FabGuys.com forum: Going on to have a relationship from meeting someone on fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As the title in the subject bar

How many of you have found love through the site?

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By *udeguy56Man
over a year ago

nearby

Me!

I have found that I love cock.....

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By *ukesidewaysMan
over a year ago

nuneaton

Wouldn't say I was looking for a relationship on here but there has been a few I'd like to meet again as they are really fun and chilled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to meet good meets again

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By *arrheadguyMan
over a year ago

barrhead

I thought I had. Met a guy on here, had a relationship for over a year. Went out together, he stayed over at mines every 2nd weekend. I didn't think it suspicious we never went to his place, mine was just more convenient. He just stopped communicating with me, no explanation. About a week after that I seen a post on Facebook he had just got married to his long term (male) partner. I think I'm too trusting, sadly it has made me more suspicious of all guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was going to say. Do people look for relationships in here?

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By *ustOneBearCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Luton

Not on here but a bear hook up site.

Wasn’t looking for a relationship

But saw this guy regularly and fell in love with him

I just had to tell him. I was sure he would run a mile but he said he was in love with me, too. We married four years later.

The benefit of meeting on a hook up site was we were able to have an honest conversation about our sex life. We agreed not to hide anything from each other. Set clear boundaries. No jealousy we both know our marriage is always the priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Was going to say. Do people look for relationships in here?"

I think sometimes some guys just click and it goes from there.

I know two or three who have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not on here but a bear hook up site.

Wasn’t looking for a relationship

But saw this guy regularly and fell in love with him

I just had to tell him. I was sure he would run a mile but he said he was in love with me, too. We married four years later.

Nice guys! Well done you two!

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By *red bloggsMan
over a year ago

Reading

Perhaps a friend, early days

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By *ildwestheroMan
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

Had some repeat meets. Live in hope of something regular

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By *ollyMan
over a year ago

Downham market

I'd love a loving relationship, not necessarily living together but having someone to meet regularly for loving moments and great sex, someone who tells me he loves me and gives affection and romance.

I can only dream but I know that someone is out there.

I've met a couple of men who were really nice

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By *ollyMan
over a year ago

Downham market

Contact me if you are looking for love

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By *eonsMan
over a year ago

Risbough

You never know your luck in a raffle, sometimes you meet a guy on here and if you both click it can lead to more than a quick shag.

I've been lucky and have met a couple of guys that have dated off here but I try and go for single guys rather than those in a relationship.

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By *imberly_4uTV/TS
over a year ago

Lanson

"Not on here but a bear hook up site.

Wasn’t looking for a relationship

But saw this guy regularly and fell in love with him

I just had to tell him. I was sure he would run a mile but he said he was in love with me, too. We married four years later.

That's beautiful

& congrats to you both (& happy Xmas too!)

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By *arti G xTV/TS
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

If being Honest which I usually try to be then Yes I would absolutely love a relationship, someone who can be your best friend/lover,tend to wear my heart on my sleeve, so yes I would like to find the missing piece of the jigsaw to make it complete not always easy but I like to believe that there is someone out there for everyone. So to those who have Your very lucky

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By *ortheastlad23Man
over a year ago

town

Had the unpleasant experience of meeting my ex on here. Worst 3 years of my life.

Put me off guys for life.

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By *znBottomMan
over a year ago

mids

You cannot find love on normal sites so doubt anyone will from. a fuck site

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By *racknell DeepthroaterMan
over a year ago

Bracknell

You never know, when you meet someone for the first time it is just sex, if you meet more & on a regular basis friendships will grow & develop. Never say never & be open to possibilities

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By *ustOneBearCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Luton

"Not on here but a bear hook up site.

Wasn’t looking for a relationship

But saw this guy regularly and fell in love with him

I just had to tell him. I was sure he would run a mile but he said he was in love with me, too. We married four years later.

Nice guys! Well done you two!"

Thank you!

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By *ustOneBearCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Luton

"Not on here but a bear hook up site.

Wasn’t looking for a relationship

But saw this guy regularly and fell in love with him

I just had to tell him. I was sure he would run a mile but he said he was in love with me, too. We married four years later.

That's beautiful

& congrats to you both (& happy Xmas too!)

Thank you

Sometimes you have to be brave and actually ask for what you want.

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By *retzilMan
over a year ago

benfleet

Being poly I have met a couple of partners off here over the years, one guy who I was in a relationship with for a couple if years until he decided he was straight and went back to his wife :/ im always open to the idea of meeting someone for more off here but know at the same time this isn't that kind of site so if it happens it's a bonus in my eyes x

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By *miecdTV/TS
over a year ago

Doncaster

I really did want to have a regular Dom top older who I see whenever he wants me but to many people messed me about ha

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By *ondonjeansMan
over a year ago

Russell Square/Euston

Not from fab but a hook-up on another gay site (ending in d@r) led to a seven year relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not on here but a bear hook up site.

Wasn’t looking for a relationship

But saw this guy regularly and fell in love with him

I just had to tell him. I was sure he would run a mile but he said he was in love with me, too. We married four years later.

That's beautiful

& congrats to you both (& happy Xmas too!)

Thank you

Sometimes you have to be brave and actually ask for what you want.

Yeah that’s what I’m scared of on here. If I express an interest in someone other than sex they’d run a mile

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By *retzilMan
over a year ago

benfleet

Yeah that’s what I’m scared of on here. If I express an interest in someone other than sex they’d run a mile "

Don't think like that hun you never know what kind of guy your meet on here and one of them may be the right guy for you : ) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here but we were together as a couple & friends until he passed away in 2016 age 47

Appreciate the time you have together

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By *ukesidewaysMan
over a year ago

nuneaton

A year last summer, I visited someone at hid lovely home.

It was a very chilled evening, he laid on some drink and nibbles. Eventually we started fooling around,I ended up face down on a quilt on his front room with him using toys etc on me. It was a shame he didn't use his decent cock on me!!

Anyhow, we went to bed but I couldn't stay as I had work the following day.

I think that he was that he was after a boyfriend whilst I wanted some fun.

I don't think this site is for finding love but good luck if you find that someone special.

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By *ukesidewaysMan
over a year ago

nuneaton

"Not on here but a bear hook up site.

Wasn’t looking for a relationship

But saw this guy regularly and fell in love with him

I just had to tell him. I was sure he would run a mile but he said he was in love with me, too. We married four years later.

Wishing you both all the best

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By *wam67Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Not after love

Just a load of good friends who are up for fun

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By *ukesidewaysMan
over a year ago

nuneaton

"Not after love

Just a load of good friends who are up for fun "

I think that's the general feeling on here.

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By *atthew500Man
over a year ago

east yorks/hull

I wouldn’t dismiss the idea of finding love or a relationship on here, for one thing, if you do start with good repeatable sex the friendship and understanding can follow. Not in a relationship as such,but i have been seeing/ chatting to the same- and only- guy for a few years. Deffo friends and if i was single/out i think we may well be a couple by now. He never demands my company but i think he likes me being around. The ‘L’ word not said but sometimes very nearly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had some regular meets with someone on here, he eventually grew feelings for me and expressed it - I stopped meeting and communicating with him after that

Explained several times that I just wanted NSA fun and was not looking for a relationship

So yeah it is possible to fall for someone and potentially want a relationship with someone from here, but communicate that when you do start having feelings for the other person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meeting a special someone on here!....LOL LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sort of

I've met a wonderful mature guy, he is everything I want. I've told him how I feel and how special he is - Ive openly told him I love him. He loves me too however there is a but.

His other half, a man, so I don't have to worry he's married. This guy doesn't treat him well and simply doesn't realise how lucky he is to have him in his life. They don't kiss or make love and the other half has refused to live with him. Yet despite this the wonderful man I love won't leave him or consider us becoming a couple. He knows the difference between the two 'relationships' but I don't know.

So it's not all roses if you do meet him on here

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By *uminsideme .Man
over a year ago

weston s mare

I've just updated my status as I'm looking for a gay lover xx

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By *penminded53Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield HD9

Met guy i am in a relationship with now from a similar site to this.

Not what we was both looking for just worked out that way.

First time he ever messaged me i nearly did not reply as he not even the 'Type ' i would normally prefer to meet.

Think it helped we are both single, both openly gay and share a lot of interests besides what we get up to in the bedroom

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By *penminded53Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield HD9

And still getting used to it lol ,Should have said we was both single before it gets pointed out to me

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By *iMarkGregCouple (MM)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

We have, although maybe slightly differently to how the OP meant. We’re both married guys, had been doing the usual random fabs meets scene, almost 5 years ago when we met each other. Knew it was something different from the start and quickly committed to being exclusive buddies.

We have fallen in love but made the decision that we remain with our wives and families who we also love (and I know some of you don’t get that…). Apart from four very carefully considered threesums we have only been with each other since meeting…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys for taking the time answering the question

Interesting reading

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By *rostMan
over a year ago

Northampton and South Wales Blaenavon

Both holes love cock mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have, although maybe slightly differently to how the OP meant. We’re both married guys, had been doing the usual random fabs meets scene, almost 5 years ago when we met each other. Knew it was something different from the start and quickly committed to being exclusive buddies.

I think thats an amazing post and sonething that i too am hoping to find, albeit with a dom/sub side to it.

Not sure about falling in love but a definate commitment from my side towards the man is something that i hope will happen one of these days.

Personally i think its great that you both want to stay with your wives. It is possible to love a woman and a man at the same time.

You put across your responce perfectly and it was a joy to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have tried a couple of times with females but they either got distracted or went back to their husband

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By *olfstarMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Yes, it’s absolutely possible. 16 months ago I met an amazing man in here, initially for a one-off hook up and it developed from there.

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By *ugbytopMan
over a year ago

hampton in arden

I wud love to meet someone and take it further

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By *igarloverg1981Man
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I must admit I would be open to meeting someone and it developing into more, I really have an open mind as to where things may lead..

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
over a year ago

Heathrow

Did uses to have a regular guy I was seeing suddenly he was off the site and I did see him at legs 800 club year's back

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By *enjamin2018Man
over a year ago

Halstead

Never thought I would but recently starting to think I might.

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By *arvin444Man
over a year ago

Banbury

I would love to meet a guy from here that hopefully leads to a relationship. A older top Guy would be amazing X

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By *4BearsMan
over a year ago

Manchester (Stalybridge)

Me!

10 and a half years

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By *arti G xTV/TS
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

I'd love to find that special man & not just for the sex as good as that can be, they just seem few & far between as most don't want to commit to a full on relationship

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By *exmachineMan
over a year ago

kent

Not on this site but met my big dick partner on another site 20yrs ago. He initially was reluctant to hook up so I said fine go and meet the other guy who he was chatting too at the time. He sent me a message he’ll come over and never left! Had the hottest sex ever that weekend, every time I looked at his dick I was aroused!

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By *teve21777Man
over a year ago

Warrington

I have I found my partner who I was with 20 years bu he died of cancer 6 years ago

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By *ickwayverMan
over a year ago

Barnes, Richmond or Twickenham

Chance would be a fine thing

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By *astDevonGuyMan
over a year ago

East Devon

One can live in hope

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By *itchianMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Not here for a relationship but I did meet one fella I was really drawn to. I think a relationship would have been a possibility ( from my side) if we had continued to meet.

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By *miecdTV/TS
over a year ago

Doncaster

I did try to find one but a Dom sun kinda one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once had a relationship with a guy I met whole out cruising

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By *ulgeSlut008Man
over a year ago

near Barnstaple

Here's to hoping

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By *erryboiCouple (MM)
over a year ago

derry

Yes you definitely can. I met my partner on a similar site to this 12years ago. Was supposed to just be sex and fun both of us were married. However we fell in love and ended our marriages to be together. We are extremely happy and still have our wonderful families around us took bit time but got there in that regard.

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By *ubbleboy69Man
over a year ago

peterborough

None that lasted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have met a few guy on a reg basis . Even went for a drink xxx

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By *umeatfunMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Absolutely perfect!!!

Honesty right there, giving us all hope.

Well done guys.

Wishing you guys all the respect, love happiness, and everything good to still to come!!!

Thx

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By *mallvanmanMan
over a year ago

Christchurch

I met my husband on a other site 20yrs ago August, we only met for sex but fell in love ,

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By *aster CaneMan
over a year ago

bridgemary Gosport

Not a relationship but have several friends here who I have met through them coming to me for spanking

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By *ustardTartMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I think maybe that would be nice.....not yet though x

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By *eorgesdadMan
over a year ago

Long Eaton Nottingham

Been getting fucked by same guy for nearly 3 years but it won’t turn into a relationship but I have been having thoughts of being openly gay in out of my area places for weekends etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not love, but have met a guy who fucks me regularly, fab top, we both get great enjoyment. Nice when that happens, but, like anything, you never know how long it will last!!!

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By *aturistnudeMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Have had two but the last was a. It too intense as i was getting sexually frustrated as i wanted to meet other guys and have three sums

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By *illabongboy1971Man
over a year ago

Penicuik area

I met a guy on here not long after I joined. He's now my best friend- an absolute legend of a man.

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By *kirlMan
over a year ago

BRIGHTON

Certainly open to a relationship if it happened.. anything possible

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

West Sussex

"Certainly open to a relationship if it happened.. anything possible "

Anything is possible, however, I normally find there's something that will get in the way...distance often being a big stumbling block...or he's already with someone and regardless of looking for sex elsewhere, isn't going to end that relationship...

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

West Sussex

...Also, gay/bi guys are often at different stages of that journey in terms of introducing a boyfriend to friends and family...

Some of us are in, some of us are out etc...

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By *reambunMan
over a year ago

Bristol/Bath

I would think that sex would be something that you have in common at least. There's no hiding it this us a sex site not a match site so hopefully you are on the same page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy on here quite a few years ago. He lived close by and was a single guy. He had been married but eventually confessed to his wife that he was gay. We got on really well but I was always conscious of my own circumstances; married with 2 grown children. Having sex with him was lovely as he was tender and very caring. And quite often it was very intense and passionate. However, after a few months he told me that he loved me and wanted me to leave my wife. Unfortunately I couldn't deal with the situation so decided not to have continue our relationship. I did care for him but not to the extent that I wanted to leave everything I had. It also got very complicated as he threatened to out me to my partner. Needless to say, I will never put myself in that situation again.

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

West Sussex

"I would think that sex would be something that you have in common at least. There's no hiding it this us a sex site not a match site so hopefully you are on the same page."

I agree that sex is something you have in common if meeting regularly, but that's not enough if you want something more...

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Due to my problem that's developed .I can only do sex,that's why I'm always on my own when out .and probably always will be XXX

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

West Sussex

Having been on this site and forum since around the first lockdown, I'd say most on here are already in a relationship...some straight, some gay...some happy, some not...so most aren't looking for relationships...

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By *etalFusionMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Some of us never find love.

Read ForeverAlone on Reddit.

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By *hisMeMan
over a year ago

Forfar

"...I'd say most on here are already in a relationship...some straight, some gay...some happy, some not...so most aren't looking for relationships..."

Most guys that hit on me are in some sort of relationship. But I'm single...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single too

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By *dambi00Man
over a year ago

Leicester

I’ve met some lovely guys, some have asked for more than no strings fun, but it’s not what I’m looking for

But there are some real lovely guys on here

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By *erfherderMan
over a year ago

Inverclyde

It’s my hope to find a relationship

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By *ottom4444Man
over a year ago

West Suffolk

I think a lot of people on here already have a partner. One that doesn’t know they are on here. I think to get into a relationship with someone you know is a cheater is asking for trouble.

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By *ondonjeansMan
over a year ago

Russell Square/Euston

You sometimes come across gay couples who met through Gr1ndr.. I can't say I know any who met via Fab but there must be some. Any way of meeting other people can lead to a relationship...

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By *rookhamguy26Man
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Love to find a man for a relationship but not found a site where men are serious about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least one close friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the title in the subject bar

How many of you have found love through the site? "

I met a trans girl socially, then found her on here so we hooked up. Ended up as lovers for 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a lovely young guy he 25 when we first met met up till COVID stopped him getting out he was thirty then. Great guy and very passionate

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I guess it does happen .however this is when all said and done a hook up app not a dating app .so if I did meet someone on here then I would have to except that said person is playing the field and likely to keep doing so .my pov only xxx

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By *entleoneMan
over a year ago

near heathrow

Yes I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not found luv on here but I met my ex of 10 years on the rainbow room on orange chat years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had met an guy on another hook up site and we met up regular. Was never just a fuck and go we always took our time sometimes multiple times, shower together etc. Always lay cuddled up amd chatted for a while after. He would sometimes asked if i was looking for a boyfriend to which i always replied if that was him asking but he said he was just curious. Thing is if he had said he was asking i wouldve said yes. Sadly he moved to france so that ended things. Think now im happy where i am so will only be hook ups for fun but you never know right

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By *teve21777Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Looking ?? but not yet found special person

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By *teve21777Man
over a year ago

Warrington

Looking but not yet found special person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I’m open to it, on the down low

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By *tefan_09Man
over a year ago

Rhyl

I met a guy on G and saw him a few times. He was white, and lived 60 miles away. I thought things were developing nicely.

One day I got a message saying he was going to be a Muslim and that homosexuality wasn't compatible with his new religion.

He said thanks and goodbye followed by a block.

Hey ho.

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By *rimberkMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I kind of dated someone off here. It was all great until he fell in love with me lol

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By *etalFusionMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Dating. What's that?

I don't even get visits from rats and mice

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

"Dating. What's that?

I don't even get visits from rats and mice "
I'm not surprised their afraid of pythons xxx

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By *etalFusionMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Lol.

First time I've found something funny today.

Just nowt to do, tired all the time and no successful dates, ever.

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By *londebiguyMan
over a year ago

near Southport

Not love but two regular and very excellent meets that have continued for about 8 years now.

Both mega hot and often have to take time to appreciate them wanting to meet me.

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By *ais1Man
over a year ago

Renfrewshire

Not this site but met someone through a certain app who I really fell for. Sadly it didn't work out but he meant a lot to me.

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By *izzetMan
over a year ago

Douglas

I've met some really great guys on here that I can honestly call true friends, even though it started with benefits

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By *issBehave69Man
over a year ago

Bulgaria

Yep, I fell head over heels with a TV on the other Fab site about 8 years ago. She was stunning, we went out for lunches and dinners etc as she was so confident and convincing.

I spent a bit of time “away” and never got the chance to say goodbye. I know she’s still on the other site but has certain filters so thankfully I can’t see her profile.

I so wish I could say hello, apologise for leaving her the way I did and tell her how I feel about her annd think anbout her even now. And yeah, make things more permanent between us but I’ve no idea how she would react, and she’s probably moved on.

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By *etalFusionMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"I've met some really great guys on here that I can honestly call true friends, even though it started with benefits

You're very lucky.

I've tried to get friends with benefits on these sites and apps. I just get used and they're always "too busy".

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By *ldderMan
over a year ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

Not looking for a relationship just a horny top who needs regular relief in my hole and mouth

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By *arti G xTV/TS
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Have meet a few lovely guys on here, but it would be nice to find a guy who would consider, hopefully one day x

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By *kirlMan
over a year ago

BRIGHTON

Oh obviously I know fabguys is mainly for guys looking for NSA fun etc

Definitely you can make friends on here, or guys that msg for chats.

Then there are married guys or bi guys on here in committed relationships, looking for extra fun on the side / maybe they feel their gay and want fun.Thats okay

I'm open minded to whatever comes along, friends with benefits,a boyfriend or relationship be lovely or course.. it just depends on the other person you meet what they want too, where they are in there lives.

I sometimes see straight couples, you might never but together yourself, or even junkies/ ones on drugs etc and their in r.ships or whatever it is.

If covid lockdown thought us anything, it's what U want from you life . So maybe that's more sex, a regular lover, or a rship, certainly Stranger things have happened..

Do I meet guys and think he's the love of my life ?? no, but if U meet a guy regularly and there's a connection & good sex,,,who knows.. maybe about the same chance of winning the lotto.

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By *iMarkGregCouple (MM)
over a year ago

South Yorkshire

Mark and I met on Fab almost 6 years ago. After our first meet we became exclusives. We’ve been seeing each other once a month with the occasional overnighter. Also had some lovely threesums over the years. We are in love, but still also married with our wives. They don’t know Lucky to be in both worlds.

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

In October, I was in the mood for a sleazy day at home, and I knew at least one fuck buddy was coming round.

Got a message on here from someone of a mutual acquaintance, and I invited them round too.

They turned up 30 seconds after my fuck buddy.

We've been together ever since.

Twinky femboy loverboy fuck puppet toyboy.

We're in lurrvvvvvve!

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By *ukesidewaysMan
over a year ago

nuneaton

"In October, I was in the mood for a sleazy day at home, and I knew at least one fuck buddy was coming round.

Got a message on here from someone of a mutual acquaintance, and I invited them round too.

They turned up 30 seconds after my fuck buddy.

We've been together ever since.

Twinky femboy loverboy fuck puppet toyboy.

We're in lurrvvvvvve!"

All the best for you and twinky

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By *arti G xTV/TS
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Personally l would love to find that special someone, know it's not for everyone

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By *inchesterGuyMan
over a year ago

Winchester

That would be so nice. I haven't given up on that yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive met the same cock a few times. absolutely no relationship

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By *etalFusionMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Go on Reddit and read ForeverAlone

There are just some of us losers who never find love.

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By *adbod22Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I am still searching for that one guy who I find attractive, and who gives me the reason to close my account here and for us to be exclusive. Hope 2024 makes our paths cross!

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By *itchianMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I am still searching for that one guy who I find attractive, and who gives me the reason to close my account here and for us to be exclusive. Hope 2024 makes our paths cross! "

I suppose it depends on the definition of relationship. I would like this but nothing more committed. Is that a relationship?

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By *oredman904Man
over a year ago

East Stoke

I'm loving these posts. Hearts as well as cocks, on display. A lovely start to 2024: honest conversations.

I'm increasingly of the mind, my next and last partner, will be trans or a fem-guy. I'm in lust with the cocks and assess on display on fab, but I adore some of the brutal honesty, the spiritual power of sex. I mean we wank, we splash, we lay there in lingerie with objects up our asses and another guys cum in our mouth and wonder 'what the frig was that all about'.

Im a kisser and hugger and talker. In that awkward silent moment, after we have fucked and cum, I like to connect to my partner, outside of the sex-goggle lens.

It's in these moments I believe I want a trans person as a partner. Soft and chilled, capable of hard and heavy, but both on the same journey. Maybe it's a fantasy: A gay marriage often seems like that. Endless sex, open, everywhere. Fucking and being fucked.

Gay couples! Tell me it's all true!.

F@tlife is a good place to visit, with similar discussions.

Good luck, everybody.

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By *etstalkMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I am still searching for that one guy who I find attractive, and who gives me the reason to close my account here and for us to be exclusive. Hope 2024 makes our paths cross!

I suppose it depends on the definition of relationship. I would like this but nothing more committed. Is that a relationship?"

Agree with both comments 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not found love but have made one or two lasting friends.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
over a year ago

East Devon

It is still very much my hope to find one guy who will love me as much as I love him. I long to experience once more that earth shattering, breathtaking moment of first attraction , the getting to know each other , where a cuddle can be only a cuddle, a prelude or something you fall asleep in and wake up with …To be able to do the little things that show I care for him , to applaud his strengths and support his weakness as he will mine …..

To all who are searching may 2024 be your year .

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By *om1968Man
over a year ago

Southampton

I have had a three long term relationships with men. Met two on Gaydar, back when it was good, and one I met by chance in a gay bar. My hope for 2024 is that I will find love with another gay man.

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By *enjamin2018Man
over a year ago

Halstead

"It is still very much my hope to find one guy who will love me as much as I love him. I long to experience once more that earth shattering, breathtaking moment of first attraction , the getting to know each other , where a cuddle can be only a cuddle, a prelude or something you fall asleep in and wake up with …To be able to do the little things that show I care for him , to applaud his strengths and support his weakness as he will mine …..

To all who are searching may 2024 be your year . "

Well said

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By *ustOneBearCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Luton

Here’s hoping you find what you wish for. The trick is to realise when you find the one.

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By *oanne..TV/TS
over a year ago

DONCASTER

I kissed a few frogs and then she came into my world xxx

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By *ung straight guyMan
over a year ago

waterlooville

I have done this before

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By *aniBttmBoiMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

I mean it’s something I’ve defo thought about, but I’m a bit skeptical lol most people only want one thing

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By *exmachineMan
over a year ago

kent

Bf and I met on another site 20 yrs ago…. Still together!

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By *inchbiguyMan
over a year ago

North Aberdeenshire

"Not on here but a bear hook up site.

Wasn’t looking for a relationship

But saw this guy regularly and fell in love with him

I just had to tell him. I was sure he would run a mile but he said he was in love with me, too. We married four years later.

Nice guys! Well done you two!"

Ace guys nice one

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

There’s someone out there for everyone. You just gotta kiss a few frogs to find them

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By *etalFusionMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I don't believe everyone finds someone.

2024 will be the same as previous years: nothing.

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By *ay4121Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

Not sure many on here are looking for love but ultimately it is a place that you meet people and therefore it can and probably does happen from time to tume

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By *etalFusionMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Not sure many on here are looking for love but ultimately it is a place that you meet people and therefore it can and probably does happen from time to tume"

It's down to luck really. Everyone else (especially straight couples) always seem to find someone. If they happen to break up with them, they just find someone else not long after. It's easy for them but impossible for someone like me.

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By *uildford_rugbyMan
over a year ago

guildford

Not a relationship but have gained a FWB that I meet every other week or so

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By *aryn22Man
over a year ago

London

If you go looking for love it won't happen but just meeting guys, even if just for sex, means it can happen - falling in love is not a choice - it just happens.

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By *etalFusionMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"If you go looking for love it won't happen but just meeting guys, even if just for sex, means it can happen - falling in love is not a choice - it just happens. "

...and just get used for sex and they never want anything more. If any guy makes out he wants a relationship, it's usually cos he's after your money or a roof over his head. Be careful!

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By *oggy_style_bottomMan
over a year ago

Derry

The people who found love would be off this site so they won't be able to comment

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I think you can definitely find love weather its for now and forever love who knows xxx

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By *uminsideme .Man
over a year ago

weston s mare

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By *uminsideme .Man
over a year ago

weston s mare

I'd have a relationship with someone I met from here as long as he shared me with other men xx

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By *aking it gayMan
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Be nice to find a lover but hey if that’s gonna happen no one will stop it x

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By *iplym71Man
37 weeks ago

Plymouth

"I'd love a loving relationship, not necessarily living together but having someone to meet regularly for loving moments and great sex, someone who tells me he loves me and gives affection and romance.

I can only dream but I know that someone is out there.

I agree x

I've met a couple of men who were really nice "

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By *loudnineMan
37 weeks ago

Hereford/Powys

It's good to have likeminded chums to chat with.

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By *DCambsMan
37 weeks ago

Cambridge

"Not on here but a bear hook up site.

Love this.

The 2 LTRs I've had I met the guys cruising.

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By *DCambsMan
37 weeks ago

Cambridge

"...... It also got very complicated as he threatened to out me to my partner. Needless to say, I will never put myself in that situation again. "

That's a real shame that because you wouldn't agree to leave your wife that he resorted to such threats.and destroyed your trust, not only in him, but in others too.

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By *anstopMan
37 weeks ago

Mile end

I’d love to meet a guy on here who I click with and hopefully that develops into a relationship.

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By *DCambsMan
37 weeks ago

Cambridge

Brilliant series of responses on here to an honest question.

Yes, this is primarily a hookup site, but people are people and once you meet in person for that quickie or longer shag, that social contact can mean that you gel in some way and one thing leads to another......not always in the direction that you may have expected/hoped for/thought possible.

As someone else said earlier, if you go looking for love/LTR, it may well elude you. The time you're not looking or expecting is when it may well happen. Just have the eyes to see it!!

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By *enjamin2018Man
37 weeks ago

Halstead

Up until now I've been happy with nsa but now I'm warming to the idea of a relationship.I love sex ,but sex with love is even nicer , much more sensual,more than just the physical.Ive had a couple of sleepovers with guys who I've felt close to,but which didn't develop into relationships and they were amazing, being in bed with and close up to a guy you fancy is a lovely experience,and I'd like to follow it through.

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By *ussexDadMan
37 weeks ago

Bexhill

Id love to find a relationship here, but its difficult. Been chatting with a guy for a while which might lead to something more than just a hook up so Im always hopeful.

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By *ortboy7569Man
37 weeks ago

Marske

I did, it's over now, you can't get to our age (I'm 64) without some baggage, unfortunately he had more than I could cope with.

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By *aster CaneMan
37 weeks ago

bridgemary Gosport

I'm not in a relationship but a few of my regulars are now counted as friends

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By *rm_navMan
37 weeks ago

WATFORD

We'd spoken about it and it was developing into love and trust - but suddenly (after a few years on the site) he has vanished from here. Still a member but not on here for a very long time by his usual standards.

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By *oxtrot1471Man
37 weeks ago

oxford

I would not mind a relationship just don't think it will happen from here.

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By *aveagoMan
3 weeks ago

southend

"You cannot find love on normal sites so doubt anyone will from. a fuck site "

I met my last partner off here and were together for over a year..it started off casual and developed into a 1-2-1 so it does happen.

I'd love it to happen again🙂

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By *itchianMan
3 weeks ago

Liverpool

I don’t look for relationships on here but over the years I have met a couple of fellas I would consider having one with

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