FabGuys.com forum: Unconvincing Cross Dressing

By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

Years go I loved to dress but I’m hairy, masculine and probably the most unconvincing female you would see!

However, it was such a turn on for me and I do miss it! Are guys attracted to unconvincing dressers? Does anyone else have this issue and can offer any tips or suggestions?x

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By *lasgow verse 60s guyMan
3 weeks ago

Glasgow

Not in the slightest! Chalk it up to experience and move on

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By *shubMan
3 weeks ago

manningtree

Yes, a lot of guys are, me included. Feel sexy, be sexy. I love convincing but also love just guys in lingerie (myself included).

If it feels good to you do it !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

Are you suggesting it’s not a turn on and I shouldn’t dress again?

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By *hristine_JTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Anglesey

"Are you suggesting it’s not a turn on and I shouldn’t dress again?"

It's not to some but to others it will be. If you like it where's the harm, live your life they way you want and have fun

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By *uss_CD_LiverpoolTV/TS
3 weeks ago

LIVERPOOL

Same here mate. The hairy chest does not help at all. So will never be convincing. But I love to dress, and have had plenty of fun with guys who have gone crazy for me dressed. So don't stop, do what you love, and forget the people who are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

Thank you xx

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By *tevo56Man
3 weeks ago

leeds

Dress for yourself,if you enjoy it,personally I just love the look and feel of nylon tights and stockings,they really turn me on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
3 weeks ago

Thank you everyone!

I need to figure out where to purchase some underwear from and how to hide it!

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By *tevo56Man
3 weeks ago

leeds

"Thank you everyone!

I need to figure out where to purchase some underwear from and how to hide it! "
most of the department stores are good,you just have to get over the barrier of buying ladies lingerie for yourself lol x

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By *orkDefenderMan
3 weeks ago

Wakefield

"Years go I loved to dress but I’m hairy, masculine and probably the most unconvincing female you would see!

However, it was such a turn on for me and I do miss it! Are guys attracted to unconvincing dressers? Does anyone else have this issue and can offer any tips or suggestions?x "

As long as you're enjoying it

xxx

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By *dfunMan
3 weeks ago

west Sussex

Enjoy and have fun Al very sexy and beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
3 weeks ago

Im unconvincing. But I don’t care. Not many people fancy me. But I’m happy.

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By *raggahboyMan
3 weeks ago

stoke

In my experience a lot of dressers are un convincing chest fur rugby player thighs and calves panties that don't contain all. But they feel sexy when they meet so what's the harm. If U like it do it lifes for living I'd say only two guys I've met looked really drop dead feminine most looked unfeminine but they felt so sexy and usually a good session was had as dressing made them very horny

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By *ylons22Man
3 weeks ago

Tipton

been dressing for over 30 years myself and absolutely love it, not convincing & don't ever try to be, hairy in places but just love the look & feel of a nice pair of nylons & knickers.

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By *eemebabyMan
3 weeks ago

Dudley

Dress how you feel for yourself x

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By *lsa_edinMan
3 weeks ago

Livingston

its a huge turn on for me mate

dont have to be convincing at all

im in the same boat as you, dressed years ago and miss it loads, i wasn’t convincing when dressed but loved the feeling of it

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By *ylons22Man
3 weeks ago

Tipton

self checkouts at supermarkets are a good place to pick up underwear, purchased a fair few pairs of knickers, tights & stockings this way

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By *illie_2024Man
3 weeks ago

Ivybridge

Always great to get some undies on

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By *ingslynnMan
3 weeks ago

Grantham

Not convincing but just love to be dressed

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By *kigaiMan
3 weeks ago

Northampton

Many years ago, as part of my training I attended a talk by members of The Beaumont Society. One thing that always stayed with me was a speaker who said that for him cross dressing was in no way sexual. It represented a chance to step out if his male persona, be somebody else, relax and feel comfortable with himself.

If you get something from it and there is no negative impact on anyone else just go with it. I've no idea what proportion of guys might be interested in an 'unconvincing CD' however that's really not the point.

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By *dfunMan
3 weeks ago

west Sussex

I am not convincing however from behind and bent over with stockings I seem to get a good pounding

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By *earNecessitiesMan
3 weeks ago

Bexley

Yes its not about the wig make up and especially the fake boobs for me a guy in sexy undies is hot and very fuckable

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By *ovesex52TV/TS
3 weeks ago

nearby

My guys don’t mind if I’m “ unconvincing “ when I’m dressed for them. They like the feeling of touching my nylons and panties and they like to fuck me. Nothing else matters.

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By *ootsloverTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Tetbury

Juat enjoy it if it makes you feel good. Some guys may not like it but if you are feeling good and turned on then the sex will be better. What's there to loose?

As for hairy chests? Plenty of high neck long sleeve tops and dresses out there, thick stockings and dresses, underwear that you can fit into, a close shave and a bit of make up and a wig.

It's all possible, don't make too many excuses, get some clothes and go for it.

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By *1ndeeTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Dundee

Love to be dressed - not in the slightest convincing but don’t try to be honest as I find that a bigger turn on for me

No complaints from guys I have met

And in 2024 how many females look masculine any way

Love and let live xx

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By *orcsmatMan
3 weeks ago

Kidderminster

Similar here. Many years ago I was very slim and have never been very hairy.

On the few occasions I appeared in public dressed in female clothing, I could easily pass for female.

Old and wrinkly now, I don't think the magic would be the same.

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By *ames TownMan
3 weeks ago

Bingley

Amazon is good for buying , deliver to locker , no one knows ,

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By *iss TTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Durham

You don't have to please others just do what makes you happy x

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By *itgent10Man
3 weeks ago

Llandudno

I’ve been very lucky to have some really lovely convincing t girl (mainly trans) friends. I’d even call some of them girlfriends.

There are many joys and challenges particularly when trying to merge with with real life…

But as my friends had the prerequisites to look convincing of being slim and lythe and developed feminising skills and generally found that people were very welcoming and understanding as they were lovely to look at and be with….both in work and social situations..

They and I really appreciated how difficult it would be for those people with compelling trans urges/need to be feminine who didn’t have those prerequisites …

I’ll probably delved deeper than the OP intended with the question…

So my short answer would be” do what you want to do”… but it’s harder if to be accepted if you’re not convincing or convincing’ish to be accepted into real life…

Although there are many who will appreciate you for what you want to be…

Go for it! …

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By *tevo56Man
3 weeks ago

leeds

Also click and collect at most stores like m and s,Matalan etc if your not confident to go to tills with your purchases

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By *ubsteffTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Portsmouth

Like many others here, I couldn’t ever pass for female, but I’m not trying to. Just love the feel of lingerie and if I’m playing whilst wearing it, even better.

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By *teve8888TV/TS
3 weeks ago

For some, including me, you being abit rough around the edges can be part of the allure x

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By *illy66Man
3 weeks ago

Maidstone

100% agree with last comment xx

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By *oldsguyMan
3 weeks ago

A1079 Corridor

It’s done for me , not others . However do like the company of others that are like me !!

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By *teve8888TV/TS
3 weeks ago

You can be masculine & still ooze femininity from the inside too x

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By *atesandmoreMan
3 weeks ago

crooked spire town

By reading these forums it would seem that almost any guy who likes a cross dresser is attracted by the unconvincing. Let's face it, there are very few, certainly on here who would fall into the category of even half convincing.

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By *illgossardTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Abergavenny

It takes all sorts. I can look very convincing fully dressed but a HPW when the outerwear comes off. plenty of men love that some are revolted. some gay guys dont like trannies at all some do. thats the real joy here. somehow I can find people that like exactly what I am.

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By *aringtogo00TV/TS
3 weeks ago

glasgow

As has been said by many others we’re here for ourselves, if admirers enjoy our content all the better , it’s all about what you like in yourself and as long as it makes you happy that’s what counts .

Why do we do it well there’s one of those million dollar questions me well the menopause hit home and I missed the bedroom fun and gymnastics my good lady got hit hard by it , but she’s always been a avid stocking and lingerie wearer which she still wears daily but don’t touch admire for a distance now , it beats getting moaned at .

On talking to many dressers on here many are in the same boat , hence dressing to fill that void if it works for you enjoy it fully , many will yo-yo out and in and many will dress daily it’s all down to the individual as is how they dress , if it just panties and a bra stockings of if it’s the full wardrobe it’s all down to that personal preference .

I can personally go back to being a wee boy and seeing my aunties and my mother hitching up skirts to sort clips and straighten seams , that vision was imbedded in my head when I met my wife she was to my liking a everyday stocking wearer loved it and still see her in them every day it’s the bonus ball . But as I said the menopause killed her passion so I took up where I was dropped ,and enjoy when I can .

For those asking where to buy lingerie try shein.co.uk and stockings try nylonz.com shoes amazon . I’ve bought online and from local shops the shops are always willing to help .

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By * is what I isMan
3 weeks ago

Llanelli

Im a hairy bearded guy and nowhere near convincing, but enjoy dressing from time to time. Happy to chat to other unconvoncing dressers. Do what makes you happy and ignore the haters xx

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By *eresa_cdslutTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bodmin

There are t girl afternoons at most gay saunas, it's a great way to meet other unconvincing cross-dressers I always have a fun filled few hours!

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By *ootsloverTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Tetbury

" very few, certainly on here who would fall into the category of even half convincing. "

Had a couple of guys hold a door open for me thenother week in a bar, the went quiet when I said thanks though lol

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By *m2000Man
3 weeks ago

northumberland

I don’t care what the guy looks like when he’s wearing my Mrs knickers

Just don’t have a beard

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By *irsty bTV/TS
3 weeks ago

blackpool

If you enjoy dressing go for it and don’t worry yourself what others think x

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By *ini1440Man
3 weeks ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT

Have to say it's more about wearing then being convicing for me

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By *toxyMan
3 weeks ago

Bicester

I am nowhere near convincing it’s all about the feel of lingerie for me love it

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By *atrina KaisarionTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Burntwood staffs

Whatever floats your boat as long as your happy, me personally am not attracted to hairy guys in knickers bra,s etc, And I'm sure there will come a time when I can't be bothered to get dressed up in all this shit and shop shaving in fact most days I think about it to be honest.

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By *ewportbiguyMan
3 weeks ago

Newport

I’m also unconvincing but this is my secret side to me.

I like dressing in sexy lingerie to meet guys, feel much more dirty and sexy, like to be that bit more sub with it to.

As long as no one is getting hurt by it then go for it

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By *ame is takenMan
3 weeks ago

Between Duxford and Walden

Another unconvincing CD here. Just love to wear nice lingerie and feel like a slutty gurl

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By *londebiguyMan
3 weeks ago

near Southport

"Years go I loved to dress but I’m hairy, masculine and probably the most unconvincing female you would see!

However, it was such a turn on for me and I do miss it! Are guys attracted to unconvincing dressers? Does anyone else have this issue and can offer any tips or suggestions?x "

The underwear is good on a fit guy.

The crossdressing with everything is not hot at all.

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By *tokerY2OMan
3 weeks ago

Bournemouth

OK I'm not into CDs but respect everyone choices.

I have a friend, who is an unconvincing CD, he has always told me this.

When he was younger and would make more effort to be feminine he founds it harder to get guys than now.

His theory was always that some men who like CDs are secretly bi (or gay) and don't really want a woman (they've often got that at home)

They just need enough to convince then that they're not gay...so lingerie, a wig on a burly guy is often enough to 'trick' some guys into thinking they're not being gay by being with you.

I've tried to word that carefully as to not cause offence to ant parties so I hope I haven't, certainly none intended.

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
3 weeks ago

Bristol East

Yes, that sounds about right

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By *dlegs2024TV/TS
3 weeks ago

Northampton

I’m not convincing and have hairy legs but I don’t think that it matters as long as you make the effort to look feminine when you dress not just a guy in women’s underwear. The main thing is that you enjoy yourself! X

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By *our-slaveMan
3 weeks ago

nottingham

I like to be dominated by a CD, convincing or not, as long as they are clean shaven.

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By *yzantineMan
3 weeks ago

Offshore now, ignore pistcode

Whilst not wishing to offend, some very unconvincing TVs do creep me out in the dark at the Empire sex cinema. Very old guys dressed as schoolgirls with awful lipstick application really isn’t a turn on for me. Sorry ladies.

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By *reya KibukiTV/TS
3 weeks ago

St. Helens

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By *reya KibukiTV/TS
3 weeks ago

St. Helens

Different strikes for different folks.Some do ,some dont.

I dont like facial hair so does that mean every gay with beard should shave ? No.In fact some of my friends love beards.

Get dressing baby,its about the liberation.

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By *wimmingbadgerMan
3 weeks ago

Leicester

i dress for my own sexual pleasure and it's a bonus if anyone else likes what they see

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