FabGuys.com forum: Need advice please!

By *inker1 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Norwich

I'm a bottom and I love anal sex.

I'm a nice enough guy.

Apparently I have a nice enough arse.

Almost no limits in anal.

Don't care, if you have sex with others as well, because I'm not interested in a relationship, plus you will always use condom with me.

I don't care how handsome are you.

I don't even care how big is your cock, as long as I like the shape of it.

Only thing I expect is be clean, be nice, couple of fingers, then you are good to bang my arse for hours, if you want even hard.

I don't do oral sex, but I don't expect it either.

Suggested wanking, porn, toys in me...etc.

It seems it's an issue for most guys here. They rather wank

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By *inker1 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Norwich

They rather wank alone to my photos than bang my arse without oral.

I don't get it.

What can I do about this?

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By *3versMan
7 weeks ago

glasgow

"They rather wank alone to my photos than bang my arse without oral.

I don't get it.

What can I do about this?

Suck cock

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By *endleGuy_01Man
7 weeks ago

Nelson

"They rather wank alone to my photos than bang my arse without oral.

I don't get it.

What can I do about this?

Suck cock"

Absolutely agree 100%. Suck cock.

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By *allsdeep75Man
7 weeks ago

dunmow

Is there a reason you don’t do oral? With only a few exceptions guys just do it better myself included you don’t have to deep throat if that’s not your thing.

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By *inker1 OP Man
7 weeks ago

Norwich

I'm into pegging, but that won't happen, so I let cock in my arse. Simply explain, but also I don't fancy sucking cock. Anybody can suck cock, but not everyone can do anal on porn level.

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By *kigaiMan
7 weeks ago

Northampton

Any guy who puts his cock off limits or won't at least attempt to suck mine is a no go.

Always happy to fuck a guy if he wants fucking and he's attractive over all however sex is a 2 way street or the traffic doesn't flow.

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
7 weeks ago

Glasgow

Your profile is very off-putting for me. There are more things you won't do than things you will. Sex has to be appealling to both parties, you profile obviously isn't to most guys

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By *ubberFunkerMan
7 weeks ago

London- Margate +M2 corridor

"Your profile is very off-putting for me. There are more things you won't do than things you will. Sex has to be appealling to both parties, you profile obviously isn't to most guys"

Agreed. This guy is just another porn addict who's started getting off on gay sex.

If you don't suck cock, take cum in your mouth or arse & not prepared to reciprocate, you're just wanking in the shallow end.

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By *lowingMan
7 weeks ago

Bristol

Suck the cock so its stimulated most guys need oral first

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By *evanianMan
7 weeks ago

Sir y Fflint - Gogledd Cymru

Advice is to change your ways in the way suggested in the previous responses to your question. There is a lot of off-putting negativity in your profile too, consider modifying that too.

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By *ownman40Man
7 weeks ago

Bedford Thankfully Slightly Better Than Luton!

I think you already know the Answer.

Maybe you are just a terrible shag!???

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By *inker1 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Norwich

Wow! Surprisingly hostile comments from gay/bi guys.

I might do oral, if I have someone regular, but then expecting rimming.

Most tops want to receive oral and fuck arse, like they are entitled to be pleasured just because they have a cock.

I've never watched even 1 scene of gay porn.

I do watch straight and lesbian anal.

I'm gagging on my toothbrush, plus a lot of guys smell B.O. Pretty much I'm afraid to vomit, plus I think it's selfish if I'd do oral, but I wouldn't receive.

I've been with 1 guy only, so I might be a shit shag. He was keep coming back though, but he came from gym/work and smelled bad, so I ended it.

If I wank them before they fuck my arse, but they only need to stick a couple of fingers in me, then what is the one way street there?

If you can't get it up once without oral, then the problem isn't necessarily me. I will try oral with a regular, but not someone I just met.

I won't leave my door open while I'm naked, because it's not safe.

I'm not having sex without condom with guys from a hookup site, because it's really risky.

I don't do oral, because it makes me feel sick.

It's not negativity, just logic. I was asking for advice other than "suck cock". I'm sure some of you could get it up with less on a first meet, then we will see on the second one.

How about wanking, porn, playing with toys...?

Thanks for the support from the gay community. Obviously I'm still more straight than bi, but these comments won't help to open up.

Usually I just using dildos on my fucking machine.

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

You did ask. If you feel the advice is so negative only you can chamge that. A profile is a snap-shot of what is on offer. Try and make that appealling

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By *olbornsubguyMan
6 weeks ago

London Central

I meet a lot of fuck arse obsessed guys. Most need some oral to start

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By *inker1 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Norwich

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By *inker1 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Norwich

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By *inker1 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Norwich

"You did ask. If you feel the advice is so negative only you can chamge that. A profile is a snap-shot of what is on offer. Try and make that appealling"

I just did that, but don't feel really comfortable about it.

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By *inker1 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Norwich

"I meet a lot of fuck arse obsessed guys. Most need some oral to start "

Are they giving you oral as well to start?

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By *terag5581Man
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

Being mostly top, I don't need oral first .

I'm quite happy to walk in and pound the ass off a guy and then leave

As for guys on this site and thinking most are high risk , I'm sure a good proportion take their sexual health seriously and test regularly

Those that don't are the high risk ones, when did you last get tested?

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By *av1511Man
6 weeks ago

Basingstoke

I would prefer to suck someone b4 rimming then fucking them

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By *ubberFunkerMan
6 weeks ago

London- Margate +M2 corridor

"You did ask. If you feel the advice is so negative only you can chamge that. A profile is a snap-shot of what is on offer. Try and make that appealling

I just did that, but don't feel really comfortable about it."

Go back to your lesbian anal porn and leave this site for real man on man action.

You're just a porn addicted straight fantasist.

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By *teelballsMan
6 weeks ago

central london

"I'm a bottom and I love anal sex.

I'm a nice enough guy.

Apparently I have a nice enough arse.

Almost no limits in anal.

Don't care, if you have sex with others as well, because I'm not interested in a relationship, plus you will always use condom with me.

I don't care how handsome are you.

I don't even care how big is your cock, as long as I like the shape of it.

Only thing I expect is be clean, be nice, couple of fingers, then you are good to bang my arse for hours, if you want even hard.

I don't do oral sex, but I don't expect it either.

Suggested wanking, porn, toys in me...etc.

It seems it's an issue for most guys here. They rather wank

Reality. There are a lot of silly people on here who pretend that they want to meet and will send messages, but eventually there will be some reason why you don’t fit the bill. Many of them are fooling themselves in the idea of meeting and always back out one way or another.

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By *inker1 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Norwich

"Being mostly top, I don't need oral first .

I'm quite happy to walk in and pound the ass off a guy and then leave

As for guys on this site and thinking most are high risk , I'm sure a good proportion take their sexual health seriously and test regularly

Those that don't are the high risk ones, when did you last get tested?"

I got tested first time in my life last summer, but just to rule out anything causing other medical issues. I didn't have sex without condom in over 5 years, so...

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By *inker1 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Norwich

"You did ask. If you feel the advice is so negative only you can chamge that. A profile is a snap-shot of what is on offer. Try and make that appealling

I just did that, but don't feel really comfortable about it.

Go back to your lesbian anal porn and leave this site for real man on man action.

You're just a porn addicted straight fantasist."

Straight people calling me bisexual/gay. Now you are calling me straight. Fanatic? Don't you think bi-curious would be more appropriate. Well actually I'm more than bi-curious, because I've been with 1 guy a few times.

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By *inker1 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Norwich

"I'm a bottom and I love anal sex.

I'm a nice enough guy.

Apparently I have a nice enough arse.

Almost no limits in anal.

Don't care, if you have sex with others as well, because I'm not interested in a relationship, plus you will always use condom with me.

I don't care how handsome are you.

I don't even care how big is your cock, as long as I like the shape of it.

Only thing I expect is be clean, be nice, couple of fingers, then you are good to bang my arse for hours, if you want even hard.

I don't do oral sex, but I don't expect it either.

Suggested wanking, porn, toys in me...etc.

It seems it's an issue for most guys here. They rather wank

Well, it seems I'm too bi/gay for straight people, but too straight for bi/gay people.

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By *ubberFunkerMan
6 weeks ago

London- Margate +M2 corridor

" Well, it seems I'm too bi/gay for straight people, but too straight for bi/gay people. "

You're a very confused man seeking attention from the gay/bi community, just because you've had a very confusing homosexual experience.

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By *dambi00Man
6 weeks ago

Leicester

I wouldn’t meet a guy who’s not into oral, I’m a bottom and enjoy giving and receiving oral. Wouldn’t want to meet someone and just go straight to anal, where’s the build up and foreplay in that?

If you’re meeting guys that stink of BO, then pick better guys to meet or make it clear they should be shower fresh

But like others have said, your profile and comments here make you seem a bit like a fantasist, and being on the site for 11 months and no meets, also backs that claim up

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By *iscreetdirtydevilMan
6 weeks ago

Basingstoke

Just as you have preferences so do other people, I'm a strict bottom I love to suck, I don't need to kiss but I do I don't ever fuck but I'd never turn down a BJ, but I wouldn't meet just to get sucked, it's all about mutual fun, your comments scream inexperience so no 1 gonna just come fuck you, it's an odd preference but each to their own, when I was straight I didn't like fucking women arse just not for me, but who don't love to get blown, some people just do wank meets I can't understand that myself but each to their own, I'm a proper alut that does the slut I've got something for everyone and I still struggle for meets

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By *terag5581Man
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

"They rather wank alone to my photos than bang my arse without oral.

I don't get it.

What can I do about this?

There's nothing you can do about it

You've clearly stated what you want

Not being into oral limits the guys that want to meet you, and again exclusively only into anal

I'm sure you're an OK guy but the reality is not many guys fit your strict criteria

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By *inker1 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Norwich

"They rather wank alone to my photos than bang my arse without oral.

I don't get it.

What can I do about this?

There's nothing you can do about it

You've clearly stated what you want

Not being into oral limits the guys that want to meet you, and again exclusively only into anal

I'm sure you're an OK guy but the reality is not many guys fit your strict criteria

Thanks for the decent comment.

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By *ustPeekinMan
6 weeks ago

Alresford

Like the saying goes, you do you. You don’t have to conform to anyone else’s image of what we should all get up to. But some posters have a point - your profile, which is essentially you offer - does come over as a bit fussy? Maybe that’s why some folks don’t want to meet you. For example, I love sucking cock so what you say on your profile would not appeal to me. Just a thought.

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By *inker1 OP Man
6 weeks ago

Norwich

"Like the saying goes, you do you. You don’t have to conform to anyone else’s image of what we should all get up to. But some posters have a point - your profile, which is essentially you offer - does come over as a bit fussy? Maybe that’s why some folks don’t want to meet you. For example, I love sucking cock so what you say on your profile would not appeal to me. Just a thought. "

That is more like I don't like/want to suck cock, so obviously I'm not expecting to be sucked either.

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By *uy near ArundelMan
6 weeks ago

Nr Arundel

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By *uy near ArundelMan
6 weeks ago

Nr Arundel

"I'm into pegging, but that won't happen, so I let cock in my arse. Simply explain, but also I don't fancy sucking cock. Anybody can suck cock, but not everyone can do anal on porn level. "

It seems to me you just expect guys to do exactly what you want without you interacting. Guys will regard this as selfishness on your part.

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By *an467Man
6 weeks ago

Glasgow

Exactly this

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By *ootsloverTV/TS
6 weeks ago

Tetbury

Plenty of guys will just want your lubed up arse.

Maybe concentrate on what you will do rather than what you won't. Sell that part on your profile, go for the guys that just want to top you. There are loads on here.

Sell yourself, not just 3 pics of your backside, put more in your profile, turn the guys on.

You have to shout loud here and cast your net wide. You will be beating them off with a stick.

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