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"Nice idea, but no way to realistically enforce this without it being abusable. I've had people call me a timewaster because I rejected them after they messaged me first out of the blue. Would it be fair for them to then give me the mark of shame? I don't think so." Yeah, it would be open to abuse, I too have been called a timewaster for simply telling a guy I'm not interested or for not being able to drop everything and "meet now" some guys on here seem to think that responding to their message = a meet. | |||
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"Nice idea, but no way to realistically enforce this without it being abusable. I've had people call me a timewaster because I rejected them after they messaged me first out of the blue. Would it be fair for them to then give me the mark of shame? I don't think so. Yeah, it would be open to abuse, I too have been called a timewaster for simply telling a guy I'm not interested or for not being able to drop everything and "meet now" some guys on here seem to think that responding to their message = a meet." Exactly. Some guys go further than that even, and think you being active on the site means you're actively looking RIGHT NOW. Uh... no, I'm just browsing lmao. | |||
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" Yeah, it would be open to abuse, I too have been called a timewaster for simply telling a guy I'm not interested or for not being able to drop everything and "meet now" some guys on here seem to think that responding to their message = a meet. Exactly. Some guys go further than that even, and think you being active on the site means you're actively looking RIGHT NOW. Uh... no, I'm just browsing lmao." Yeah like the guys that message you at 3am then through their toys out of the pram when they don't get a reply. | |||
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" Yeah, it would be open to abuse, I too have been called a timewaster for simply telling a guy I'm not interested or for not being able to drop everything and "meet now" some guys on here seem to think that responding to their message = a meet. Exactly. Some guys go further than that even, and think you being active on the site means you're actively looking RIGHT NOW. Uh... no, I'm just browsing lmao. Yeah like the guys that message you at 3am then through their toys out of the pram when they don't get a reply." I've been fortunate not to have 3am messages yet, guess I have that to look forward to. | |||
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"Nice idea, but no way to realistically enforce this without it being abusable." A member's verifications are a good way of checking whether or not he actually turns up for meetings, that is what they are for. They wouldn't have them if they didn't turn up. I seldom start a conversation, the first thing I do when I receive a message is check to see if the sender has got any veris, they're also a good way of seeing if he does what I want doing.  | |||
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"Great if we could have something to show any time wasters who don't show up to meets without legitimate reason. So many cancel night before or worse the hour before or even worse no communication at all Like the uber score system.. Tired of no shows " the only way to warn others of possible time wasters is to follow procedure and contact admin and report them and for admin then check messages each way then admin name them as possible time wasters when the said guy messages others,, and we all know admin on here will never do it...so the time wasters have free range to play till their hearts content,,,  | |||
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" Yeah like the guys that message you at 3am then through their toys out of the pram when they don't get a reply." Edit. Throw their toys out of pram, not sure what happened there  | |||
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