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"I didn’t go cottaging as such but I was caught wanking in a cubicle when I was younger" How did that happen? Isn’t the point of the cubicle to give you privacy? | |||
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"I didn’t go cottaging as such but I was caught wanking in a cubicle when I was younger How did that happen? Isn’t the point of the cubicle to give you privacy? " I didn’t lock the door when I thought I had | |||
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"I'm an exception to the rule, so it would seem. I've enjoyed cruising for many years, and still do, but I've never indulged in cottaging as I think it's unfair on members of the public who try to use public toilets for the purpose they are intended. Finding a group of men hanging around a urinal must be quite intimidating for those who don't indulge in such behaviour, especially youngsters." Totally agree especially where the young were around. Sadly where I grew up there were not many cruising spots and the few that were, mostly difficult to find anyone. I know the local cottage while I was at college, the guys were very discreet and if any young walked in, they made certain they didn't suspect anything. I know in those days if any of the general public walked in and even suspected something was going on, there would be a lot of blood spilt so again kept it very discreet. Saying that, the danger is still there and I knew one guy at college who had walked into one of those while young and was frequently used there. I know it caused him a lot of mental health issues later in his life. | |||
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"Oh, yep. Becketts Park, Northampton was the first place I ever touched or sucked a cock, back in the 80s. Wouldn’t say I was ever a regular, but the few times I risked it were brilliantly seedy and horny. " You wouldn't recognise it now | |||
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"I enjoyed a wank at the urinals yesterday in Windsor " you are Mr Andrew Windsor and I collect my £5 | |||
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"Me accidentily went to public toilet to pee ,the guy next to me grabbed my cock and sucked it,no going back from then xxx" How long ago was that, if you don't mind my asking? | |||
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"I do it every day when I'm in London" Have you tried the Senate House? | |||
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"I do it every day when I'm in London Have you tried the Senate House?" Yes! It was really busy prior to Covid and was a great alternative to UCL. Especially busy at lunchtime. It has never really bounced back but there's a cute Asian Twink who parades the corridors naked for anyone into that sort of thing | |||
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" You can get nicked in theory but nobody ever does " You sure about that? | |||
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" You can get nicked in theory but nobody ever does You sure about that?" Man carried out indecent act in Cumbrian supermarket public toilet 28th March 2023 CA, 36, was in the cubicle of a public toilet in a west Cumbrian supermarket when the offence took place in June last year. Workington Magistrates’ Court heard it had taken some time to find the defendant, who travels to the area for work. PF, prosecuting, said a female cleaner had entered the toilets. The cleaner then opened the toilet cubicle and the defendant was seen to be carrying out an indecent act. Appleby denied the offence during police interview but pleaded guilty to intentionally exposing genitals, causing harassment, alarm and distress, when he appeared in court on Monday. | |||
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"Living in South London in the 90’s, toilets on Clapham Common. Close to the old town were always busy. Not to mention wooded areas, open air after dark were always an exciting experience " I think a few public figures came a cropper on Clapham Common in the 90's | |||
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"Anyone know why cottages aren't much of a thing these days? And sex cinemas in London...why did they all close down? Are we more prudish or is it no money to keep toilets open? Is it easier to get a sauna licence than a cinema licence? Boomers enjoyed a well, a boom didn't they?" Vandalism (in Newcastle at any rate), no legal requirement on Councils to provide public toilets so they closed them to save money, complaints (justified to be fair), the rise of Apps. HIV+ in the 1980s caused a lot of fear too and that may have meant less cottaging. More and more CCTV cameras. Dickheads filming people with their phones who don’t want to be filmed. There’s a video online of a couple of guys wanking each other in a cottage in the 2000s, can clearly see their faces. I wonder if that was filmed and posted with permission? A myriad of reasons. | |||
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"It seems surreal that cottages existed to the extent they did. Some of them were definitely more used for gay sex than going to the toilet, and the proof of that was there for all to see: salty graffiti, glory hokes, spunk in the urinals... And any man just going in for a pee could easily find himself next to someone having sex or coming onto him. And all this provided for us my the local council! The first one I used to go to is now a genteel tea room. " One of the popular Newcastle ones is now an underground bar, named ‘WC Newcastle’ https://wcnewcastle.co.uk/home/ | |||
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" You can get nicked in theory but nobody ever does " They do. https://www.chroniclelive.co.uk/news/north-east-news/eldon-gardens-sex-shame-two-12552772 | |||
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"Yes, my first experience was in toilets in tamworth, they're gone now." I used to visit the Toilets in lichfield had many a good time in there but they are long gone now, wish I could meet up again with some of the guys I met. | |||
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"To answer the question, can you still get nicked cottaging/cruising? The answer is yes but it's not nearly as common. Back in the day undercover policemen we're put on 'toilet' duty to actively catch people. In some areas they would have to have a certain number arrests before they would be moved onto other duties (a rule that obviously was massively open to abuse) Now more often it's if a complaint is made so be careful who's watching and who you're flashing it at." I was nicked in Horsham just like that - two officers hiding in a broom cupboard. Bastards. How things change - about 15 years later I was in a cubicle with a man at giveaways in Brighton. We heard the officer’s walkie talkie going and crapped ourselves. “Come in out lads” he said, then “There are better places to do this - go on off you go”. We were gobsmacked but very grateful | |||
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"To answer the question, can you still get nicked cottaging/cruising? The answer is yes but it's not nearly as common. Back in the day undercover policemen we're put on 'toilet' duty to actively catch people. In some areas they would have to have a certain number arrests before they would be moved onto other duties (a rule that obviously was massively open to abuse) Now more often it's if a complaint is made so be careful who's watching and who you're flashing it at." Off you go lads and remember, more than six shakes at the urinal is a wank. Have a good shift. | |||
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"I cut my teeth in Hampstead Heath toilets " So you’re the reason they changed from wooden to hard plastic toilet seats. | |||
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"I cut my teeth in Hampstead Heath toilets So you’re the reason they changed from wooden to hard plastic toilet seats. " That was Covid I think? But I made sure paper towels were replaced with unenthused hand dryers. I like to encourage independence. Just dry yourself & I’ve always said that. | |||
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"I remember the excitement and anticipation, heart beating fast in chest as a car pulls up outside and hearing someone walk in, As you sit waiting in the graffiti covered cubicle or stood in front of a filthy urinal waiting to see who will make the first move." That’s how I feel when I have to touch the door handles. I wish they where automatic but I’ve got my health so I can’t moan | |||
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"Used to have fun in Victoria Street toilets in Liverpool, always busy even with the odd check. Eventually closed, got filled in, tarmacced etc. Now you drive over it, was good fun. " Did they get all the Czechoslovakian people out first? If not that’s awful! | |||
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"I remember the excitement and anticipation, heart beating fast in chest as a car pulls up outside and hearing someone walk in, As you sit waiting in the graffiti covered cubicle or stood in front of a filthy urinal waiting to see who will make the first move." Me tooooooo ..... Wow. Nice look ... Elvira? Did you go to the toilets dressed up? | |||
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"I didn't go cottaging, I went angling instead, and got the similar attention. " .....but it's just like angling. Waiting around different locations in a state of relaxed Zen. Bursts of excitement, maybe get a big one. Great, great days indeed. | |||
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"I didn't go cottaging, I went angling instead, and got the similar attention. " Bet you have some good stories to tell? | |||
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"I didn't go cottaging, I went angling instead, and got the similar attention. .....but it's just like angling. Waiting around different locations in a state of relaxed Zen. Bursts of excitement, maybe get a big one. Great, great days indeed. " Yes, I agree it was, and I do have a great many stories. | |||
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