FabGuys.com forum: Why are the young guys so stroppy ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have just had abuse thrown at me by a young guy (keyboard warrier),because I could not see him when he wanted ! I said I am working,so he said he would tell everyone I was a time waster,so I reported him as abusive.I would post his name,but I don't think that's aloud,he's the type that wouldn't say it to my face lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's things like that mate that often make me feel that I want to delete my account. Then I think why let the ignorant bastards grind you down?? Stay positive mate, you are worth more!!!

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By *ike919Man
over a year ago

Grimsby

Yea there's a lot of it, my block list is pretty hefty now lol,

Were all here for a good time there's no need for it is there x

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By *redbear2000Man
over a year ago

worcester

It typical youth of the day, it their terms or nothing ...although most get off In Winding guys up and then not replying / not turn up/ block etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness it's not just young guys that are stroppy mate it's also guys around your own age.

I understand and sympathize with you but maybe try using guys in general instead of labeling all young guys as stroppy as we arent all alike.lol

Also not to step on your toes but in a way doing things like posting about how you feel towards something negative is kinda like stropping in another way mate.

Best just ignore guys like that and just forget about them and find someone better and more polite as I'm sure you are doing right now.

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By *aul349Man
over a year ago

North of the Tyne

Everyone is tetchy with this covid shit...

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By *3versMan
over a year ago

glasgow

It's probably a blessing that you didn't meet if he has that attitude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am humbly corrected,it is not all the young,I just seem to attract them,and thank you guys,for showing me that there are lovely people here,I wish you all well ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot but not all of the younger generation have the "I want it now" attitude.

I notice this a lot with my own children.

It's not really their fault, the older folk, me included grew up having to wait for things. Remember going to knock for your mates to see if they were coming out?

Nowadays, thanks to technology everything is instant, well, most things!

They've grown up with this and know no other way unfortunately.

That's my view anyway.

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By *martguyMan
over a year ago

darlington

Just be nice to them, that confuses the ignorant twats

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By *atrickfitzgeraldMan
over a year ago

Paignton

sex is an urge, you don't always feel like it, you're not always ready for it eg shower fresh, sober, dressed and you're not always located where your profile says you are, also they don't necessarily do the things you explicitly require in your write up, they may not even read it, they just want to cum there and then......... so in that persons eyes because you ' think like him' a common misconception eg like minded then because you're on line you're up for sex

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By *dnmartinMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

Agreed that is not JUST young, but there is an attitude.

Got this guy pestering me at the moment. I am not interested, at all. Been nice, been rude, but the guy will not take no for an answer.

But worse are they guys that act like they are doing you a favour when they message you. Limited or no pics, demand for my address. Little conversation. Nah, not that desperate, yet.

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By *atrickfitzgeraldMan
over a year ago

Paignton

"Everyone is tetchy with this covid shit... "
I'm not tetchy ever

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By *ountainMan
over a year ago

ipswich

Yes ,well some of us young people are polite and understanding you know.

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By *martguyMan
over a year ago

darlington

" Yes ,well some of us young people are polite and understanding you know. "

Of course, I've met lovely younger guys on here,

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By *exleypeteMan
over a year ago

bexleyheath

Yes there's a lot of that on here ,cant accept that you may be busy,I like a quick meet, but I need to free ,best block them and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Yes ,well some of us young people are polite and understanding you know. "

Young at heart eh Lulu

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By *ountainMan
over a year ago

ipswich

" Yes ,well some of us young people are polite and understanding you know.

Young at heart eh Lulu

Lol. Im only 210 years old...young for a vampire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Yes ,well some of us young people are polite and understanding you know.

Young at heart eh Lulu

Lol. Im only 210 years old...young for a vampire."

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By *ust looking.Man
over a year ago

clacton.

I've only blocked one person on here as he was rude and pushy,

Sometimes I only come on here to perv and read messages not plan a meet, a man started to message saying he would like to meet now, sometimes I can at short notice, at this time I couldn't, I told him this, he started to get funny, offering money to go and see him, then he messaged saying I can fuck his wife in the arse then him, come now, after a few more messages like that, I blocked him and warned people to stay away, he then deleted his profile,

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By *abjmMan
over a year ago

Woolwich

"I have just had abuse thrown at me by a young guy (keyboard warrier),because I could not see him when he wanted ! I said I am working,so he said he would tell everyone I was a time waster,so I reported him as abusive.I would post his name,but I don't think that's aloud,he's the type that wouldn't say it to my face lol"

It's been said by others on here but not ALL young(er) guys are stroppy but they do have a tendency to be more impatient by wanting instant meets/replies, etc.

Don't take it to heart, they really aren't that important. Ignore, block, be polite - do whatever you feel ok with at the time and move on the the sexy guys who are worth it (like me

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By *ameyCoolMan
over a year ago

West Byfleet. Woking,

I've had the same thing. A young guy messaged me after I said on a thread that I liked younger top guys!

He basically told me that if I was to fucking old to raze it I shouldn't be on here!

And Anyway why would a younger guy want to fuck an old c*** like me?.. Was off here for a couple of weeks after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've experienced some odd requests, been asked questions I've already answered in the profile or have been baffled by those with diametrically opposite interests contacting me... but maybe I'm lucky, nobody has been rude or pushy.

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By *arti G xTV/TS
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Haven't had anyone been rude have to say, have had messages from young guys but to be honest not really into them, mich prefer the mature man,just find they have bit more to talk about,plus they know what to do & how to do it

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By *os001Man
over a year ago

Oxford

"A lot but not all of the younger generation have the "I want it now" attitude.

I notice this a lot with my own children.

It's not really their fault, the older folk, me included grew up having to wait for things. Remember going to knock for your mates to see if they were coming out?

Nowadays, thanks to technology everything is instant, well, most things!

They've grown up with this and know no other way unfortunately.

That's my view anyway.

Agree, we all want things instantly now and not everything can be available like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everytime ive talked to a twink he wants money to.have sex with him ,

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By *eedsmaleMan
over a year ago

leeds

Had one extremely rude older gentleman on here. He's well known for it apparently, one rude 20 something, one guy who demanded that I beat him up, and one weirdo who was 35/40 who kept asking where I work. Being rude/ cocky/ arrogant knows no age barrier in my view.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks again you nice people ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they're young. They are meant to be angry.

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By *hubbyEastMan
over a year ago

East London

The young ones can be rude and demanding and want you to drop everything to deal with their needs! Luckily my block list is bigger than their egos . However I have met and chatted to some very nice young guys on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really do young, but I have had abuse from a guy because I said no thanks. He was older than me. I've blocked a lot of people on here for different reasons.

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By *airyScot40Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I’ve chatted with many great younger guys but I usually can’t be arsed with all the one or two word replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In fairness it's not just young guys that are stroppy mate it's also guys around your own age.

I understand and sympathize with you but maybe try using guys in general instead of labeling all young guys as stroppy as we arent all alike.lol

Also not to step on your toes but in a way doing things like posting about how you feel towards something negative is kinda like stropping in another way mate.

Best just ignore guys like that and just forget about them and find someone better and more polite as I'm sure you are doing right now.

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. Why i font meet young guys. There ride and arrogant. Crap at sex and so far up there own ass they dont neef anyone else. Mature for me. Patient. Fun. Experienced. Rugged and last more than 3 mins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every age group has stroppy people, and this is not a generalisation but there are some not all but some young guys think they invented being gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot but not all of the younger generation have the "I want it now" attitude.

I notice this a lot with my own children.

It's not really their fault, the older folk, me included grew up having to wait for things. Remember going to knock for your mates to see if they were coming out?

Nowadays, thanks to technology everything is instant, well, most things!

They've grown up with this and know no other way unfortunately.

That's my view anyway.

You'd knock on their door to see if they were 'coming out'.....

good lord...they don't mess about in Luton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot but not all of the younger generation have the "I want it now" attitude.

I notice this a lot with my own children.

It's not really their fault, the older folk, me included grew up having to wait for things. Remember going to knock for your mates to see if they were coming out?

Nowadays, thanks to technology everything is instant, well, most things!

They've grown up with this and know no other way unfortunately.

That's my view anyway.

You'd knock on their door to see if they were 'coming out'.....

good lord...they don't mess about in Luton

Lol, just knew someone would pick up on that

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By *orny-MidsMan
over a year ago

Moray

"Agreed that is not JUST young, but there is an attitude.

Got this guy pestering me at the moment. I am not interested, at all. Been nice, been rude, but the guy will not take no for an answer.

But worse are they guys that act like they are doing you a favour when they message you. Limited or no pics, demand for my address. Little conversation. Nah, not that desperate, yet."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like he needs a good seeing to

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By *um With MeMan
over a year ago

Birkenhead

From experience, a lot of today's under-thirties are full of their own importance, feel entitled and take things very literally indeed. The same could be said by a lot of older folk, too. It's the age of the tantrum. Alas, their behaviour and attitude says more about them, but they of course are oblivious to this and in the case of those looking for sex...well, they're normally the ones moaning they can't get a meet and they wonder why!

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By *estafellaMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I've met with lots of younger fellas and in my experience only a small minority of them are stroppy.

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By *oodpeckerMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

In my experience, 'stroppiness' appears unrelated to age. Mind you, I've not come across much (if any) at any age

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By *edic 01Man
4 weeks ago

Bedworth

I find older guys boring young people are better to be around

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By *0yguyMan
4 weeks ago

Cumbria

Young guys are sometimes rude just because you are “old” in their eyes and therefore must be stupid and uneducated. In fact many young guys act with a feeling of entitlement and total selfishness because nobody ever said “no” to them.

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By *ubtitsMan
4 weeks ago

hyde

Doesn't bother me what guys say just read it and move on it does turn me on if guys are rude to me though

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

"I find older guys boring young people are better to be around "

😂 😆 😂 😂 😂 Oh really. !

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By *xmareMan
4 weeks ago

Norwich

I don't relate well to much younger people. There is a generational gap, not least in acceptable standards of civility.

Just lately,I've had quite a few 40 - 45 year-olds' messages. A couple polite, others entitled, one or two trolls and a scammer.

The polite ones seem to have better English skills, maybe that's relevant. And I'm guessing some of the rest watch more movies than real life.

Anyway, for the first time ever, I'm blocking people outside my stated age range.

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By *55uk4yngrMan
4 weeks ago

Chester

The trouble with online is sorting the wheat from the chaff.

Lots of wasted time!!

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By *ung992Man
4 weeks ago

derby

"It's things like that mate that often make me feel that I want to delete my account. Then I think why let the ignorant bastards grind you down?? Stay positive mate, you are worth more!!! "

I think any age are stroppy if you don’t meet someone they make out ur mentally ill or a time waster or spews nasty lies about you

Honestly thought the gay community was ment to stick together

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