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By *ingert88 OP   Man
44 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Maybe this is a bit too deep for here. But, what chances are there for a socially awkward guy who hates how he lookks and rarely cums during sex meeting someone? :/

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By *enjamin2018Man
44 weeks ago

Ilkley

Self confidence is the key .the two guys who verified you obviously liked you .

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Bedford


"Maybe this is a bit too deep for here. But, what chances are there for a socially awkward guy who hates how he lookks and rarely cums during sex meeting someone? :/ "
are you talking about yourself ?xxx

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By *andomguy321Man
44 weeks ago

reading


"Maybe this is a bit too deep for here. But, what chances are there for a socially awkward guy who hates how he lookks and rarely cums during sex meeting someone? :/ "

Your chances of success will be increased if you accentuate the positives rather than focus on the negatives.

And shyness can be endearing

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By *ocbigMan
44 weeks ago

Birmingham

If that’s your opening line… not a great start. However if you change that to a slightly sub? (Can you be slightly?) I think you can be without the sub/Dom connotations making it something it’s not.. unless you are, and portray yourself as a ‘stayer’ and who knows. Not everyone is a strutting cocksman, we all have our insecurities.

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By *or one nught onlyMan
44 weeks ago

dundee


"Maybe this is a bit too deep for here. But, what chances are there for a socially awkward guy who hates how he lookks and rarely cums during sex meeting someone? :/ "

You’re in luck on here. Most only care if you have a pulse So , nothing to worry about

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
44 weeks ago

Bedford

Life is not shit, it's wonderful, look around the world and the troubles some face every day of their life .then wake up and smell the coffee xxx

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By *ingert88 OP   Man
44 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"Self confidence is the key .the two guys who verified you obviously liked you ."

No disrespect to those guys, they were great, but I was just a hole to be plugged lol


"are you talking about yourself ?xxx "

Yeah


"Your chances of success will be increased if you accentuate the positives rather than focus on the negatives. And shyness can be endearing "

It's partly fear of a relationship, I've never had a proper one

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By *arridMan
44 weeks ago

brighton


"Maybe this is a bit too deep for here. But, what chances are there for a socially awkward guy who hates how he lookks and rarely cums during sex meeting someone? :/ "

What don’t you like about yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

I have a skin condition that causes numerous tags and cysts to appear, I’m very self conscious of these and done guys immediately balk at the sight of them, most are just not concerned, the soul within is more important hopefully?

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By *ingert88 OP   Man
44 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"What don’t you like about yourself?"

I've the emotional depth of a teaspoon. I'm fat and have man boobs. I can't cum when having sex. I'm shit at making new friends. Need I go on?

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

It’s not all about sex. Yeah it’s good and helps but sometimes having a connection is better just even someone to talk to over a coffee

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By *ingert88 OP   Man
44 weeks ago

Huddersfield


"It’s not all about sex. Yeah it’s good and helps but sometimes having a connection is better just even someone to talk to over a coffee"

Those kind of men seem rare

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By *icky200Man
44 weeks ago

West Norwood


"Maybe this is a bit too deep for here. But, what chances are there for a socially awkward guy who hates how he lookks and rarely cums during sex meeting someone? :/ "

Read The Velvet Rage by Alan Downs

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By *149guyMan
44 weeks ago

West Norfolk

What are you saying? You state yourself as chubby,?youre not!! Get the self esteem raised higher ! You’re a very sexy looking guy!! X

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By *arridMan
44 weeks ago

brighton


"What don’t you like about yourself?

I've the emotional depth of a teaspoon. I'm fat and have man boobs. I can't cum when having sex. I'm shit at making new friends. Need I go on?"

Certainly recognising what you think the issues are is a start. I don’t think there’s a herbal average acceptable level of emotion so what you think yours is might be much higher or lower than other guys’. I’d not worry about that one. You can happily say to yourself ‘I don’t care’ because you might not care, so don’t care about your emotional depth.

Over weight? Review your diet and exercise regime.

Can’t cum? Some might see that as a bonus.

New friends? What’s wrong with the old ones? Besides which, you’re not 5 so don’t ned to make new friends. Take up a hobby or pastime or join a club and see what happens. Do you do anything specifically annoying or off putting or socially inept that causes people to avoid you?

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By *arridMan
44 weeks ago

brighton

Herbal?! Don’t know where that came from.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

Yes life is shit.

As someone already said look to the positive stop dwelling on the negatives, yes it's difficult to interact with others when you are shy, but find a place to go to that's nothing to do with sex get talking to people , let will talk to you that will build your confidence, as far as not cumming, you need to relax don't try to hard.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
44 weeks ago

As Mother Teresa famously said, "Life's a pig, then you die." Sums it up perfectly.

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By *imme99Man
44 weeks ago

South Gloucestershire


"Maybe this is a bit too deep for here. But, what chances are there for a socially awkward guy who hates how he lookks and rarely cums during sex meeting someone? :/ "

If you advertise yourself as that...

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By *dambi00Man
44 weeks ago

London


"What don’t you like about yourself?

I've the emotional depth of a teaspoon. I'm fat and have man boobs. I can't cum when having sex. I'm shit at making new friends. Need I go on?"

If you don’t like the way your body looks then maybe try change up some things to improve it, slight calorie deficit and do some walking everyday and you’ll see differences in no time

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By *eefandfurMan
44 weeks ago

Edinburgh

None of the "dating" sites really work for anything more than hook-ups. Try getting involved in social activities with other gay guys where the purpose is simply to meet without the expectation of sexual activities. Groups like gay outdoors club could be good.

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By *chilles999Man
44 weeks ago

London

Social skills? Yes it's agony, but try simply asking,'Please tell me about yourself.' Then listen. Remember the Irish saying:'I talked when I should have listened.' You will discover a whole world out there.

Life will get better, though it always sends out its challenges. Sending you courage and all the best.

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