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"Surly it’s up to the individual what they want and who they are . " It absolutely is, and whatever they tell themselves to justify their actions is fine by me, and none of my business, but as I said, it makes me laugh. | |||
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"I suspect you misunderstand where these guys are coming from. Their primary interest is in women. They have bisexual tendencies. But experience has taught them they'll get cold-shouldered by most women if they label themselves as anything other than straight. They're happy to fumble around with CDs and TVs, but usually as a substitute for what they would see as the real thing. " Bit too much of a generalisation. That may well apply to some however for a significant number having sex with a guy in lingerie allows them to have what they want while dissociating from the reality of it. | |||
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"I suspect you misunderstand where these guys are coming from. Their primary interest is in women. They have bisexual tendencies. But experience has taught them they'll get cold-shouldered by most women if they label themselves as anything other than straight. They're happy to fumble around with CDs and TVs, but usually as a substitute for what they would see as the real thing. " Totally agree, it's purely because women really have the choice on FS so calling yourself straight is just plumage to lower the chances of instant rejection | |||
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"I suspect you misunderstand where these guys are coming from. Their primary interest is in women. They have bisexual tendencies. But experience has taught them they'll get cold-shouldered by most women if they label themselves as anything other than straight. They're happy to fumble around with CDs and TVs, but usually as a substitute for what they would see as the real thing. " I understand that the bisexual label might put a lot of women off. I also understand that hooking up with a cd/tv might just be a substitute for the 'real thing'. But hardly explains as to why they would want to have sex with me. Plus if we have got into conversation some would be quite happy for me to fuck them! | |||
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" Bit too much of a generalisation. That may well apply to some however for a significant number having sex with a guy in lingerie allows them to have what they want while dissociating from the reality of it." Because on that site it is much easier to have sex with a male masquerading as a woman than it is to have sex with a woman. | |||
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"I suspect you misunderstand where these guys are coming from. Their primary interest is in women. They have bisexual tendencies. But experience has taught them they'll get cold-shouldered by most women if they label themselves as anything other than straight. They're happy to fumble around with CDs and TVs, but usually as a substitute for what they would see as the real thing. " I've had an Man bi status on FS (my current active one is as TV), some MF couples insist on bi status, to play as they don't want straight guys pretending to be bi just to get access to the F. Each to there own and alm that, it just makes me laugh how they try and justify it it me. | |||
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"It makes me laugh guys on Fabswingers trying to justify themselves as being straight as they want to fuck my CD ass but not suck my cock. Whatever you say mate, I just want you cock in me! " If that’s the way they identify then let it be and bend over bitch! | |||
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"Rarely check my Fabswingers account as had little joy on that site and cannot post on the forum. Nearly every guy who has approached me on F/S has got straight on his profile. I've tended to message back 'I'm a bloke not a woman!'" Who cares if they can give you what you want. | |||
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"Rarely check my Fabswingers account as had little joy on that site and cannot post on the forum. Nearly every guy who has approached me on F/S has got straight on his profile. I've tended to message back 'I'm a bloke not a woman!' Who cares if they can give you what you want. " I don't care if they accept me for who I am. But if they want some bloke masquerading as a pseudo woman then they can think again. | |||
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"It makes me laugh guys on Fabswingers trying to justify themselves as being straight as they want to fuck my CD ass but not suck my cock. Whatever you say mate, I just want you cock in me! If that’s the way they identify then let it be and bend over bitch!" Mmmmmm yes sir xx | |||
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"I think a lot of the straight guys are in denial. I had plenty of "straights" and we've fucked each other into oblivion. And they come back for more and more. That to me is not the behaviour of someone that identifies as straight." I think most gays are in denial too, every gay I've ever spoken to has done something with a girl. | |||
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"I suspect you misunderstand where these guys are coming from. Their primary interest is in women. They have bisexual tendencies. But experience has taught them they'll get cold-shouldered by most women if they label themselves as anything other than straight. They're happy to fumble around with CDs and TVs, but usually as a substitute for what they would see as the real thing. Bit too much of a generalisation. That may well apply to some however for a significant number having sex with a guy in lingerie allows them to have what they want while dissociating from the reality of it." Lol and you say too much generalisation. | |||
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"No idea about FS as never used it but the site administrators on here are at fault for making it mandatory to choose a label. . Gender identity aside, this is a site for sexual hookups between a person with a penis and another person with a penis, the same sex. . Gay is just another way of saying homosexual. Homo from the latin meaning of person of the same sex rather than a person of the opposite (hetero) sex. . A male who has sex with another male is participating in an homosexual act. . If a male also has sex with a female, he is bisexual NOT heterosexual/straight. . Only Males who exclusively have sex with a female are heterosexual. . Maybe some see gay/homosexual as significant of a lifestyle based on stereotypical representation and have some homophobia regarding being included under that label. . Those that say that they are straight by claiming they don't find males attractive are in denial, sexual attraction is attraction, whether it be to another males cock or ass. . Engaging in sex with another male and claiming you are straight is a hypocritical version of homophobia. " For a lot of guys saying they are straight on here is simply a reference to their life away from this site; probably about 99% of their life. Let’s face it, a guy on here advertising himself as available to meet men is hardly in denial. Obviously all the “in denial” twats are going to struggle with that thought. | |||
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"I think most gays are in denial too, every gay I've ever spoken to has done something with a girl." I don't think you can really identify as gay until you've been near a fanny at least once in your life (I'm not talking about the one you came out of), so you can confirm you have an aversion to the dreaded clunge. | |||
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"I think most gays are in denial too, every gay I've ever spoken to has done something with a girl. I don't think you can really identify as gay until you've been near a fanny at least once in your life (I'm not talking about the one you came out of), so you can confirm you have an aversion to the dreaded clunge." I’m just pointing out that according to some peoples logic a man cant be straight if he has been with a guy so the same must be true for gay men if they have been with a girl. Im more of the fuck labels kind of approach i think they are pointless and anyone can choose whatever they want. It doesn’t bother me in the slightest and would never question someone’s choice. | |||
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" For a lot of guys saying they are straight on here is simply a reference to their life away from this site; probably about 99% of their life. ." This infers that those who openly identify as gay consider their identity as a whole to be more about their sexuality than a person who has sex with men but claims to be straight. . Maybe its the portrayal of gay men through the likes of Queer as Folk, It's a Sin etc. But that is NOT reality. . I have identified as gay since aged 20 but it was never a predominant feature of my life, I was discrete to protect my career up until the millenium and nobody ever guessed, but once I started being open it did became the most important thing about me to straight people who thought that I spent all my free time either clubbing, at sex parties or campaigning for GAY rights. . Socialising with family & friends, travelling, hobbies etc have always taken up the majority of my free time. . And I am NOT the exception, this has been the lived experience of all my GAY friends. . I would actually counter that identifying as gay means sexuality is your predominant focus by saying that the guys that are regulars in saunas and spend a lot of time on this site are predominantly those that identify as straight to the outside world. . You only need to browse down the profile names that post in the forum to see the most prolific posts are NOT by those who choose to identify as GAY. | |||
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" For a lot of guys saying they are straight on here is simply a reference to their life away from this site; probably about 99% of their life. . This infers that those who openly identify as gay consider their identity as a whole to be more about their sexuality than a person who has sex with men but claims to be straight. . Maybe its the portrayal of gay men through the likes of Queer as Folk, It's a Sin etc. But that is NOT reality. . I have identified as gay since aged 20 but it was never a predominant feature of my life, I was discrete to protect my career up until the millenium and nobody ever guessed, but once I started being open it did became the most important thing about me to straight people who thought that I spent all my free time either clubbing, at sex parties or campaigning for GAY rights. . Socialising with family & friends, travelling, hobbies etc have always taken up the majority of my free time. . And I am NOT the exception, this has been the lived experience of all my GAY friends. . I would actually counter that identifying as gay means sexuality is your predominant focus by saying that the guys that are regulars in saunas and spend a lot of time on this site are predominantly those that identify as straight to the outside world. . You only need to browse down the profile names that post in the forum to see the most prolific posts are NOT by those who choose to identify as GAY. " It really does not matter what anyone chooses to be identified as. In an ideal world nobody would need to identify as anything. I like to feel like I live in an ideal world. | |||
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"It makes me laugh guys on Fabswingers trying to justify themselves as being straight as they want to fuck my CD ass but not suck my cock. Whatever you say mate, I just want you cock in me! " who would have figured I'd be the one to say this.. why label people just do what you feel. Hypocrite. | |||
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"An amount of "straight guys" on FS seem to come out at the end of the night, which is frankly insulting: the idea we sit around desperate for their affections. They get an instant block from me usually. The service only gives four options: straight, bisexual, bicurious, gay. Human sexuality is far more complex than that." Only 2 options.. able to consent or not able to consent. Life could not be simpler. | |||
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"Surly it’s up to the individual what they want and who they are . " Absolutely is up to the individual. Nobody should be judging them either. | |||
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"I think a lot of the straight guys are in denial. I had plenty of "straights" and we've fucked each other into oblivion. And they come back for more and more. That to me is not the behaviour of someone that identifies as straight. I think most gays are in denial too, every gay I've ever spoken to has done something with a girl." I'll hold my hands up to that. I've fucked women in the past. In my younger years I fucked women because I was in denial of being gay. And it's the same story for lots of gays. You try out a woman and realise it's not for you and you never go back. Unless you're bi of course. That's a bit different to someone that identifies as straight yet actively seeks out sex with other men. | |||
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"It makes me laugh guys on Fabswingers trying to justify themselves as being straight as they want to fuck my CD ass but not suck my cock. Whatever you say mate, I just want you cock in me! " I can see why they want you,your gorgeous xx | |||
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"I suspect you misunderstand where these guys are coming from. Their primary interest is in women. They have bisexual tendencies. But experience has taught them they'll get cold-shouldered by most women if they label themselves as anything other than straight. They're happy to fumble around with CDs and TVs, but usually as a substitute for what they would see as the real thing. I think that’s quite near " | |||
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"Surly it’s up to the individual what they want and who they are . It absolutely is, and whatever they tell themselves to justify their actions is fine by me, and none of my business, but as I said, it makes me laugh." ..you say it's none of your business.?. .yet you make a thread about it...ok | |||
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"I think most gays are in denial too, every gay I've ever spoken to has done something with a girl. I don't think you can really identify as gay until you've been near a fanny at least once in your life (I'm not talking about the one you came out of), so you can confirm you have an aversion to the dreaded clunge." Tend to agree. I regard myself as being 100% gay/homosexual. Over 40 years ago I had sex with two women. First time I was fairly d*unk and didn't think it too bad. Second was my wife after we had actually got married and I then realised that I was just not interested in sex with a woman. Still somehow managed to father a son. However this theory falls down when you look at the 90/95% of the population who are adamant that they are totally straight. If they have never experienced same-sex sex how do they know they are straight? | |||
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"I think a lot of the straight guys are in denial. I had plenty of "straights" and we've fucked each other into oblivion. And they come back for more and more. That to me is not the behaviour of someone that identifies as straight. I think most gays are in denial too, every gay I've ever spoken to has done something with a girl. I'll hold my hands up to that. I've fucked women in the past. In my younger years I fucked women because I was in denial of being gay. And it's the same story for lots of gays. You try out a woman and realise it's not for you and you never go back. Unless you're bi of course. That's a bit different to someone that identifies as straight yet actively seeks out sex with other men." But how frequent has it got to be to determine sexuality, and are there other things that determine sexuality rather than just sexual activity To some it just seems like if you have sex with x you are z, nothing else matters. For me the odd sexual act/hookup doesn’t define it. Also what about people that have never had sex, but are attracted, or in love with someone, do they not have a sexuality. I think sexuality is alot more complex, which is why i challenge people for hypocritical comments when they label people that by their way of thinking they should also put their selfs in. | |||
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"I think a lot of the straight guys are in denial. I had plenty of "straights" and we've fucked each other into oblivion. And they come back for more and more. That to me is not the behaviour of someone that identifies as straight. I think most gays are in denial too, every gay I've ever spoken to has done something with a girl. I'll hold my hands up to that. I've fucked women in the past. In my younger years I fucked women because I was in denial of being gay. And it's the same story for lots of gays. You try out a woman and realise it's not for you and you never go back. Unless you're bi of course. That's a bit different to someone that identifies as straight yet actively seeks out sex with other men. But how frequent has it got to be to determine sexuality, and are there other things that determine sexuality rather than just sexual activity To some it just seems like if you have sex with x you are z, nothing else matters. For me the odd sexual act/hookup doesn’t define it. Also what about people that have never had sex, but are attracted, or in love with someone, do they not have a sexuality. I think sexuality is alot more complex, which is why i challenge people for hypocritical comments when they label people that by their way of thinking they should also put their selfs in." Well said 👍 | |||
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"It makes me laugh guys on Fabswingers trying to justify themselves as being straight as they want to fuck my CD ass but not suck my cock. Whatever you say mate, I just want you cock in me! " It makes you laugh and yet there you are dressed like that. | |||
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"Sex is sex.. put a blindfold on a straight guy and tell him your missus will come in a moment and suck him off..he'll be delighted.. but it was you did it not her. Finding out, he'll probably be upset, but does having same sex sex make you gay? I think only to a small extent.. gay/str to me is your emotional connection.. bi means your just greedy lol." Bi is far more exciting 😁 | |||
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