From chatting with guys on here, I know a lot of us older largely straight men are in the same boat, in that a lack of interest from our partners has encouraged us to look to bi guys for fun.
I love to dabble with married men and I admit, this was initially triggered by an ongoing lack of desire at home but has developed into something I could not live without.
I’m happily married with a menopausal wife who has recently started on HRT and has become very sexual and far more adventurous than she used to be, and I love it.
To give some examples:
My wife now tolerates my bi leanings and will sometimes request I wear her panties for sex. She bought me a cock shaped dildo which she will use on me on the odd occasion usually as she rides me ??.
We recently hooked up with one of my friends for the first time in 20 years and she was adamant I had to go hands-on with him, but that’s another story all by itself.
She loves some mild exhibitionism and we often have fun in our little hot tub, which she knows is completely visible to our CCTV and several of my friends have access to the live feed as I store some of their stuff here. Knowing someone could be watching ( and often is ??) doesn’t stop her and we often watch back our own sessions for our own enjoyment!
Considering three years ago even the idea of masturbating together was big no no, I love this menopausal version of my wife who seems far more open to many things. Our sex life has got a lot better.
If there are other guys who are feeling the menopause is the end of the story, don’t give up. Happy to chat more!
