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Why do I attract long distance talkers.

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By *it old man OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Waterlooville

I seem to get quite a few messages from people in places like Glasgow, Liverpool and Ireland, and they just seem to want to talk with no prospect of a meeting. It;s really annoying, as most of the time I'm on mobile, and it's a slow process for me to send messages.

I'm only interested in physical meetings with warm bodies entwined, so how can I discourage the fantasisers?

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By *ldderMan
3 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks

Me too but I'm very happy they have looked and some messages

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By *ookingFor...Man
3 weeks ago

West Sussex

Maybe at 82 they think that's all you're capable of?

Your profile is a bit like a bedtime story...

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By *it old man OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Waterlooville

It really frustrating. I've just had a message from a guy with a beautiful long cock, and I really want to feel it deep inside me. The only problem is that he is in Wales. Being in a camper van, I'm really tempted to take a short holiday break to see if I can experience it. It's a long way to go for a no show though.

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By *teelballsMan
3 weeks ago

central london

Fantasists and time wasters who will message about all the things they want to do, but.

Check out their recent published verifications from actual meets.

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By *hubsloverMan
3 weeks ago

East/west sussex


"It really frustrating. I've just had a message from a guy with a beautiful long cock, and I really want to feel it deep inside me. The only problem is that he is in Wales. Being in a camper van, I'm really tempted to take a short holiday break to see if I can experience it. It's a long way to go for a no show though."

It is better that you search rather than waiting people to find you ? X

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By *ublinBottomGuyMan
3 weeks ago

London

oh no, people show an interest in you in any capacity? How dreadful for you.

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By *i.topMan
3 weeks ago

Wallop

I get that, I do wonder if it's worth taking a holiday....or would they ask if I was next door?

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By *terag5581Man
3 weeks ago

Stirling

I get plenty of messages from guys some distance away but it's good to chat

.Think u need to be realistic in that simply because a guy views your profile and chats doesn't mean he wants to meet, particularly if he us 100's of miles away

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By *arriedbiMan
3 weeks ago

Aldershot

Yes but I don't mind as lovely getting attention from lovely guys and gurls some of which now friends

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By *ohnbi1965Man
3 weeks ago

Aberfeldy

I often fab or wink guys miles away from me its because i like what i see on their profile its meant as a compliment many have messaged me & i have enjoyed some lovely horny chats with guys i know ive no chance of meeting but enjoy the interaction. X

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By *it old man OP   Man
3 weeks ago

Waterlooville

Well my problem is that I'm usually in the van on mobile, and that isn't the best sevice for text messaging. Another problem is the guys who run you on for 20 or 30 messages, and then decide they won't meet because I won't supply a face pic.

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By *astDevonGuyMan
3 weeks ago

East Devon

No harm in chat at all , I welcome it .

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By *ais1Man
3 weeks ago

Renfrewshire

I'm happy to chat to far off people, especially if we're into the same niche stuff. Some I've kept in touch with and even met, others I hope to meet.

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By *odameMan
3 weeks ago

Torremolinos, Spain NOT

where a guys profile says he is located is irrelevant

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many guys that are cheating use a home location post code set in a completely different region and disable the mobile location permission, others may be travelling but also with mobile location disabled, some could be planning to be in your area

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you have already identified your no1 issue

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anyone on here 8 months without verifications is not going to be seen to be serious about meeting so you will attract the bored, the lonely, the keyboard wankers and the timewasters

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only way to correct that is delete the profile and start a new one.

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you also do not have photos. no excuse not to have.

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if discretion is important the photo only needs to be your body or even just your ass if you are after being fucked, nobody will be able to identify who you are by that

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physique and looks are an additional factor that by you not having photos will put off many guys, you need to accept that you have limited your possibilities by this

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your musings about cocks sizes etc is boring and makes you sound like a fantasist

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max 6 x short paragraphs of a couple of sentences in each are easy to read and deliver the message. state that you are online for arranging meetings not chat

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just put what you want to do with another guy and what you will definitely NOT do

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lastly, don't get drawn into chit chat

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2 or 3 messages is the limit on exchanges about likes & kinks, if it goes on for much longer they are just wanking

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cut the crap and offer a day & time e.g. " you free to meet next tuesday afternoon?, if not when suits you better?"

if they are evasive and cannot offer a day finish the conversation immediately with "Okay, let me know when you can" and MOVE ON.

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ignore any attempt at continuing idle chat, just say you are driving or got poor reception etc and will wait to hear from them with a date

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if they are genuinely interested they will get back in touch when they have free time

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By *ublinBottomGuyMan
3 weeks ago

London

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By *ustPeekinMan
3 weeks ago

Alresford

I enjoy chatting. I have some great online friends on here whom I have no chance of ever meeting. All over the UK, a surprising number in Ireland and one guy in Florida. Chat away!

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By *owzerMan
3 weeks ago

Chester.....


"I seem to get quite a few messages from people in places like Glasgow, Liverpool and Ireland, and they just seem to want to talk with no prospect of a meeting. It;s really annoying, as most of the time I'm on mobile, and it's a slow process for me to send messages.

I'm only interested in physical meetings with warm bodies entwined, so how can I discourage the fantasisers?"

Your profile is very wordy and rambling. Maybe delete all that waffle and just put "Fancy a fuck?"

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