FabGuys.com forum: Ouch... confidence destroyed

By *haron1701E OP TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Southport

Well, finally someone actually turned up.

Stayed for about 2 mins, got as far as taking boots off n undoing trousers, then made an excuse and left.

It might have been a genuine reason, but self confidence just took another massive hit

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By *ibblefishMan
5 weeks ago

louthish

Sounds like they had a crisis of confidence or a sudden change of mind. Don’t sweat it per ardua ad Astra!

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By *en22Man
5 weeks ago

renfrew

Remember that not everyone will be attracted, just as you won't find everyone attractive. Put it down to experience, don't dwell, it's his loss, not yours.

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By *haron1701E OP TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Southport

Was really looking forward to a bit of fun with him as well.

Nice guy, massive cock.

Oh well

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By *hinySecretsTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Leeds

As said above, his loss. Plenty more cocks out there baby. X

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By *haron1701E OP TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Southport

"Sounds like they had a crisis of confidence or a sudden change of mind. Don’t sweat it per ardua ad Astra!"

? Onwards and upwards?

My latin is a bit rusty (roman catholic high school)

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Bristol East

Fook him! Grab yer coat and get off to the pub, love!

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By *airFetishMan
5 weeks ago

Maldon

"Sounds like they had a crisis of confidence or a sudden change of mind. Don’t sweat it per ardua ad Astra!

? Onwards and upwards?

My latin is a bit rusty (roman catholic high school)"

It was our boarding school motto - “Through adversity to the stars”

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By *even333Man
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

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By *even333Man
5 weeks ago

Birmingham

"Fook him! Grab yer coat and get off to the pub, love!

Not if you are in there cackling and bellowing, luv...

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By *heff24Man
5 weeks ago

Sheffield

Doesn't sound like a 'You Problem'

Don't give it a second thought

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By *haron1701E OP TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Southport

Maybe it was

1 the bandage on my right hand (accidents happen)

2 the vase of yellow n white roses on the table that weren't looking their best

3 the crash helmet n bike leathers on the chair

4 I'm fuck ugly

5 asking if he wanted a coffee etc first (was trying to be a good hostess)

6 any combination of the above

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By *hinySecretsTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Leeds

"Doesn't sound like a 'You Problem'

Don't give it a second thought"

Good way to put it! OP, move on and don't dwell on it sweetie!

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Bedford

Shame but hey ho don't get down about as said go to pub have a couple of stiff ones (not that sort ) xxx mwah

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By *ibblefishMan
5 weeks ago

louthish

"Sounds like they had a crisis of confidence or a sudden change of mind. Don’t sweat it per ardua ad Astra!

? Onwards and upwards?

My latin is a bit rusty (roman catholic high school)"

Through difficulties to the stars!

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By *ookingFor...Man
5 weeks ago

West Sussex

"Maybe it was

1 the bandage on my right hand (accidents happen)

2 the vase of yellow n white roses on the table that weren't looking their best

3 the crash helmet n bike leathers on the chair

4 I'm fuck ugly

5 asking if he wanted a coffee etc first (was trying to be a good hostess)

6 any combination of the above

Had he seen recent pics?

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By *dambi00Man
5 weeks ago

Leicester

No always to do with how you look

I assume he seen pics of you before you met, so he was obviously attracted enough to come over

I’ve left a meet early before even though I’ve fancied the guy, sometimes my gut feeling just says get out of here, and I usually listen to my gut

He may have thought the same, for whatever reason

Wouldn’t take it too personally

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By *ummerTV/TS
5 weeks ago

City

maybe drop him a polite message saying you enjoyed the brief meeting but were dissapointed he had to leave, ask was it nerves or did something put him off, is it something he could suggest you might change, finish by saying he is welcome back.

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By *astguy7Man
5 weeks ago

Ross

"Maybe it was

1 the bandage on my right hand (accidents happen)

2 the vase of yellow n white roses on the table that weren't looking their best

3 the crash helmet n bike leathers on the chair

4 I'm fuck ugly

5 asking if he wanted a coffee etc first (was trying to be a good hostess)

6 any combination of the above

Was it instant coffee? Have to say that would get me reaching for my car keys.

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Heathrow

Maybe go to a tv club there will be guys that are there for tvs

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By *hiteroseMan
5 weeks ago

Neverwhere

Confidence is so fragile. It's like a delicate sculpture. Takes ages to be created but can be smashed by one careless action. I know ... it has happened repeatedly throughout my life.

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By *kigaiMan
5 weeks ago

Northampton

"Maybe it was

1 the bandage on my right hand (accidents happen)

2 the vase of yellow n white roses on the table that weren't looking their best

3 the crash helmet n bike leathers on the chair

4 I'm fuck ugly

5 asking if he wanted a coffee etc first (was trying to be a good hostess)

6 any combination of the above

Or, far more likely, he just lost his nerve when confronted with the reality of person to person sex. Far too many guys haven't got the balls to even turn up.

It's disappointing, nobody died, let it go and look ahead not back.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Bedford

Shit happens move on xxx

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By *haron1701E OP TV/TS
5 weeks ago

Southport

"Maybe it was

1 the bandage on my right hand (accidents happen)

2 the vase of yellow n white roses on the table that weren't looking their best

3 the crash helmet n bike leathers on the chair

4 I'm fuck ugly

5 asking if he wanted a coffee etc first (was trying to be a good hostess)

6 any combination of the above

Was it instant coffee? Have to say that would get me reaching for my car keys."

Well yeah it was, but it was quality stuff not supermarket brand shite

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By *ustPeekinMan
5 weeks ago

Alresford

That’s what it was. And no chocolate hob nobs I bet.

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By *ondomhunterMan
5 weeks ago

hastings

I did this on my first meet.

The guy was lovely. Looked just like his pics and was accomadationg and friendly.

As we walked up his stairs I started thinking 'what the fuck am I doing'

Then he was sat there with his cock out and I just sad 'I am sorry I just can't do this'

He told me it's fine and I left amicably and in a friendly way.

I regretted it within 30 mins of leaving.

It was another year or so before I had another meet and not looked back since

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By *h60Man
5 weeks ago

thurso

"Sounds like they had a crisis of confidence or a sudden change of mind. Don’t sweat it per ardua ad Astra!

? Onwards and upwards?

My latin is a bit rusty (roman catholic high school)

It was our boarding school motto - “Through adversity to the stars”

Per ardua ad astra

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
5 weeks ago

Ealing

His loss Sharon, he probably went home and wanked himself off over your pics

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
2 hours ago

Bristol East

First thing to do when you fall off the bike . . . Is get back on the bike ❤️

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By *ara JayneTV/TS
1 hour ago

Rotherham

Sounds like it’s their loss. Your pics look great so they can’t have been put off by that. Like a few have already said, it was probably nerves on his part when it actually came to doing the deed.

I actually laughed out loud at your reasons and for that alone I know you’d be great company x

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By *illEnglishMan
1 hour ago

Bristol

It happens to us all

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By *im le2Man
1 hour ago

aylestone leic

Try posting some full body naked photos we all like to see what's on offer.

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