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By (user no longer on site) OP
18 weeks ago

There seems to be a lot of married men on this site. I assume a lot are hiding this side of themselves from their wives. Did you feel this way before you married? How would your wife react if she found out? I am 100 per cent not judging, I think I'm just a little bit nosey about how other people's lives work.

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By *arried curious BiMan
18 weeks ago

Northamptonshire

It's my naughty secret, my little treat when I'm in the mood. My wife doesn't know although she'd probably love it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
18 weeks ago

Thanks so much for answering,I'm just curious about things

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By *inkycokMan
18 weeks ago

Walkden

None they actually meet though

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By *illing to biMan
18 weeks ago

broadstairs

I’m actually here. Because the wife doesn’t want sex anymore plus I want to relieve the experience of my younger years when I got fucked.

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By *urhamstagMan
18 weeks ago

Durham

My wife & keyholder is fully aware I am on here

She likes hearing about how I’ve been used

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By *hiteroseMan
18 weeks ago

Neverwhere

Don't forget that a lot of us have been married for 30 odd years. For many of us the bi-tendancy might have only surfaced in the last 5 or 10 years. I put it down to the MANopause.

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By *hippy507Man
18 weeks ago

CHELMSFORD

I been married 3 times ,always kept bi side secret

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By *inkycokMan
18 weeks ago

Walkden

Tell me what to do

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By *iltsguy79Man
18 weeks ago

Trowbridge

I was married. She had no idea of my bi side. I'm opposite with women than I am with men. Women in in control, men in submissive as fuck.

She wouldn't have stayed with me if she knew. Only my current gf is someone that doesn't care if I fuck men.

On rare occasions she was away overnight or a few days. Or I could arrange something when I went to visit friends or family alone, id arrange meets.

Kind of convinced myself it wasn't really cheating. One she wasn't fucking me and I'm hyper sexual so I was raging horny. And two, she didn't have a dick. Strap on isn't the same. So told myself it was something she couldn't give me so it was ok.

If I got caught I'd have been dumped and outed to family and friends. Was risky as fuck but couldn't help myself.

And not going to lie. Cheating on her with another guy felt horny as fuck. With a woman was bad enough, but letting men use my mouth and ass just took it to another level. Sometimes got fucked wearing lingerie she wore for me to fuck her in. Some stranger with a big dick making me his bitch in her lingerie then sending me home. Was a few times I'd get home to her and I could still taste their come a little. Id kiss her or sometimes eat her pussy then and turned me on knowing even a little of another man's come was in her.

Id feel guilty after a while try and give up. But I'd inevitably feel sub and need a dick in me. And taste and feel a guy unload into my mouth. Separated a few times before it ended and I took advantage of it to be a good slut for tops.

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By *uckonitMan
18 weeks ago

nth Dublin

Lots of married men on here, including myself. Always had a bi side when younger but that took a back seat when met herself. But as the years go on in the marriage fun times get less & less & tired of always being made to feel like I was being done a favour, they say that a woman is smiling walking down the aisle cos she knows she's given her last bj

Maybe lucky enough on the birthday but very little effort put in & just stops not even bothered if you finish. So back to bi side, less hassle & meet with someone who wants to suck your cock. A few messages rather than out for dinner, drinks, taxi etc & still might get nothing

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By *westMan
18 weeks ago

Hull

I've been bi for ages. If/when my wife finds out I'm on here and have met men she'd leave me.

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By *ert400Man
18 weeks ago

reading

Then don’t u find it risky with a face pic for your profile ?? If somebody who knows your wife or a friend of a friend that she could find out .. just saying

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By *racknell DeepthroaterMan
18 weeks ago

Bracknell

I have serviced many married guys, love to know I supply a valuable service sucking guys and letting them fuck me!

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By *amesbristol2024Man
18 weeks ago

bristol

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Played around with guys in my younger days been married 56 year and played on and off

Wife packed up over 15 years ago so started to play again more frequently and I am thoroughly enjoying myself

If she found out probably divorce me she was always very vanilla when it came to sex

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By *ant help myselfMan
18 weeks ago

MK & London

For me the bi thing is relatively new. Am primarily attracted to females, love the female form but every now and then crave cock

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By *iagoMan
18 weeks ago

Exeter

"I have serviced many married guys, love to know I supply a valuable service sucking guys and letting them fuck me!"

Was going to write something similar.

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By *nthony 2.0Man
18 weeks ago

ear Oldham

"Don't forget that a lot of us have been married for 30 odd years. For many of us the bi-tendancy might have only surfaced in the last 5 or 10 years. I put it down to the MANopause."

Exactly this !! This only resurfaced in last 10 years and yes I’ve been married a long time and she doesn’t know and I can’t tell anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Manopause indeed. We all have hormones and things change over time. I started dressing as a youngster because I liked the clothing. I had a few girlfriends who loved dress up role play. The desire to suck did not surface until much much later. X

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By *amplighter1Man
18 weeks ago

closeto

"I’m actually here. Because the wife doesn’t want sex anymore plus I want to relieve the experience of my younger years when I got fucked."

Same

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By *ailou22Man
18 weeks ago

Milford Haven

My wife is fully aware I am on here

She likes hearing about my meets

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By *poolMan38Man
18 weeks ago

Hartlepool

It’s always a feeling I’ve had and suppressed it for a LOT of years. Took me a lot of courage to finally meet. I try and separate the feelings and see it as different. Yes I know it’s wrong but I also think it’s part of who I am. Would love to introduce the idea of the Mrs ‘making’ me suck a guys cock and have him fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Love wearing her panties and wanking in them and meeting with other men who do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Married but keep my gay side secret

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Married to love my wife she’s very dirty but I love cock too

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By *haredShowerMan
18 weeks ago

en9 waltham abbey

I am 90% straight. Played when younger, moved on to girls. My wife's reduced sex drive firstly caused me to visit pro$$ies; now thoroughly enjoying mutual MM fun after a 50 year break. Easy to arrange horny meets with like minded guys, despite my very restricted availability, and time wasters / message wankers.

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By *pire101Man
18 weeks ago

Chesterfield

Just looking for a bit of fun...

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By *ambsbifunMan
18 weeks ago

Swavesey

Gave a blow job and touched up by a guy before I had done similar with a woman. I go through stages of being more or less bi, was more active in my 30s, just more opportunities.

I do it as love to be used and also like the dirty naughty feel.

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By *lastactionheroMan
18 weeks ago

Liverpool

Sex with men gives me that buzz that I can't get with women and I need that buzz

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By *dfunMan
18 weeks ago

west Sussex

I love sucking married men off

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I’ve been doing this for years, I remember my first thong I was only 16 year old, always been curious about shemale and watched lots of porn, slowly growing up I thought that this was only a phase and enjoyed a wank or two while watching gay porn, had few girls and got married, now that I’m 40 now, I feel like it wasn’t a phase but just denied, wife doesn’t know officially but I guess after 12 years together she strongly suspects.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"There seems to be a lot of married men on this site. I assume a lot are hiding this side of themselves from their wives. Did you feel this way before you married? How would your wife react if she found out? I am 100 per cent not judging, I think I'm just a little bit nosey about how other people's lives work.

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. Your not judging?;but you haven't mentioned gay guys who are married, or gay guys in a long-term relationship?? Not judging 😂

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By (user no longer on site) OP
18 weeks ago

You're so right, and I'm sorry for the omission! I'm just curious about like how people's lives work

I have been with married guys so was just being a little bit nosey, but thanks and much love xxx

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By *eterpan2018Man
4 weeks ago

manchester

Any other married on today

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By *anee77TV/TS
4 weeks ago

Brentwood

Definitely hide it

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By *etterbiggerMan
4 weeks ago

Scunthorpe

I fell for a married guy. We met quite often. Shift patterns helped a lot. He made certain promises. He called me his gay husband. I knew heck of a lot about his home life. Fortunately I knew it was never going to happen. So I told myself that. Then the day came when he dumped me by text. No clue it was coming, completely out of the blue. It still hurt. I said from the beginning I would never out him to his family. Why hurt them. I haven't contacted him. I took his number out of my phone. I saw him and the wife in Aldi. He didn't see me. He looked older and sad and he has put weight on. Water under the bridge

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By *oves pantiesTV/TS
4 weeks ago

preston

I have always loved cock as much as I love fanny and I used to go through phases of wanting one more than the other but it's always been just my thing,my naughty little secret.Wife no longer wants sex so I go back to the fun I've always known and loved. Not interested in a relationship with anyone else male or female and I'm too lazy to start again, so now I lead a clandestine lifestyle.Somedays I crave cock and some days I don't.

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By *evinmanMan
4 weeks ago

Dublin

Love married guys - no drama

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By *eoff_15Man
4 weeks ago

Bordon

I'm like a lot of guys on here. Probably curious but did nothing about it. Then wife goes of sex but I haven't. Felt guilty at first, but no longer. Life is for living. She doesn't know and probably doesn't care.

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By *ornyforcockXXXMan
4 weeks ago

Morecambe

Married but love being a cock whore and doing things that most wife's won't do

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By *orkie loverMan
4 weeks ago

London

I’m happy that married guys are out and about, I’m more than happy to help them out! Their private life is their business.

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By *im le2Man
4 weeks ago

aylestone leic

There could be a number of reasons.

1, there married and there wife doesn't like anal or oral.

2, they had to get married for religious reasons.

3,they were always gay but couldn't admit it .

4, they just like being used and abused.

5, who hasn't got a mate they secretly want to have sex with or just want man on man action.

6, only another man really knows how to suck cock because they know how they want there's sucked.

7, in my day it was against the law to be gay so all men got married and some still do.

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By *ohnbi1965Man
4 weeks ago

Aberfeldy

I started getting the urge when with 1st wife but never got the courage to try untill dating 2nd wife both know ive been with men never main topic of conversation but no 2 knows i meet guys .

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By *ugh40Man
4 weeks ago

Wetherby

No sex for a while at home, used to shag girls away now and again. Always looked at men. Started pre lockdown and not been with a woman since.

Twice the pleasure, zero hassle

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By *eardedbiblokeMan
4 weeks ago

scunthorpe

I told mine the day we met,

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By *iggreenockMan
4 weeks ago

Greenock

I've known since my teens I was bisexual. I didn't even know that word when I realised. I probably spent about 20+ years of my life trying to stop meeting men for casual sex. I never managed. There was massive guilt and often I was disgusted with myself. Eventually I realised I couldn't stop and accepted I'm bisexual. A change of career about 12 years ago made it very difficult to actually meet men. I'd say I get one meeting a year. My wife would never accept my sexuality. I'd destroy her if I told her. I decided to be extremely careful and safe and discreet (which I guess I've always been) it's easy to moralise about "cheating married men" I love my wife with every ounce of me. It isn't easy.

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By *alfTankMan
4 weeks ago

Boston

I haven't heard from my wife since 2019. I have no idea where she is, it was a dark night after all... She knows all about my sexuality as we were swingers for 20 years and shared many a cock.

My partner knows all about my sex life. I told her before we had sex for the first time. It was vitally i told her so she could make an informed decision. It turned her on although initially not wanting to do anything herself. After a few months of Q&A intrigue led to curiosity and we explored her sexuality for a couple of years and shared a few guys. She still likes to hear all about what I do and watch the videos I make.

Most of the guys I meet are married. Some sexless, many just curious, more than a few are straight and just like a blowjob. I don't get why so many women don't like giving blow jobs. They would have happier, better motivated men if they had at least one a week to look forward to. Then again, I wouldn't get to give as many of they did, so scratch that lol.

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By *azaMan
4 weeks ago

Walsall

My wife does not I know I have a thing about guys and there lovely there cocks the only thing is that I wish I had discovered my bi side a lot earlier in life it was my wife that made me want cock.as she as gone of sex totally and doesn't want to know and guys know what they want and don't mess you.a round like women.do

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By *artin1963Man
4 weeks ago

crouch end

The lovely thing about guys is that they make it so clear they are attracted to you.

Also they react so positivly when they detect you are attracted to them. Bliss!

My wife, bless her does neither.

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By *ilflover1Man
4 weeks ago

Married guys are very hot

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By *unincornwall321Man
4 weeks ago

launceston

My secret and love to be used by a man for sex and sent home

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By *orny BurtMan
3 weeks ago

Burton

I'm married and we're 100% open about me liking cock now and again. She has my login details for this site and gets horny if I've been chatting to someone. She's watched me suck cock and we had great fun sharing the guy

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By *ndyfy7Man
3 weeks ago

Fleetwood

How did your wife make you search for cock - it was your choice - own it

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By *iki CDTV/TS
3 weeks ago

North Tynside

Married Men are fabulous saying that I dont ask a guys status when arranging a meeting and frankly i'm not bothered about his private life away from here

Ask no questions Just enjoy the moment

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By *ulgeSlut008Man
3 weeks ago

near Barnstaple

Married men are amazing, usually give the best fun as well

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By *arriedbiMan
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

I married was always bi x ain't had sex with her in so long x now my birthday side has turned to my gay side X but secretly gay tho

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By *untimes60Man
3 weeks ago

London

"Married men are amazing, usually give the best fun as well

They certainly do. I agree with that.

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By *ubmissive benjiMan
3 weeks ago

Isleworth

People change over the years feel more bi sexual nowadays

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By *eterpan2018Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

Anyone else like guys tributeing their Mrs

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By *eorgesdadMan
3 weeks ago

Long Eaton Nottingham

I like married men enjoying sex with me 🤪

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By *dfunMan
3 weeks ago

west Sussex

I love married men sucking their cock

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By *amelaXTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Swindon

I prefer married men. Love being their dirty secret

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By *earingpantiesTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Warrington

My wife no idea and she would go mad

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By *ardy62Man
3 weeks ago

Weymouth

Always had feelings from before I was married

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By *wsubalanMan
3 weeks ago

warrington

"I've known since my teens I was bisexual. I didn't even know that word when I realised. I probably spent about 20+ years of my life trying to stop meeting men for casual sex. I never managed. There was massive guilt and often I was disgusted with myself. Eventually I realised I couldn't stop and accepted I'm bisexual. A change of career about 12 years ago made it very difficult to actually meet men. I'd say I get one meeting a year. My wife would never accept my sexuality. I'd destroy her if I told her. I decided to be extremely careful and safe and discreet (which I guess I've always been) it's easy to moralise about "cheating married men" I love my wife with every ounce of me. It isn't easy. "

exactly the same

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
3 weeks ago

here ford shire

No it is something I got into later in life.

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By *avewill1Man
3 weeks ago

wilts

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By *tockport fellaMan
3 weeks ago

Stockport

Early in my relationship with my wife, she was very sexually active & she put a porno on knowing there was a gay scene in it. Anyway when the scene came on, I said laughingly what’s this, but it gave me a massive hard on & she noticed so we ended up fucking, she then went out of the room and came in with a 8’ vibrator & started teasing my cock with it & eventually my arse which was mine bending. Anyway for few years the sex was amazing, we even got a strap on which again was amazing.

Now we’re in our late fifties, she has a very important job and struggles to switch off. My job is not important so still think about sex most of the time. So now you know why I’m on here.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Motherwell

Married guys with nice big thick juicy cocks mm yummy definitely my jam . Mx 👿

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By *uck me in KentMan
3 weeks ago

Medway

Yes I'm married and yes it's my secret.

I've been playing with cocks for decades

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By *dfunMan
3 weeks ago

west Sussex

I love sucking married men cock

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By *eady2go200Man
3 weeks ago

stockport

I have been married for a very long time, and like most on here, my wife went off sex some time ago. I have had sex with men, women (and one TS) over the years, when I have been fortunate enough

Recently though, I have only met a couple of guys from here and I am enjoying the feel of a cock in my hand and mouth, and my cock in theirs

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By *eterpan2018Man
3 weeks ago

manchester

Any married free today

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By *utSouthenderMan
3 weeks ago

Southend-on-Sea

Men are very sexual and if they aren't getting anything from the wife they will look outside the family home for there sexual release.

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By *unincornwall321Man
2 weeks ago

launceston

I'm married wife foes not knowing..here to be used for sex

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By *umfun73Man
2 weeks ago

Aberdeen

Married guy here , wife doesn’t know and would probably be not too happy .

Had bi experience before being married and loved it .

Went back to have a meet or 2 over last 7 years .

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By *arriedbiMan
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

Mine don't know her hubby now gay

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By *usicmanxxxMan
2 weeks ago

skem

I think am more gay than bi

But not coming out

Cowardly I know

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By *orny VikingMan
2 weeks ago

Guildford

I’m not gay I just love cock. Always have. Now prefer it to pussy. Nothing beats a man sucking you or sucking a huge cock. Been doing it since my teens.

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By *um lover 222Man
2 weeks ago

London

I was always curious in my teens, my first wife never knew, but my current wife does, she has her fun with guys and so do I.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I’ve loved cock for as long as I can remember. My wife rarely wants sex so about 10 years ago I had the chance to meet a guy and I went for it. Glad I did I love cock

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By *eamark24Man
2 weeks ago

wolves

Think alot of us in the same boat.

Wifes gone off sex for what ever reason

and guy's can play together without any pressure's.

I am not gay just like to watch porn and play together

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By *luerooMan
2 weeks ago

bridgwater

due to erectile dysfunction my wife and i are no longer sexually active, so when the urge for me get too great a meet with another guy does exactly what it says on the tin.

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By *oanne..TV/TS
2 weeks ago

DONCASTER

Im quite Bi ,Ive always disregarded gender ,its the person for me

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By *umdumpster2Man
2 weeks ago

Maidenhead

A lots of married men here looking for cock

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By *eneral distanceMan
2 weeks ago

st helens

I am very bi, been bi from a young age and any partner I have been with was told up front

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By *irralGuy20Man
2 weeks ago

Wirral

My missus is fully aware, we have no secrets.

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By *allingkenMan
2 weeks ago

Blackburn

"My missus is fully aware, we have no secrets."

Lucky you

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By *iscreet marrriedMan
2 weeks ago

doncaster

I’m married , only been curious about cock for last year , had a couple of meets , but have to be very discreet , just have an urge for it now and again but relatively inexperienced and cautious

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By *teve1664Man
2 weeks ago

sudbury

Would love someone to talk privately about this

My bi world started when I was young

And has been there ever since

Wife doesn’t know

But if I’m honest I don’t care no more

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By *eterpan2018Man
6 days ago

manchester

Any other married guys like watching the Mrs with others

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By *ockfun1970Man
6 days ago

North west

Never managed to get my wife to enjoy another guys cock.

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
6 days ago

Whitley Bay

My wife knows and supports my bi side. I am one of the lucky ones that doesn't have to hide anything. We have a non monogamous relationship and both enjoy being able to explore our sexuality without judgement.

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By *ave_jenkinsMan
6 days ago

nottingham

Have a think for inviting a tradesman over for a quote and surprising them with my huge tit mrs pics to wank over (leaving lingerie out so you know you're about to have fun. DM me if interested

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By *otsure03Man
6 days ago

witney

My wife doesn’t know, I find that more fun

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By *ickSeekerMan
6 days ago

Canterbury

My FwB of three years is married with grown up kids. He claims Mrs doesn't know about his bi side, although she did find out in the past about his fooling around with other women, and subsequently banished him from their marital bedroom. It's always been my belief, passed down from generations of wise women in both sides of my family lineage that wives, daughters, sisters, etc., ALWAYS know (or have strong suspicions) when their men are well... gay (or bi)! Even when the aforementioned men swear their women didn't know anything. G-d knows if it's true🤷🏽‍♂️. Difficult one way or another...

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