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"As a married man I have to say I’m leaning more and more towards sucking cock with a condom." Also as a married man, I have to reluctantly agree that it is the safest way but would ideally rather not. | |||
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"You would have to be really, Really, REALLY unlucky to get something from a condom-less blow job. " Unfortunately that's not true - I’ve had STI’s from blow job | |||
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"I don’t let anyone suck my cock, too worried about taking something nasty home. So yes I would wear a condom to have my cock sucked." Yeah would hate to go home with a set of false gnashers on me nob | |||
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"If you are asking people to wear a condom during oral sex because you’re afraid of catching a STD & taking it home to your better half you shouldn’t be on here." If it means he meets up he's ahead of about 90% of the guys on here. Better a wank and a snog and a BJ with condom than all the ghosting and nonsense. The things that pass as fetishes and kinks on here but wearing a condom when someone sucks you off is beyond the pale? Haha. | |||
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"You would have to be really, Really, REALLY unlucky to get something from a condom-less blow job. " This isn't true biologically at all There is a small chance of catching various stis. Even hiv is possible with bad dental condition. In any case, some of us don't want to be that really unlucky you who is the 1% of suxkers to get it! | |||
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"Total bi virgin but extremely close to that changing. Really want to suck cock but nervous about STD. Do many on here insist on guy wearing a condom. Easier with safe anal but oral with a condom. Thoughts and advice please ![]() If your having sex of any type with anyone you need STI checks, period. Yes, even oral. | |||
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"I like the idea of a guy putting on a condom for me to suck him off. A different angle. Watching him put it on and maybe dripping yogurt on it for me to lick up." I'll put it on and run out of the door, rather go to the pub thanks. ![]() | |||
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"Total bi virgin but extremely close to that changing. Really want to suck cock but nervous about STD. Do many on here insist on guy wearing a condom. Easier with safe anal but oral with a condom. Thoughts and advice please ![]() and yet you haven't ticked safe sex. | |||
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"I don’t let anyone suck my cock, too worried about taking something nasty home. So yes I would wear a condom to have my cock sucked. Yeah would hate to go home with a set of false gnashers on me nob " Better than having a set of bacteria infected teeth around your cock | |||
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"I'm another one who'd only scuk a cock if it was covered in a condom. I actually find the thought of it it quite arousing. It's also interesting to me to note the disdain some people have for them. I think as long as condom requirement or not is understood before meeting up, then no one has any reason be upset." Your profile is amazing If you ever came to London we should definitely meet | |||
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"Totally agree with some of the comments here, I say no to oral as have these health concerns and did recently accept a bj uncovered whilst it was epic, I did have some issues following and had to get tested. Which being partnered was an issue. Some men here have a lot to lose if found out and people should respect that. Why should we be miserable having to hide away just because of our specific wants. This site should be inclusive and not judgy and let people do what makes them happy!" VERY WELL SAID. ![]() | |||
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"Met a beautiful cd recently who told me she only sucks with condom as she is fussy about hygiene and doesn't like grubby stinky cocks. Suited me fine as I only do oral with becuase of sti anxiety. We had an amazing meet " I feel the same - STI figures are getting pretty high and drug resistance is getting more of an issue - the anxiety now for me is tending to outweigh the fun. Getting tested afterwards still means you have to rely on antibiotics that are getting less effective……hence why I want 1 regular boyfriend which seems a hard ask | |||
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"I think there's something very sexy about a condom filling up with hot spunk especially when it's nearly down the back of your throat" This is one of my favourite fantasise, I would love to do this. | |||
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"You would have to be really, Really, REALLY unlucky to get something from a condom-less blow job. " While I appreciate the sentiment of this, it's a little misleading. Many STIs can be passed on through Unprotected oral sex. Gonorrhoea is the most common, but you can also catch other things such as pubic lice if any go from his pubic area to facial hair, for example. I'm not a fan of condom'd oral, but it's a little dangerous to perpetuate the idea that it's extremely rare to catch something when it really isn't. | |||
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"I love a bare cock in my mouth don’t think it’s the same with a condom " I can imagine those luscious lips could do some serious teasing wrapped around a rock hard cock ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Total bi virgin but extremely close to that changing. Really want to suck cock but nervous about STD. Do many on here insist on guy wearing a condom. Easier with safe anal but oral with a condom. Thoughts and advice please ![]() Hi OP, Effectively, you should only do what you're comfortable with. If it's a deal-breaker for you that the guy should wear a condom, don't feel like you have to negotiate that or offer anyone any explanations - But just be aware that many guys will not want that, and that's fine that they are looking for something different too. Stick to what your criteria are and someone will eventually come up, it just might take a little longer - that's all! Happy Sucking! | |||
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"I like sucking a cock in a condom and am very happy doing so. Bit of a fetish actually ![]() Me too. | |||
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"I like sucking a cock in a condom and am very happy doing so. Bit of a fetish actually ![]() Me too. Love the feeling when the bulb fills with warm cum | |||
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"I like sucking a cock in a condom and am very happy doing so. Bit of a fetish actually ![]() Count me in ! | |||
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"You would have to be really, Really, REALLY unlucky to get something from a condom-less blow job. " No - it’s very easy to get many infections from sucking- some very serious one too | |||
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"You would have to be really, Really, REALLY unlucky to get something from a condom-less blow job. No - it’s very easy to get many infections from sucking- some very serious one too " It's not really easy, its really difficult and anyone that catches an STI from a BJ is very unfortunate. It happens but its rare. If you are regularly tested so that you detect STIs then none of the STIs you can catch from oral are serious. | |||
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"Gonorrhea, syphilis, chlamydia and herpes (the forgotten one that's basically incurable) are all extremely catchable through oral sex. HIV much less so. That said, I reckon 99%+ don't use them for oral, that goes for givers and swallowers." They are not 'extremely catchable' they are rare and not easily transmitted orally. As you yourself say 99% of oral exposures are u protected, and oral itself is a much more common sex act than anal. Can you imagine what a massive amount of STIs we would see if they were 'extremely catchable' through oral? | |||
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"Total bi virgin but extremely close to that changing. Really want to suck cock but nervous about STD. Do many on here insist on guy wearing a condom. Easier with safe anal but oral with a condom. Thoughts and advice please ![]() I don’t mind as long as it’s safe. I do like the flavoured condoms | |||
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"Have done but it’s not a lot of fun , even with flavoured condoms . Bit like giving a wank with yer marigolds on !" This is my experience too. It’s just not great but it is a whole lot safer, but you have to balance your own risk / reward level. | |||
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"You would have to be really, Really, REALLY unlucky to get something from a condom-less blow job. " NOT TRUE | |||
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"Been sucking cock for over 30 years. I'm either lucky Or The chances are minimal" The chances are low, for sure. But I have no interest in being the 1% statistic unlucky bugger who gets it. | |||
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"I have had two guys now that I can think of who had stinky smelly cocks. The condom saved me from puking. (Even though I had to stop). So there are other advantages to covered oral...." if it’s not clean , it’s not going in this queen | |||
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"Been sucking cock for over 30 years. I'm either lucky Or The chances are minimal The chances are low, for sure. But I have no interest in being the 1% statistic unlucky bugger who gets it." This ![]() | |||
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