sites for straight sex and all the threads about wives seem more suited to FabSwingers.

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By *ich65 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Chorley

"My Forum stories have no women involved "

I love your stories

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By *rm_navMan
6 weeks ago

WATFORD

Here we go again. Sigh.

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By *awihMan
6 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Here we go again. Sigh. "

Well perhaps if your fellow “Bi’s” exercised better self control and judgement we wouldn’t keep on having the same issue come up!

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By *owzerMan
6 weeks ago

Chester.....

🩷 Maybe they could change the colour scheme to something pink 🩷

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By *hilmeMan
6 weeks ago

Bournemouth

It's for gay and bi ,get over yourself

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By *autiously_curiousMan
6 weeks ago

Craigavon

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By *hilmeMan
6 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Absolutely right and there's also a lot of guys saying they are straight they need to get over themselves as well

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By *autiously_curiousMan
6 weeks ago

Craigavon

Don't thinknit ever was, was it? They offer bi and bi-curious options. Then again load of delusional members saying they're straight makes orientation a bit pointless!

Used to be relaly annoyed about posts form guys complaining about bi guys talking about women, but I do think its gona too fsr at this point. And a lot if it verges on mysogenistic.

I guess its a case of read what uou like and skip the rest. The mods will remove it if it breaches rules. The fact the threads stay active prob means its accepted by the crestors?

Either way, horses for courses. Scroll on and find what you like

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By *autiously_curiousMan
6 weeks ago

Craigavon

Oh and Swingers is crap. The forum is voring, and everyrhing seem to be run by the "Regulars" and their cliques.

Here is mich more fun!

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By *autiously_curiousMan
6 weeks ago

Craigavon

This site really needs an auto correct feature for moblie users!

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By *hisMeMan
6 weeks ago

Forfar, Angus

"Absolutely right and there's also a lot of guys saying they are straight they need to get over themselves as well

Surely they want another man to get over them...

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By *treyu500Man
6 weeks ago

wickow

"Don't thinknit ever was, was it? They offer bi and bi-curious options. Then again load of delusional members saying they're straight makes orientation a bit pointless!

Used to be relaly annoyed about posts form guys complaining about bi guys talking about women, but I do think its gona too fsr at this point. And a lot if it verges on mysogenistic.

I guess its a case of read what uou like and skip the rest. The mods will remove it if it breaches rules. The fact the threads stay active prob means its accepted by the crestors?

Either way, horses for courses. Scroll on and find what you like

It's a gay website. The words gay are plastered all over the front page. Whether we are bi or otherwise. It is a literal fact that those words are why we were first attracted to the website.

We are here for the literal absence of women....

I do have a problem with the women talk and I always will. The simple solution being that it should have its own category in the forums.

The reason I have an issue with smattering of women talk is because as a bi man myself - I can literally have conversations about women with anyone and certainly any make friend. I went out for Xmas drinks the other day with a bunch of old friends. There was a lot of men and women in their early 20s out for the 12 pubs of Christmas (pubcrawl). The lads were commenting on the women and I could join in.

However, I couldn't talk to anyone about the twink sitting in the corner giving me eyes. He followed me into the toilet and was very flirty at the urinal - putting everything on show.

I had to keep that to myself. Except, on here I can air those thoughts. It's a gay space whether we are bi or not. And it is disrespectful to the space to incessantly talk about women. I would just like it to have it's own space on here (the women talk) . I'm not saying it's not welcome.

Also, I have the feeling a lot of guys talk about their wife's to reduce the guilt they feel about the gay sex they have. Just a theory lol.

That's right guys. 2 men fucking is gay sex , whether you're bi or "straight". It's gay. It's still a gay website. You're a member of a gay website and so am I.

Happy Christmas 🎄🎁

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By *autiously_curiousMan
6 weeks ago

Craigavon

Glad you got that off your chest buddy.

Merry Christmas

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By *abguysOfficialMan
Forum Mod
6 weeks ago

Nearby

It is a mens site so stories of women / wives etc shouldn't be on here. I know some think moderation should be perfect but mods are not logged in 24/7 nor reading every thread when logged in so if you see any threads that you think breaks rules report them please and I will delete if needed.

Mike

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