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By *onnyd26 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mitcham

Interested to find out what peoples preference are from doms dishing out and subs taking

Personally i think hard whips are a bit extreme and prefere the flogger

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By *obbi_sutherlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Ardgay

You forgot riding crop.

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By *loggistMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Paddle and cane for me.

What’s a flogger?

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By *ll foxMan
over a year ago

WORKSOP

I don’t mind any!

As long as a Dom Top is assertive with the punishment!

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By *teste1Man
over a year ago

Blyton

The cane for me.

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By *imale4funMan
over a year ago

North Essex

Canes and flogger for me. Love deep red stripes on my ass

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By *addy7x6Man
over a year ago

High Wycombe

If doms are "dishing out" the subs won't have a choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A flogger is similar but not quite the same as a whip. It looks more like a cat-o-nine tails except with a couple of crucial differences.

First the leather "tails" are generally made of comparatively wide strips of very soft leather. It also has nothing on the end of each strt. Where as the "cat" uses much thinner tails of harder leather with a knot or even stud at the end - both designed to rip flesh off sailor's backs.

There is also a technique to using it....

As for impliments, it depends how you feel what I normally describe as dull sharp sensations.

Thin implements generally give a sharp stinging sensation - riding crops, canes etc.

Paddles, width belts and hands give a duller sensation, depending upon how they are used.

And there are also techniques of how to use those properly.

When I was "being trained" the S&M top teaching started of by saying "it isn't about inflicting pain". It is the controlled application of precise level of sensation.

Which he would usually round of with "any idiot can inflict pain". Some skilled in S&M can know how to cause a very serious, possibly life threatening injury and you would barely feel it. Or cause excruciating agony and not leave a mark

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By *panking123Man
over a year ago

Carmarthen

I have never been whipped, but would like to try it at least once.

A punishment session without the cane, as far as I am concerned isn't a punishment session.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port


"I have never been whipped, but would like to try it at least once.

A punishment session without the cane, as far as I am concerned isn't a punishment session. "

I agree

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By *mooth FuntimeMan
over a year ago

Oxford

I usually take the can also sharp slapping is good

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By *addy7x6Man
over a year ago

High Wycombe

The cane needs a worn, ragged tip. Ideal for dragging down the sub's back and his deep arse-crack and over the rose-bud, lingering for a moment to remind the sub what's cumming. In a second, or a minute, or....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a beautiful red and black flogger named 'Bo' after Bo Derek.

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By *ikeport1Man
over a year ago

Southport

Cane for me, preferably after a warm up, but I have a fascination with trying a single tailed whip. Probably only the once lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve tried them all but you need a lot of practise using a bullwhip

When you get it right the noise is amazing x

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By *ikeport1Man
over a year ago

Southport

I had a video of a very good top introducing a guy to a bull whip. Most of the strokes only just met with his back then the occasional one were full on. It may sound odd but it was very caring although it ended with the bottom shouting in pain. A real expert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first glance I thought this post was advertising some weird BDSM solicitors partnership

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a video of a very good top introducing a guy to a bull whip. Most of the strokes only just met with his back then the occasional one were full on. It may sound odd but it was very caring although it ended with the bottom shouting in pain. A real expert."

There’s a lot of skill in it

A mistress I see was teaching me we took turns on a slave

Every strike of hers was perfect with the noise to match

I put it around his head a few times luckily he was wearing a leather hood x

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By *annyDanielleMan
over a year ago

Street, Somerset

A firm hand is good enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The general principle is start mild and gradually build up the intensity with breaks in between. That helps increase the threshold at which, for most people, please and pain mingle and become the same. Go to far too quickly and you go straight into pain.

Nobody enjoys real pain, whatever they say. So the dom top will take his time over a number of sessions increasing and increasing his subs threshold. Eventually, to others, they become pain pigs.

There is another reason why a good S&M top never wades in full strength and just inflict pure pain.

When your sub enjoy what most would probably find painful, you keep something in reserve for real immediate punishment if they do something really really stupid.

They won't do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And they absolutely will not enjoy it

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By *lutthroatMan
over a year ago

stoke

I like the flogger and being caged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Floggers and paddles are awesome used properly and the "afterglow sensation " allowed to develop properly

The sharp type pain from cains etc just goes directly to pain with me. "Do not pass horny pleasure, go directly to not having fun" lol

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By *ikeport1Man
over a year ago

Southport

It's odd. I just find that a paddle, wooden or leather just hurts. Ok if applied not hard as a warm up.

The cane gives me a high if given hard after a warm up. I feel really exhilarated afterwards.

Different people, different pleasures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just everyone is subtlety different in the way they perceive sensation, pain and pleasure. And a good experienced S&M dom top will initially work out what works and what doesn't for each sub without making it a bad experience.

Easily done by lesser people by going too far too soon or just doing what he likes and ignoring whether it works for the sub. He might think he has had a good time, but the I bet the sub never comes back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paddle hand flogger slipper all are lovely when administered properly

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By *ovebigmenMan
over a year ago

Nr you

All of the above

Bring it on, the harder the better

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By *hortmMan
over a year ago

worthing

Have been spanked would be good to be used further

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By *aulbootsMan
over a year ago

sussex

Enjoy a hard flogging but had single tail whips used in me too

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By *erryBramleyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cane or riding crop please x

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By *mooth FuntimeMan
over a year ago

Oxford

A proper exploratory slap nice and Sharp and gentle caning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried all, but nothing has come even remotely close to the damage and pain caused to me by having a replica Roman flagellum. But even that didn't hurt as much as being rubbed with vampire gloves.

I have a very unusual relationship with pain. Out of the standard whips, o prefer the bull whip, it leaves amazing marks.

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By *SFuntimeMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I prefer leather straps belts and tawse, various widths and thickness. Can submit for a few hours being beaten by these. Whereas the cane is a very intense pain that shortens and spoils the experience for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carpet beaters are awesome!

I have tried most things.

Never been bull whipped, I suspect it would leave permanent marks.

It’s the skill of the Dom that Matters

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By *arkh1063Man
over a year ago

north walsham

Never tried but would love to

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By *allguy1959Man
over a year ago

Southsea


"Floggers and paddles are awesome used properly and the "afterglow sensation " allowed to develop properly

The sharp type pain from cains etc just goes directly to pain with me. "Do not pass horny pleasure, go directly to not having fun" lol "

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By *andysomersetTV/TS
over a year ago

Frome

Skillful hands or well weilded paddle for me. Still working on my levels. Was recently caned by someone who knew exactly what he was doing and while there were tears in my eyes the pain was the right side of manageable to be enjoyable. Took a few days to be able to sit comfortably though.

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By *urboted30Man
over a year ago

Hereford

Flogger for me or better still a bunch of fresh nettles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paddle or flogger for play.

Bullwhip and cane for punishment (for obvious reasons!).

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By *ayenneMan
over a year ago

Swindon, Bath, Gloucester, London

Cane for me, every time.

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By *orny-MidsMan
over a year ago

Moray

Flogger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cane for me, every time."

Respect!

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By *hloe TullyTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Flogger x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If doms are "dishing out" the subs won't have a choice."

I would hope for a paddle on my bum cheeks and the cane on my anus but if course I would be grateful if whatever is given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big fan of being spanked OTK with hand and enjoy being given the slipper and belt before pleasuring the spanker

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By *tber7Man
over a year ago

boston

I will administer most types of pain.cane is my absolute favourite; yes, initially can feel like too much pain, but the build to intoxicating endorphin release is, I suggest, what most subs are really addicted to. You don’t get there without actual pain. I like emotional manipulation, too. And I love discussing with the sub beforehand what he will be subjected to. I have spent days, weeks, months, even years in one case getting the sub ready for what he must face.

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By *ungandMan
over a year ago

daveyhulme

I’ve experienced cane riding crop flogger and a paddle. I’ve never been sure about a whip although seen one in action.

Spanking is my favourite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ilove a good leather belt or flogger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me boring, but I've never personally seen the appeal of BDSM. I never judge anyone by what they're into and I'm not saying I would never take part in it, I'm just saying I don't get how people can be turned on by being hurt. I've watched bondage porn, don't get me wrong, but maybe it's just a subjective thing.

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By *anchester_subMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Interested to find out what peoples preference are from doms dishing out and subs taking

Personally i think hard whips are a bit extreme and prefere the flogger"

All of the above please

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By *heffS6TV/TS
over a year ago

sheffield


"Call me boring, but I've never personally seen the appeal of BDSM. I never judge anyone by what they're into and I'm not saying I would never take part in it, I'm just saying I don't get how people can be turned on by being hurt. I've watched bondage porn, don't get me wrong, but maybe it's just a subjective thing."

X endorphins X They can be a huge rush X

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By *endyinascarfTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Leather belts, wooden paddles, leather flogger, and riding crop ,and someone who knows how to use them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The general principle is start mild and gradually build up the intensity with breaks in between. That helps increase the threshold at which, for most people, please and pain mingle and become the same. Go to far too quickly and you go straight into pain.

Nobody enjoys real pain, whatever they say. So the dom top will take his time over a number of sessions increasing and increasing his subs threshold. Eventually, to others, they become pain pigs.

There is another reason why a good S&M top never wades in full strength and just inflict pure pain.

When your sub enjoy what most would probably find painful, you keep something in reserve for real immediate punishment if they do something really really stupid.

They won't do it again "

Excellent advice which is similar to what I was going to write.

A good top gradually builds up the intensity with hand then various implements such as slipper hairbrush strap belt tawse leather and wooden paddles canes and birch.

Too many so called tips/master have no clue how to do this properly and go hell for leather straight off which causes ultimate pain and causes the subs mind and ass to shut down and therefore to Dom master has ruined the session and brought it to an abrupt end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cane needs a worn, ragged tip. Ideal for dragging down the sub's back and his deep arse-crack and over the rose-bud, lingering for a moment to remind the sub what's cumming. In a second, or a minute, or...."

Worn and ragged cane tips are dangerous and likely to cause cutting which ruins sessions.

Too many tops do not look after their canes and punishment implements and therefore cause avoidable damage to the skin. It's great to see cane stripes but cuts caused by broken and damaged implements is irresponsible and cuts can cause infection.

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By *pankMeInDublinMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I personally love the belt, strap, tawse, flogger and the cane.

Not a fan of rubber or wooden paddles, not because of the pain, but because of the skin and deep tissue damage, the blood vessels damage is too much sometimes, although I wouldn't refuse being punished with them !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bullwhip every time. It damages like no other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've taken 10 of the best from a cane a leather belt and a paddle and they all had different feels tho now I like to dish it out more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to be punished by a cane

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By *atexsub2002Man
over a year ago

suffolk coastal area near Woodbridge

Flogger,

Riding crop

Belt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flogger, cane, paddle, whip etc. all good but a dressage whip (long thin riding whip) best of all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If doms are "dishing out" the subs won't have a choice."

Agreed totally. Never my choice, end result is the same; Don is satisfied therefore so am I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If doms are "dishing out" the subs won't have a choice."

Agreed totally. Never my choice, end result is the same; Domis satisfied therefore so am I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If doms are "dishing out" the subs won't have a choice."

Agreed totally. Never my choice, end result is the same; Dom is satisfied therefore so am I.

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By *avinaNWTV/TS
over a year ago

Thornton-Cleveleys

The cane for me it’s the ultimate in my eyes...leave some lovely vivid red stripes across a well caned ass x

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By *oaby1960Man
over a year ago

PAISLEY/Glasgow.

My usual routine is hand spanking.. nylon whip. Then wooden paddle. If sub is in good place some strokes of the cable.. then the dreaded dragon stick for some claret . Have vids.

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By *aulbootsMan
over a year ago

sussex

Floggers and a single tail I have ' enjoyed ' both . Canes not so much but when told you have to have it !

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By *cottishmastersCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I prefer a bare hand or a slipper - which is what my Boi is going Roget. The question is how many?!?

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By *anoverianMan
over a year ago

Brighton

I like a session to end with a caning. Stinging or firm so I can take a lot. After I've cum I like to bend back over for a couple more sets of six.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who we are spanking. If a begginer would start with the rubber paddle. Gradually progress to riding crop then canes. For experienced guys we can go straight to the tool of their choice and as hard as they want

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By *ndyBristolMan
over a year ago

Keynsham

Although I have been spanked before, it was a very long time ago so I think you may have to start with the paddle.

I also think you may have to tie me as I will struggle with the pain.

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By *pankMeInDublinMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Depends who we are spanking. If a begginer would start with the rubber paddle. Gradually progress to riding crop then canes. For experienced guys we can go straight to the tool of their choice and as hard as they want "

The rubber paddle for a beginner!?

During the last punishment from early December, the rubber paddle did most of the "damage" and I am not a beginner and I can take some punishment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paddle

Gymshoe

And

Belt

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By *pankMeInDublinMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Anyone craving a good ass punishment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested to find out what peoples preference are from doms dishing out and subs taking

Personally i think hard whips are a bit extreme and prefere the flogger"

paddles thick leather ones work well

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By *rcadMan
over a year ago

Ashtown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends who we are spanking. If a begginer would start with the rubber paddle. Gradually progress to riding crop then canes. For experienced guys we can go straight to the tool of their choice and as hard as they want

The rubber paddle for a beginner!?

During the last punishment from early December, the rubber paddle did most of the "damage" and I am not a beginner and I can take some punishment."

totally agree rubber really is for more experienced

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By *rcadMan
over a year ago

Ashtown

My choice is a cane, a flogger doesnt do it for me, and a paddle is a bit meh. A whip though I have yet to try and cant wait. Looking for someone with a whip to try it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Floggers and a single tail I have ' enjoyed ' both . Canes not so much but when told you have to have it ! "
very true sir is always right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My choice is a cane, a flogger doesnt do it for me, and a paddle is a bit meh. A whip though I have yet to try and cant wait. Looking for someone with a whip to try it."
try a thick leather paddle ive never failed with one but has to be thick not e bay cheap crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cane needs a worn, ragged tip. Ideal for dragging down the sub's back and his deep arse-crack and over the rose-bud, lingering for a moment to remind the sub what's cumming. In a second, or a minute, or....

Worn and ragged cane tips are dangerous and likely to cause cutting which ruins sessions.

Too many tops do not look after their canes and punishment implements and therefore cause avoidable damage to the skin. It's great to see cane stripes but cuts caused by broken and damaged implements is irresponsible and cuts can cause infection."

so true with a senior cane costing 35 40 pound more care should be taken of them

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By *rcadMan
over a year ago

Ashtown


"My choice is a cane, a flogger doesnt do it for me, and a paddle is a bit meh. A whip though I have yet to try and cant wait. Looking for someone with a whip to try it. try a thick leather paddle ive never failed with one but has to be thick not e bay cheap crap "

Hmmm... thanks, something to consider. Most paddles used on me were wooden. But a leather one i have yet to try. It's a good thing I do a bit of leathercrafting on the side hehe

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By *pankMeInDublinMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"My choice is a cane, a flogger doesnt do it for me, and a paddle is a bit meh. A whip though I have yet to try and cant wait. Looking for someone with a whip to try it. try a thick leather paddle ive never failed with one but has to be thick not e bay cheap crap

Hmmm... thanks, something to consider. Most paddles used on me were wooden. But a leather one i have yet to try. It's a good thing I do a bit of leathercrafting on the side hehe"

I love the leather implements, but always finish with a severe caning.

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
over a year ago

Heathrow


"Skillful hands or well weilded paddle for me. Still working on my levels. Was recently caned by someone who knew exactly what he was doing and while there were tears in my eyes the pain was the right side of manageable to be enjoyable. Took a few days to be able to sit comfortably though. "
pmsl

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By *luttysissy666Man
over a year ago

Blackpool

Ive had the cane, a leather belt, leather paddle and the ridibg crop. All hurt but wasvery erotic!

I think the riding crop was best for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it finishes with the cane. Starts with hand, wooden hairbrush to warm me up (sub-space being the goal but normally only reached after 6-10 cane strokes, then it’s whatever he wants short of breaking the skin. The pause and careful placement of strokes lengthens the duration and quantity. 2 or 3 in the same place can ruin it. I have cum hands free from the pain and occasionally ge will let me stand and wank until I am close then I get bent over for another dozen before I can cum; he knows all the signs well enough to stop me!

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By *igerwaMan
over a year ago

Cockermouth

I have a flogger with leather tails I enjoy beating guys with it aside from anything it is good exercise

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By *pankMeInDublinMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"For me it finishes with the cane. Starts with hand, wooden hairbrush to warm me up (sub-space being the goal but normally only reached after 6-10 cane strokes, then it’s whatever he wants short of breaking the skin. The pause and careful placement of strokes lengthens the duration and quantity. 2 or 3 in the same place can ruin it. I have cum hands free from the pain and occasionally ge will let me stand and wank until I am close then I get bent over for another dozen before I can cum; he knows all the signs well enough to stop me!"

I love a punisher who has good aim and knows how to read a bottom, when to push and when to slow down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone needing a red arse near me, just leave me a message..

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strange, in my younger years, I’d find watching a feature film where sailors were flogged a massive turn on . Must admit not given much thought for years until now lol . Think this could be so horny . I may have been missing out. Think I’d enjoy dishing it out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a riding crop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cum from just being spanked with a paddle x

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
over a year ago

Exeter/London

Flogger for me

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By *ack_69erMan
over a year ago

Cottingham

I made myself a couple of "Loopy Johnny's". Still not found anyone to test them out on me or me on them.

All I know is, with just a light self inflicted stroke on the backside or inner thigh, they sting like hell.

I would need to be tied and bound for anyone to try them properly on me as I would be begging for mercy after one stroke.

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By *teste1Man
over a year ago

Blyton


"Interested to find out what peoples preference are from doms dishing out and subs taking

Personally i think hard whips are a bit extreme and prefere the flogger"

Cane for me after a Spanking to get my bottom hot

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By *eteNFKMan
over a year ago

East Anglia

Cane, Paddle and Hand for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made myself a couple of studded paddles.. The punisher and another i named the tickler they are both in my latest pic

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By *andysomersetTV/TS
over a year ago

Frome

I have a paddle and crop, which in addition to being spanked usually have me squealing with pain (and of course pleasure from submitting).

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess Im a bit of a tradionalist. I love the bamboo cane. To be bent over and to hear the swish then to fell its sting across my bum. leaving bright red marks that swell up to leave welts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I made myself a couple of "Loopy Johnny's". Still not found anyone to test them out on me or me on them.

All I know is, with just a light self inflicted stroke on the backside or inner thigh, they sting like hell.

I would need to be tied and bound for anyone to try them properly on me as I would be begging for mercy after one stroke."

Had to look that one up! Hmm, most interesting! Made me very stiff just reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ball whip for me - like a small cat o none tails, suede tails so can be applied softly or hard. My introduction was at the hands of a male masseur who made me bend over the end of his massage couch with my legs apart as he whipped my balls. I shot my load the full length of the couch all over his carpet.

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By *avid64321Man
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Warm up with a paddle followed by a flogger which catches the balls. Always finished off with a caning, sometimes quite severe.

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By *ediumsized2Man
2 days ago

Maidenhead

I'd love to find a capable Dom top to start low and build ut to a propr bull whipping

rarer than hens teeth

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By *issalignedTV/TS
2 days ago

London

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By *issalignedTV/TS
2 days ago

London

Electro stim ?

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By *eanDevizesMan
1 day ago

Devizes

I use a leather paddle and flogger.

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By *ersfredMan
1 day ago

Ct3

Paddle and the flogger for me

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By *endmeoverpleaseMan
1 day ago

nr Bourne lincs

All of them please

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By *d abi1967TV/TS
1 day ago

worksop

I've had the pleasure of them all except bull whip. Hopefully one day

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By *ervyplumberMan
1 day ago

hartlepool

Love paddle on wife

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By *onybluenailsMan
1 day ago

Crawley

Prefer a traditional caning

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By *oni cdMan
1 day ago

Huntingdon

I do so enjoy canning a tightly pantied bottom....don't be shy in asking for a session xxxx

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By *icuriou69Man
1 day ago

blackpool

love to be spanked and caned

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By *ammy57Man
1 day ago

Stevenage


"Call me boring, but I've never personally seen the appeal of BDSM. I never judge anyone by what they're into and I'm not saying I would never take part in it, I'm just saying I don't get how people can be turned on by being hurt. I've watched bondage porn, don't get me wrong, but maybe it's just a subjective thing."

I'm similar. I've seen a guy on and off who loves to humiliate me. He routinely hand spanks me at the start of the session, and he says I like it.

I hate pain ,and it scares me. It I admit when hes dragging me around by my balls and making me strip, I'm running into a very submissive place, where I want to please him and want his approval.

I'm not sure if he likes spanking me, or knowing he can, but by the time he's doing it I'm scared vulnerable and thinking about the sex that comes next, and he's right provided he doesn't hurt too much I'm horny ...

He used a belt once and that hurt more, I can't say it made me hornier, I think the fact that he clearly wanted to use it on my balls but knew I couldn't take that made me too scared, I really didn't like it, but the temptation of really hurting me was a massive turn on for him.

So I don't think it's the implement so much as the mind play. The pain is different with each but what gets us to seek it or want to give it has more complex roots than the type of pain?

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By *uriousExplorer1991Man
1 day ago

Scottish Borders

Cane for me. Id need tied up for the whip

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By *oggy-69TV/TS
1 day ago

Gainsborough

I prefer being punished with the riding crop then the paddle

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By *olly SwallowsTV/TS
1 day ago

Exeter/London

Flogger or paddle for me xx

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By *teve21777Man
5 hours ago

Warrington

Whips cans on my arse back cock stomach

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By *ittlecock321Man
5 hours ago

Southwell

Definitely a riding crop

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By *oodheadRTV/TS
4 hours ago

Higham /Bosworth 15 miles

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By *oodheadRTV/TS
4 hours ago

Higham /Bosworth 15 miles

I've tried them all over the years

But I have a weak spot that if I have too much punishment with say a slipper or paddle mainly it can bleed.

So I mainly take canes, dressage whip, occasionally crop or tawse

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By *iono555Man
4 hours ago

DERBY

Whip on my back. Cane, back stratcher, ruler, paddle, other on the soles of my feet.

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By *arsit1Man
4 hours ago

Lucan

Love using my Horse Crop

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By *ario456Man
4 hours ago

newport

Leather belt to the balls

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By *nchsolentMan
4 hours ago

Fareham

Belt and slipper often used in my younger days

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By *raceywildTV/TS
4 hours ago

London and Spain

Love all forms especially on balls and cock punish me for being a very naughty girl xx

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By *lut55TV/TS
4 hours ago

conwy

Hands or paddle for me. And please don’t neglect to paddle my balls.

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By *onybluenailsMan
4 hours ago

Crawley

Cane or slipper

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By *pankedsubMan
3 hours ago

Gwent

I have had a cane on inner thighs

A leather strap on my hands very painful great though

Thin belt , slipper ,hand on my arse

Hand/ Riding crop on my cock and balls

Riding crop on nipples

A bit different but small spanner on fingers and toes a dull pain not stinger no marks either.

Want to try the leather strap again and want to try a good paddle on my arse.

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By *airybikerMan
3 hours ago

Greenford

Cane or paddle for me

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