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By *peaktome OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Lyne

I think someone is following me on Fabguys having created a false identity. Is there any way of tracking him or her down

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By *amanthaCDTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Estepona Spain Not in

For someone to be stalking you then they must be messaging you or liking your photos. So just report username to admin.

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By *lue555Man
3 weeks ago

harrow

Stalking how give some details?

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By *ewBrumBiMan
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

Are you expecting the Fab guys admin to have some sort of Enemy of the State -esque satellite to locate them?

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By *amantha111TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Beeston

Take it as a compliment, lifes too awesome to worry about people's minds, just thought phase them out of existence and carry on, you're obviously doing something right for energy wraiths to want to suck you dry. Stay cool as a cucumber

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

If it makes you uncomfortable Block them. Stalking can escalate quickly and you must not engage. Its unlikely FG will be able to do anything unless police become involved. Stalking is often not taken seriously by the victim until it is dangerous- i didn't, and my stalker went far enough to end up in prison. Take it seriously

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By *tnbulgesMan
3 weeks ago

Brighton station


"I think someone is following me on Fabguys having created a false identity. Is there any way of tracking him or her down"

Maybe it's your wife

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx


"I think someone is following me on Fabguys having created a false identity. Is there any way of tracking him or her down"

It all sounds very exciting.

“I think someone is following me on Fabguys“… well, you either know you are being stalked or you don’t. Which is it? You can’t “think” someone is stalking you… If you are (i) getting repeat messages or (ii) someone keeps repeatedly appearing in your tracks or (iii) keeps liking your pictures - and it all feels suspicious or malign in some way a] block them, b] report them to Fab moderators. If they are not doing (i) to (iii) above, how do you think you are being stalker..?

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By *londebiguyMan
3 weeks ago

near Southport

They will do absolutely nothing about it at all

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By *obbie300Man
3 weeks ago

BANGOR Co Down

A bit baffled,how can somebody stalk you on fabguys?

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By *ucker4you80Man
3 weeks ago

Chippenham

Like the other guy said, it's probably your Mrs. Whatever happened with that anyway?

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By *ewBrumBiMan
3 weeks ago

Birmingham

If repeat messages and picture likes equates to stalking, I must have a whole gang following me...

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By *lackbootzMan
3 weeks ago

Hayes, Middx


"If repeat messages and picture likes equates to stalking, I must have a whole gang following me..."

Is his wife stalking you too?!

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
3 weeks ago

Bargoed

Not stalking as such,but did have a guy keep messaging me on a daily basis, just one or two messages, then his profile would dissappear the same day. Next day, new profile , similar name and again half a dozen or so messages. Was getting frustrating, so set my profile so that newbies couldn't contact me.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

As above. One guy kept messaging me, setting up meets then cancelling. Happened under about 4 usernames over two weeks. Changed my privacy setting to only allow contact from guys within my age preference

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
3 weeks ago

Bargoed


"As above. One guy kept messaging me, setting up meets then cancelling. Happened under about 4 usernames over two weeks. Changed my privacy setting to only allow contact from guys within my age preference "

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By *arly-C-STV/TS
3 weeks ago

Doncaster


"I think someone is following me on Fabguys having created a false identity. Is there any way of tracking him or her down"

If you're that concerned block them, report to admin, set profile to stop likes on pics, infact remove your pics, set to not accept messages from new accounts,set age preferences, dullafy you profile and be miserable because no one shows interest, or accept the facts that random strangers on a on line hook up site will look at your profile like pics and message you.

Stalking issue sorted

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By *lue555Man
3 weeks ago

harrow

Strange how not one detail of what the stalking involved also the way he used the word think.

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By *arly-C-STV/TS
3 weeks ago

Doncaster


"Strange how not one detail of what the stalking involved also the way he used the word think. "

'I think,therefore I am'

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By *vonneTV/TS
1 week ago

Pleasley

I'm fairly certain a work colleague is stalking me, very specific innuendos he drops out in the workplace referencing my private life, which is only detailed on this site, lead to no other explanation.

I do genuinely think he's retarded, not least because I'm free, single and able to do what I like whilst he's a married man with a family who would have to explain what he's doing, not only viewing a gay/transgendered website but also registering as a user and going over various hurdles in order to view my profile in the first place.

That's more than casual curiosity.

For a bit of fun I now edit my profile to leave him messages, pointing out these facts and pushing back at him, and he's gone very quiet.

For what it's worth in my opinion, stalkers are very cowardly and fragile, creepy little daddy's.

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By *vonneTV/TS
1 week ago

Pleasley

Sorry...

Spell checker changed 'saddo's' to daddy's!

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By *erscumdumpMan
1 week ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"I'm fairly certain a work colleague is stalking me, very specific innuendos he drops out in the workplace referencing my private life, which is only detailed on this site, lead to no other explanation.

I do genuinely think he's retarded, not least because I'm free, single and able to do what I like whilst he's a married man with a family who would have to explain what he's doing, not only viewing a gay/transgendered website but also registering as a user and going over various hurdles in order to view my profile in the first place.

That's more than casual curiosity.

For a bit of fun I now edit my profile to leave him messages, pointing out these facts and pushing back at him, and he's gone very quiet.

For what it's worth in my opinion, stalkers are very cowardly and fragile, creepy little daddy's."

Best thing you can do is totally ignore them, and not feed them with stuff on your profile. Stalking can go sideways fast. If hes being inappropriate at work report it to HR.

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By *astyBottomMan
1 week ago

Crewe

If you know the profile then just block them. I've had it where the same guy keeps making different profiles and asking me to meet him, even though I've said no countless times. I block, he creates new profile, I block and on it goes. Admin won't do a thing about it. Only the police could, but likely won't

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
7 days ago

Bargoed


"If you know the profile then just block them. I've had it where the same guy keeps making different profiles and asking me to meet him, even though I've said no countless times. I block, he creates new profile, I block and on it goes. Admin won't do a thing about it. Only the police could, but likely won't "

Change your settings so that -Newbies- can't contact you

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By *rytonTV/TS
7 days ago

Chatham

I get a repeated stalker, when we chatted he found a true gent. When we met it wasn't the greatest meet so blocked them. Since then they keep inventing new profiles and pictures. Its only when I ask roughly where there live the penny drops. And block them.

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By *ojanglesMan
6 days ago

mk41

Yes there’s ways of finding out who they are and where they are it’s painstaking a chore but it’s easily accessible if you know where to look for them inbox me and I will help you with it if it’s bothering you that much and it doesn’t cost you anything either

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By *ojanglesMan
6 days ago

mk41

Police will not get involved with this matter unless fraudulent evidence is presented to them and even then you have to go through community guidelines first it’s incredibly difficult to get anyone prosecuted without detailed information

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By *ojanglesMan
6 days ago

mk41


"I think someone is following me on Fabguys having created a false identity. Is there any way of tracking him or her down"
yes definitely

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By *ojanglesMan
6 days ago

mk41


"I'm fairly certain a work colleague is stalking me, very specific innuendos he drops out in the workplace referencing my private life, which is only detailed on this site, lead to no other explanation.

I do genuinely think he's retarded, not least because I'm free, single and able to do what I like whilst he's a married man with a family who would have to explain what he's doing, not only viewing a gay/transgendered website but also registering as a user and going over various hurdles in order to view my profile in the first place.

That's more than casual curiosity.

For a bit of fun I now edit my profile to leave him messages, pointing out these facts and pushing back at him, and he's gone very quiet.

For what it's worth in my opinion, stalkers are very cowardly and fragile, creepy little daddy's."
the easiest way to detect him is use a random word that you normally wouldn’t use something completely random and see if he uses the word or phrase then you will know exactly what you’re dealing with don’t let him know that you know and reverse the role he will get spooked by you as soon as he knows you’re not accepting this

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By *lackbootzMan
5 days ago

Hayes, Middx


"I'm fairly certain a work colleague is stalking me, very specific innuendos he drops out in the workplace referencing my private life, which is only detailed on this site, lead to no other explanation.

I do genuinely think he's retarded, not least because I'm free, single and able to do what I like whilst he's a married man with a family who would have to explain what he's doing, not only viewing a gay/transgendered website but also registering as a user and going over various hurdles in order to view my profile in the first place.

That's more than casual curiosity.

For a bit of fun I now edit my profile to leave him messages, pointing out these facts and pushing back at him, and he's gone very quiet.

For what it's worth in my opinion, stalkers are very cowardly and fragile, creepy little daddy's.

the easiest way to detect him is use a random word that you normally wouldn’t use something completely random and see if he uses the word or phrase then you will know exactly what you’re dealing with don’t let him know that you know and reverse the role he will get spooked by you as soon as he knows you’re not accepting this "

Editing profiles to leave messages for a potential stalker..?! Using random words as a trigger test to see if a potential stalker starts using them..?! This is, literally, mental behaviour. If you’re really stupid enough to start doing this = Stalker 1, Victim 0. You’ve allowed someone else to dictate your actions and make you do weird things you wouldn’t otherwise be doing.

1] Just ignore people of whom you are suspicious, including online profiles, and get on living your own life. It’s honestly as simple as that.

2] If you can’t ignore, because some boundary has clearly been crossed and you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, block the profile. Report the details. That’s all been explained above.

3] If you have concerns that after someone was blocked they may be trying to create new profiles, use the facilities here to block new profiles contacting you for a period. That’s also all been explained above.

4] Do not, as I rather fear some contributors in the above have done, get so caught up that you start playing a leading role in your own drama.

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By *erscumdumpMan
5 days ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

👏 👏 👏

People aren't realising just how dangerous a potential stalker situation can become. It all might seem like fun and games, and there may be feelings of need to revenge, but engaging with someone who might be a stalker in any way is literally the worst thing you can do.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
5 days ago

Bargoed


"I'm fairly certain a work colleague is stalking me, very specific innuendos he drops out in the workplace referencing my private life, which is only detailed on this site, lead to no other explanation.

I do genuinely think he's retarded, not least because I'm free, single and able to do what I like whilst he's a married man with a family who would have to explain what he's doing, not only viewing a gay/transgendered website but also registering as a user and going over various hurdles in order to view my profile in the first place.

That's more than casual curiosity.

For a bit of fun I now edit my profile to leave him messages, pointing out these facts and pushing back at him, and he's gone very quiet.

For what it's worth in my opinion, stalkers are very cowardly and fragile, creepy little daddy's.

the easiest way to detect him is use a random word that you normally wouldn’t use something completely random and see if he uses the word or phrase then you will know exactly what you’re dealing with don’t let him know that you know and reverse the role he will get spooked by you as soon as he knows you’re not accepting this

Editing profiles to leave messages for a potential stalker..?! Using random words as a trigger test to see if a potential stalker starts using them..?! This is, literally, mental behaviour. If you’re really stupid enough to start doing this = Stalker 1, Victim 0. You’ve allowed someone else to dictate your actions and make you do weird things you wouldn’t otherwise be doing.

1] Just ignore people of whom you are suspicious, including online profiles, and get on living your own life. It’s honestly as simple as that.

2] If you can’t ignore, because some boundary has clearly been crossed and you feel uncomfortable or unsafe, block the profile. Report the details. That’s all been explained above.

3] If you have concerns that after someone was blocked they may be trying to create new profiles, use the facilities here to block new profiles contacting you for a period. That’s also all been explained above.

4] Do not, as I rather fear some contributors in the above have done, get so caught up that you start playing a leading role in your own drama.

"

Well said 👏 👌

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By *lue555Man
5 days ago

harrow

There a line in a jamiroqui song the parnoia will destroy ya.

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