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By *uffolkman22 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

lavenham

Advice please I have been contacted by a guy who wants to douche me as a prelude to A I have never taken A but often wondered how it feels ( safe ) is this weird or intimacy to far ?

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Bristol East

Your top wants to douche you?

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By *uffolkman22 OP   Man
41 weeks ago

lavenham

Yes ?

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Bristol East

That seems weird to me - it's the bottom's duty to be ready to receive.

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By *ountyGuy18Man
41 weeks ago

Leicester Groby Road

That does seem weird to me.

It’s bottom's responsibility to douche and be ready for the tops cock.

When I’m topping I expect the bottom to be ready and if I’m being bottom I’ll make sure to douche beforehand.

I don’t mind if a bottom is coming to mine say after work and asks if they can shower and douche at mine but I’d never want to do it to them

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By *ottom4444Man
41 weeks ago

Near Sudbury

That’s very strange. The whole point of douching is to avoid the brown during anal. If he’s not fussed about the brown, or as it seem actually interested in it, just don’t douche.

Other than being into skat, I can’t imagine why someone would want to douche someone else’s arse.

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By *airFetishMan
41 weeks ago

Maldon


"That seems weird to me - it's the bottom's duty to be ready to receive."

Duty? Is there some kind of sex contract that people on here sign before sex?

Practically I’d think it’s better for the receiver to douche as they know just what’s going on but two adults together can decide for themselves.

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By *airFetishMan
41 weeks ago

Maldon


"That’s very strange. The whole point of douching is to avoid the brown during anal. If he’s not fussed about the brown, or as it seem actually interested in it, just don’t douche.

Other than being into skat, I can’t imagine why someone would want to douche someone else’s arse. "

Some men want to shave their cocks and more, or wear bras and frilly panties, or use cologne, or put their cocks in cages or have huge bits of steel pushed through their cocks. I can’t imagine why people can’t imagine that others enjoy things they don’t.

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By *ottom4444Man
41 weeks ago

Near Sudbury


"That’s very strange. The whole point of douching is to avoid the brown during anal. If he’s not fussed about the brown, or as it seem actually interested in it, just don’t douche.

Other than being into skat, I can’t imagine why someone would want to douche someone else’s arse.

Some men want to shave their cocks and more, or wear bras and frilly panties, or use cologne, or put their cocks in cages or have huge bits of steel pushed through their cocks. I can’t imagine why people can’t imagine that others enjoy things they don’t. "

I can’t imagine why you can’t imagine that. I would have thought it was perfectly reasonable to not imagine why someone loves shit so much that they want to squirt it out of someone else’s arse.

But each to their own I guess.

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By *davidsonMan
41 weeks ago

kendal

Had a guy who used to do this to me was great to have him clean me out then fill me up

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By *airFetishMan
41 weeks ago

Maldon


"That’s very strange. The whole point of douching is to avoid the brown during anal. If he’s not fussed about the brown, or as it seem actually interested in it, just don’t douche.

Other than being into skat, I can’t imagine why someone would want to douche someone else’s arse.

Some men want to shave their cocks and more, or wear bras and frilly panties, or use cologne, or put their cocks in cages or have huge bits of steel pushed through their cocks. I can’t imagine why people can’t imagine that others enjoy things they don’t.

I can’t imagine why you can’t imagine that. I would have thought it was perfectly reasonable to not imagine why someone loves shit so much that they want to squirt it out of someone else’s arse.

But each to their own I guess. "

You have nailed your issue. You think it’s “perfectly reasonable“ that someone wouldn’t want to even imagine it when clearly there are websites (scatboi being the only one I know) where that is something that members not only imagine but …. actually do! Shocking isn’t it?

Each to their own indeed, as you say.

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By *oringblokeMan
41 weeks ago

Holyhead

Maybe he wants to be sure you are clean, personally I would find that pleasurable.

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Bristol East

Well, I'm kinda thinking the same thing, too - he's got a kink for poop

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
41 weeks ago

Bristol East


"That seems weird to me - it's the bottom's duty to be ready to receive.

Duty? Is there some kind of sex contract that people on here sign before sex?

Practically I’d think it’s better for the receiver to douche as they know just what’s going on but two adults together can decide for themselves."

Yeah . . .

It's the top duty to have a cock ready to inflate and ejaculate.

It's the bottom's duty to have a receptacle ready to receive it

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By *ndyBristolMan
41 weeks ago

Keynsham

I met a guy years ago at his place and he told me I could douche in his shower as he does it regularly there.

He said he would be happy to help me do it or leave me to do it myself. He offered to help just because he had a lot of experience and I didn't, I did it myself and it was all good.

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By *mptyspace80Man
41 weeks ago

Cambridge

I see no problem with it. I can totally understand the appeal, to a Dom, of cleaning a partner out before play. It's a very vulnerable position to be in and it ensures that they can get you spotless before they fuck you.

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By *en22Man
41 weeks ago

renfrew

I had an unexpected meet at the weekend, with a FWB I hadn't seen in a while.

No douching, three fucks later, arse to mouth, no shit.

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By *wilxj8Man
40 weeks ago

Kingswood BS15 8EQ

Someone is cleaning me out tomorrow evening before giving my ass a real good seeing to. I said I would to have to clean my self out but he insisted on giving me a deep clean. No problem for me, I will just sit there huffg popz while he does it

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By *kvanmanMan
40 weeks ago

andover

Go for it I would clean out before going so it isn’t messy

I love this as fourplay you can have fun like him filling you and sliding his cock in full of water and you squirt the water out and repeat its great fun

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By *ristolsbMan
40 weeks ago

Southville Bristol


"I see no problem with it. I can totally understand the appeal, to a Dom, of cleaning a partner out before play. It's a very vulnerable position to be in and it ensures that they can get you spotless before they fuck you. "

Exactly... vulnerability and loss of control on one side ( you can't do or even think of anything else when you have a gut full of water needing out); a form of control, even power play, on the other. There. We've all imagined the unimaginable.

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By *arridMan
40 weeks ago

brighton


"Your top wants to douche you?

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what the deuce!

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By *arridMan
40 weeks ago

brighton


"Someone is cleaning me out tomorrow evening before giving my ass a real good seeing to. I said I would to have to clean my self out but he insisted on giving me a deep clean. No problem for me, I will just sit there huffg popz while he does it"
he told me he has a toilet brush scenario planned.

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By *rookeTVTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Blackheath

Would be happy for my top to do that for me x

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By *astDevonGuyMan
40 weeks ago

East Devon

How awful , somethings are just not made for sharing

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By *ave47Man
40 weeks ago

leigh

I dont find it weird at all. He's just making sure, or He's showing his dominance with a little arse play first. I'd like a guy to douch me before fucking me to be honest

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By *astDevonGuyMan
40 weeks ago

East Devon


"Someone is cleaning me out tomorrow evening before giving my ass a real good seeing to. I said I would to have to clean my self out but he insisted on giving me a deep clean. No problem for me, I will just sit there huffg popz while he does it"

Is he going to wear one of those headbands with a light on it ?

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By *ubSallyTV/TS
40 weeks ago

Acton

I would love to meet a dom top who would clean me first, adds to the humiliation

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By *eams1Man
40 weeks ago

Romford

Used to meet a guy for fun. I would douche before a meet but he used to like filling me up with water and watching as I squirted clean water out. I loved the experience and was just another form of play for me.

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By *rishTedMan
40 weeks ago

Manchester

Sounds great but if it was me I’d douche myself first to be sure.

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By *umiliation pigMan
40 weeks ago

Kirkcaldy

I always make sure in douched but if a dom wanted to to it then I wouldn’t complain

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By *pankmandyTV/TS
40 weeks ago

scunthorpe

I used to meet a guy a long time ago who was into giving enemas. He was a gentle old gentleman, highly educated and artistic.

As a sub it was incredible giving yourself up to this level of control. It was all role play scenario specific. He did not watch the expulsion after he gave me permission to go the toilet.

He then gave lots of care and reassurance as he administered a second enema or began exploring my anus with toys and objects.

Invariably this lead to spanking humiliation and corner time etc.

The session always finished with my bent over a very large cushion or end of the bed for a fucking.

Lots of cuddles and after care to follow.

He was amazing, nothing filthy or disgusting involved, pure fetish that dovetailed with my needs as a submissive.

As long as both parties are content, I see no problem.

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By *iagoMan
40 weeks ago

Exeter

I had a top do this to me years ago and found it to be very intimate.

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By *raceywildTV/TS
40 weeks ago

London and Spain

I think that's definitely a step to far for me

I do my own toiletries beforehand by my own hand

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By (user no longer on site)
40 weeks ago

I always douche before anal myself as I prefer to be clean. If a guy wanted to have fun with water once I was clean I would be OK with that.

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By *annyDanielleMan
40 weeks ago

Street, Somerset

I have to admit i have thought about this myself before, maybe because i'm quite lazy.

It certainly is a good way of handing over control and putting yourself in a vulnerable position. That in itself is exciting, but, as has been mentioned before, i'd still want to douche beforehand.

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By *pat71Man
40 weeks ago

London

I prefer to do my own duty and routine and be ready for my top

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By *orthernmanMan
40 weeks ago

egremont

Once got douched along with 3 other lads buy a top

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By *luerooMan
40 weeks ago

bridgwater

all douched up and nowhere to go !

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By *ibiker1000Man
1 week ago

Durham

That is such a sexy scenario .


"I used to meet a guy a long time ago who was into giving enemas. He was a gentle old gentleman, highly educated and artistic.

As a sub it was incredible giving yourself up to this level of control. It was all role play scenario specific. He did not watch the expulsion after he gave me permission to go the toilet.

He then gave lots of care and reassurance as he administered a second enema or began exploring my anus with toys and objects.

Invariably this lead to spanking humiliation and corner time etc.

The session always finished with my bent over a very large cushion or end of the bed for a fucking.

Lots of cuddles and after care to follow.

He was amazing, nothing filthy or disgusting involved, pure fetish that dovetailed with my needs as a submissive.

As long as both parties are content, I see no problem. "

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By *arriBtmMan
1 week ago

Warrington


"Had a guy who used to do this to me was great to have him clean me out then fill me up"

The douche is sometimes equivalent to foreplay I love it personally

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By *anmannersMan
1 week ago

Uk


"Advice please I have been contacted by a guy who wants to douche me as a prelude to A I have never taken A but often wondered how it feels ( safe ) is this weird or intimacy to far ?"

From an ex nurse

Don't let anyone douche you unless it's a trained professional.

Things could go wrong. If you douche yourself you'll know how much water and when to release.

Not saying the doucher wouldn't take care but ( colonic irrigation) and that's what it is even if only a couple of inches in must be done carefully.

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