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By *panky525 OP Man
52 weeks ago

Cheltenham

I love to be fucked but often I can't stay hard while having a cock in me. It doesn't stop me enjoying it but it would be so much better if I stayed hard. Anyone else have this problem?

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By *cotsfellaMan
52 weeks ago

here, west lothian

I’ve noticed that a lot. I enjoy wanking a guy off as I fuck him missionary. Maybe that would help?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Same issue here, when I have a cock or anything in my ass I can't get hard. I still cum

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By *panky525 OP Man
52 weeks ago

Cheltenham

"Same issue here, when I have a cock or anything in my ass I can't get hard. I still cum"

I can still cum too.

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By *ipaTV/TS
52 weeks ago

bridgend

Iam the same can't stay hard once something is in Me even wi.th little blue pi.l help

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By *ipaTV/TS
52 weeks ago

bridgend

Iam the same can't stay hard once something is in Me even wi.th little blue pil help

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By *jh59Man
52 weeks ago

Hinckley

Same here , the blue pill don’t help either

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By *starMan
52 weeks ago

Frampton on Severn

Same here, until my last play with my flexible friend. Started hard while watching some particularly good porn, stayed hard and blew an astonishing load, so it is possible.

I don't know if it's a physical effect that kills the hardon, or I think more likely your attention is diverted away by the stronger sensations in the rear.

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By *kigaiMan
52 weeks ago

Northampton

"I love to be fucked but often I can't stay hard while having a cock in me. It doesn't stop me enjoying it but it would be so much better if I stayed hard. Anyone else have this problem?"

Firstly try not to see it as 'a problem' especially if you still enjoy the sex and you dtill have a good orgasm at whichever point you choose. It may not be ideal however it may be down to your physiology.

I've fucked guys who stay hard, guys who don't and guys who are at points in between.

If your prostate is responsive and being stimulated that will be the focus of your pleasure so your cock is likely to lose rigidity. The same may apply if you have another sensitive spot that is getting attention, nipples or sphincter for example.

We are all wired differently and if sex is still pleasurable that is the aim no?

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By *ravelman99Man
52 weeks ago

Norwich

I'm the opposite to be honest. I find someone playing with my ass a huge turn on and then they finally enter me, I stay rock hard as I find it such a turn on.

Especially if he's able to nudge my prostate and get me dripping pre cum.

Try to let the top finish first before getting wanked or sucked off to completion after.

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By *oylondon_2kMan
52 weeks ago

London

I dont stay hard the whole time getting fucked, but I don’t think I’ve paid a huge amount of attention to it.

I generally slip between semi and fully erect. When the top starts doing certain things, like kissing me, squeezing my nipples, or pinning my arms back and licking my neck or armpits, I will stiffen up again.

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By *dkeep87Man
52 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

I sometimes go soft when being fucked.

It’s usually a good thing as it stops my top wanking me off at the same time which would me cum quicker. Yet to have a hands free orgasm but I’ll just have to keep trying lol

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By *ighlands fellaMan
52 weeks ago

thurso

I sometimes go soft when being fucked but I still cum without touching my cock. Is that normal ??

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

It certainly is for the most of the guys I fuck that’s for sure

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By *arkbtm420Man
52 weeks ago

exeter

I go soft when been fucked and still cum hands free by the bucket loads

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By *ardcoretrannyTV/TS
52 weeks ago

dronfield

I go soft when being fucked but I don’t mind, it’s the prostate orgasm I’m aiming for!

Do tops mind one way or the other?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

An experienced top guy told me it's not unusual as when the focus of your pleasure is your prostate your cock is less stimulated.

Im not particularly focused on my cock generally during sex, my bum and nips are much more sensitive.

I dont worry about it some of the best sex ive had im not hard and often don't even cum!

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By *rTee69Man
52 weeks ago

B

I never get hard when I'm being fucked - but thats ok as when I'm being fucked its all about my hole round his cock. Plus in fact its pretty common it seems.

It used to bother me, especially as I'd love to be the middle man in a chain (tried it a couple of times, but once the third cock goes in me I lose my hard on after 10 seconds or so), but now I tey not tonworry about it, but instead just worry about taking a little bit of time to get hard when we flip and its my turn to fuck him.

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By *erfherderMan
52 weeks ago

Inverclyde

It’s difficult to concentrate on staying hard when all your emotions of pleasure and trying to fight that feeling of wanting to pee or cum

Bottom are best to cum before being fcuked, it’s more pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Or during… works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I can be rock hard until someone puts his cock up me then my cock goes all sissy . Not only does it go limp but it shrinks up . It can take a couple of hours until I can get hard again. Mind you while I'm being fucked my cock runs like a leaky tap leaving a sticky puddle under me .

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By *roy8Man
52 weeks ago

Perthshire

I don't stay hard but can still wank off while being fucked. If things are right can still be the ultimate orgasm

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By *leets89Man
52 weeks ago

Birmingham

I had my first cock my mates fuck me and I stayed hard loved it

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By *ippBiManMan
52 weeks ago

South Tipp

I get the complete mixed bag these days, sometimes I'm rock hard throughout being fucked and other times I mightn't get hard at all while being fucked,it certainly doesn't mean I enjoy it any less as I've often cum while flaccid while being fucked

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By *iExCuckMan
52 weeks ago

Lowestoft

Very much depends on the situation for me. If its a quick meet in a dark alley, drop my shorts and let them do me, usually soft but if there is more than one taking turns then tend to stay hard. When I'm hard and they push it in or pull it out while I'm hard I find I squirt Pre-Cum.

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By *aul81Man
52 weeks ago

Hull

The few times I have been fucked I always stay hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I love chick in me so much that I stay hard whilst being fucked . I turn into a cum slut white and verbally egg the guy on to do me hard deep and fast and breed me like his bitch .

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By *omtom7Man
52 weeks ago

kerry

Mixed bah here as well.

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By *ub460Man
52 weeks ago

S. Derbys

I go soft when being fucked but leak pre cum all over the place. I have cum while being fucked which was amazing and also been wanked off while being fucked, but I'm happy to stay soft with that incredible intense feeling as a man fucks me - just wish it was more often!

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By *uckitboiMan
52 weeks ago

Chelmsford

I’m never hard while being fucked but being submissive it’s not a problem . Although I have orgasmed while being fucked and completely soft .

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By *corpion1970Man
52 weeks ago

Isle of Wight

I can only stay fully hard when I am on top riding. Guess it must be the pressure on the prostate. Have cum hard from being in that position and and being wanked off.

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By *ickensMan
52 weeks ago

Portsmouth

I'm soft when being fucked. I think I'm experiencing sensations elsewhere like my nipples and arse which I find more appealing whilst being fucked

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By *uy near ArundelMan
52 weeks ago

Nr Arundel

"I love to be fucked but often I can't stay hard while having a cock in me. It doesn't stop me enjoying it but it would be so much better if I stayed hard. Anyone else have this problem?

Firstly try not to see it as 'a problem' especially if you still enjoy the sex and you dtill have a good orgasm at whichever point you choose. It may not be ideal however it may be down to your physiology.

I've fucked guys who stay hard, guys who don't and guys who are at points in between.

If your prostate is responsive and being stimulated that will be the focus of your pleasure so your cock is likely to lose rigidity. The same may apply if you have another sensitive spot that is getting attention, nipples or sphincter for example.

We are all wired differently and if sex is still pleasurable that is the aim no?

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Mais oui!

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Soft here too but still feel every thing and cum too, I believe it’s because we are giving all ourselves to the top

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By *eicesterBCMan
52 weeks ago

Leicester

I go soft too but i like that

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By *treyu500Man
52 weeks ago

Australia

Try a different position to what you're used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I love getting fucked and go hard and soft while I am. Being is great so is being soft, having my soft cock flapping about while I’m being pounded is awesome.

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By *iperv69TV/TS
52 weeks ago

Ipswich

I find missionary I go down but doggy I stay solid?

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By *ammysam2000TV/TS
52 weeks ago

dublin

Mmmm I have the same issue - would really enjoy having a full erection whilst being fucked - but find hard to maintain and usually end up with a soft semi - despite being hugely turned on....

However once buddy has finished fucking me I then enjoy lying back and masturbating to an wrection and to a sticky climax for him as he recovers ..

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By *aul English2022Man
11 weeks ago

exeter

Strange I get hard thinking about being fucked. When I am actually being I can’t stay hard,although I do make a mess

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By *eepriceMan
11 weeks ago

Huddersfield

I don’t stay hard when being fucked except when I’m in the sling at the sauna, my cock stays rock hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I don't see it's a problem it's your body just enjoying what's happening at the moment

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By *amsoonMan
11 weeks ago

stornoway

As soon as the guy has finished fucking me I get hard very quickly as he sucks me off for that spunky kiss

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By *iExCuckMan
11 weeks ago

Lowestoft

The number one reason I got soft is when I used to sniff the small brown bottle. Otherwise I mostly stay hard. There have been many times while being fucked and some other guy gets underneath me and sucks me off, that usually makes me go soft but stay in the position until he has shot his load up me. But even then, if there are others wanking and offering me their cocks to suck, I soon get hard again and ready to take the next guy up me.

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By *eorgesdadMan
11 weeks ago

Long Eaton Nottingham

My cock goes limp immediately he slides his beautiful erect cock up my arse and I love the sensations I get from his cock riding me, don’t need to be erect 🤪💋

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By *ub460Man
11 weeks ago

S. Derbys

"My cock goes limp immediately he slides his beautiful erect cock up my arse and I love the sensations I get from his cock riding me, don’t need to be erect 🤪💋"

Same here, all the pleasure I need is from his cock inside my arse

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By *ndy61hMan
11 weeks ago

Plymouth

I've often found myself going soft when being fucked, I'm still leaking lots of precum and enjoying myself so not so worried. If I'm going to be fucking as well, I've found that the blue pill generally keeps me harder whilst being fucked, and fully recivers when I'm foing the fucking.

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By *arla999Man
11 weeks ago

glasgow

I'm always soft as he fucks me but amazingly I cum loads with a soft cock

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

"I love to be fucked but often I can't stay hard while having a cock in me. It doesn't stop me enjoying it but it would be so much better if I stayed hard. Anyone else have this problem?"

Opposite for me - I struggle to stay hard to fuck ass but I’m rock hard when getting fucked .

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By *iggreenockMan
11 weeks ago

Greenock

I've been fucked with a dildo while being blown. It was fucking lovely yet I went soft. What is the cause of this?

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By *corpion1970Man
10 weeks ago

Isle of Wight

I find it depends on the position. If I am on top riding and wanking or being wanked, I stay hard and always a great orgasm. Most other positions I go soft but soon recover it when the fucking stops.

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By *ohnsy2022Man
9 weeks ago

Chorley

Always soft when being fucked, but I do spurt if the guys girthy and fucks me right

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

I get erect as soon as I am naked with a guy but soften up as soon as the guys prick is inside me

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By *zlakMan
9 weeks ago

Lowestoft

My cock is rock hard when I'm being fucked

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By *arla999Man
9 weeks ago

glasgow

Even though I'm not hard while being fucked I still cum in loads

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By *igDickEnergyMan
9 weeks ago

cardiff

This is regular

The reason the ones that stay hard make the top because it's "news!!!"

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By *axtheoneMan
9 weeks ago

Liverpool

True..I find a guy with a beautiful upward curved cock can hit the prostate and make me hard and cum hands free.

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By *ancsub1Man
9 weeks ago

Preston

I am always locked in my chastity cage whilst being fucked. Only managed an anal orgasm one time sadly. Hope it happens again though

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By *arla999Man
9 weeks ago

glasgow

"I am always locked in my chastity cage whilst being fucked. Only managed an anal orgasm one time sadly. Hope it happens again though"

My fuck buddy, insists I wear a jock strap when fucking me , tells me not to touch my cock so it remains soft as he fucks me, at times when he cums inside me I have an anal orgasm , so feminine

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