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By *erfherder OP   Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde

Luckily I don’t have this but I think if I met someone who does it would be very attractive.

I would spend more time in bed and together and a man cumming just be having a kissing session would be lovely

Have you had that experience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Luckily I don’t have this but I think if I met someone who does it would be very attractive.

I would spend more time in bed and together and a man cumming just be having a kissing session would be lovely

Have you had that experience?"

I have had a guy cum immediately once. I am mainly a top and he tried to top me. He kind of entered(he was small) and he orgasmed immediately and felt embarrassed. I actually was turned on by it and would love more of it

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By *rookhamguy26Man
over a year ago

Nr Chester

Ive cum just from kissing and nipple play once. Just could not hold back and shot my load. I was a bit embarrassed by it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive cum just from kissing and nipple play once. Just could not hold back and shot my load. I was a bit embarrassed by it too "

I find that very hot

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By *astDevonGuyMan
over a year ago

East Devon

Biologically guys are wired to cum quickly, it’s when we are most vulnerable and defenceless. Control is something we learn , no one should ever feel embarrassed or bad about it , just make sure your guy gets his as well …..

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By *hototed54Man
over a year ago

leeds

I can come quickly if i build myself up but sometimes I don’t cum at all but if I cum quick I can carry on I don’t lose interest

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By *tagman6930Man
over a year ago

SW London

I just joined a Premature Ejaculation help group and went to a meeting.

When I got there I discovered the meeting was yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cum very quickly when excited even worse when it’s fun with guys as very aroused…literally entered a guy and a few pumps later shot my load …he was very understanding but I was mortified

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By *unFitFifty888Man
over a year ago

various

The cuck couple I see occasionally came about because of hubby’s ‘early finish’ and frustration building up.

He’s cum sometimes just watching me have wifey and listening to how he cums he clearly likes it .

If he does ever get to f*ck her, it’s always after me as she doesn’t want him ‘ interrupting us’ as she tells him. There’s nothing unpleasant said about him cumming so rapidly, I’m just pleased they’ve both found a way enjoy things.

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By *ritstoneMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Ages ago my ex wife told me I suffered from PE, I said if we did it more that once every 6 months maybe it wouldn't happen! She didn't reply.

I usually spend a good hour enjoying myself with guys these days. Stupid nasty woman!

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By *iley_Starr115TV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Depends on the situation. If it's a spur of the moment meet then I'm not fussed if he cums quick. But if I've spent a while preparing and he cums in like 2 minutes then yeah I'll be a little frustrated lol

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By *ax1530Man
over a year ago

reading

Even if he cums there’s plenty more you can both do till the second round

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By *issBehave69Man
over a year ago

Bulgaria

I was so looking forward to meeting my TV ex I came so quickly it was terrible, after that first meet every other lasted much longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The cuck couple I see occasionally came about because of hubby’s ‘early finish’ and frustration building up.

He’s cum sometimes just watching me have wifey and listening to how he cums he clearly likes it .

If he does ever get to f*ck her, it’s always after me as she doesn’t want him ‘ interrupting us’ as she tells him. There’s nothing unpleasant said about him cumming so rapidly, I’m just pleased they’ve both found a way enjoy things. "

The cuckold dynamic is a massive turn on to me. Talked about a female fucking someone else to make me jealous/turned on before but other than the naughty chats it never went anywhere

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By *ustPeekinMan
over a year ago

Alresford

I used to be terrible at cumming way too soon the first time. Made worse by a kinky partner who got off on that! Learned to make up for it with the second round. Eventually got it under control with female partners but holding back with guys can still sometimes be a real struggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nobody have a pre wank anymore.

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By *rookeTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Linwood

I cum very fast sometimes hands free so these days insist my cock isnt touched or I wear a cage x

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By *issy SiMan
over a year ago

Horsham

I've mentioned this before but I opened my door to a gentleman who was in the process of wanking and he immediately came all over my shoes and doormat. He didn't say a word, just turned and hurried away!!

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By *eal areaMan
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

As soon as my gorgeous wife kisses me my cock twitches. She started to ride me this morning and I came almost immediately. She's so sexy my cock explodes.

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By *irralGuy20Man
over a year ago

Wirral

This is something I suffer from a lot, by premature I'm meaning about cumming after about 3-5 mins during fucking. I can wank/receive oral and last much longer though

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By *eal areaMan
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

She needs a much longer fucking

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By *DC2000Man
over a year ago

Coningsby

I have the opposite "problem", takes me ages to cum but it means I can keep going for longer and see the other guy cum.

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By *exmachineCouple (MM)
over a year ago

kent

Penetration alone can be so overwhelming when I top, it can trigger an immediate ejaculation especially if you’re tight! Thankfully I have stamina and within a few minutes I’m ready to go again but this time you’ve got to be a power btm because I can then go on forever and cum several times!

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By *ralistMan
over a year ago

wrexham

Takes me fckn ages and have never cum from a blow job. I dont give anal as it doesnt appeal to me so that wouldnt work either. I can cum quick (5 mins ) wanking to porn though.

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By *iggreenockMan
over a year ago

Greenock

The first time I gave a blowjob he came on about 30 seconds?, I was just getting into it and realising I loved sucking him. I had one guy last year I'd knelt down and took his cock in my mouth and he came instantly. Really disappointing

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By *igsyMan
over a year ago

Swindon

I get very anxious on a first meet. The more anxious I am the quicker I seem to cum. The quicker I'm likely to cum the more anxious I get. 2nd meet with someone I'm absolutely fine.

I know it's all in my head but still happens anyway and only started after my first few meets.

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By *ldhamAreaMan
over a year ago

OLDHAM

Find its usually the younger guys who find it hard to control their ejaculation. Me and bf had a 18 yr old visit for 3 sum and when taking off his jeans we saw that his boxers where covered in fresh spunk! Fortunately the upside of being young and virile is that he was rock hard again in minutes and shot two more big loads that night.

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Tetbury

Met a guy this week, wasnt dressed, just skin tight jeans and riding boots, he looked me up and down, started rubbing his crotch, i took my dick out and he was on it, i was quite nervous as it wasnt expected and came very quickly, he said he was sad he didnt even get a chance to suck me.

I need to relax, stop, rest, then start again, i can play with someone for a long time, an hour or more, but i have to be careful for the first few minutes or its all over.

Some guys like a quick cummer, i donr particularly like sucking dick for too long in any case.

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By *ustPeekinMan
over a year ago

Alresford

I’ve cum in my pants more times than I care to remember!

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By *arrheadguyMan
over a year ago

barrhead

I've had my share of early cummers over the years. Most from this site. The majority run for the hills as soon as they cum (guilt or embarrassment) the ones that did remain were the best. Kissing cuddles sucking a softie all good. And that often leads to round two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always been very quick with guys and girls. My wife can make me cum within about 30 seconds of touching my cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had my share of early cummers over the years. Most from this site. The majority run for the hills as soon as they cum (guilt or embarrassment) the ones that did remain were the best. Kissing cuddles sucking a softie all good. And that often leads to round two."
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Someone labelled it "post ejaculation heterosexuality"...

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By *eal areaMan
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Mine too

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By *eal areaMan
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells


"I have always been very quick with guys and girls. My wife can make me cum within about 30 seconds of touching my cock"
Mine too.

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By *iExCuckMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I suffer from this but strangely not so much when being sucked. I can last a fair length of time being sucked but when I have managed to get my small cock into a hole I cum very very quickly almost as I'm pushing into the hole. Fortunately having a small dick I'm a Bottom so don't get to push it in much if at all.

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By *igsyMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"..... the ones that did remain were the best. Kissing cuddles sucking a softie all good. And that often leads to round two."

Yes please.

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By *issBehave69Man
over a year ago

Bulgaria


"I've mentioned this before but I opened my door to a gentleman who was in the process of wanking and he immediately came all over my shoes and doormat. He didn't say a word, just turned and hurried away!!"

Had something similar which at first felt a bit creepy.

Pulled into a layby near Newton Mearns (just outside Glasgow. I had a meet arranged (he never showed up) but as I was getting changed I didn’t realise a guy was watching me from another car.

He thought I was putting on a show for him and he was wanking in his car.

He messaged me on here saying he wanted to meet me and as I had time before my other meet I said yes.

I opened the side door of the motorhome fully dressed including knee length boots. He was a bit lower than me in the Moho and asked me to piss on him which I did but while I was watching his face he ran off.

It was only as I shut the door I looked down and saw all his cum all over my boots.

Not a story btw, I think he’s one of my verifications

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By *bonybucksMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I normally take ages to cum but one remember when I met this guy in his car and sat on his lap with his cock almost in me, I could not help it, I shot all over him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally take ages to cum but one remember when I met this guy in his car and sat on his lap with his cock almost in me, I could not help it, I shot all over him "

That's so bloody horny. I hope you were loud when you orgasmed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always cum quick when getting fucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally take ages to cum but one remember when I met this guy in his car and sat on his lap with his cock almost in me, I could not help it, I shot all over him

That's so bloody horny. I hope you were loud when you orgasmed "

My first encounter I went in his mouth and started to cum lol

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By *erfherder OP   Man
over a year ago

Inverclyde


"I've had my share of early cummers over the years. Most from this site. The majority run for the hills as soon as they cum (guilt or embarrassment) the ones that did remain were the best. Kissing cuddles sucking a softie all good. And that often leads to round two."

That’s the type I like, strangely cumming makes men embarrassed and vulnerable, if you can be brave enough to stay it’s fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I normally take ages to cum but one remember when I met this guy in his car and sat on his lap with his cock almost in me, I could not help it, I shot all over him

That's so bloody horny. I hope you were loud when you orgasmed

My first encounter I went in his mouth and started to cum lol"

Wow. Brilliant

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By *attooedholeMan
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I lay on top of a guy and just started the gyrate my cock against his.

And he shot his load.

I thought I often cum too quickly if my tip is really sensitive.

But that was unreal.

And such a lovely load of cum too

Embarrassed he left

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By *arkbicrossMan
31 weeks ago

chingford

I often can have this problem. Can cum just from kissing and touching. Mostly get very embarrassed and need to find a way to stop it but sounds like a lot of guys like it

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By *orcester GuyMan
31 weeks ago

Worcestershire North

It’s usually a mental thing

When you see animals mating on tv

They never last long or spend half taking about it afterwards

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By *ew trixTV/TS
31 weeks ago

doncaster

I’ve had a few cum cum quick as I’ve started sucking them

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By *iExCuckMan
31 weeks ago

Lowestoft

I've always suffered with this but then it has never stopped me bending over for a guy. Fortunately the Ex wife wasn't too affected as she was always getting fucked by multiple well hung long lasting men. I often shot my load hands free while watching her with the men. Even while in open showers I've got a hard on because men were watching me shower. Probably because I'm naturally smooth and waxed all below. Fortunately mine is very small so only if they were looking could it be noticeable. But often shot my load in that state. Learned from the beginning that me cumming in their mouth was only so they could use it to rim it into my hole for them to use it as lube for them to fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I suffer from it bad unless getting a blowjob.

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By *nthony 2.0Man
31 weeks ago

ear Oldham

I sometimes have to be careful at the beginning of play as I I’m useless pretty excited but then once I’ve calmed down, I can lost longer and I’m able to enjoy more of the good stuff

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By *estOxonBottomMan
31 weeks ago

Carterton


"Learned from the beginning that me cumming in their mouth was only so they could use it to rim it into my hole for them to use it as lube for them to fuck me."

Had that done to me in the back of a car at 18, decades ago. I've told other Tops and they've done the same, spat my semen onto my hole as lube.

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By *estOxonBottomMan
31 weeks ago

Carterton

I've always been too quick to orgasm when fucking. If I last one minute then that is good for me - pretty humiliating. But I don't lose interest and really do enjoy it when the Top carries on until his climax. If I try to top I can ejaculate even before penetrating a man, therefore I am a bottom because sex just lasts so much longer.

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By *obbertMan
31 weeks ago

In a world of my own

It’s nothing to be embarrassed about cumming early as it’s a natural reaction to stimulus, after all in primeval days, you were at your most vulnerable to predators when copulating to breed, then best to get it over quickly and move on to the next available mate?

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By *acingfanMan
31 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I was once fucking a 6ft5 hunk of a man. He was on his back and I was on top of him and he lasted about 15 seconds. So we stopped then recommenced after about half an hour. Much better.

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By *ustPeekinMan
31 weeks ago

Alresford

I used to have a terrible time with it. First few times I get my first serious girlfriend into bed I came in my pants in anticipation. Happily she was very understanding and round two was more successful. Eventually it improved and so it was quite a surprise to find out that I am like that with guys too, but not with women any more.

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By *enjamin2018Man
31 weeks ago

Gloucester

Used to when younger now I can last quite a while (usually 😂)which I'm glad about as I like the build up .

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By (user no longer on site)
31 weeks ago

I much prefer a guy to cum too soon than not cum at all - you can always try again in 30 minutes or so.

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By *ammy57TV/TS
31 weeks ago

Stevenage

I can cum very easily but I don't have to. It's nice if I get to cum but not essential.

However I would love a top to train me not to cum .

Usually either they don't care and want to finish themselves and go asap, or if they do want me to cum it's like a chore they need to get out of the way!

When I first had a man as opposed to another boy, he didn't like me hard unless he was inside me and he used to make me cum in advance so I'd stay soft while we had sex.

Most guys like me to be hard once they start to play but I'm always nervous I'll cum too quickly or without permission.

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By *anontheroadMan
31 weeks ago

working in the area next month

At the sauna I like premature ejaculation, gets me by surprise. Had a few over the years and fun if they try to resist the urge to cum. Makes me feel good I have satisfied them.

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
31 weeks ago

Leics/Warks

I ended up becoming a cuck because I would always cum too quickly.

Had a great sex life with gf years ago but id always cum too quickly, we agreed to her having a lover that could give her the good hard fucking she needed.

Before I knew it we were haning reclaim sex and I was lasting less than 30 seconds, id have to wear her strap on to finish the job, that lead to experementing with chastity and cross dressing.

The 30 seconds became more like 5 seconds and once caged cummies were discovered it was rare my cock ever got in a pussy and if it did it would go off instantly.

I can edge for ages alone but put me in the company of others and i end up spunking in my knickers.

So far ive cum hands free from sucking cock and cum filled pussy, ball busting and cage rubbing

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By *eedtoMan
2 weeks ago

grimsby

Just got telguard up, by time figured it out and could see the guy's cock and mine displayed I spunked, was so excited wasn't fully hard, he saw it though, actually spurted, which only happens when really aroused

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By *punk1975Man
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

I cum fast now, I do have a req who knows this and plays and sucks my balls more than my cock and I seam to last a bit longer

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By *owboy1975Man
2 weeks ago

Lichfield

I tend to cum quick with men, excitement nerves etc but I do enjoy a quick cummer, grab his dick feel him blow in seconds is very hot

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By *unguy2429Man
2 weeks ago

worthing

I have had it many of times. That’s why I mainly bottom

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By *ayhubbyMan
2 weeks ago

liverpool

Yes I’m a quick little cummer

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By *ndyBristolMan
2 weeks ago

Keynsham

I met a guy a few times years ago who suuffered from prem ejac and he was embarrassed and apologetic but it turned me on.

I told him to lie naked on the bed with me, porn on telly, not to touch himself.

After about a minute of watching I put him in my mouth and he came immediately.

I put his hand on my head to hold me in place as I swallowed.

He apologised but I told him to just relax and enjoy the porn.

20 mins later he recovered and I was able to suck him properly before getting a 2nd load in my mouth.

I loved it, very tasty spunk.

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

I take ages, but have had a couple of quick cummers on recent meets.

Have to admit it feels really good when you're blowing or wanking a guy and he cums quicker than he was expecting. One in particular it seemed to catch him totally by surprise; we were 69ing and I switched from sucking to wanking him and he suddenly blurts "oh my God I'm going to cum" and started pumping all over my bra and nipples.

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

I've been helping a 23yr old FwB.

First time we met and I swear I only breathed on his bellend and he came. We've been working on edging, changing positions and subject of conversation to help build his climax.

My fave with him now is lie face down. He slides in and we just lie there. I clench my hole on him and just enjoy him.

He's now lasting much longer.

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By *andinmypantsMan
2 weeks ago

North East

It's 8 years since my last fuck and longer since my last BJ so I am nervous about cumming quickly. It's happened in the past, usually with new partners. I could really do with meeting someone who doesn't mind and, like some people on here, might actually enjoy all the orgasms along the way to helping me rebuild my stamina. It's a nice idea anyway.

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By *ittlelad69Man
2 weeks ago

Chesterfield

I’ve not had sex in over a year so even the slightest contact and I’m ready to shoot my load

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By *illingVicMan
2 weeks ago

Sevenoaks

Hmm… quite the opposite I’m afraid. I’m almost exclusively ruled by my own kinks, first and foremost amongst which is being a service submissive and willing…throat. In all play instances to date, not only have I not cum at all, but 99% of the time I don’t even get hard. Hence seeking very specific types of play partner!

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