FabGuys.com forum: How much does your wife know?

By *55 Man OP Man
2 weeks ago

Roscommon

How much do you think you wife knows about your bi side?

When my wife's libido checked out a couple of years ago, she told me I could take lovers if I wanted. I don't know if she suspected that some of my lovers would have bigger cocks than me!

She knows I wear thongs all the time, she does most of the laundry after all. She also knows I love having toys in my ass, she bought me a butt plug for a present once.

Most of my thongs are quite ordinary/masculine, but last week I put a black lacy one, which I usually reserve for meets, and then hand wash, in the laundry basket. There was no comment or reaction. Next step is to wear it in front of her.

If that doesn't evoke a negative reaction, I might let her see me in a pair of hold ups next.

I'd love to be "out" with her, but it's a delicate subject.

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By *allaseyguyMan
2 weeks ago

Northampton

My Mrs knows nothing and I want to keep it that way

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By *xtraoneMan
2 weeks ago

gloucester

Be very careful it might be ok but then it might destroy what you've got with your wife, is it worth the gamble

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By *i_guy_WBayMan
2 weeks ago

Whitley Bay

My wife has known I’m bi since we started dating, we are non monogamous and have watched each other with people of both sexes

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By *all-ladMan
2 weeks ago

rotherham

I'm single so can enjoy myself but if the man has a partner I would never broadcast it

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By *uck me in KentMan
2 weeks ago

Medway

None.... Whatsoever

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By *ickSeekerMan
2 weeks ago

Canterbury

Through family and friends (never been with a woman myself) I've heard they (the women: wives, gf's, daughters) often know or suspect much more than they let on, for whatever reason: status quo, financial arrangements, social pressure to appear well established in their marriage, etc. Folk tales? Urban myths? Grandmas gossip? Misapprehension? Maybe it only applies to the more socially conservative societies I grew up in.🤷🏽‍♂️🤔 I'd be very cautious...

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By *leets89Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

Wife knows everything her idea

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By *eepeter4Man
2 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Will she know about the 2 lesbian that live at number 42 , the woman at number 44 as the coal man visiting her twice a week and finally her at number 48 buried her husband under the patio and ran off to Milton Keynes with Barry from number 47 .

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By * bare daddyMan
2 weeks ago

Lydbrook

Mine knows as we meet off fab we do occasionally play

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By *asjbMan
2 weeks ago

Castleford

Enough to know I’ll eat another man’s cum out of her.

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By *owalskiMan
2 weeks ago

Addlestone

"How much do you think you wife knows about your bi side?

When my wife's libido checked out a couple of years ago, she told me I could take lovers if I wanted. I don't know if she suspected that some of my lovers would have bigger cocks than me!

She knows I wear thongs all the time, she does most of the laundry after all. She also knows I love having toys in my ass, she bought me a butt plug for a present once.

If that doesn't evoke a negative reaction, I might let her see me in a pair of hold ups next.

I'd love to be "out" with her, but it's a delicate subject."

Despite the fact that most of the married blokes on here are closet jobs, if it's that well hidden (like the post following the OP's post) why would her indoors know anything at all.

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By *ickeMan
2 weeks ago

watford

I would say my wife has an idea , I’m Bi as she asked me once and I didn’t deny it .

Yes I think she know but does not think I done anything.

Also she knows I enjoy feeling of women lingerie she ok with that but said that as far as it goes .

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

My lass knows nowt otherwise if she did I’d be out on the street

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By *unis333Man
2 weeks ago

FLEET

My Mrs knows I'm bi, let's me meet guys and also knows I've a small kinky wearing stuff. Lucky to be able to be truthful with her as I know from previous experience some ladies aren't as easy to talk to about it

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Mine has no idea I’m a total perve

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By *ockfun1970Man
2 weeks ago

North west

Mine know nothing, don't think she would understand my cravings.

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By *evilmademedoitMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

My wife knows everything, the first time I set eyes on her was in an open room at a club. She was getting gangbanged by 5 guys. We have shared many cocks over the years.

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By *mitz2Man
2 weeks ago

Leicester

No idea but I'd share her if I could

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By *uziTVTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I'm absolutely useless at keeping secrets to she knows too much..

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By *ustPeekinMan
2 weeks ago

Alresford

Nothing. I know this because I am still alive.

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By *alkbimMan
2 weeks ago

Falkirk

"Nothing. I know this because I am still alive. "

This absolutely x

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By *erti74Man
2 weeks ago

Thanet

My misses would go awol if she knew I get my sexual pleasures from men.

Gotta keep it that way.

Nearly got caught sometime ago getting undressed in the bedroom i had a condom dangling out of my butt. Luckily she didnt see it!

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By *ardvoyeurMan
2 weeks ago

Donegal

She doesn't know anything and it needs to stay this way.

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By *arriedbiMan
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

She knows nout bout her husband being gay now

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By *arriedguy49scotMan
2 weeks ago

Annan

My wife has no idea that I am no and love guys

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Bedford

My wife knows everything when we were young we used to go out clubbing with me

dressed en femme. and she would do my make up hair and suggest what I should wear. We have been married 53years and I think its because its never been secret is the reason we are still together xxx

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By *ammysam2000TV/TS
2 weeks ago

dublin

My wife is v vanilla and prudish - she has no idea and would totally freak at the thought - but I'd love to watch her being used and for her to watch me being fucked in front of her..

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By *ilky1961Man
2 weeks ago

Langold

Mine knows nothing although she does know that me dressing in stockings turns me on so much. We have great sex when I'm allowed to as a treat

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By *oeOmaghMan
2 weeks ago

Omagh

My missus would slowly cut my balls off with a rusty knife and feed them to the dog if she knew I like cock!!

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By *uminsideme .Man
2 weeks ago

weston s mare

My girlfriend knows nothing of my bi/gay side but the feeling of wanting to come out as being gay is very strong but in the same breath I don't want to hurt her it's a toughy x

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By *ral fun40Man
2 weeks ago

Douglas

My Mrs knows everything. She knew i was bisexual long before our swinging days and she also knows i wear stockings/tights as well.

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By *unis333Man
2 weeks ago

FLEET

"My girlfriend knows nothing of my bi/gay side but the feeling of wanting to come out as being gay is very strong but in the same breath I don't want to hurt her it's a toughy x"

As tough as it may seem to be....you need to be happy too. She may not be happy but she also may understand

My Mrs isn't exactly wanting to join in, but by being honest we at least have no secrets which is a big bonus and less stress

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By *ugh40Man
2 weeks ago

Wetherby

Probably thinks, but never discussed. She is older - no sex, but great company

Only seen fellas for 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Mine has no idea. She hates sex. But it’s okay. I now love cock cum and kissing men. Men kiss the way I

Love to kiss. And eating their cum is so good.

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By *3versMan
2 weeks ago

glasgow

"My girlfriend knows nothing of my bi/gay side but the feeling of wanting to come out as being gay is very strong but in the same breath I don't want to hurt her it's a toughy x"

Hopefully she never gets a glimpse of your arsehole

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By *unkyplumMan
2 weeks ago

Bournemouth

Mine has no idea. I love wearing her panties while exploring my bi side.

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

"My missus would slowly cut my balls off with a rusty knife and feed them to the dog if she knew I like cock!!"

Ya telling me I’d top myself if it ever came out

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By *ugh40Man
2 weeks ago

Wetherby

In a way, it is refreshing that guys express themselves, but sad that we have to live under a secret.

I think we all knew for years - some just say fuckit and come out, many don’t or can’t.

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By *orthfieldsnickMan
2 weeks ago

Ealing

She has no idea and thinks I’m a perfect loyal husband, poor her, but as long as she never finds out it won’t hurt her.

Although part of me would love her to watch me sucking a guy, I’d love to show her how horny it makes me, and show off how i deep I can take it compared to her.

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By *yzantineMan
2 weeks ago

Offshore now, ignore pistcode

I’d never proffer advice on this subject as every relationship is different. I told mine at the outset - best thing I did. She needed reassurance that I wasn’t closet gay but can live with my bi-side. We have a strong relationship as a result though she has no interest in being part of anything and frankly i wouldn’t either.

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
2 weeks ago

Sunderland

"In a way, it is refreshing that guys express themselves, but sad that we have to live under a secret.

I think we all knew for years - some just say fuckit and come out, many don’t or can’t. "

Would be excellent of that was possible. The weight that would come off my shoulders if I could be honest would be huge. I’d actually be able to live a happy content life.

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By *ylonAlisonTV/TS
2 weeks ago

BURY

My wife knows as we used to swing a bit, often with me dressed.

She also enjoyed sex with other guys while I watched, usually dresssed, as she wasn't keen on anal sex I used to provide that if any of her men wanted it.

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By *ulk2000Man
2 weeks ago

all over

Told my wife I was gay many years ago

Were together because we love each other but not sexually

Together for the kids

I have dildoes and loads of lingerie she's fine with it hope to have some real cock soon hard to resist for so many years. Loads of offers 😂

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By *lluredByMatureMan
2 weeks ago

Glasgow

Mine knows. I'm open with her about everything and she's fine with me exploring this side of myself as long as I'm safe. Good to see a few others in this thread are open about it too, I'd love to find someone in a similar position for meets but haven't so far.

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By *obrob1972Man
2 weeks ago

portbury

I showed my wife my gay mags and videos on our 5th or 6th date. She knows I saw a guy for a couple of years before her. She cucked me a few years ago and felt bad as she had all the fun and let me have a guy when I worked away in Leeds. She would probably be shocked at the 60-70 guys I have been with - these days she knows but does not want to know and also would be shocked to know I have gone from top dom to sub bottom!

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By *evanianMan
2 weeks ago

Sir y Fflint - Gogledd Cymru

"My Mrs knows nothing and I want to keep it that way "

Easiest, safest and best way to keep it, ignorance is bliss!

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By *jh59Man
2 weeks ago

Stoke Golding

Wife knows nothing

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By *ornyoldgit77Man
2 weeks ago

Southampton

"Enough to know I’ll eat another man’s cum out of her. "
lucky scenario

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By *iguy73Man
2 weeks ago

Oldham

My wife has always known I am bi, told her when we got together. She is OK about it but if I do anything she doesn't want to know about it

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By *esperatedan30Man
2 weeks ago

portsmouth

My ex wife knew nothing but the woman I got with when I split from her was nothing like my wife.She was younger than me and never said no to anything.I never told her about my bi side but she said haw much of a turn on it would be to watch me suck another man’s cock and would I do it so it went on from there.We had some brilliant times

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By *arydeeTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Staffs

Knows enough but I don't push it

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By *ensualblokeMan
2 weeks ago

Colchester

Ex knew everything and there was no need for the secrecy. Obviously there were boundaries, but I was fortunate to have an open and conscience- clear relationship with her in this respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Am single

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By *ritpopMan
2 weeks ago

newcastle

Suspicious accused me a couple of times played with my ass on night and I liked it too much .Came of a public toilet while we on holiday and I was hot and bothered she asked me why I was a longtime

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By *ritpopMan
2 weeks ago

newcastle

Suspicious accused me a couple of times played with my ass on night and I liked it too much .Came out of a public toilet while we on holiday and I was hot and bothered she asked me why I was a longtime

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By *erti74Man
2 weeks ago

Thanet

My wife doesnt know about my other sexual activities with like minded men.

Not her business!

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By *leets89Man
2 weeks ago

Birmingham

My wife know everything and loves to watch

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By *uminsideme .Man
2 weeks ago

weston s mare

"My girlfriend knows nothing of my bi/gay side but the feeling of wanting to come out as being gay is very strong but in the same breath I don't want to hurt her it's a toughy x

As tough as it may seem to be....you need to be happy too. She may not be happy but she also may understand

My Mrs isn't exactly wanting to join in, but by being honest we at least have no secrets which is a big bonus and less stress "

Fair play even though she's not against gays i know she will go completely of her rocker she's had enough shit in her life she doesn't need any more x

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By *heffbagMan
2 weeks ago

Rotherham

She knows I played with a friend experimenting but certainly nothing else since

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By *starMan
2 weeks ago

Frampton on Severn

I'm strongly tempted to tell all. I hate keeping secrets. Easier if she accepts, brilliant if she actively encourages, but, but argh! once out you can't put that genie back in the bottle.

Could turn out the best or the dumbest thing I've ever done.

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By *arriedbiMan
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

I'm.now gay n that a secret I have keep away from wife

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By *oves pantiesTV/TS
2 weeks ago

preston

There's so many things I can't share with her because once she's had a drink she tells everyone nearby everything

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By *nowsleyBisexualMan
2 weeks ago

Liverpool

I sure my wife knows about me being on here, yrs back she had my iphone and was flicking thru, following day she said you can delete wat uv looked at by flicking it upwards, this was new to me, straight away i thought omg she seen it and thats why she said it, since then iv made sure all history is cleared, she never said no more about it

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

Mine has no idea. Xx

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By *ig FredMan
2 weeks ago

South East

"My wife knows everything, the first time I set eyes on her was in an open room at a club. She was getting gangbanged by 5 guys. We have shared many cocks over the years. "

Social introduction, ‘So how did you 2 meet’ ? Love to hear that as the answer !!!!

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By *ames50sMan
2 weeks ago

Worcester

Bro. She already knows everything.

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By *ogwhammerMan
2 weeks ago

Rainham KENT

Too much largely due to my stupidity

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By *icole mk tvTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Milton keynes

Ex wife knew everything. Mainly the reason I got rid off a full set of encyclopedias when we first met

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

I'll never know for sure but I reckon my wife knows about women on the side but not men.

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By *amsoonMan
2 weeks ago

stornoway

My wife very bi too, so no worries as we both have enjoyed other men.

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By *iagoMan
2 weeks ago

Exeter

I met my partner on Fabswingers 10 years ago and she knows everything about me.We often share guys and both love big cocks.She doesn't mind me wearing knickers either!

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By *ichelle CDTV/TS
2 weeks ago

Nr Stratford-upon-Avon

Not enough and she doesn't seem to want to. I try talking to her, I talk about wearing dresses, I refer to sex with men in the general sense.

I would love to be able to be open with her

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By *arriedbiMan
2 weeks ago

Aldershot

Only few close friends ive come out to x fam work colleagues don't know the real me

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By *iverdadMan
2 weeks ago

Sunbury-on-Thames

She most of been a teacher as well

Lol

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By *ornyfeckerMan
2 weeks ago

Dundee

"My wife has known I’m bi since we started dating, we are non monogamous and have watched each other with people of both sexes "

Same here

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By *icebuttslimMan
2 weeks ago

here or there

My wife knows about my bi side, we've both enjoyed watching each other play with men in the past and, she knows that I occasionally go off to bi-nights at clubs.

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By *nmyknees80Man
2 weeks ago

salford

My wife knows nothing about me being a cock sucking slut

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By (user no longer on site)
2 weeks ago

My wife wouldn’t like the way i dress or the way i eat cum

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By *eandevonMan
2 weeks ago

exeter

My wife knows I have something for cock. She has asked me and I have told her but that’s all. Plus told her she looks amazing wearing her strapon for me. So she’s knows

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By *rainyourcockMan
2 weeks ago

Lytham St Annes

My late wife knew I was Bi as it was in my profile on the site we met on. She loved playing with multiple partners and enjoyed seeing me play with other men.

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By *ere2pleaseuMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

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By *ere2pleaseuMan
2 weeks ago

Tamworth

My wife has asked me twice if I was gay, the second time I said I was bi. She asked if I have ever had sex with men? and I told her yes years ago before I met her, she then asked me if I was the “man or woman” and I told her I’ve gave and taken. Then she asked if I’ve sucked and swallowed I told her yes. That was about 5-6yrs ago she hasn’t mentioned it since.

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By *ardvoyeurMan
2 weeks ago

Donegal

Im still alive so she knows nothing as yet

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By *poolMan38Man
2 weeks ago

Hartlepool

I’m very discreet, view this site in private browsing, meets are quick etc. one night a few weeks back I said I’d meet a guy (we’d had a drink and were talking dirty). One day it may happen.

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By *olvo hotelMan
2 weeks ago

armagh

My wife is aware of the crossdressing, some years back she asked was i gay and in a confused way i sorta said no, like how dare you, then a few years later i admitted to having bi feelings but and no disrespect guys, i really didn't want a reltionship with men had thoughts about large cocked transexuals and obvs i'd be on the recieving side, and then a year ago we both looked online together and she picked out my 1st heels wore them during our love making but there is an itch there that is gonna have to be scratched, i want her with me on this journey but it more than likely will be only me and just don't tell her

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By *ull bi for funMan
2 weeks ago

hull

My wife knows nothing, thats why I'm still alive to tell the tale.

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By *starMan
1 week ago

Frampton on Severn

"I'm strongly tempted to tell all. I hate keeping secrets. Easier if she accepts, brilliant if she actively encourages, but, but argh! once out you can't put that genie back in the bottle.

Could turn out the best or the dumbest thing I've ever done.

Well last night I did it, and bless my darling, she totally accepts it. If it's who I am and it makes me happy I should do it.

Life suddenly becomes much more interesting!

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By *eneral distanceMan
1 week ago

st helens

Great stuff

Honesty is not always the best policy in a relationship but sometimes it is worth the risk

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By *estvMan
1 week ago

Hull

Part of me wants mine to know.

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By *rCurious75Man
1 week ago

Ashby de la Zouch

She knows I love cum and id like a MMF (it never, ever happen). When we rarely watched porn I've commentated on the guys cock.

But if she's joined any of the dots up she's not remotely said.

The ex GF knew and we took advantage of it. But then I got signals that was hot for her.

With the wife there was clearly no chance of anything going on that direction or accommodation

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By *uminsideme .Man
1 week ago

weston s mare

"My girlfriend knows nothing of my bi/gay side but the feeling of wanting to come out as being gay is very strong but in the same breath I don't want to hurt her it's a toughy x

Hopefully she never gets a glimpse of your arsehole"

Lol great reply xx

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By *jbaggiesMan
1 week ago

Oldbury

Mine has no idea thankfully

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By *anDadBodMan
1 week ago

Liverpool

My mrs is fully aware 👍🏻

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By *ouisebottomMan
1 week ago

Greenford

Knows everything, she helps me dress, supported Louise front he day I told her

I told her after I proposed and I knew I couldn't keep her a secret, two days after telling her she went and bought me my own bra X

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By *arkinSuffolkMan
1 week ago

Lowestoft

My missus has known since the start of our relationship almost 15 years ago

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By *isa220TV/TS
1 week ago

Greenock

My wife doesn’t know but think she has a unlink cause when she on top and takes her bra off puts it on my tits and massages them puts the C straps on me gets me bc so horny when she does that

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