FabGuys.com forum: bad meets

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you handle a bad meet? The guy is grabby fat little dick inexperienced but you don't want to hurt his feelings.

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By *anDadBodMan
over a year ago

Speke

clearly you’ve just had one, so you can tell the group how you handled it first

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By *ustOneBearMan
over a year ago

Neath

Maybe not meet them in the first place?

If they are clearly not what you’re interested in, why meet?

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By *lan82Man
over a year ago

North Hykeham, Lincoln

"How do you handle a bad meet? The guy is grabby fat little dick inexperienced but you don't want to hurt his feelings. "

Just jerk him off.. make some excuse.. and get the hell out of there.. best for both..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Cos their profile is pure fantasy!

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By *ummerpvcfunMan
over a year ago

bridport

I’ve only had one . From a previous site. Back and fourth messages and pics and he looked pretty good nice bod chunky dick etc. he asked if it’d turn up dressed so I said I would . Dress in black hold ups heels underwear and a Pvc maid outfit I jump in the car for 45 minute journey .

Arrived as his horny AF rang the door bell he answers in a dressing gown and I’d been catfished the face pic must of been years old before he’s taken a cricket ball to the mouth. I was notably annoyed but I was stood on the door step so I went in with the plan of changing and bailing out .

He was apologetic about using an old pic and carrying a bit more timber and then his dressing gown came undone , at least your cocks not changed I joked. Fuck it I’m here now I said and lent in and took his semi erect dick in my hand and started to wank him. He pulled me toward him and stuck his tongue literally down my throat and started pawing me squeezing my arse and dick before leading me to the edge of the sofa. He put his legs on my shoulders got a condom out put it on and pushed it hard against my hole. Which didn’t put up much resistance. I was leeking pre cum s as me rock hard. He lent right down on me almost had me doubled up and within a few of his pumps I’d come hands free . He continued to explore my wind pipe with his tongue whilst banging me hard before letting out an all mighty grunt and shooting his load.

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By *hubsloverMan
over a year ago

East/west sussex

"How do you handle a bad meet? The guy is grabby fat little dick inexperienced but you don't want to hurt his feelings. "

I handle it before meet-up . Fat and small cock is my favourite . Look how bad you handled it and worse even to talk bad about people who have fans here and nothing wrong with them.

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By *orchlightMan
over a year ago

Chippenham

"Cos their profile is pure fantasy! "

I once arranged a meet with a good looking slim ish guy I’d been chatting to for a while.

Agreed to meet in a pub in Bath. When I saw him I honestly thought he had sent his Dad! His pics were 20 years and 7 stone out of date. Not happy!

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By *ungryBottom25Man
over a year ago

London (Any)

Always respectful but not a fan of poor hygiene at all.. Puts me off much more.

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By *ristolbi_bs5Man
over a year ago

Weston-Super-Mare

Smelly unwashed cock and BO. I turned around and walked out. Some people are just yuk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soap,water and personal pride !!!! Costs so little but means so much ....

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By *uy near ArundelMan
over a year ago

Nr Arundel

Being clean is definitely important.

It worries me when guys ask me if they can shower at mine, when they could easily shower at theirs and don't have far to travel.

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By *damb00Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Be honest, tell them they’re nothing like their pictures or profile suggests, and tell them to leave / you leave if you’re at there’s. Have done it before, don’t need to feel pressured to have fun with someone just because you agreed to meet, especially if they don’t resemble their pictures / profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not fussy haha..The only requirement is hygiene. Had one guy turn up once and the smell from his groin I couldn't do it. I just told him polite but firm I'm sorry I can't do it, maybe take a shower and change and we can rearrange.

Apart from that if he cums its a good meet haha. Except one - in my late teens I turned up at a guys house and he said he just wanted to fuck nothing else.

Fine, got in his chosen position, it was dark so I took his cock in my hand to help guide him in and felt it twitching. He cum over my arse and that was it..That was the meet. I turned up, touched his cock for 5 seconds and he was done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you handle a bad meet? "

I try to learn from it, to avoid making the same mistake in future. It's all I can do.

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By *heffS6TV/TS
over a year ago

sheffield

Only ever had one bad meet, he turned up d*unk after a fashion it was past midnight, he couldn't find my place, had to fetch him from the street corner, his cock was half the size he'd claimed, he wanted to tie me up, then he got violent, I ended up kicking him out with his arm up his back, I called and paid for a Taxi, Taxi driver was a dream took him away, half hour later Taxi driver came back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been pretty lucky, but one guy messaged me as I left work for a car meet.

I got in his car and he had that 1000 yard stare, clearly been working himself up all morning. He came in no time

From getting In to getting out the motor was less than 2 minutes!!

Messaged me later to ask If I'd meet again.

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By *ountyGuy18Man
over a year ago

Leicester Groby Road

Never really had a bad meet, just had the one lad turn up and he was not like his pictures.

I was honest with him it’s the best way.

Tell them they’re not like their pictures or profile description.

Don’t feel the pressure to try and go through with it as probably end up not being able to perform if there’s no attraction.

Probably best to tell them to leave or you leave if you’re at theirs.

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By *uy near ArundelMan
over a year ago

Nr Arundel

"Been pretty lucky, but one guy messaged me as I left work for a car meet.

I got in his car and he had that 1000 yard stare, clearly been working himself up all morning. He came in no time

From getting In to getting out the motor was less than 2 minutes!!

Messaged me later to ask If I'd meet again.

To which you said "yes but can we just do a quickie next time?"?

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By *orchlightMan
over a year ago

Chippenham

"Be honest, tell them they’re nothing like their pictures or profile suggests, and tell them to leave / you leave if you’re at there’s. Have done it before, don’t need to feel pressured to have fun with someone just because you agreed to meet, especially if they don’t resemble their pictures / profile "

Which is why I always insist on an innocent f2f meet prior to any commitment to go further.

Some guys don’t go for it but it works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you handle a bad meet? The guy is grabby fat little dick inexperienced but you don't want to hurt his feelings. "

Bloody ell hope he’s not read that comment then

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By *damb00Man
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Which is why I always insist on an innocent f2f meet prior to any commitment to go further.

Some guys don’t go for it but it works for me."

That’s a good idea

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By *ames12001Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I have had two bad meetings. Sorry three arriving at theirs bad vibes bad surroundings carried on in wow shit hole my head said walk away I didn’t never again I have traveled arrived looked talked and said no sorry and walked away. I’m never going to meet when my mind says no

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By *astYorksRimmerMan
over a year ago

Beverley

I feel the need to share feedback I received via message from a meet I had last night because it’s the worst I’ve had -

“Shocking are you rite in the head”.

Spelling and grammar, not my own.

And then feedback I got earlier in the month -

“I would be remiss if I didn’t express the following: when we met, I had an instant and visceral “like” of you.”

“I think you are (what my husband and I designate someone as) a Keeper.”

I suppose you can’t be everyone’s cup of tea.

I just found the new feedback and the contrast to the other recent one amusing and had to share!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not fussy haha..The only requirement is hygiene. Had one guy turn up once and the smell from his groin I couldn't do it. I just told him polite but firm I'm sorry I can't do it, maybe take a shower and change and we can rearrange.

Apart from that if he cums its a good meet haha. Except one - in my late teens I turned up at a guys house and he said he just wanted to fuck nothing else.

I've had a few do that, it's like what is the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was meeting this couple. Went round and straight away I could tell 1 of the guys was intoxicated. I'd made it clear I don't kiss and safe play. Quickly into the action he was trying to kiss and constantly trying to pressure me into kissing which I refused. He was then getting brewers droop and was getting frustrated and then attempted to remove the rubber and try and enter me. I immediately said I gotta go and left

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By *wannaMan
over a year ago

Merseyside area

Guy with nice profile, agreed to meet him outdoor in secluded spot. He arrived pissed as a fart, stinking of ciggies and whipped out a pink bookie's biro. Perhaps biro is exaggerating but it was about size of my thumb and definitely not the cock in profile pics, so I didn't feel too bad about making excuse to go.

Then other day young handsome guy I've seen at cruising spot several times, great body, especially in this weather walking around shirtless in just shorts but he's never let on. Maybe I was last resort as nobody else around but he gave me signals and we ended up in bushes. Feeling his fit body and lovely arse. He gropes me through shorts and i stroke his chest down to belly and bush, then into shorts and pull out his weighty cock.

It's weighty because he has huge Prince Albert piercing on bellend. Thick ring with two stainless steel balls on it. Unfortunately I am really squeamish about piercings it's a reaction I can't help. Even thought of it makes my bollocks retreat. But I think he just wanted a quick show and after a couple of polite tugs, we just both simultaneously put cocks away and went separate ways. Sexy guy but think I was last resort for him and he wasn't really into me and I found the ironmongery difficult to cope with.

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By *ral nowMan
over a year ago

hartlepool

I once went to a lads house for a morning blowjob before work. He waited in the living room for me as I'd requested on his knees. I took my cock out and he started to suck me, after getting naked and about 15 mins of a unbelievable blowjob the door opened and a woman came in, hello she said and walked into the kitchen.. I shit myself! Turns out it was his mam and she helped him get his kicks as he suffered with social insecurities.

Very very strange. Iv never been back but always wondered if she wanted a suck haha

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By *E KentMan
11 weeks ago

Folkestone.

I love the look of a PA but when the jewlery is huge to me its like putting foil in your mouth a no lol. I have had a guy with a tounge piece man that is very nice.

"Guy with nice profile, agreed to meet him outdoor in secluded spot. He arrived pissed as a fart, stinking of ciggies and whipped out a pink bookie's biro. Perhaps biro is exaggerating but it was about size of my thumb and definitely not the cock in profile pics, so I didn't feel too bad about making excuse to go.

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By *0yguyMan
11 weeks ago

Cumbria

"I have had two bad meetings. Sorry three arriving at theirs bad vibes bad surroundings carried on in wow shit hole my head said walk away I didn’t never again I have traveled arrived looked talked and said no sorry and walked away. I’m never going to meet when my mind says no "

I wish I knew what this means.

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By *awihMan
11 weeks ago

Aldershot

"Being clean is definitely important.

It worries me when guys ask me if they can shower at mine, when they could easily shower at theirs and don't have far to travel.

To be fair, they may have come straight from work, and if they shower at your’s at least you know they are clean. You could even help lather them up as forplay.

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By *ewBrumBiMan
11 weeks ago

Birmingham

Just do what they want and get it over with

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By *wannaMan
2 weeks ago

Merseyside area

What would have been a very bad meet, was with a guy I'd been chatting to for weeks. We agree to meet outdoors for chat. I deliberatly sit a distance from designated meeting point. I get message to say, he's arrived, asking if I'm nearly there. He looks pretty fit from distance. I can't reply as site freezes so I start to walk over and then take another path as I realise it is the dad of my son's best friend. Talked to him many times, been to our house, his missus is friendly with my missus. Mine told me that she is probably going to split with him, because he has been "up to no good" All the potential for a blow up.

When site was up, I apologised to him saying got stuck in traffic with no phone signal.

He was okay and said no worry, I only had five minutes had to go back into work. He left site few days later. Continued to bump into him socially and have him call at the house to pick up his lad. There seemed no point adding to his woes by saying, it's me. He had previously mentioned nightmare of meeting someone that knows you.

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By *evinmanMan
2 weeks ago

Dublin

Just politely 'sorry this isn't going to work' and leave

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

"Just politely 'sorry this isn't going to work' and leave"

As above! Try, not working so say so and leave. Done it many times

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

"Being clean is definitely important.

It worries me when guys ask me if they can shower at mine, when they could easily shower at theirs and don't have far to travel.

Probably because their wives would wonder why

They are showering innthe day

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By *haredShowerMan
2 weeks ago

en9 waltham abbey

"I'm a bottom but my arse is sore and out of action". Not even interested in light fingering. Anyway I made the best of it. I came frotting on top, then played with his chubby moobs and nipples while he wanked off.

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By *amie1402Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

Only bad meet I’ve had was a TV who stole £120 from my coat pocket when I wasn’t looking.

Next day he deleted his profile and I had no way of contacting him because I had no phone number from him

Which is why I now insist on a number from anyone who comes here

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By *eneral distanceMan
2 weeks ago

st helens

Had a few meets I would say was not the best but the one I class as bad was a local guy who wanted to accom, said back door open just walk in when I text to say I had arrived

Walked in and two older women was sat at the table drinking tea, I froze and apologised before turning on my heals and scarpering,

I messaged him to say what’s going on, he said it’s ok mum knows your coming, I’m down stairs now will see u in a sec

Against my better judgement, which was made on the back of seeing his fit body and hung cock and balls, I asked him to meet me at the back door

When he opened the door, he was only vaguely like his pics

I embarrassingly followed him in, walked past him mum and friend, we went up stairs, to be fair his body was ok n cock great so moved past the previous issues, then as I was riding him the door opened an his mum walked in seeing me sat balls deep on her son, with mummy cock as hard as it could be bouncing away

I leapt off and attempted to cover myself

Needless to say I dressed super quick and left

So bad!!!

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By *ockanonamasMan
2 weeks ago

Manchester

There's been a few times where I've agreed to meet someone and they have looked nothing like the picks that they sent so I've declined the meet and walked away.

I've become much better at identifying someone who's using picks of them self's taken 10/15 years ago

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By *wannaMan
3 days ago

Merseyside area

A while ago, I went to meet giy from North East, we had chatted 2 years earlier when both in hotels nearby in London, but he couldn't get away from colleagues, to come to me and too nervous of me coming to his room. The occasional how you message and chat about other meets, though he had only met one other guy. So was a long time coming until he was in Liverpool on work trip. Looked like we still couldn't meet, as I couldn't get away evenings only daytime. Then he messaged to say the afternoon work session had been cancelled so he could be back at his hotel by 1.30 and free until 5.00 I had shower, gave my cock and extra polish and we met in bar, for a quick drink. He was a bit taller than me, which is unusual and a bit of a fantasy come true, and he looked strong as an ox. Gentle warm smile, very easygoing, nice guy next-door face. We go to room and he immediately strips to briefs, I do the same. He looks at me and says "ohh you are fucking lovely" which was a nice welcome compliment. He says, Mmmm come here... I move towards him and he throws arms around me, trapping my arms and has me in a crushing bear hug while he kisses me. I'm quite strong and well built, but fucking hell, it knocked breath out of me and I could hardly breathe in. What was worse, is that I felt like something went crack in my side, which sent a sharp pain through my chest. He released me, and we lay on the bed, started kissing touching stroking getting hard then briefs off, lots of body contact, him being very complimentary, very verbal, wanking eachother and him sucking me. We did this for about half an hour. All the time though, I had this dull pain in the side of my chest, but I didn't mention it too him. Eventually I make him cum while wanking him. He lies back with big grin and chuckles. Then he says right, your turn, I want to see that cock shoot. I lie on my back and he wanks and sucks my cock and balls until I squirt a couple of jets of cum into his face and over my belly. As I am cumming, my body jerks and Fucking hell, a sharp pain in my ribs, that certainly dampens the pleasure of orgasm. We clean up, have a bit of a chat, and say goodbyes. For about a week afterwards, if I turn my upper body to side or bend, or try take a really deep breath, it really fucking hurts. I should have gone to the doctors but just hoped it would ease off with warm baths and painkillers. Thankfully it did, but wow, what a price to pay. Never told him, never got the chance, as for some reason, in spite of the flattering comments,being all over me and going on and on about how lovely I was and telling me I have a gorgeous cock, he blocked me the next day! Work that one out.

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