FabGuys.com forum: Cds and other Gays

By *tokerY2O OP Man
5 weeks ago

Bournemouth

So there seems to be a perennial battle between gay men who dress as women and other gays.

Let me drop this theory here, I'm just brain dumping.

Lots of us guys spent our insecure teenage years trying to fumble with a bra, get arouse by a frilly knicker hoping to be attracted to the feminine.

For a lot of us it was painful futile experience that terrified us as it was the moment we realised we didn't like women.

We then went through the painful process of coming out,discovering our attraction to masculinity and becoming gay (caveat out version of gay). We discovered our strength.

Cds and Bi guys, have a different but equally valid journey.

For the gay guys who ran away from feminity as teenagers (and that's a lot of us) being on a site that is becoming increasing more and more focused on CDs is hard.

We're having to face our fears and our insecurities that we ran away from when younger.

No hate to anyone, just trying to provide an insight.

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Bristol East

That's an interesting perspective that resonates with me.

I persevered with the bra-fumbling until, well, I was going round the wall.

I think I evolved into the person I thought I should be shagging, and have been wiggling my ass in the air for the boys ever since.

And no, I don't fumble with my own bra

I'm really quite skilled at it now

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By *ohn pantiesMan
5 weeks ago

killarney

I like women and am married but I love to dress up in sexy lingerie

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By *inkysubbieMan
5 weeks ago

London

One should always do what makes one feel good... Nothing wrong with that...

Question is... Is it something you secretly hide or are you sharing it with someone?

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By *ohn pantiesMan
5 weeks ago

killarney

She knows

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By *harlotte SometimesMan
5 weeks ago

Leamington Spa

I'm one of those who was heterosexual until my wife died when I got to experience sex with a guy and became bisexual. Leter a Mistress sissyfied me and I'm now into cross dressing as it feels good to me and I get more attention than as a gay bloke. I'm generally bottom and happy to get fucked in male or cd versions. I also enjoy the company of women.

Is that an unusual way in?

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By *orace555Man
5 weeks ago

cork

I believe there's a huge grey area between being fully gay or straight and most of us lie in that area but many do not care to admit it.

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By *inkysubbieMan
5 weeks ago

London

Knowing is one thing... Joining and participating is a step beyond...

Either way... Seems to me you are enjoying it which is perfect

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Bedford

Interesting post

Firstly growing up in the 50ties and not so swinging 6ties ,things were a lot different to nowadays.being gay was not only dangerous but illegal, now its nowhere near as bad. Often when I read the negative comments gay men make about TV's CDs on here I think given the struggle they have gone through why are they so unwilling to live and let live. Its only clothing that's different we are still men underneath the clothes be it bi or gay. And for a lot of us that dress its not all about sex, its just the way we are ive always as long as I can remember liked dressing en femme do I know why nope . just as when a gay boy was a child you didn't know why you just are who you are so live and let live guys spread the love xxx

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By *ildwestheroMan
5 weeks ago

Llandrindod Wells

Seems to be more the bisexuals on here, and elsewhere, who are into crossdressing whether just as a fetish for female clothes or a feminine alter ego. I am attracted to men for their masculinity plus I am a masculine type myself. Just how I am. No interest whatsoever in either real women of men pretending to be women.

There still is a stigma attached to male homosexuality that all gay men are effeminate and/or secretly wish they'd been born female. True in some cases but certainly not all. I know it confused the hell out of me when I was a youngster because I knew that I was attracted to men but did not feel the slightest urge to act in a camp or effeminate manner myself.

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
5 weeks ago

Bedford

Yes it always makes me smile ,the way people react and the comments that are made like well what a surprise he looks so normal would never have guessed the was that way inclined. Or well I never ,he just looks so ordinary And the classic often said by gay men straight acting WTF xxx

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