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By *aypee46 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Now I thought I understood all this but maybe not !!

I’m a complete bottom, that’s what it says in my profile but I’ve chatted to a few guys who state they are versatile but then in the end they tell me they’re bottom only - is it me or is there some confusion with these ?

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By *ammymacMan
over a year ago

Durham

I’m not sure about definitions but I don’t give anal but I enjoy taking. I enjoy oral both ways to completion, I enjoy masturbating guys and making them cum. I enjoy being masturbated. Am I bottom or just someone who enjoys pleasing others or is that one and the same?

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By *aypee46 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Surely if you’re a bottom like me then you take anal (not obligatory) love to suck cock and take cum ? I love to serve a man and satisfy his needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vers

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By *ough stuffMan
over a year ago

Northamptonshire /Fakenham

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By *aytimeDilfMan
over a year ago

Chester

Vers

The best meetings are where you both fuck n get fucked (safely)

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By *iwelshmanMan
over a year ago

narberth

I'm a vers guy, but when greeted by a big thick cock I'm all about being a bottom

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By *damb00Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I’ve had a few messages from ‘tops’ who then ask if I’m willing to fuck them also

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By *lan82Man
over a year ago

North Hykeham, Lincoln

Versatile.

Best of both worlds.

However last time I bottomed it hurt.

And the last time I topped.. it was aborted..

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By *ohn19742Man
over a year ago

COVENTRY

Versatile but more bottom.

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By *udeguy57Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton/mids

I'm top, I've never been fucked but maybe would like to try.

Does that make me versatile or, top-curious or bottom-curious or versatile-curious?

Labels, labels, labels.

So confusing

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By *ldderMan
over a year ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks. Lymington spar

I'm bottom only so don't fuck guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *exualCumeleonMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Now I thought I understood all this but maybe not !!

I’m a complete bottom, that’s what it says in my profile but I’ve chatted to a few guys who state they are versatile but then in the end they tell me they’re bottom only - is it me or is there some confusion with these ?"

I have met many guys that claim to be verse nut are really bottoms, vers is a guy that can and does top and bottom

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By *ay4121Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

Bottom but would be vers with right guy at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does everything these days have to have a specific label ..

Fuck or be fucked etc just enjoy what turns you on ..

It doesn't make any body less of a man either way ...

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By *aypee46 OP   Man
over a year ago

Nuneaton

My thinking was that if I’m looking for someone to fuck me then either a top or versatile would be good, but then not if they then tell me they are bottoms.

I do t want to apply labels but I think the website could be clearer when asking about your individual needs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a bottom with men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I thought I understood all this but maybe not !!

I’m a complete bottom, that’s what it says in my profile but I’ve chatted to a few guys who state they are versatile but then in the end they tell me they’re bottom only - is it me or is there some confusion with these ?"

I find a lot of guys are confusing and don't actually know what they want or what position they hold, it's the tops who only show ass pics n the bottoms who only show dick pics that confuses the hell out of me lol

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By *ew trixTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster

Versatile as I like to bottom but top other t girls

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By *uskWandererMan
over a year ago

Ormskirk

Labels are good for generalisations but not much more.

I'm my own eyes it all comes down to do you take or give anal, or happy with both.

When it then comes to oral or similar it's preference (some like sucking and not being sucked, vice versa) but that isn't to do with bottom or top.

My more confusion comes from people who believe Bottoms can only be Sub and Tops are only Dominant.

Some awesome power bottoms out there who know what they want and how to get it

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By *iassloverMan
over a year ago

Rugby

I'm vers. I've got preferences about topping and bottoming. Generally I bottom to older guys and top younger, or at least flip fuck. But it's not set in stone if there's a younger top and I like the look of his cock ill offer my arse. I love to 69 too. It really depends on my mood though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Labels are good for generalisations but not much more.

I'm my own eyes it all comes down to do you take or give anal, or happy with both.

When it then comes to oral or similar it's preference (some like sucking and not being sucked, vice versa) but that isn't to do with bottom or top.

My more confusion comes from people who believe Bottoms can only be Sub and Tops are only Dominant.

Some awesome power bottoms out there who know what they want and how to get it"

I've met a few power bottoms in my time and wow they certainly know how to satisfy, I always remember a 22yo I met he rode my dick so good made me shoot 4 huge loads in him b4 he gave me my dick back.

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
over a year ago

Heathrow

Sounded like a game show back in the day think it called Strike it Lucky Michael Barry more was the hoste lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounded like a game show back in the day think it called Strike it Lucky Michael Barry more was the hoste lol"

Bloody hell that's some years ago now lol

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
over a year ago

Heathrow


"Sounded like a game show back in the day think it called Strike it Lucky Michael Barry more was the hoste lol

Bloody hell that's some years ago now lol"
When a game show was a Game show lol

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By *iassloverMan
over a year ago

Rugby


"Sounded like a game show back in the day think it called Strike it Lucky Michael Barry more was the hoste lol

Bloody hell that's some years ago now lolWhen a game show was a Game show lol"

As long as it doesn't take place in a swimming pool you're probably OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself to be verse….but definitely have an inclination to be the bottom in most of my meets. Especially if the guy has a big cock! Also love a meet where we both fuck each other

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By *iss TTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham

When I search for Top guys loads of versatile guys appear in the results. If I wanted versatile guys I would search for them. Surely this must be something the site can fix.

Also some people seem to confuse Dom and Sub with top and bottom.

It also helps if you read a profile...sorry carry on rant over x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sounded like a game show back in the day think it called Strike it Lucky Michael Barry more was the hoste lol

Bloody hell that's some years ago now lolWhen a game show was a Game show lol"

Yeh they don't make them like that anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I search for Top guys loads of versatile guys appear in the results. If I wanted versatile guys I would search for them. Surely this must be something the site can fix.

Also some people seem to confuse Dom and Sub with top and bottom.

It also helps if you read a profile...sorry carry on rant over x"

I've had that a few times where guys have thought being a bottom is a submissive thing, I even had one guy think that sucking dick was a kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not sure about definitions but I don’t give anal but I enjoy taking. I enjoy oral both ways to completion, I enjoy masturbating guys and making them cum. I enjoy being masturbated. Am I bottom or just someone who enjoys pleasing others or is that one and the same? "

If you like it up your arse bug don’t like sticking if up someone’s arse you are a bottom , if you like both you are vers if you only like fucking ie giving but not receiving you are a top .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All bottom. No interest in mounting a guy and not even that interested in recieving oral.

Lots of fondling and edging please and a good shag when the top is ready for it.

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By *opperMan
over a year ago

North Wales

I guess I'm versatile. Love fucking and being fucked, sucking and being sucked. I hate the Dom/Sub stuff, just go with the flow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess I'm versatile. Love fucking and being fucked, sucking and being sucked. I hate the Dom/Sub stuff, just go with the flow! "

I like the submissive side of things but never found a decent dom to really experience it properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely if you’re a bottom like me then you take anal (not obligatory) love to suck cock and take cum ? I love to serve a man and satisfy his needs"

That’s very near how I’d describe a bottom too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a few messages from ‘tops’ who then ask if I’m willing to fuck them also"

And when you refuse they lose interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I thought I understood all this but maybe not !!

I’m a complete bottom, that’s what it says in my profile but I’ve chatted to a few guys who state they are versatile but then in the end they tell me they’re bottom only - is it me or is there some confusion with these ?"

From experience if you tell them that you are above average or bigger they suddenly become bottom I think you understand why. Or they find you not appealing enough to top But will accept to be a bottom instead I don't know really.

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By *atterupMan
over a year ago

rlb

I enjoy been a bottom, but I will fuck a nice ass when the mood is right. So I consider myself a bottom vers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom for older top for younger

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By *ttmblkMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

I class myself as a bottom. Always have been. Love the idea of a masculine man giving it to me good and hard, grunting and sweating while doing it with a determined expression on his face. Doesn't mean I wouldn't want to try topping one day. Depends on a few things. Noticed lately my cock doesn't look too bad when erect, keeping it hard. Until I try it I'm a bottom I suppose.

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By *irralGuy20Man
over a year ago

Wirral

My profile states that I'm bottom and it is exactly how I see myself but if a guy I was with asked/wanted to role reverse at some point I don't think I would have a problem with it.

I could never see myself offering to Top though, I think it would need to come from the partner i am with at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a top always have been and always will be

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By *hamesguyMan
over a year ago

Sunbury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top here

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By *eannaTV/TS
over a year ago

Newport

Definitely a bottom, I suck ( but not to completion) just to get my partner hard and horney enough to want to fuck me

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By *ountyGuy18Man
over a year ago

Leicester Groby Road

I'm versatile.

Love fucking and being fucked, sucking and being sucked, rimming and being rimmed and kissing.

Not too keen on the Dom / sub stuff but will spank and be slightly Dom with a hot young guy, just go with the flow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to be versatile

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By *ard8onMan
over a year ago

Darwen

I've discovered lately that I am probably a versatile bottom. A guy just has to kiss me deeply and I melt. I love to give anal but taking is absolutely lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Versatile

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By *arti G xTV/TS
over a year ago

Chandlers Ford

Bottom only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its on profiles...unless there's shock horror liars on fab

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By *egetiusMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’m versatile and enjoy anything that comes my way.

That said, sometimes I need to be top or bottom depending on my mood, but if I’m feeling ‘specific’ I always mention it on my profile or status to avoid any confusion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about side ?

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By *ldderMan
over a year ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks. Lymington spar

I'm bottom only need regular cock inside me

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By *att1001Man
over a year ago

Duns


"Now I thought I understood all this but maybe not !!

I’m a complete bottom, that’s what it says in my profile but I’ve chatted to a few guys who state they are versatile but then in the end they tell me they’re bottom only - is it me or is there some confusion with these ?"

Some people might be bottom or top depending on the other person, hence vers in their profile. For example bottom for men, top for TG/CD.

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By *losbiguy77Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Versatile here but more than happy to be top if I meet a bottom guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m versatile. I prefer to play bottom but some guys like to be fucked too so I’m happy to oblige. Flip fuck sessions are amazing!

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By *icefruitMan
over a year ago

London, Barbican and Essex CO6

Completely versatile here and love versatile guys that flip

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By *ungandMan
over a year ago

daveyhulme

I’m happy with either a top or versatile guy

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By *arren28Man
over a year ago

sunderland

I’m bottom and only like top men x x x

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By *Vbi47Man
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Versatile for most stuff but purely btm for fucking

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By *ebeccaHallTVTV/TS
over a year ago

BECKENHAM

Bottom only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bottom. As soon as a top pulls out a big dick I can’t help but do whatever I’m told

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By *orfunxxxxMan
over a year ago

Meath

They just can’t admit they are bottoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not sure about definitions but I don’t give anal but I enjoy taking. I enjoy oral both ways to completion, I enjoy masturbating guys and making them cum. I enjoy being masturbated. Am I bottom or just someone who enjoys pleasing others or is that one and the same? "

I think it all gets confused if you could otherwise be regarded as sub or dom .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I classify myself as vers but love anal play and a cock inside me .. that said I can’t resist fucking a skinny smooth shaven hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely a sub bottom

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By *hxpMan
over a year ago

Canary Wharf


"Now I thought I understood all this but maybe not !!

I’m a complete bottom, that’s what it says in my profile but I’ve chatted to a few guys who state they are versatile but then in the end they tell me they’re bottom only - is it me or is there some confusion with these ?"

Tastes change, I'm down as vers but am more interested in exploring bottoming at the moment. There seems to be an obsession on here and fabswingers with pigeonholing people, people should just be allowed to be who they want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I class my self as versatile.as I like sucking and being sucked also give and take anal but go with the flow on a meet depending on the guy I meet

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By *qounkMan
over a year ago

nr holsworthy

I’ve only had experience of oral and attempted once to top (never bottomed but would really like to ). Could not get motivated and lost interest almost immediately. A power bottom might change that, as I am sub in nature or a guy/girl with an extremely fit body that makes me go oo la la la. Would love to edge a guy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never saw myself as anything other than a bottom for years.

Until I discovered the pleasure of topping smooth twinks, twunks and femboys.

I label myself now as bottom versatile.

I'm 90% bottom now, not 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Total Bottom, love too serve cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Top-top

Versatile-bottom

Bottom-bottom

In my experience…

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By *ubberFunkerMan
over a year ago

London Thanet

Yeah, I've always though that you bottom boys were very confused.

Be a man: FUCK & GET FUCKED, in mouth, in cunt, in arse & the do it all again & we all know which feels best

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By *airFetishMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Now I thought I understood all this but maybe not !!

I’m a complete bottom, that’s what it says in my profile but I’ve chatted to a few guys who state they are versatile but then in the end they tell me they’re bottom only - is it me or is there some confusion with these ?"

No, that’s how it is these days. I’ve met/messaged so many men who are “versatile”, they send loads of pics of their arse and then, invariably come out with the expected “but I’m mainly bottom really”. So tedious.

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By *oodledoMan
over a year ago

Greenwich


"Now I thought I understood all this but maybe not !!

I’m a complete bottom, that’s what it says in my profile but I’ve chatted to a few guys who state they are versatile but then in the end they tell me they’re bottom only - is it me or is there some confusion with these ?"

Yes, I posted very similar topic a few months ago. Search the forum for "vers to bottom" - you may find your answer there. It is not just you who is, let's say, confused about this

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By *rTee69Man
over a year ago

B

50/50 versatile here - but have some days where, with group events particularly, I go with the intention of topping all night and my cock says, "no, not tonight' and so I end up bottoming all night.

And conversely, have had occasions where I want to bottom all night instead, but my arse closes up and its not going to happen so I go back to topping.

So strange, and very frustrating at times, when the mind and the body dont align!

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By *ay_ThinkingGuyMan
over a year ago

Gt Yarmouth

I'm curious as to why guys like to only top or only bottom. I have a suspicion it has much to do with confidence. If you've only ever been topped, the idea of topping a guy and thinking you're "getting it wrong" is probably going to put you off.

In reality, it doesn't really matter just so long as we're cuddled up with bits intimately going where nicest for both of us.

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By *lebog65Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

It varies depending on how I feel, I'm almost always bottom but have topped on occasion

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By *hubbyguy196755Man
over a year ago

sheffield

I.m bottom only but get some messages asking me to fuck them i say sorry i.m bottom only

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By *robesMan
over a year ago

mirfield west works

Top only

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By *onstant.Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I'm definitely bottom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strike It Lucky!

Top,

Middle,

Or bottom?

Just don't go near the swimming pool.

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By *roy8Man
over a year ago

Perthshire

States on mine bottom,used to be Vers as loved sliding in just as much as having it slide into me. Allas get my prostate whipped out put paid to my topping days ,still love playing with a nice ass though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some meets where I've been desperate to top a guy, and it's been great. Other times I've seen someone's cock, and wanted it deep in me. When I've been lucky, Ive had a good few flip fucking sessions. So, I'm sometimes a top, sometimes a bottom, and sometimes truly vers. Does the label really matter? Of course not. It's an indication of what you might be open to, but not a fixed rule book. What I get up to with a guy depends on my mood, the chemistry, location, body, how horny, what I'm fantasising about etc. Do we always wank to the same porn? No, so why stick to exactly the same sex? Each day takes us differently, so my vote is crack on, and enjoy some sex, not over think it too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom only. I only exist to serve and worship cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bottom only. I only exist to serve and worship cocks. "

No you don't. I'm a bottoms bitch. I will suck you

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By *ack222017Man
over a year ago

Cannock

Top here love to Dom a bit take the control

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By *preadmylegsMan
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

After years on and off this site, I think I have figured it out!

Top - a guy who doesn't want sex, but happy to talk and have a wank

Vers - a guy who wants sex, but is 95% Bottom. Also likes a wank

Bottom - a guy who is gagging for it, but is on a site which contains a lot of wankers

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By *ubberFunkerMan
over a year ago

London Thanet


"After years on and off this site, I think I have figured it out!

Top - a guy who doesn't want sex, but happy to talk and have a wank

Vers - a guy who wants sex, but is 95% Bottom. Also likes a wank

Bottom - a guy who is gagging for it, but is on a site which contains a lot of wankers "

Yeah, pretty much sums up the bi & bi-curious guys on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After years on and off this site, I think I have figured it out!

Top - a guy who doesn't want sex, but happy to talk and have a wank

Vers - a guy who wants sex, but is 95% Bottom. Also likes a wank

Bottom - a guy who is gagging for it, but is on a site which contains a lot of wankers

"

Well said

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By *rTee69Man
over a year ago

B


"After years on and off this site, I think I have figured it out!

Top - a guy who doesn't want sex, but happy to talk and have a wank

Vers - a guy who wants sex, but is 95% Bottom. Also likes a wank

Bottom - a guy who is gagging for it, but is on a site which contains a lot of wankers

Yeah, pretty much sums up the bi & bi-curious guys on this site."

Bi guy here - but that most definitely doesnt apply to me!

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By *4BearsMan
over a year ago

Stalybridge, East Manchester


"After years on and off this site, I think I have figured it out!

Top - a guy who doesn't want sex, but happy to talk and have a wank

Vers - a guy who wants sex, but is 95% Bottom. Also likes a wank

Bottom - a guy who is gagging for it, but is on a site which contains a lot of wankers

"

Bottom here

Can confirm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40% top

60% bottom

100% versatile

500% slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"40% top

60% bottom

100% versatile

500% slut

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Bottom here

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By *oodledoMan
over a year ago

Greenwich

GAY APPS/SITES DICTIONARY:

"I am genuine" - I am the same amount of time wasting troll as any other time waster, or sometimes more so.

"Yes, definitely I want to meet" - I have no intention of making plans to meet, but I will keep my options open if I am online and looking, and there isn't anyone better than you around

"Do you want to meet" - I actually don't really want to meet you, but if my other 5 better choices fall through, I might or might not consider eventually meeting you, at some unknown point

"I am into so and so" - I actually don't care about whatever you say, I just said this hoping that it won't be your cup of tea, but even if it is, I will just not reply back.

"I am vers" - I am a sub bottom but too insecure to admit it as to not emasculate me. Also, I have greater chances for a match, plus it shows I am flexible and open-minded. It's a win, right.

"I have this exhaustive list of demands on my profile" - I never intend to meet anyone, the more barriers and filters I've got, will make sure of that. I have in my mind that I want to meet, but have put all these obstacles to make it impossible to happen - my consciousness is clear, it is not because of me. Besides, I am content with just tantalising.

"Let's arrange" - who are we kidding? If it is not right here right now, forget about it. I just want to keep you on a string for one day when all my other plans "A" through "H" have failed, and if the stars align (but we know this will not happen, don't we). I am just being polite to play my part in deluding you.

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over a year ago


"After years on and off this site, I think I have figured it out!

Top - a guy who doesn't want sex, but happy to talk and have a wank

Spot on haha bottom here

Vers - a guy who wants sex, but is 95% Bottom. Also likes a wank

Bottom - a guy who is gagging for it, but is on a site which contains a lot of wankers

Yeah, pretty much sums up the bi & bi-curious guys on this site."

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By *i.topMan
over a year ago

South Newton

I'm top, but oral both ways. I was not always bi and may become versatile who knows.

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By *ay4121Man
over a year ago

Bexleyheath

Depends on partner

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By *orfunxxxxMan
33 weeks ago

Meath

They just can’t admit they are bottoms

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By *ailou22Man
33 weeks ago

Milford Haven

Bottom here,oral both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Bttm

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By *uckitboiMan
33 weeks ago

Chelmsford

Total bottom but I find most vers guys only want to bottom

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By *ottomguy95..Man
33 weeks ago

Torquay

I agree if your a bottom you are purely there to serve the top, i don't even like receiving head just giving lol

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By *esuckerMan
33 weeks ago

Long Eaton, Nottingham

Bottom here I’m here for a top to fuck my big ass until he unloads up my ass or pull out and spray up my back there choice

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By *illmanimp1972Man
33 weeks ago

pitsea

Bottom here ..have occasionally topped

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By *stronomiqueMan
33 weeks ago

Warton / Freckleton

Totally vers...ill smash and be smashed..have my cock sucked and suck cock..rim and be rimmed.

Thres whole shooting match.

If they're bottom..I'll top...if top..get tbat big cock balls deep in my hole

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By *estendladdMan
33 weeks ago

Newcastle

Bottom here any hung tops want fun hmu.

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By *arti G xTV/TS
33 weeks ago

Chandlers Ford

Btm would love a nice mature top ideally tall & on the chunkyish side & local

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
33 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

I am 100% bottom and that should hopefully be clear from my profile. I have noticed a number of guys who have their status set as Vers but then in their profile they say Bottom only, I think they are basically playing a numbers game, more people search for Vers than bottom so they appear in more searches and think they have a better chance of a meet.

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
33 weeks ago

Glasgow South

I am totally verse, I fuck and get fucked. That said it can change depending on the other guy

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By *autiously_curiousMan
33 weeks ago

Craigavon

Are there more bottoms on here than tops then?

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Started from the bottom now we here. 😅

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By *iniversMan
33 weeks ago

h,pool

I'm technically top, but I haven't tried bottom yet so I could be both

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By *ulie64TV/TS
33 weeks ago

Chatham

100% bottom tried top didn't like it xx

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By *oger_07Man
33 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I'm sub oral. I like to be in my knees and suck dick

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By *acingfanMan
33 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Total top. Always upfront about it.

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By *idfielderMan
33 weeks ago

north west

Bottom only here

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By *udiboy1Man
33 weeks ago

glasgow

Deffo bttom

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By *irtdom300Man
33 weeks ago

chesterfield

My ideal is a sub who tops to commande Totally under my control

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By *onstant.Man
33 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Bottom only. Just love being fucked.

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By *unguy2429Man
33 weeks ago

worthing

Bottom here

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By *aypee46 OP   Man
33 weeks ago

Nuneaton


"GAY APPS/SITES DICTIONARY:

"I am genuine" - I am the same amount of time wasting troll as any other time waster, or sometimes more so.

"Yes, definitely I want to meet" - I have no intention of making plans to meet, but I will keep my options open if I am online and looking, and there isn't anyone better than you around

"Do you want to meet" - I actually don't really want to meet you, but if my other 5 better choices fall through, I might or might not consider eventually meeting you, at some unknown point

"I am into so and so" - I actually don't care about whatever you say, I just said this hoping that it won't be your cup of tea, but even if it is, I will just not reply back.

"I am vers" - I am a sub bottom but too insecure to admit it as to not emasculate me. Also, I have greater chances for a match, plus it shows I am flexible and open-minded. It's a win, right.

"I have this exhaustive list of demands on my profile" - I never intend to meet anyone, the more barriers and filters I've got, will make sure of that. I have in my mind that I want to meet, but have put all these obstacles to make it impossible to happen - my consciousness is clear, it is not because of me. Besides, I am content with just tantalising.

"Let's arrange" - who are we kidding? If it is not right here right now, forget about it. I just want to keep you on a string for one day when all my other plans "A" through "H" have failed, and if the stars align (but we know this will not happen, don't we). I am just being polite to play my part in deluding you."

Slightly cynical I feel but with an element of truth

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By *eorgesdadMan
33 weeks ago

Nottingham

I am bottom cos I love being fucked but also cos I suffer erectile dysfunction 🫣💔

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By *ust4inchesMan
33 weeks ago

Shrewsbury

Just pick the one out of three that you think best describes you and then expand/explain your preferences in your profile. It’s really not that difficult.

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By *ndy61hMan
33 weeks ago

Plymouth

I have to say it is a confusing situation. I've met tops who want fucking, bottoms who have fucked me, and versatile who suddenly only want to bottom.

I'm versatile and enjoy meeting anyone, but I rarely cum when I'm just fucking.

I need my bottom played with or fucked to really enjoy a session, and I'm happy to reciprocate.

Also people assume that a top is Dom, a bottom Sub, and a versatile happy to play any role. I'm not dominant in any shape or form, I get turned on pleasing the person I'm with, in anyway they want, but I find no real pleasure in being in a dominant role.

Maybe ditch all these labels, and people just tell you what they will or won't do.

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By *azz CoolMan
33 weeks ago

burnley

Nice smooth bottom would do me perfectly

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By *umlover68Man
33 weeks ago

Worthing

Bottom here, love to take it in both ends (preferably at the same time)

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By *he ForceMan
33 weeks ago

Rugby

With me it does depend how the other guy likes to play.

I’m more often a top… and dominant with it. That’s what most guys seem to expect.

But I’m vers.

If he’s in good shape, anything can happen. If he has a Tom Selleck chest… my ass is his!

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By *ub460Man
33 weeks ago

S. Derbys

Total bottom here, love being fucked by other men, no interest in putting my tiny cock in anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Top here enjoy sucking and spunk too

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By *ockstrapjoMan
33 weeks ago

Westcliff

A top fucks, a bottom takes it.

Oral is part of neutral ground; for me it's foreplay and there is no distinction: but I have encountered people who only suck and consider themselves "bottom oral" and those who don't suck and say "top oral".

These days, non-anal players identify as "side", but FB has caught up with that yet.

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By *ockstrapjoMan
33 weeks ago

Westcliff

"FB hasn't caught up"

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I used to be versatile, but now more bottom.

Always love to feel a fleshy chunky big cock stretching my hole. Feels very, very very good afterwards.

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By *ip71Man
33 weeks ago

Darlington

100% versatile

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By *ennthebigMan
33 weeks ago

Erdington

I’m generally top but want to try bottom

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By *illhouseMan
33 weeks ago

carlisle

I am a “vers” but I normally top older guys and bottom for younger lads

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By *oolpeteMan
33 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Vers bttm . Rx

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By *aucey04TV/TS
33 weeks ago

Bletchingley

Like many here I started out TOP but came to rather liked the sensation of feeling a precum loaded cock being brushed teasingly up and down my crack.

BUT

That all changed when I met a guy who was an amazing masseuse. He expertly massaged both my hole and my cock in the course of our session and I ended up with my legs over his shoulders whilst he teased my hole with the helmet of his not inconsiderable cock.

Before I knew it his cock 'popped' in - OMG the feeling was one of indescribable pleasure so much so that I shot my lot but in doing so clenched the cheeks of my butt, gripping his cock which caused him to unload in my puss.

Needless to say my conversion to being versatile was immediately completed.

I have cum to enjoy the feeling of having a cock exercise in my pussy that I am now totally bottom

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By *ere2pleaseuMan
33 weeks ago

Tamworth

Bottom vers

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I have always enjoyed pleasuring guys cocks since my very first time, found it was the right step to be also taking cock in my arse. I am vers but do prefer being bottom.

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

Absolutely vers dobt care of cock size or shape I want it in me, and topping love any guys ass don't care about his figure I just want to cum in his ass.

Vers is great had some very nice cocks since being inside me since being Bi and any size fits as I train at home to open up.

Anal is the best as long as it's done in a respectful manner that both want

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By (user no longer on site)
33 weeks ago

I’m top

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By *ulie64TV/TS
33 weeks ago

Chatham

100% bottom always have been

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By *ecretGayGuyMan
33 weeks ago

Barnsley

Bottom here but can top and love being sucked too, but mainly suck and be fucked

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By *anchester34Man
33 weeks ago

Manchester

Bttm

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By *anveysubukMan
33 weeks ago

near you

Bottom here canvey. Love suckin indoors or outdoors or in vans

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By *9pleaseMan
33 weeks ago

Southend-on-Sea

Oral

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By *ibrum2025Man
33 weeks ago

round the corner

Really depends who I’m with, if it’s a sexy little assed twink I’m gonna be top, if it’s a sexy fit daddy I’m gonna be biting the pillow 🤷‍♂️

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By *annyDanielleMan
33 weeks ago

Street, Somerset


"Now I thought I understood all this but maybe not !!

I’m a complete bottom, that’s what it says in my profile but I’ve chatted to a few guys who state they are versatile but then in the end they tell me they’re bottom only - is it me or is there some confusion with these ?"

There's a severe shortage of top or top/vers guys on here so i guess they think they're more likely to get a meet by claiming to be vers.

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By *hy-GuyMan
33 weeks ago

Glossop

I say bottom only but that's talking about anal, if it's oral then both ways, so maybe that's what they mean?

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By *im le2Man
33 weeks ago

aylestone leic

No dought about it. I knew from the very first time I got fucked I would be a bottom for life. Do everything else both ways but for anal I want it in me.

You can't be versatile of you don't give amd take.

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By *art1610Man
33 weeks ago

swindon

Bottom only, “total bottom” ie take anal, prefer to suck cock rather than be sucked and rim man hole rather than be rimmed. My total bottom status means I give myself to my Top fully x

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By *ymacMan
33 weeks ago

Derby

Top mainly

But flip a little occasionally

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By *m3232Man
33 weeks ago

maidenhead

I am a top but would be open to being fucked by someone I am interested in

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By *punky1Man
33 weeks ago

just outside of thetford

I’m top but would like to experience being bottom if only the once

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By *oe trinityMan
33 weeks ago

Leeds

Totally bottom I love the feel of submitting to a guy x

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By *ontylad87Man
33 weeks ago

pontefract

Bottom; find me face down, arse up blindfolded! Use me as you need to, cum and go hehehe

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By *udupMan
33 weeks ago

Dundee

Active bottom. Love submitting to hung guys. Have fucked guys occasionally. Like long sessione and quickies.

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By *ottomInBrumMan
33 weeks ago

Birmingham

I'm definitely bottom.

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By *iassloverMan
5 weeks ago

Rugby

I'm Vers. I do love to take a good shagging but if the attraction or the horniness is there I'll top.

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By *excessMan
5 weeks ago

Sleaford

Properly Vers, I love to top and bottom.

Best of both worlds 😉

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By *he frankMan
5 weeks ago

Wideopen

Vers but much more bottom

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By *av1511Man
5 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Sorry but am totally top

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By *ubberdrawsTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Neath

Prefer to bottom but can be versatile if mood takes me.

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By *iassloverMan
5 weeks ago

Rugby


"Sorry but am totally top "

Nothing to be sorry about.

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By *ustPeekinMan
5 weeks ago

Alresford

Side!

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By *toxyMan
5 weeks ago

Bicester

Definitely versatile like mutual fun

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By *aturesub60Man
4 weeks ago

Peterborough

I just like teasing and pleasing and making sure the guy gets what he wants - and is completely pleasured..

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By (user no longer on site)
4 weeks ago

versatile leaning more to bottom

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By *jh59Man
4 weeks ago

Stoke Golding

Bottom

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By *obbieohMan
4 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

Bottom for mature vers for younger

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By *njoysfunMan
4 weeks ago

Telford

I’m versatile and will Top but I do love to bottom especially for a group or older guys

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By *limboy68Man
4 weeks ago

St Albans

Versatile in Herts..

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