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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

to fall for him?

Should I treat the sex like a holiday romance?

And just enjoy it while it lasts?

Anyone got any stories to share?

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By *mInBrumMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

It's usually the understanding that a fuck buddy is there for sex unless you both agree it's going to be something more. I've had a few fuck buddies who have turned into friends with benefits.

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By *nspectorrobMan
over a year ago

bradford

Just enjoy it while it lasts

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Please can someone tell me what that means friends with benefits are they out of work on the dole or sugar daddies

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Love them and move on NSA no tears no heart ache no worries simple xxx

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

West Sussex

All depends why he’s a fuck buddy.

To me, the term ‘Fuck buddies’ normally implies one or other or both are in a relationship with someone else.

Fun on the side has to remain as fun or you’ll get hurt.

If the feelings start, then you have to find out if he feels the same and if it can progress to the point where you can be together.

Falling for someone who isn’t single will leave you, eventually, crying alone with ‘The Best of Air Supply’ as your heartbreak soundtrack.

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I'm going to dip my toe in the water a little more, I think.

I know I probably shouldn't.

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

West Sussex

"I'm going to dip my toe in the water a little more, I think.

I know I probably shouldn't."

Be careful!

Is he technically someone else’s man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Buzzcocks didn't write that song for nothing. Prepare for heartache.

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

I have a few now, and each one is ideal boyfriend material for me.

But I imagine they'd run a mile at the thought, so I content myself with the super moments we do spend together.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Nor for me 3 effs find fuck forget

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

They get in touch when they have an itch that needs scratched.

I find them all adorable, ever so sexy, so if our paths cross they always get priority.

I guess they are fuck buddies because the sexual pleasure is so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it as fuck bud strictly

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By *ighway expressMan
over a year ago

Campbeltown

The question for yourself is how do you find a guy that breaks through the fuck buddy barrier and goes into actual boyfriend material. That is if you really want a boyfriend of course. Not everyone does.

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

The ones who are great at sex are out of reach as boyfriend material, and the ones who make great boyfriends don't have the sexual appetite.

It's a cruel world.

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By *my-ColetteTV/TS
over a year ago

Luton

Great sex with a fuck buddy is great, but when it becomes an on tap thing it soon loses its magic.

Stick to the fuck buddy is my advice.

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By *nver4Man
over a year ago

Invernes

I have one but purely for sex ...really nice guy too.we meet maybe once a month and it's electric so hot

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By *uminsideme .Man
over a year ago

weston s mare

I could do with a fuck buddy x

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By *ravelriderMan
over a year ago

Redruth

Give in, fall in love. Go on, who ever said you shouldn’t? Love as many as you like. Just never think he should only ever love you.

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

"Give in, fall in love. Go on, who ever said you shouldn’t? Love as many as you like. Just never think he should only ever love you. "

Love this, thank you

I have learned to love them, not fall IN LOVE with them

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
7 days ago

Bristol East

My new toyboy comes to stay most weekends now, and the sex is the best of my life.

I'm turning into a right little wifie - he goes off to work each morning, I clean up after the partying last night, do his laundry, go to the supermarket to buy his tea and then get myself glammed ready for him coming "home".

He'll fuck me 2 or 3 times against the worktop or over the sofa before he's ready for something to eat and drink.

He is just wonderful.

Last night, he asked if he could move in.

He's 20, 6ft+, athletic, black.

As much as it would be a dream to wake up with him every morning, I fear that could ruin what we have.

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By *alfTankMan
7 days ago

Boston

Get control of yourself. If the fall comes, don't fall too far. It will hurt when you land, fall too far and it might break something and we don't want that.

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By *edmdMan
7 days ago

Woodhall Spa

Good to have a fuck buddy xx

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By *orth_London_Guy100Man
7 days ago

London

"My new toyboy comes to stay most weekends now, and the sex is the best of my life.

I'm turning into a right little wifie - he goes off to work each morning, I clean up after the partying last night, do his laundry, go to the supermarket to buy his tea and then get myself glammed ready for him coming "home".

He'll fuck me 2 or 3 times against the worktop or over the sofa before he's ready for something to eat and drink.

He is just wonderful.

Last night, he asked if he could move in.

He's 20, 6ft+, athletic, black.

As much as it would be a dream to wake up with him every morning, I fear that could ruin what we have.

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He sounds heavenly!

A few years ago I was seeing someone as a FWB - I sort of began to have feelings for him too.

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By *tar33Man
7 days ago

North London (outer)

"My new toyboy comes to stay most weekends now, and the sex is the best of my life.

I'm turning into a right little wifie - he goes off to work each morning, I clean up after the partying last night, do his laundry, go to the supermarket to buy his tea and then get myself glammed ready for him coming "home".

He'll fuck me 2 or 3 times against the worktop or over the sofa before he's ready for something to eat and drink.

He is just wonderful.

Last night, he asked if he could move in.

He's 20, 6ft+, athletic, black.

As much as it would be a dream to wake up with him every morning, I fear that could ruin what we have.

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There's also the danger of being cuckooed, be very careful.

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
7 days ago

Bristol East

I had to google that:

"Cuckooing is a practice where people take over a person's home and use the property to facilitate exploitation. It takes the name from cuckoos who take over the nests of other birds. There are different types of cuckooing: using the property to deal, store or take drugs. using the property to sex work."

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By *tevieG73Man
7 days ago

Codsall

Are TV/CDs with a feminine side more at risk of this than blokes (especially tops) who just want to spread their seed.

Just a thought.

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By *dambi00Man
7 days ago

Leicester

I had a fuck buddy and it eventually became a full on relationship for a few years

Just communicate and see where you both stand on the situation

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By *londebiguyMan
7 days ago

near Southport

A fuck buddy is not a relationship.

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By *ph1956Man
7 days ago

COLCHESTER

"A fuck buddy is not a relationship."

True!

But its regular sex.😊

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By *ipaul71Man
7 days ago

Talke

I have had same fb since school

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
7 days ago

Bristol East

"I had a fuck buddy and it eventually became a full on relationship for a few years

Just communicate and see where you both stand on the situation "

did you fall in love?

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By *andinmypantsMan
7 days ago

North East

Don't do it.

Don't do it.

Don't do it.

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By *ondonjeansMan
7 days ago

Russell Square/Euston

Appealing and flattering as it may be to have a hot 20 year old lover, him moving in seems a very bad idea!

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By *arehamMan
7 days ago

_areham

I made the biggest mistake and let feelings and emotions get in the way. What hurt was knowing it could never be. I had to save myself at this point and walk away, which was extremely difficult. Sometimes when you pass a point, there isn't a going back, and that was me. Over time, I've often pondered how things might have worked out. Twice I've done it. You'd think I'd have learned my lesson........

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By *are04Man
7 days ago

Letterkenny

"My new toyboy comes to stay most weekends now, and the sex is the best of my life.

I'm turning into a right little wifie - he goes off to work each morning, I clean up after the partying last night, do his laundry, go to the supermarket to buy his tea and then get myself glammed ready for him coming "home".

He'll fuck me 2 or 3 times against the worktop or over the sofa before he's ready for something to eat and drink.

He is just wonderful.

Last night, he asked if he could move in.

He's 20, 6ft+, athletic, black.

As much as it would be a dream to wake up with him every morning, I fear that could ruin what we have.

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Go for it. Life’s too short to worry about stuff like that. “Better to have loved and list than never have loved at all”.

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By *traight.lad45Man
7 days ago

Ebbw Vale

No it isnt

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By *ock Pleaser SuckerMan
7 days ago

Lytham St Annes

Nothing wrong with a fuck buddy, had a few over the years. Just enjoy it.

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
7 days ago

Bristol East

Our weekends together feel really special. I don't want to lose that. Neither do I want to lose control of my house

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By *igandfat123Man
7 days ago

atherstone

Had my fuckbuddy for over 15 years before he moved to Australia. Was gutted when he left and still stay in touch now.

He was my parents gardener for as long as I can remember. I always wanted to try cock after watching my dad’s porn movies and admiring big cock.

We always got on and even though he was a lot older than me we always chatted. He asked me if I had a girlfriend and I told him I didn’t then asked me if I was queer? I went bright red and said “no” I think he knew then I fancied him.

In the summer holidays when I was at home from university I was left on my own while my parents went to work. Lazy fucker I was, sleeping until god knows o’clock. I was woken up by the bloody lawnmower one day and he was there in his shorts as I was peeping through the curtains admiring his buldge and I was getting hard. I went downstairs in nothing but my bathrobe and waved at him. I asked him if he wanted a cuppa and he agreed. I made him one and he came in for it. We sat in the kitchen chatting. Again, the subject of girls came up and I told him I haven’t got a girlfriend and again he asked me if I was gay? I told him I wasn’t but then I don’t know why I said “I’ve always fancied guys more than women but I’ve never tried sex with a guy and that I really wanted too. He laughed and said he always knew and not to be afraid. He said he had sex with a few guys and loved it. My heart was racing. We chatted for ages about guys and sex. He told me he was a top. He said he could show me the ropes but not to ever tell anyone. I was so embarrassed and said I’d think about it.

A couple of days passed and all I could think about is him and his cock! Then a knock on the door one day when he knew my parents were out. I opened the door at it was him. He said “have you thought about it?” I replied “yes” then I let him in and I walked him towards the kitchen then turned around and snogged him. He whispered for us to go to bed. I took him by the hand and led him to my bedroom. I sat on the bed nervously as he unzipped his shorts and pulled out a beautiful semi hard cock. My first cock inches away from my mouth. He walked up to me and I put it in my mouth and sucked and sucked. I never wanted it to end. I loved it and how it felt. Cupping his balls and licking his shaft hearing him moan. Then he cum on my face as I never tasted spunk. We sat there and chatted about it.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
7 days ago

Bedford

Inevitably the sex becomes less and less the question is what else have you got in common, to make it work you need more than sex regardless of age colour etc. X

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By *dambi00Man
7 days ago

Leicester

"I had a fuck buddy and it eventually became a full on relationship for a few years

Just communicate and see where you both stand on the situation

did you fall in love?"

Yeah we both did, it ended because he had a major stroke, and had to move to be closer to his only family left, his sister in Jersey. We still speak on the phone once or twice per week, and I’ve visited him once

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
6 days ago

Bristol East

"I had a fuck buddy and it eventually became a full on relationship for a few years

Just communicate and see where you both stand on the situation

did you fall in love?

Yeah we both did, it ended because he had a major stroke, and had to move to be closer to his only family left, his sister in Jersey. We still speak on the phone once or twice per week, and I’ve visited him once "

♥️♥️♥️

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By *ardforall56Man
6 days ago

belfast

Fuck buddies the only way to go,not interested in relationships it’s just a fuck, man or woman every holes a goal

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
6 days ago

Bedford

Fucking is great loving now that's a lot more complicated xx

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
6 days ago

Bristol East

"Inevitably the sex becomes less and less the question is what else have you got in common, to make it work you need more than sex regardless of age colour etc. X"

That is the wisest thing I’ve read on here for a while

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
6 days ago

Bedford

"Inevitably the sex becomes less and less the question is what else have you got in common, to make it work you need more than sex regardless of age colour etc. X

That is the wisest thing I’ve read on here for a while "
and I still think your fabulous, and that's probably the dumbest thing you've read in a while x

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By *MSpunkMan
6 days ago

essex

Don’t mug yourself.

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
6 days ago

Bristol East

He is giving me the best sexual experience I've ever had, x 10

I'll trade him in for a new model when he gets bored with me.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
5 days ago

Bedford

"He is giving me the best sexual experience I've ever had, x 10

I'll trade him in for a new model when he gets bored with me."
can't see that ever happening if anything you will probably wear him out x

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By *iggreenockMan
5 days ago

Greenock

I've had two fuck buddies during my whole sexual life. Both were females both knew I had a long term partner both knew and agreed it was sex only. Eventually both wanted more, a proper relationship. Had to end it with both unfortunately. It will always end up messy if one side of the fb partnership wants more.

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By *ose223TV/TS
5 days ago

newport

Enjoy it, talk to them about it too

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By *ayboy1966Man
5 days ago

Cumbernauld

Wish I had a fk buddy or two…

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
5 days ago

Bristol East

"Appealing and flattering as it may be to have a hot 20 year old lover, him moving in seems a very bad idea!"

I'd be dead in 6 months from all the partying

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
5 days ago

Motherwell

"Appealing and flattering as it may be to have a hot 20 year old lover, him moving in seems a very bad idea!

I'd be dead in 6 months from all the partying

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Ah but what a way to go, I want to pop my clogs with both of my fwbs inside me on an all night high and horny session,pure heaven. Mx

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By *ara Jevo OP TV/TS
5 days ago

Bristol East

Reminds me of the story in USA when the lottery jackpot was $750 million, and 3 tickets shared the jackpot.

One of the winners was found dead six weeks later in a brothel in Las Vegas, surrounded by, um, er, illegal substances.

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By *edmdMan
5 days ago

Woodhall Spa

Nothing wrong with having a fuck buddy

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
5 days ago

Bedford

I have several don't see them as often as I'd like these days as they are all over the country and I no longer travel away to work .however I get to see them now and then ,lot younger than me so they ain't going to die before me lol xx

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