FabGuys.com forum: No Sex at Home

By *ottom4444 OP Man
over a year ago

Wedt Suffolk

You see posts and profiles all the time saying they are in a sexless relationship.

If that’s you, why is that? And if it’s been a long time, why do you stay?

To me your partner is the friend you have sex with. So of you’re not having sex they are just a friend.

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By *ubslut42Man
over a year ago

Maidstone

I'm in a sexless marriage but we have a few different dynamics. She is my best friend, Mistress and Domme who I adore and love so much.

She absolutely loves sex but I suffer from losing my erection and getting hard. She loves being a Domme and that keeps us very much in love. Sex is not the be all with us and I'm happy she gets that elsewhere.

Since we mutually decided we no longer need sex together our relationship is so much happier and better.

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By *ickeMan
over a year ago

watford

"You see posts and profiles all the time saying they are in a sexless relationship.

If that’s you, why is that? And if it’s been a long time, why do you stay?

To me your partner is the friend you have sex with. So of you’re not having sex they are just a friend.

They are someone you love .

I don’t love my friends not that got any

You don’t have sex with your pets

( well some might)

But you treat them better then lot family friends you have .

Called trust loyalty honesty love someone you want be with .

Women not like men sexually if they where we all be fucking in street .

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By *yd111Man
2 weeks ago

crewkerne

We,ve had sex once in the last 7 yrs. Menopause stopped our fun..i do miss fucking her as my sex drive is still good , although a pill helps me get nice and hard. I play solo at home , i have a vibrating cock ring shich is lovely..

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By *upertedMan
2 weeks ago

Nelson

If you've never experienced it it's hard to form an opinion.

I've straight friends where menopause and children are involved.

I've married gay friends with mismatched libido but they've built a life together, renovating a property and redoing a garden oasis.

Easier for the gays to play, but monogamy to most is still important.

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By *airFetishMan
2 weeks ago

Maldon

My partner is the man I love and that didn't change when the sex dried to almost a trickle.

I can get a blow job or a quick fuck most days. Finding a man who loves me and whom I love is waaaay more difficult.

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By *ustOneBearMan
2 weeks ago

Neath

"My partner is the man I love and that didn't change when the sex dried to almost a trickle.

I can get a blow job or a quick fuck most days. Finding a man who loves me and whom I love is waaaay more difficult."

That’s so refreshing to hear, it’s true if you are in a loving relationship sex doesn’t matter. You can get that from others but that love and trust is priceless.

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

Mine is largely sexless due to physical issues (she has CFS and a demanding job so is wiped out most of the time), although we are emotionally and physically affectionate and sleep together, and she doesn't mind even if I have a wank next to her.

I don't like the resentful tone I hear in a lot of the "sick of the Mrs not putting out" posts on here, nor the misogynistic tone of the pic-swappers and panty-sniffers. Can't help thinking they should have made a few better life choices.

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By *andomguy321Man
2 weeks ago

reading

I think people often stop fancying eachother in long-term relationships.

Start off as red-hot lovers ... end up as lukewarm housemates.

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By *dstefiMan
2 weeks ago

Solihull

"I think people often stop fancying eachother in long-term relationships.

Start off as red-hot lovers ... end up as lukewarm housemates. "

May not be meant but that still has a slightly judgemental tone about it. Red hot usually being seen as desirable and lukewarm as mediocre.

Love, if that's what you have, evolves and shape shifts over time but if it's good, it stays meaningful and deepens in ways other than just getting your cock wet.

In my wife's case it's evolved to her recognising that I like cock and it's completely different and separate from our own physical and emotional life. Maybe I'm just lucky or maybe I exercised good judgement (second marriage with a few lessons learnt from the first)

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Im in a sexless marriage. I love my wife. We have been together for nearly 30 years. Through hell and high water. Good and bad times. Its made a solid bond. We have raised a family together.

We had a very active sex life for a long time. Then an accident at work left my wife with permsnent spinal damage. He lower spine and hips were injured. Sex became very painful for her. As a result we havent had a sexual relationship for around 10 years. When I was young I was interested in both sexes. Though I never followed up on the male interest. But time has awoken this interest again.

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By *andomguy321Man
2 weeks ago

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"I think people often stop fancying eachother in long-term relationships.

Start off as red-hot lovers ... end up as lukewarm housemates.

May not be meant but that still has a slightly judgemental tone about it. Red hot usually being seen as desirable and lukewarm as mediocre.

Love, if that's what you have, evolves and shape shifts over time but if it's good, it stays meaningful and deepens in ways other than just getting your cock wet.

Not judgmental at all ... Over the years, as domestic routines carve their deep, well-trodden furrows ....Desire fades and sexual passion gives way to comfort & security.

There is little thrill in the touch of someone who has already 'been there, done that' more times than can be remembered or counted.

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By *amie1402Man
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

"You see posts and profiles all the time saying they are in a sexless relationship.

If that’s you, why is that? And if it’s been a long time, why do you stay?

To me your partner is the friend you have sex with. So of you’re not having sex they are just a friend.

They are someone you love .

I don’t love my friends not that got any

You don’t have sex with your pets

( well some might)

But you treat them better then lot family friends you have .

Called trust loyalty honesty love someone you want be with .

Women not like men sexually if they where we all be fucking in street .

Gobbledegook

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By *oxleyMan
2 weeks ago

Wetherby

Age difference - we knew things would stop.

Doesn’t matter, I changed and preferred men in my 50’s.

We are the best of friends, trust each other, she doesn’t know I like cock but teases and suspects but doesn’t care.

Get one, keep her, enjoy the companionship, never let them down, get them to do the ironing and cleaning while you cook and mow the lawn.

Get your rocks off with a Fab Guy somewhere discrete.

Life 🤭

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By *shleigh1964TV/TS
2 weeks ago

penzance

She s my one friend, I may as well use my earnings to keep us both under a roof. If I left i d go back to living in the wilds, I know that lifestyle better than house living but if I did that she d have nowhere to go that she could afford alone..I could never do that to her..it kinda works, I m out in the wilds a larger part of my time anyways, only in house evenings. I expect one day, like an elephant I ll head back I to the trees but reet now is not the reet time.

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By *ucker4you80Man
2 weeks ago

Chippenham

A fascinating insight into the myriad ways people justify their infidelity. I know 'man up' isn't an accepted expression anymore, but it was useful as a way to say "take accountability". Whatever happened to being responsible for your own actions?

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By *irralGuy20Man
2 weeks ago

Wirral

I guess we just fell out of lust with each other - everything else is still hunky dory.

She has a male FWB who is a sound lad and I am given carte blanche to meet guys (not women) if I want to.

We're still a team and have each others backs in every way possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Love means a lot more than sex, I haven't had sex with my wife in over 15 years, we are very happy together but she doesn't know I'm a faggot for other men to use, still sex in a way for me but I'm not having any orgasms with them so I'm not really cheating

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By *ucker4you80Man
2 weeks ago

Chippenham

"Love means a lot more than sex, I haven't had sex with my wife in over 15 years, we are very happy together but she doesn't know I'm a faggot for other men to use, still sex in a way for me but I'm not having any orgasms with them so I'm not really cheating"

Please tell me you're not being serious?!

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By *ayPonty1Man
2 weeks ago

Pontypridd

I can imagine couples stay together as divorce is very expensive - especially in older couples where starting again isn't really an option.

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By *ishop666Man
2 weeks ago

ls19

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By *ishop666Man
2 weeks ago

ls19

That is true

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By *rancd2TV/TS
2 weeks ago

Wolverhampton

You justify it how u want to.

If it suits you both all good 👍🏼

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By *erscumdumpMan
2 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

Hahahaha award for most nonsense comment of the day...

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

Tell your wife this and see if she thinks it's not cheating

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By *ildwestheroMan
2 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

I can understand this although it has not happened to me as such. Some years ago I had a FWB/boyfriend. He was a married man with 4 young children. After the 4th child was born his wife was advised not to have anymore as there had been complication. She went right off sex. They shared a bed but she even rebuffed a kiss. He'd always been bi-curious but never acted upon it until we became friends. Eventually the offer of a new and better job--ironically near his in-laws--caused him and his family to move away and our affair came to an end.

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By *ot older guyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

bradninch

"You see posts and profiles all the time saying they are in a sexless relationship.

If that’s you, why is that? And if it’s been a long time, why do you stay?

To me your partner is the friend you have sex with. So of you’re not having sex they are just a friend.

Why do you stay,easy,theres more to a marriage than just sex

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By *amelaXTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Swindon

When there's no sex at home......

There's always a willing tranny ready to step in

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By *andomguy321Man
2 weeks ago

reading

"When there's no sex at home......

There's always a willing tranny ready to step in

Taking up the slack?

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