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"I have never been whipped, but would like to try it at least once. A punishment session without the cane, as far as I am concerned isn't a punishment session. " I agree ![]() | |||
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"I had a video of a very good top introducing a guy to a bull whip. Most of the strokes only just met with his back then the occasional one were full on. It may sound odd but it was very caring although it ended with the bottom shouting in pain. A real expert." There’s a lot of skill in it A mistress I see was teaching me we took turns on a slave Every strike of hers was perfect with the noise to match I put it around his head a few times luckily he was wearing a leather hood x | |||
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"Floggers and paddles are awesome used properly and the "afterglow sensation " allowed to develop properly The sharp type pain from cains etc just goes directly to pain with me. "Do not pass horny pleasure, go directly to not having fun" lol " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If doms are "dishing out" the subs won't have a choice." I would hope for a paddle on my bum cheeks and the cane on my anus but if course I would be grateful if whatever is given. | |||
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"Interested to find out what peoples preference are from doms dishing out and subs taking Personally i think hard whips are a bit extreme and prefere the flogger" All of the above please ![]() | |||
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"Call me boring, but I've never personally seen the appeal of BDSM. I never judge anyone by what they're into and I'm not saying I would never take part in it, I'm just saying I don't get how people can be turned on by being hurt. I've watched bondage porn, don't get me wrong, but maybe it's just a subjective thing." X endorphins X They can be a huge rush X | |||
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"The general principle is start mild and gradually build up the intensity with breaks in between. That helps increase the threshold at which, for most people, please and pain mingle and become the same. Go to far too quickly and you go straight into pain. Nobody enjoys real pain, whatever they say. So the dom top will take his time over a number of sessions increasing and increasing his subs threshold. Eventually, to others, they become pain pigs. There is another reason why a good S&M top never wades in full strength and just inflict pure pain. When your sub enjoy what most would probably find painful, you keep something in reserve for real immediate punishment if they do something really really stupid. They won't do it again " Excellent advice which is similar to what I was going to write. A good top gradually builds up the intensity with hand then various implements such as slipper hairbrush strap belt tawse leather and wooden paddles canes and birch. Too many so called tips/master have no clue how to do this properly and go hell for leather straight off which causes ultimate pain and causes the subs mind and ass to shut down and therefore to Dom master has ruined the session and brought it to an abrupt end. | |||
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"The cane needs a worn, ragged tip. Ideal for dragging down the sub's back and his deep arse-crack and over the rose-bud, lingering for a moment to remind the sub what's cumming. In a second, or a minute, or...." Worn and ragged cane tips are dangerous and likely to cause cutting which ruins sessions. Too many tops do not look after their canes and punishment implements and therefore cause avoidable damage to the skin. It's great to see cane stripes but cuts caused by broken and damaged implements is irresponsible and cuts can cause infection. | |||
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"If doms are "dishing out" the subs won't have a choice." Agreed totally. Never my choice, end result is the same; Don is satisfied therefore so am I. | |||
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"If doms are "dishing out" the subs won't have a choice." Agreed totally. Never my choice, end result is the same; Domis satisfied therefore so am I. | |||
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"If doms are "dishing out" the subs won't have a choice." Agreed totally. Never my choice, end result is the same; Dom is satisfied therefore so am I. | |||
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"Depends who we are spanking. If a begginer would start with the rubber paddle. Gradually progress to riding crop then canes. For experienced guys we can go straight to the tool of their choice and as hard as they want " The rubber paddle for a beginner!? ![]() | |||
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"Interested to find out what peoples preference are from doms dishing out and subs taking Personally i think hard whips are a bit extreme and prefere the flogger" paddles thick leather ones work well ![]() | |||
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"Depends who we are spanking. If a begginer would start with the rubber paddle. Gradually progress to riding crop then canes. For experienced guys we can go straight to the tool of their choice and as hard as they want The rubber paddle for a beginner!? ![]() totally agree rubber really is for more experienced | |||
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"Floggers and a single tail I have ' enjoyed ' both . Canes not so much but when told you have to have it ! " very true sir is always right lol | |||
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"My choice is a cane, a flogger doesnt do it for me, and a paddle is a bit meh. A whip though I have yet to try and cant wait. Looking for someone with a whip to try it." try a thick leather paddle ive never failed with one but has to be thick not e bay cheap crap ![]() | |||
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"The cane needs a worn, ragged tip. Ideal for dragging down the sub's back and his deep arse-crack and over the rose-bud, lingering for a moment to remind the sub what's cumming. In a second, or a minute, or.... Worn and ragged cane tips are dangerous and likely to cause cutting which ruins sessions. Too many tops do not look after their canes and punishment implements and therefore cause avoidable damage to the skin. It's great to see cane stripes but cuts caused by broken and damaged implements is irresponsible and cuts can cause infection." so true with a senior cane costing 35 40 pound more care should be taken of them ![]() | |||
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"My choice is a cane, a flogger doesnt do it for me, and a paddle is a bit meh. A whip though I have yet to try and cant wait. Looking for someone with a whip to try it. try a thick leather paddle ive never failed with one but has to be thick not e bay cheap crap ![]() Hmmm... thanks, something to consider. Most paddles used on me were wooden. But a leather one i have yet to try. It's a good thing I do a bit of leathercrafting on the side hehe | |||
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"My choice is a cane, a flogger doesnt do it for me, and a paddle is a bit meh. A whip though I have yet to try and cant wait. Looking for someone with a whip to try it. try a thick leather paddle ive never failed with one but has to be thick not e bay cheap crap ![]() I love the leather implements, but always finish with a severe caning. ![]() | |||
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"Skillful hands or well weilded paddle for me. Still working on my levels. Was recently caned by someone who knew exactly what he was doing and while there were tears in my eyes the pain was the right side of manageable to be enjoyable. Took a few days to be able to sit comfortably though. " pmsl | |||
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"For me it finishes with the cane. Starts with hand, wooden hairbrush to warm me up (sub-space being the goal but normally only reached after 6-10 cane strokes, then it’s whatever he wants short of breaking the skin. The pause and careful placement of strokes lengthens the duration and quantity. 2 or 3 in the same place can ruin it. I have cum hands free from the pain and occasionally ge will let me stand and wank until I am close then I get bent over for another dozen before I can cum; he knows all the signs well enough to stop me!" I love a punisher who has good aim and knows how to read a bottom, when to push and when to slow down. | |||
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"Interested to find out what peoples preference are from doms dishing out and subs taking Personally i think hard whips are a bit extreme and prefere the flogger" Cane for me after a Spanking to get my bottom hot | |||
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"I made myself a couple of "Loopy Johnny's". Still not found anyone to test them out on me or me on them. All I know is, with just a light self inflicted stroke on the backside or inner thigh, they sting like hell. I would need to be tied and bound for anyone to try them properly on me as I would be begging for mercy after one stroke." Had to look that one up! Hmm, most interesting! Made me very stiff just reading. | |||
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"Call me boring, but I've never personally seen the appeal of BDSM. I never judge anyone by what they're into and I'm not saying I would never take part in it, I'm just saying I don't get how people can be turned on by being hurt. I've watched bondage porn, don't get me wrong, but maybe it's just a subjective thing." I'm similar. I've seen a guy on and off who loves to humiliate me. He routinely hand spanks me at the start of the session, and he says I like it. I hate pain ,and it scares me. It I admit when hes dragging me around by my balls and making me strip, I'm running into a very submissive place, where I want to please him and want his approval. I'm not sure if he likes spanking me, or knowing he can, but by the time he's doing it I'm scared vulnerable and thinking about the sex that comes next, and he's right provided he doesn't hurt too much I'm horny ... He used a belt once and that hurt more, I can't say it made me hornier, I think the fact that he clearly wanted to use it on my balls but knew I couldn't take that made me too scared, I really didn't like it, but the temptation of really hurting me was a massive turn on for him. So I don't think it's the implement so much as the mind play. The pain is different with each but what gets us to seek it or want to give it has more complex roots than the type of pain? | |||
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