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"... us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. " Your current status... 2 hours ago... Fantastic session at the Strand earlier today. Lots of cum was had What excuse did you use for that? | |||
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"For the last couple of days I've been contacted by a local gay lad who said that he would love to suck my cock. He had the obvious bonus of being able to accommodate. Today it has been howling with rain and when he asked me if I was free I explained that I was home with my wife "Just tell her your going out" was his response When I explained that married guys don't often have the luxury of telling our wives that we are "just going out" and that questions would be raised especially in this weather. He got the right hump and became rude. Needless to say he's been blocked. While it's nice to be sought out by a much younger guy .. who can also accommodate, us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. " You could try fidelity | |||
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"For the last couple of days I've been contacted by a local gay lad who said that he would love to suck my cock. He had the obvious bonus of being able to accommodate. Today it has been howling with rain and when he asked me if I was free I explained that I was home with my wife "Just tell her your going out" was his response When I explained that married guys don't often have the luxury of telling our wives that we are "just going out" and that questions would be raised especially in this weather. He got the right hump and became rude. Needless to say he's been blocked. While it's nice to be sought out by a much younger guy .. who can also accommodate, us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. You could try fidelity " Or divorce. | |||
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"... us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. Your current status... 2 hours ago... Fantastic session at the Strand earlier today. Lots of cum was had What excuse did you use for that? " I was already out doing shopping for the wife.. so it made it easier for a random meet. When guys are looking for arranged meets around work time mine and theirs it makes it more difficult | |||
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"... us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. Your current status... 2 hours ago... Fantastic session at the Strand earlier today. Lots of cum was had What excuse did you use for that? "  | |||
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"... us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. Your current status... 2 hours ago... Fantastic session at the Strand earlier today. Lots of cum was had What excuse did you use for that? I was already out doing shopping for the wife.. so it made it easier for a random meet. When guys are looking for arranged meets around work time mine and theirs it makes it more difficult " I feel sorry for your wife. | |||
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" While it's nice to be sought out by a much younger guy .. who can also accommodate, us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. " Don't ask, don't tell. He sounds a bit uptight. Moments happen when the paths of two people cross.  | |||
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"I suppose it is Easter after all but there seems to be a lot of holier than thou types on here!" I don't mind married guys looking for cock and I've met plenty, but don't come on here bitching about how difficult it is. | |||
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"For the last couple of days I've been contacted by a local gay lad who said that he would love to suck my cock. He had the obvious bonus of being able to accommodate. Today it has been howling with rain and when he asked me if I was free I explained that I was home with my wife "Just tell her your going out" was his response When I explained that married guys don't often have the luxury of telling our wives that we are "just going out" and that questions would be raised especially in this weather. He got the right hump and became rude. Needless to say he's been blocked. While it's nice to be sought out by a much younger guy .. who can also accommodate, us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. " I really understand your problem. I’d love to meet more but working and living with someone makes it a challenge that people with a less complicated life don’t seem to get. | |||
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"Bloody hell the moral high ground on some!!!" . There just guys on here who enjoy vicious verbal assaults. Ignore them, or do what i do. Laugh at them | |||
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"For the last couple of days I've been contacted by a local gay lad who said that he would love to suck my cock. He had the obvious bonus of being able to accommodate. Today it has been howling with rain and when he asked me if I was free I explained that I was home with my wife "Just tell her your going out" was his response When I explained that married guys don't often have the luxury of telling our wives that we are "just going out" and that questions would be raised especially in this weather. He got the right hump and became rude. Needless to say he's been blocked. While it's nice to be sought out by a much younger guy .. who can also accommodate, us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. " Totally emphasise with this situation , I’ve missed out in so many meets due to the same problem . | |||
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"As a single gay man, I've had the opposite, I've had married men that I have met, just turning up and knocking on my door when they've been horny..I've even had friends here when this has happened.. just because I accom, they felt that I was "fair game" whenever they wanted a bit." That’s totally out of order!! Doesn’t matter who you are, turning up out of the blue is completely wrong. | |||
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"As a single gay man, I've had the opposite, I've had married men that I have met, just turning up and knocking on my door when they've been horny..I've even had friends here when this has happened.. just because I accom, they felt that I was "fair game" whenever they wanted a bit." That's why I rarely accommodate - there are some weirdos out there. | |||
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"I suppose it is Easter after all but there seems to be a lot of holier than thou types on here! I don't mind married guys looking for cock and I've met plenty, but don't come on here bitching about how difficult it is." He didn’t bitch on how difficult things were, but that some people are not understanding and rude. | |||
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" He didn’t bitch on how difficult things were, but that some people are not understanding and rude." But that happens both ways - I get some lame messages from married guys needed to meet "right now" .. I take a deep breath & i write a sweet message back, usually saying we could plan it if we like each others etc and I usually get blocked or I get a POXY "ok" | |||
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"As a single gay man, I've had the opposite, I've had married men that I have met, just turning up and knocking on my door when they've been horny..I've even had friends here when this has happened.. just because I accom, they felt that I was "fair game" whenever they wanted a bit." Find out his address and turn up unannounced and see how he likes it! That will soon put a stop to it lol! | |||
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"For the last couple of days I've been contacted by a local gay lad who said that he would love to suck my cock. He had the obvious bonus of being able to accommodate. Today it has been howling with rain and when he asked me if I was free I explained that I was home with my wife "Just tell her your going out" was his response When I explained that married guys don't often have the luxury of telling our wives that we are "just going out" and that questions would be raised especially in this weather. He got the right hump and became rude. Needless to say he's been blocked. While it's nice to be sought out by a much younger guy .. who can also accommodate, us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. " It is really difficult, I know | |||
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"I don't have this problem myself. But then I'm single...and gay "I wonder why? | |||
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"Take up Running . That has the advantage of you being able to get out n about for a decent length of time whenever you want to really - morning, noon & night. Also explains why you often come back hot n sweaty n needing a bath. And actually helps keep you fit too. "Brilliant thinking! | |||
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"I don't have this problem myself. But then I'm single...and gay
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"Oscar Wild invented the concept of Bunburying when he wrote 'The Importance of Being Earnest' in 1895. 130 years later guys are too 'pussy whipped' to have any imagination. Note how the OP can be a 'man' with the block button, can get some action when he's 'shopping for the wife' yet can't put his coat on an walk out of his own house. I reckon he did his youthful pursuer a favour. Of course it's difficult if you're married, if you also lack any imagination you make it even more so. 'I'm at home with the wife'. If you're too nervous to risk it at least have a better line than that in your locker. All this droning on about single gay guys be inconsiderate. I've lost count if how many married guys have contacted me expecting to just jump whether it be hosting which my profile says I can rarely do, or careering off to a hotel at 11pm at night because THEY are horny. It cuts both ways. You're in the situation you're in. Either be a man and develop some Bunburying strategies or put up with it. Coming on here moaning, in whatever context, will change nothing." Youre on here moaning | |||
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" Youre on here moaning" Nope. I'm just telling the spineless and pussy whipped to grow a pair. | |||
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" Youre on here moaning Nope. I'm just telling the spineless and pussy whipped to grow a pair." lve had countless messages from idiots asking me to meet them at midnight and later , theyre too stupid to realise that as an attached man you cant just get up and go out at 2 am for hours without a lot of questions being asked. | |||
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" lve had countless messages from idiots asking me to meet them at midnight and later , theyre too stupid to realise that as an attached man you cant just get up and go out at 2 am for hours without a lot of questions being asked. " That is a bit ridiculous. I wouldn't go out at that time regardless. However, it's not the scenario in the OP | |||
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" When I explained that married guys don't often have the luxury of telling our wives that we are "just going out" and that questions would be raised especially in this weather. He got the right hump and became rude. Needless to say he's been blocked. While it's nice to be sought out by a much younger guy .. who can also accommodate, us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. " This is one of the reason I tend not to bother to meet attached guys. Almost impossible to find common slot and chances to be cancelled last minute is too high. | |||
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"... us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. Your current status... 2 hours ago... Fantastic session at the Strand earlier today. Lots of cum was had What excuse did you use for that? I was already out doing shopping for the wife.. so it made it easier for a random meet. When guys are looking for arranged meets around work time mine and theirs it makes it more difficult I feel sorry for your wife." Maybe you should feel sorry for all the wives of married guys on here. You don't know mine so I shouldn't worry too much | |||
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"I suppose it is Easter after all but there seems to be a lot of holier than thou types on here! I don't mind married guys looking for cock and I've met plenty, but don't come on here bitching about how difficult it is." So, if you have met plenty, did you feel sorry for their wives and tell them you could not possibly condone them cheating, due to your high moral standards... or did your cock make that decision for you ?? | |||
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"I suppose it is Easter after all but there seems to be a lot of holier than thou types on here! I don't mind married guys looking for cock and I've met plenty, but don't come on here bitching about how difficult it is. So, if you have met plenty, did you feel sorry for their wives and tell them you could not possibly condone them cheating, due to your high moral standards... or did your cock make that decision for you ??" Really... So you've never engaged in a sexual act with a married man? | |||
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"... married guys don't often have the luxury of telling our wives that we are "just going out"!!! .... married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. " Or indeed while go to shop without an inquisition (even to buy bread/milk/dinner/ life saving medicine!) Unless she seems it necessary! | |||
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"I suppose it is Easter after all but there seems to be a lot of holier than thou types on here! I don't mind married guys looking for cock and I've met plenty, but don't come on here bitching about how difficult it is. So, if you have met plenty, did you feel sorry for their wives and tell them you could not possibly condone them cheating, due to your high moral standards... or did your cock make that decision for you ?? Really... So you've never engaged in a sexual act with a married man? " Who are you aiminv your response at?? I am defending you, you plank... Married men are wonderful... I am one... | |||
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"It’s a difficult dilemma as shouldn’t be cheating on the wife … I’m divorced and have bi sexual girlfriend.. in straight relationships always feel sorry for wife as not fair if husband bi and being unfaithful behind her back … if she was shagging your best mate you would be pissed off.. " If she was shagging my best mate I'd be bloody surprised. | |||
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"I suppose it is Easter after all but there seems to be a lot of holier than thou types on here! I don't mind married guys looking for cock and I've met plenty, but don't come on here bitching about how difficult it is. So, if you have met plenty, did you feel sorry for their wives and tell them you could not possibly condone them cheating, due to your high moral standards... or did your cock make that decision for you ??" No, didn't feel sorry for any of the dried up miseries. Most were just letting a good man go to waste. My issue is with married men complaining about how difficult their lives are when they could make some difficult but necessary decisions instead. | |||
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"I suppose it is Easter after all but there seems to be a lot of holier than thou types on here! I don't mind married guys looking for cock and I've met plenty, but don't come on here bitching about how difficult it is. So, if you have met plenty, did you feel sorry for their wives and tell them you could not possibly condone them cheating, due to your high moral standards... or did your cock make that decision for you ?? No, didn't feel sorry for any of the dried up miseries. Most were just letting a good man go to waste. My issue is with married men complaining about how difficult their lives are when they could make some difficult but necessary decisions instead. " I'm not complaining about a difficult life, what difficult and necessary decisions are you referring to | |||
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"For the last couple of days I've been contacted by a local gay lad who said that he would love to suck my cock. He had the obvious bonus of being able to accommodate. Today it has been howling with rain and when he asked me if I was free I explained that I was home with my wife "Just tell her your going out" was his response When I explained that married guys don't often have the luxury of telling our wives that we are "just going out" and that questions would be raised especially in this weather. He got the right hump and became rude. Needless to say he's been blocked. While it's nice to be sought out by a much younger guy .. who can also accommodate, us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. You could try fidelity " How judgemental. | |||
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"Let's all just leave our wives and get more cock. ". What and end up like many on here. Lonely and depressed? They forget what they have messaged on other threads | |||
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"For the last couple of days I've been contacted by a local gay lad who said that he would love to suck my cock. He had the obvious bonus of being able to accommodate. Today it has been howling with rain and when he asked me if I was free I explained that I was home with my wife "Just tell her your going out" was his response When I explained that married guys don't often have the luxury of telling our wives that we are "just going out" and that questions would be raised especially in this weather. He got the right hump and became rude. Needless to say he's been blocked. While it's nice to be sought out by a much younger guy .. who can also accommodate, us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. " You should get a dog 🐶 Springer spaniels need lots of exercise. Even when it's raining | |||
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"I’ve always gone out - the gym, playing squash and had had friends that I visited and can say I’m going out for an hour- it’s how you want to make your life " Agreed, when I was married we both had our own interests so it would never have been an issue to find an excuse. | |||
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"Oscar Wild invented the concept of Bunburying when he wrote 'The Importance of Being Earnest' in 1895. 130 years later guys are too 'pussy whipped' to have any imagination. Note how the OP can be a 'man' with the block button, can get some action when he's 'shopping for the wife' yet can't put his coat on an walk out of his own house. I reckon he did his youthful pursuer a favour. Of course it's difficult if you're married, if you also lack any imagination you make it even more so. 'I'm at home with the wife'. If you're too nervous to risk it at least have a better line than that in your locker. All this droning on about single gay guys be inconsiderate. I've lost count if how many married guys have contacted me expecting to just jump whether it be hosting which my profile says I can rarely do, or careering off to a hotel at 11pm at night because THEY are horny. It cuts both ways. You're in the situation you're in. Either be a man and develop some Bunburying strategies or put up with it. Coming on here moaning, in whatever context, will change nothing." 'Bunburying' is indeed an interesting concept. Looking the term up may help some of the people complaining about being unable to meet as often as they would like. Making a little effort in order to devise such a strategy can be extremely useful. | |||
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"As a single gay man, I've had the opposite, I've had married men that I have met, just turning up and knocking on my door when they've been horny..I've even had friends here when this has happened.. just because I accom, they felt that I was "fair game" whenever they wanted a bit." Something I would never even contemplate doing | |||
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"As a single gay man, I've had the opposite, I've had married men that I have met, just turning up and knocking on my door when they've been horny..I've even had friends here when this has happened.. just because I accom, they felt that I was "fair game" whenever they wanted a bit. Something I would never even contemplate doing " This happened to me less than a month ago. Married guy who hadn't been in contact for a year, turned up d*unk thinking I'd get on my knees to suck him off. Got him a taxi instead. | |||
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"As a single gay man, I've had the opposite, I've had married men that I have met, just turning up and knocking on my door when they've been horny..I've even had friends here when this has happened.. just because I accom, they felt that I was "fair game" whenever they wanted a bit." That’s not on discretion works both ways | |||
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"... and door bell cameras add an extra challenge too. " Never understood that. Isn't the point of those cameras to tell you who is at the door when you aren't in? If you in mist houses have windows you can look out of | |||
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"Married men , one word. Spineless. Haven’t got a backbone between them. Have the audacity to think it’s always on their terms and find will the justification in what they do , no matter how wrong it is. Simple answer to this , tell your loving mother wife , exactly what you’re up to, see how justified it is then Sad specimens. " Not so easy - life is complicated. | |||
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"... us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. Your current status... 2 hours ago... Fantastic session at the Strand earlier today. Lots of cum was had What excuse did you use for that? I was already out doing shopping for the wife.. so it made it easier for a random meet. When guys are looking for arranged meets around work time mine and theirs it makes it more difficult I feel sorry for your wife." Same here | |||
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"Married men , one word. Spineless. Haven’t got a backbone between them. Have the audacity to think it’s always on their terms and find will the justification in what they do , no matter how wrong it is. Simple answer to this , tell your loving mother wife , exactly what you’re up to, see how justified it is then Sad specimens. Not so easy - life is complicated." Yeah yeah. Like i said. There’s always an excuse for justification | |||
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"Married men , one word. Spineless. Haven’t got a backbone between them. Have the audacity to think it’s always on their terms and find will the justification in what they do , no matter how wrong it is. Simple answer to this , tell your loving mother wife , exactly what you’re up to, see how justified it is then Sad specimens. " Yet there are many gay men who love having sex with married guys, and unashamedly advertise the fact that they welcome then. It pays not to make such sweeping judgements. | |||
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"Married men , one word. Spineless. Haven’t got a backbone between them. Have the audacity to think it’s always on their terms and find will the justification in what they do , no matter how wrong it is. Simple answer to this , tell your loving mother wife , exactly what you’re up to, see how justified it is then Sad specimens. Yet there are many gay men who love having sex with married guys, and unashamedly advertise the fact that they welcome then. It pays not to make such sweeping judgements." | |||
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"As a single gay man, I've had the opposite, I've had married men that I have met, just turning up and knocking on my door when they've been horny..I've even had friends here when this has happened.. just because I accom, they felt that I was "fair game" whenever they wanted a bit. Something I would never even contemplate doing This happened to me less than a month ago. Married guy who hadn't been in contact for a year, turned up d*unk thinking I'd get on my knees to suck him off. Got him a taxi instead." Make the bastard walk | |||
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"A married guy asked if I would be interested in fucking his wife in a three-some, I replied definitely not. He asked why not? I replied I’m Gay ffs. " That's because profiles aren't ready or ready properly. There's a lot to be said for 'read the small print' | |||
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"As a single gay man, I've had the opposite, I've had married men that I have met, just turning up and knocking on my door when they've been horny..I've even had friends here when this has happened.. just because I accom, they felt that I was "fair game" whenever they wanted a bit. Something I would never even contemplate doing This happened to me less than a month ago. Married guy who hadn't been in contact for a year, turned up d*unk thinking I'd get on my knees to suck him off. Got him a taxi instead. Make the bastard walk " Hahahaha I should have. | |||
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"Married men , one word. Spineless. Haven’t got a backbone between them. Have the audacity to think it’s always on their terms and find will the justification in what they do , no matter how wrong it is. Simple answer to this , tell your loving mother wife , exactly what you’re up to, see how justified it is then Sad specimens. Not so easy - life is complicated." Heard this many of times. They always come back though. Just wonder if anyone would ever come out and live life authentically in this forum. Imagine your wife she would be broken. | |||
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"So, why marry to start off with ?" Such a great sweeping comment. I think I’ve had bisexual feelings since an early age but just never really understood that. Met a girl, feel in love, proposal happened and then married. And then the internet - which allowed me to consider different feelings and thoughts and so on… I love my wife and kids; don’t want to shatter their lives but know I’m genuinely bisexual. So the “why marry in the first place” doesn’t really work huh. | |||
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"So, why marry to start off with ? Such a great sweeping comment. I think I’ve had bisexual feelings since an early age but just never really understood that. Met a girl, feel in love, proposal happened and then married. And then the internet - which allowed me to consider different feelings and thoughts and so on… I love my wife and kids; don’t want to shatter their lives but know I’m genuinely bisexual. So the “why marry in the first place” doesn’t really work huh." Ignore the trolls and trollops. They get off on trying to spread dissent in the forums. Block and ignore but you will still see them squealing and squeaking. When they do, you know you’re in their head | |||
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"So, why marry to start off with ?" It's not always about being attracted to another man. I have no interest or attraction to another male. However I do enjoy cock fun. It's something that goes way back before GFs or marriage. Some guys have the type of relationship where they can be open and honest. For some of us that don't there is still the thrill element of playing with or having sex with another man. In 57 years no members of my family, GFs, wife's, friends or colleagues have ever known or will ever know about this side of my life. I have a female lover 25 years younger than me who does know and it turns her on. Marriage is something totally different outside of all this. Why marry her? Because I couldn't imagine a life without her in it. | |||
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"If you’re hooking up with married men you have to expect some last minute cancellations and some difficulties organising meetings. What is frustrating is when they no show. You get the pathetic “ sorry I couldn’t message you yesterday, wife didn’t go out” a day or two after. We both know you could have sent a message. I have a couple of men married to women I see, they occasionally cancel last minute but they have the decency to tell me as soon as they know." The problem with the married closeted types is, they really only care about themselves, you are just someone to suit them. They couldn’t give a flying fk , If they cancel a meet just because the poor old wife decided not to go to the bingo the day they were meant to meet you. You are nothing to them. Who the fk would want that disrespect. Cue the hoards of homos who would jump at the chance. lol | |||
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"For the last couple of days I've been contacted by a local gay lad who said that he would love to suck my cock. He had the obvious bonus of being able to accommodate. Today it has been howling with rain and when he asked me if I was free I explained that I was home with my wife "Just tell her your going out" was his response When I explained that married guys don't often have the luxury of telling our wives that we are "just going out" and that questions would be raised especially in this weather. He got the right hump and became rude. Needless to say he's been blocked. While it's nice to be sought out by a much younger guy .. who can also accommodate, us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. " Im a single dad obviously with single dad responsibilities, I get the same shit.. 'well, just pop out for a bit, she won't know you've gone out' dude, its 12am im not nipping out and leaving her and nor are you coming here. | |||
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"I have the same problem. I envy the guys who go golfing or fishing. That must give opportunities. " I can imagine - golfer to the wife “I’m off to play around dear”. Fisherman - I’ll just be sitting there dangling my maggot. | |||
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"If you’re hooking up with married men you have to expect some last minute cancellations and some difficulties organising meetings. What is frustrating is when they no show. You get the pathetic “ sorry I couldn’t message you yesterday, wife didn’t go out” a day or two after. We both know you could have sent a message. I have a couple of men married to women I see, they occasionally cancel last minute but they have the decency to tell me as soon as they know. The problem with the married closeted types is, they really only care about themselves, you are just someone to suit them. They couldn’t give a flying fk , If they cancel a meet just because the poor old wife decided not to go to the bingo the day they were meant to meet you. You are nothing to them. Who the fk would want that disrespect. Cue the hoards of homos who would jump at the chance. lol " Spot on. I think the biggest marker between gay and bi is the guys who see “cock fun” as an activity and others who see it as an identity. Don’t get caught up on these sites | |||
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"I suppose it is Easter after all but there seems to be a lot of holier than thou types on here! I don't mind married guys looking for cock and I've met plenty, but don't come on here bitching about how difficult it is." . He made a comment on a public forum. Not bitching | |||
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"So, why marry to start off with ? Such a great sweeping comment. I think I’ve had bisexual feelings since an early age but just never really understood that. Met a girl, feel in love, proposal happened and then married. And then the internet - which allowed me to consider different feelings and thoughts and so on… I love my wife and kids; don’t want to shatter their lives but know I’m genuinely bisexual. So the “why marry in the first place” doesn’t really work huh." This. I've not discovered my bisexuality until we were married for 10 years. She started playing with my bum and that's how I discovered it. We even had some men over for a threesome(4 guys, 4 different meets) and she said she didn't like it. In all 4 she found something, either he was too old, or his cock was too small, etc. Although, she's aware that I like sucking cock and have one inside me,she doesn't let me meet other men. I love her and my kids dearly, and they love me(so they say) and I wouldn't want to ruin their lives by cheating on her, but the desire to meet men is very strong for me. With the work she's doing, her work hours change all the time and it's very hard to plan anything. I can't go for a run, I have a bad knee. And all the men who could accom in my area are not within walking distance. | |||
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"This is something that I'm very familiar with. At first it wasn't too difficult and I had an excuse I could use but the wife got very suspicious. Now I've pretty much given up. There's a guy I'd love to see again but I'm out of excuses. It's very frustrating being stuck in a sexless marriage with no way out. "Sounds like you need a hobby that takes you away from home. All night fishing...? | |||
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"For the last couple of days I've been contacted by a local gay lad who said that he would love to suck my cock. He had the obvious bonus of being able to accommodate. Today it has been howling with rain and when he asked me if I was free I explained that I was home with my wife "Just tell her your going out" was his response When I explained that married guys don't often have the luxury of telling our wives that we are "just going out" and that questions would be raised especially in this weather. He got the right hump and became rude. Needless to say he's been blocked. While it's nice to be sought out by a much younger guy .. who can also accommodate, us married guys are not just able to get up and leave the wife at home while we get our illicit jollies. You could try fidelity " Get a life judgy mcjudgemental | |||
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"As a single gay man, I've had the opposite, I've had married men that I have met, just turning up and knocking on my door when they've been horny..I've even had friends here when this has happened.. just because I accom, they felt that I was "fair game" whenever they wanted a bit. Something I would never even contemplate doing This happened to me less than a month ago. Married guy who hadn't been in contact for a year, turned up d*unk thinking I'd get on my knees to suck him off. Got him a taxi instead." He’d have gotten an even bigger surprise if you had moved and it was someone else living there. 😱 | |||
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