FabGuys.com forum: Anyone else get fed up messaging a guy

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Who can't be arsed to say no thank you or not my type then I could block and move on

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By *anDadBodMan
over a year ago

Speke

if they don’t reply to your first message?

If it was me, i’d just move on, if they don’t respond they’re not interested, and if you constantly message them, you’re coming across as desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don’t reply to a message I tend to block and move on

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By *ossmanTV/TS
over a year ago

Coalville

I get fed up of a guy that sends the exact same message every time. I can't answer in a different way each time and it bores me. Apart from this he's a really nice guy.

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By *ld4yngfunMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have found that the ones who ask loads questions have no intention of meeting up. It has happened to me often

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By *ottomasculineMan
5 weeks ago

st helens

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By *issycumslut10TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Luton

Weird one this week.

A relatively new guy local to me messaged to say Hi and compliment my profile.

I looked at his, he had a temporary status saying “2 no shows, 3rd time lucky I hope”.

I replied, saying sorry to read about your missed meets and that I was genuine so maybe I could help readdress the balance.

He’s read it, No reply, he’s been online fairly regular but no further messages.

Makes you wonder why they didn’t turn up…..?

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By *wansmickMan
5 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm never quite sure what some people want messaging. If you are looking a wank just phone because typing spoils it.ive had some strange ones but generally people get to the point and it's all fine and you cannot either have phone fun or arrange a meeting 👌👌👌

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By *ldderMan
5 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

It's life just move on

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By *itherMan
5 weeks ago

Leeds

I always reply to a message but I get pissed off with answering the same list of questions that I've answered a thousand times before.

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By *-skinMan
5 weeks ago

sandbay

I just want a bit of fun not to marry some on 101 questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

"I just want a bit of fun not to marry some on 101 questions."

Loads of guys on here use the site more like a dating app than an anonymous hook up site.

They want a catalogue of face pictures and then ask are you this, are you that, do you kiss, blah blah blah.

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 weeks ago

Neath

I host so I need to get the impression I’m not inviting a crazy to my house.

However I get fed up with people who seem obsessed by who else you’re meeting.

I had one go through my verifications and start messaging them asking for details about me and where I lived, wanting my address. Luckily a couple of them messaged me to tell me.

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By *ibrum2025Man
5 weeks ago

here

I just humour them 🤷‍♂️

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

I love to message. But I prefer to

Meet

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By *ice WankerMan
5 weeks ago

Lancs

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By *ice WankerMan
5 weeks ago

Lancs

Some people want to k ow your whole life story before deciding to meet or not.

No, I don't want to get to know you. You're just a bit of fun on the side and don't want a relationship.

Others ask you the same question if they said the same thing weeks or months ago, when they already know the answers.

I'm not interested in 20 questions

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By (user no longer on site)
5 weeks ago

Have to admit lately it been bad have tried to arrange 6 meets since last Saturday and all failed and pulled out or never get back to me when I asked for the best time. They all asked what I like and ever time I reply luv fcking bareback "read profile"

Everyday I get over 100 views on my profile and everyday at least 4-8 messages but it ain't happening, just wanking everyday now to drain the balls.

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By *ike 57Man
5 weeks ago

clonmel

look to exchange phone numbers ..and keep in contact with him

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By *excessMan
5 weeks ago

Sleaford

I'm happy to exchange a message or two, but when it gets sexual, Im aware the guys just trying to get off, and I'm not interested in that.

"what would you do to me if we met" is the time wasters calling card in my experience

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By *hooseanameMan
5 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

So if a guy gets 200 messages a day he’s supposed to be nice to 200 people just to not hurt their feelings ? But you don’t care about his feelings or time used to reply ?

( fyi I don’t get 200 a day , I don’t get many at all and I still reply if I’m not interested sorry not sorry )

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By *ockey stickMan
5 weeks ago

Hounslow

If you read a message and deleted it that should be sufficient in saying that you're not interested.

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By *ustOneBearMan
5 weeks ago

Neath

"If you read a message and deleted it that should be sufficient in saying that you're not interested. "

Yep I take that as a no. I block so I don’t mistakenly message again.

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By *autiously_curiousMan
5 weeks ago

Craigavon

"I'm happy to exchange a message or two, but when it gets sexual, Im aware the guys just trying to get off, and I'm not interested in that.

"what would you do to me if we met" is the time wasters calling card in my experience"

Yeah I am mot into "sexting" happy to find out what a guy is into to make sure we're on the same wavelength. But had role play fantasising.

I answer all messages. Even if its jsut to say thanks but no thanks. I do see it as rude not to. Only ignore message I deem as rude

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By *im le2Man
5 weeks ago

aylestone leic

"I have found that the ones who ask loads questions have no intention of meeting up. It has happened to me often "

They just want you to talk dirty so they can have a wank.

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By *ubsissyforuMan
5 weeks ago

nr Bourne lincs

That's 95% of people on here. Don't bother looking at ur profile

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