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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What signs do you guys look for when your trying to workout if someone’s a time waster or not?

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By *aelstromMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

[I am genuine even tho I've been on here for over a year but have no feedback].

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have this problem anymore, I only meet in clubs now so if they let me down I haven’t wasted my time getting all dressed up x

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By *hrisowens201TV/TS
over a year ago

Stretford


"What signs do you guys look for when your trying to workout if someone’s a time waster or not?"

When the first question they ask has been answered on your profile.

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By *istretchMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Lately most that message lol..

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By *oose1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

First thing they ask for are pics

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By *rucewayne1stMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

When they're pictures don't match their description

Got no tattoos yet in pictures they're covered in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they continually ask what you would do to them.

When they are a new profile with no details and send a “wanna fuck” message

When they live on the other side of the country and tell you how horny they are

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By *iassloverMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Had all these. It's the ones that seem so up for it and then ghost you.

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By *pectrumcolours321Man
over a year ago

Huntingdon/Cambridgeshire

Lots of tell tale signs.

When they can't string a sentence together to introduce themselves properly.

The first question is "what are you into"

Opening line "Hello mate" or "nice cock" or "got anymore pics" or "How's you dude, buddy, fella"

"do you suck cock" "do you fuck" "you into dressing" " you top or bottom"

The list is endless and I have learnt how to spot one a mile off.

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By *eaponOfAssDestruction.Man
over a year ago

Leeds

When they try to arrange a meet in the future rather than for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *akey69777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Don't even go there!

50% of this site do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What do you want to do to me" Nope not going to give you wank fodder, because by the time I answer, you will have pulled your pud yourself which makes the question somewhat pointless

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By *ameyCoolMan
over a year ago

West Byfleet. Woking,


"First thing they ask for are pics "

When thay message me without ANY pictures at all. Asking to meet me. Sorry but I don't do blind date!

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By *niff Yer HoleMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

When they go off line as soon as you get specific about meeting and have read but not replied to yiur message.

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By *ruemaleMan
2 weeks ago

notts


"When they try to arrange a meet in the future rather than for now"

That's not necessarily true. I've had many meets where it's planned for the near future. I'm not on here to expect instant gratification

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By *exualCumeleonMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

I have been lucky over the years but got ghosted 3 times last week when turning up to meets.

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By *immyboi900Man
2 weeks ago

chesham

The majority of guy here are time wasters, I’ve been let down so many times I’ve lost count

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By *Aguy2022Man
2 weeks ago

Littlehampton

Only signs you get are when you arrange to meet but they come up with a last minute excuse, personally I find the cannot accomodate/cannot travel people are not looking to meet ( my opinion, not fact) and lack of profile pics and profile description is a sign for me.

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By *evoncrhisMan
2 weeks ago

Torbay

I find that it can be hard to spot them until the day but I feel that it’s often too trusting and take them at their word. However, it’s interesting how they suddenly go quite just before the meet. They can also be too keen and promise too much, too quickly.

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By *-skinMan
2 weeks ago

Weymouth


"The majority of guy here are time wasters, I’ve been let down so many times I’ve lost count "
there a time waster right up to the point there knelt down in front of me and my cock in there mouth.

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

Less than 1hr of membership...

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By *eiseMan
2 weeks ago

Cumbernauld


"...there a time waster right up to the point there knelt down in front of me and my cock in there mouth."

There are rare occasions when it's been impossible not to let people down, hopefully without actually wasting their time, but it really isn't a sure thing until his cock is inside me 😊

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By *airyguy75Man
2 weeks ago

london

So many on here you wonder what’s the point in joining these sites

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By *damb00Man
2 weeks ago

Leicestershire

Never had someone waste my time

I go for guys who have a few verifications, hasn’t failed me yet

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By *ewBrumBiMan
2 weeks ago

Birmingham


"So many on here you wonder what’s the point in joining these sites "

And yet so many people have so many verifications... curious...

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By *teve747Man
2 weeks ago

Chester boarder / North Wales

Best bet is to report them to admin. Chances are if they have past history they will get booted off

Admin should, if they don’t already do so, is block the Email and IP address to stop that person creating a new account.

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By *uffolkbiguy69Man
2 weeks ago

Newmarket


"When they try to arrange a meet in the future rather than for now

That's not necessarily true. I've had many meets where it's planned for the near future. I'm not on here to expect instant gratification"

I was going to make same point. Some of us do have to plan ahead carefully. But if I commit to a meet I’m rock solid about showing up.

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By *ristolsbMan
2 weeks ago

Bedminster, Bristol

Guys who quickly say yes to everything you ask or suggest. Also guys who aren't an obvious match for my interests but they contact me offering exactly my interests.

These happen surprisingly often but never lead to a meet.

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By *egginzboyMan
2 weeks ago

Rugeley

No verifications

Bi curious

Cant travel

Cant accom

Cant meet at short notice

No pictures or just an out of focus arsehole shot with framed family photos in background

Cant send private pics

Fill in later

Location stated as near you

Sydney university etc

No timewasters etc

The above person is late 50's & was probably in the school choir in the early 70's & played either the triangle or tamborine

He also wears knee high socks with his sandles and shorts / tank top and enjoys making his own jam preserves

He also has 3 pairs of corduroy trousers and a copy of fly fishing by JR Hartley

And has vosene shampoo in his bathroom

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By *hitebriefsMan
2 weeks ago

Chard

I've just accepted that about 50% of people on here are time wasters. Including my last three supposed meets, none of which turned up.

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By *witchMan
2 weeks ago

Flintshire


"No verifications

Bi curious

Cant travel

Cant accom

Cant meet at short notice

No pictures or just an out of focus arsehole shot with framed family photos in background

Cant send private pics

Fill in later

Location stated as near you

Sydney university etc

No timewasters etc

The above person is late 50's & was probably in the school choir in the early 70's & played either the triangle or tamborine

He also wears knee high socks with his sandles and shorts / tank top and enjoys making his own jam preserves

He also has 3 pairs of corduroy trousers and a copy of fly fishing by JR Hartley

And has vosene shampoo in his bathroom

"

And have 7yr old profile pics

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By *ugarrainMan
2 weeks ago

paisley

Won't cam to chat..

Mic broken, others about, need to get sorted etc.

Those that won't cam are almost certainly time wasters.

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By *evanianMan
2 weeks ago

Flintshire


"What signs do you guys look for when your trying to workout if someone’s a time waster or not?"

The omission of any form of courteous salutation, opening directly with a carnal proclamation which ends with..."got ne pics?"

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By *ldmanMan
2 weeks ago

Rawcliffe Bridge.


"What signs do you guys look for when your trying to workout if someone’s a time waster or not?

The omission of any form of courteous salutation, opening directly with a carnal proclamation which ends with..."got ne pics?""

Or very similar

"pics"

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By *egginzboyMan
2 weeks ago

Rugeley


"No verifications

Bi curious

Cant travel

Cant accom

Cant meet at short notice

No pictures or just an out of focus arsehole shot with framed family photos in background

Cant send private pics

Fill in later

Location stated as near you

Sydney university etc

No timewasters etc

The above person is late 50's & was probably in the school choir in the early 70's & played either the triangle or tamborine

He also wears knee high socks with his sandles and shorts / tank top and enjoys making his own jam preserves

He also has 3 pairs of corduroy trousers and a copy of fly fishing by JR Hartley

And has vosene shampoo in his bathroom

And have 7yr old profile pics"

Yes that's right his only very blurry out of focus photo showing his spotty arsehole was taken in 2018

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By *ocky30Man
2 weeks ago

Wellingborough


"Yes that's right his only very blurry out of focus photo showing his spotty arsehole was taken in 2018

"

Says the man who only has 1 pic on his profile dated 28 October 2017…

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By *ndyfunguyMan
2 weeks ago

Ashington

When they message you, you respond back within a reasonably short time and they keep you hanging. Message unread for hours whilst showing online.

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By *im le2Man
2 weeks ago

aylestone leic

Never ask this question in public. If the timewasters find out we know they will change tack ticks

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull


"Yes that's right his only very blurry out of focus photo showing his spotty arsehole was taken in 2018

Says the man who only has 1 pic on his profile dated 28 October 2017…"

Ouch! But touché

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By *yleLMan
2 weeks ago

Burnley


"Won't cam to chat..

Mic broken, others about, need to get sorted etc.

Those that won't cam are almost certainly time wasters."

Dont agree with that.

Some people just don't like to cam. Me being one. Ill happily send pics and ive got pics on my profile.

To me those wanting to cam are the timewasters who wont meet. If cam fun is your thing, be specific on your profile and say that's all you want.

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By *witchMan
2 weeks ago

Flintshire


"No verifications

Bi curious

Cant travel

Cant accom

Cant meet at short notice

No pictures or just an out of focus arsehole shot with framed family photos in background

Cant send private pics

Fill in later

Location stated as near you

Sydney university etc

No timewasters etc

The above person is late 50's & was probably in the school choir in the early 70's & played either the triangle or tamborine

He also wears knee high socks with his sandles and shorts / tank top and enjoys making his own jam preserves

He also has 3 pairs of corduroy trousers and a copy of fly fishing by JR Hartley

And has vosene shampoo in his bathroom

And have 7yr old profile pics

Yes that's right his only very blurry out of focus photo showing his spotty arsehole was taken in 2018

"

I was referring to you😂

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By *now manMan
2 weeks ago

near


"No verifications

Bi curious

Cant travel

Cant accom

Cant meet at short notice

No pictures or just an out of focus arsehole shot with framed family photos in background

Cant send private pics

Fill in later

Location stated as near you

Sydney university etc

No timewasters etc

The above person is late 50's & was probably in the school choir in the early 70's & played either the triangle or tamborine

He also wears knee high socks with his sandles and shorts / tank top and enjoys making his own jam preserves

He also has 3 pairs of corduroy trousers and a copy of fly fishing by JR Hartley

And has vosene shampoo in his bathroom

And have 7yr old profile pics

Yes that's right his only very blurry out of focus photo showing his spotty arsehole was taken in 2018

I was referring to you😂"

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By *now manMan
2 weeks ago

near


"No verifications

Bi curious

Cant travel

Cant accom

Cant meet at short notice

No pictures or just an out of focus arsehole shot with framed family photos in background

Cant send private pics

Fill in later

Location stated as near you

Sydney university etc

No timewasters etc

The above person is late 50's & was probably in the school choir in the early 70's & played either the triangle or tamborine

He also wears knee high socks with his sandles and shorts / tank top and enjoys making his own jam preserves

He also has 3 pairs of corduroy trousers and a copy of fly fishing by JR Hartley

And has vosene shampoo in his bathroom

And have 7yr old profile pics

Yes that's right his only very blurry out of focus photo showing his spotty arsehole was taken in 2018

I was referring to you😂"

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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By *ojanglesMan
2 weeks ago

mk41


"First thing they ask for are pics "
absolutley agree with you on that i get that constantly even from people who don’t have pictures etc so rude

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By *asyman321Man
2 weeks ago

north east

People who have been on for a year and have no verification

They ask for pictures

They want to be your friend immediately

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By *ojanglesMan
2 weeks ago

mk41


"Won't cam to chat..

Mic broken, others about, need to get sorted etc.

Those that won't cam are almost certainly time wasters.

Dont agree with that.

Some people just don't like to cam. Me being one. Ill happily send pics and ive got pics on my profile.

To me those wanting to cam are the timewasters who wont meet. If cam fun is your thing, be specific on your profile and say that's all you want. "

I totally agree with you i don’t cam or call anyone happy to chat exchange stuff and occasionally meet up but just because people don’t cam that doesn’t mean they are not genuine

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By *amie1402Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool


"People who have been on for a year and have no verification

They ask for pictures

They want to be your friend immediately "

Precisely

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By *utdoorsGuy666Man
2 weeks ago

Nottingham

I guess i'm a time waster then. Was very active when young, then left it alone for 25 years. My spider sense tells me I'll be getting divorced at some point so I've lowered my guard. The one experience I've had recently wasn't with someone on here. But for now I have a crazy busy job and family life so I am just having the best fun I can.

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By *egginzboyMan
2 weeks ago

Rugeley

When his messages suddenly stop so you click on his profile and it says

"user no longer on this site"

Like the Op who created this thread

AWOL

Total evaporation

Le Invisibl'e

Le vanish into thin air

Le puf of smokey

Lord Lucan

Gone with the wind

Now you see it now you don't

Abra kadabra

Vwollar

Gone fishing

TTFN

Jeronimo

Auf wiedersein

So long

Asta la vista baby

Hi ho silver... away

Bon voyage

Giddy up

Here today gone tomorrow

Amen

Etc etc

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By *etesmith11Man
1 week ago

Nr Frodsham

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By *etesmith11Man
1 week ago

Nr Frodsham


"Yes that's right his only very blurry out of focus photo showing his spotty arsehole was taken in 2018

Says the man who only has 1 pic on his profile dated 28 October 2017…"

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By *tmguylookingMan
1 week ago

Chesterfield


"Lots of tell tale signs.

When they can't string a sentence together to introduce themselves properly.

The first question is "what are you into"

Opening line "Hello mate" or "nice cock" or "got anymore pics" or "How's you dude, buddy, fella"

"do you suck cock" "do you fuck" "you into dressing" " you top or bottom"

The list is endless and I have learnt how to spot one a mile off.

"

I almost always start my messages with 'ello mate, hows you... ' and i'm certainly not a timewaster.

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By *halamusMan
1 week ago

Bridgend area

I expect I'm seen as one for waisting time. I don't ask to meet unless I know I can make it (very rare.) Mostly I can't due to family life and work. When I get asked to meet now, or when will I be free, I haven't a clue such is family restrictions.

However, I started taking a chance and briefly stopping in a known local layby whenever I pop out to the shops etc. Has brought a result or two as there's always one to a few cars there with single male occupants. I like it when they walk up and down glancing into cars hoping to see something on show. It's pervy and exiting at the same time

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx


"Lots of tell tale signs.

When they can't string a sentence together to introduce themselves properly.

The first question is "what are you into"

Opening line "Hello mate" or "nice cock" or "got anymore pics" or "How's you dude, buddy, fella"

"do you suck cock" "do you fuck" "you into dressing" " you top or bottom"

The list is endless and I have learnt how to spot one a mile off.

"

What a bizarre and rather judgmental list. Nearly everything you mention there has zero to do with anyone being a time waster. It might well mean they are not very articulate or good at chatting, but that’s a different issue to their being a time waster.

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx


"Won't cam to chat..

Mic broken, others about, need to get sorted etc.

Those that won't cam are almost certainly time wasters."

Totally and utterly wrong by 180 degrees.

As you state you are looking for “camwank” friends, that’s the medium you like to use and obviously if they are not up for camming then it’s going nowhere for you.

Some of us are not interested in camming to get our jollies and don’t say we are into webcam, and only meet in the flesh. Therefore and after I’ve stated I have zero interest, if someone’s keen to still get me to cam with them and pesters again, I know they are not interested in meeting and are just a time waster.

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By *lackbootzMan
1 week ago

Hayes, Middx

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