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"Prince Albert? Cock ring? Children? Family friendly? 'Surely this is too much for THIS setting?' " I totally agree, ok for a meeting of consenting adults but not for a family friendly environment. | |||
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"Family friendly naked swim, to me that just sounds wrong " Same here. Wouldn't want to go if there were children around. | |||
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"Prince Albert? Cock ring? Children? Family friendly? 'Surely this is too much for THIS setting?' I totally agree, ok for a meeting of consenting adults but not for a family friendly environment. " I agree | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about" Were you there with your family? If it's for families, why would blokes attend on their own? Just wondering.... | |||
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"I think the cock ring is too much and not really appropriate. " I agree. Blood flows, we get that, but a cock ring is inviting blood retention! | |||
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"I think the cock ring is too much and not really appropriate. " I agree, but why would guys attend on their own if it's for families? Regardless of the cock ring, I'm not sure why you would... | |||
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"It is run by British naturism " Whose events have historically been a magnet for paedophiles. Not sure of their safeguarding policies these days, but I would never be happy to be in such a situation with children around. | |||
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"It is indoor lol " Indoors? Am I missing the point? | |||
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"That said, I admire anyone going out naked this time of year "Makes you proud to be British. | |||
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"Given my liberal leanings some may be surprised that I don't feel this is acceptable. But it's not as clear-cut as many think. The PA is jewelry, I expect many of the mum's will have nipple bars and maybe clitoral piercings. Do we ban those as well? The cock ring though is much more a sex toy (some may argue it is also jewelry but it's primary purpose is sexual) so unsuitable for children to be exposed to IMHO. Obviously showing up with a butt plug is clearly a no no but I maintain that these days many people of both sexes have erotic piercings so what do we do? Or was the real problem that this guy was single? My feelings are that single guys or for that matter, girls, shouldn't be at a family naturist event. But it must be considered that these days mummies and daddies may have adornments anyway that will be seen by other families, so how do you handle those? Or should they all be removed prior?" It is not a family event just family friendly So I shouldn’t go to a family friendly pub? Or a dog friendly pub with no dog? | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about" I think the cock ring and PA just sexualises the event and extremely inappropriate. I've never understood why guys wear a cock ring as an accessory outside of sexual activity. But each to their own. What I don't understand is u being self conscious about being circumcised. I think it's good to educate younger people that we are all different and come in many shapes n sizes. Circumcision should be nothing to be ashamed of. | |||
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"Given my liberal leanings some may be surprised that I don't feel this is acceptable. But it's not as clear-cut as many think. The PA is jewelry, I expect many of the mum's will have nipple bars and maybe clitoral piercings. Do we ban those as well? The cock ring though is much more a sex toy (some may argue it is also jewelry but it's primary purpose is sexual) so unsuitable for children to be exposed to IMHO. Obviously showing up with a butt plug is clearly a no no but I maintain that these days many people of both sexes have erotic piercings so what do we do? Or was the real problem that this guy was single? My feelings are that single guys or for that matter, girls, shouldn't be at a family naturist event. But it must be considered that these days mummies and daddies may have adornments anyway that will be seen by other families, so how do you handle those? Or should they all be removed prior? It is not a family event just family friendly So I shouldn’t go to a family friendly pub? Or a dog friendly pub with no dog?" I realize that and I guess if it's family friendly as opposed to family only then those that go as a family should know what might happen. Many of the responses seem to assume it's primarily a family event that has allowed single men in who are "dressed" overtly sexually. | |||
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"Not ashamed of being circumcised Just self conscious of glans in show" I feel that is somewhat of an odd thing to worry about. I'm sure Manny other men and boys will be cut so you aren't going to stand out as much as the guy with the mooring ring in his cock! | |||
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"Not ashamed of being circumcised Just self conscious of glans in show" Your cock is your cock, just like your arm is your arm. Doesn’t stop you wearing short sleeves. In the right scenario your cut cock has as much right to be in show as any uncut cock. | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about" There will always be one, wearing that shite , bound to be gay and been on far too many naked cruising days to differentiate between reality and gay unreality. | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about" Piercings and jewellery are not inappropriate. Your interpretation of them are. | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about Piercings and jewellery are not inappropriate. Your interpretation of them are. " Definitely the best reply. Spot on. | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about Piercings and jewellery are not inappropriate. Your interpretation of them are. " Surely you can’t possibly be changing a glaring narrative by calling a cockring at a family event jewellery?! | |||
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"Was grandma there?" Some old enough to be grannies yes | |||
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"Boys nude" Men women boys girls yes One communal change area All swim naked | |||
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"Boys nude Men women boys girls yes One communal change area All swim naked " So we can assume all know the score? Or at least the parents and guardians must do?. So was this guy on his own or was he with family? Did anyone have a word with him or the management or was everyone oblivious/not actually bothered? | |||
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"Live and let live " Don't see the problem with piercings at these events | |||
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"It is family friendly not compulsory As in a pub that is dog friendly! I get you been to one of those with no dog! Or indeed family friendly pub with no children Just saying " Fair comment but still don't think it's appropriate whether there is one child or 20 children. Could attract perverts. Also those awkward questions like "Mummy why does that man over there have a willy four times the size of daddy's?" or "Mummy how did that silly man end up with a curtain ring in his willy?" | |||
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"It is family friendly not compulsory As in a pub that is dog friendly! I get you been to one of those with no dog! Or indeed family friendly pub with no children Just saying Fair comment but still don't think it's appropriate whether there is one child or 20 children. Could attract perverts. Also those awkward questions like "Mummy why does that man over there have a willy four times the size of daddy's?" or "Mummy how did that silly man end up with a curtain ring in his willy?"" If a child asks a question like that, they deserve a proper, straightforward answer. This doesn’t usually happen and that’s why so many people grow up thinking sexual stuff is wrong or dirty. Also, a ‘family friendly’ naturist event is going to be attractive to perverts, a cock ring isn’t going to increase or decrease that attraction. It’s up to the organisers and parents to ensure children are kept safe. | |||
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"It is family friendly not compulsory As in a pub that is dog friendly! I get you been to one of those with no dog! Or indeed family friendly pub with no children Just saying Fair comment but still don't think it's appropriate whether there is one child or 20 children. Could attract perverts. Also those awkward questions like "Mummy why does that man over there have a willy four times the size of daddy's?" or "Mummy how did that silly man end up with a curtain ring in his willy?" If a child asks a question like that, they deserve a proper, straightforward answer. This doesn’t usually happen and that’s why so many people grow up thinking sexual stuff is wrong or dirty. Also, a ‘family friendly’ naturist event is going to be attractive to perverts, a cock ring isn’t going to increase or decrease that attraction. It’s up to the organisers and parents to ensure children are kept safe."  | |||
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"Let's just imagine that the event wasn't in a swimming pool, but was on a naturist beach. Would you expect the reactions to be different? I've seen all manner of body jewellery on nude beaches, together with families with young kids, and nobody was overly concerned." No, But at these swim events, you can expect a family setting | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about" Your glans is part of your body. It's like saying everyone can see your navel, 😱 | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about Your glans is part of your body. It's like saying everyone can see your navel, 😱" But most guys only expose glans in a sexual setting | |||
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"Let's just imagine that the event wasn't in a swimming pool, but was on a naturist beach. Would you expect the reactions to be different? I've seen all manner of body jewellery on nude beaches, together with families with young kids, and nobody was overly concerned." Probably. But at a pool, it just doesn't sit right. | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about Piercings and jewellery are not inappropriate. Your interpretation of them are. Surely you can’t possibly be changing a glaring narrative by calling a cockring at a family event jewellery?!" A " glaring narrative ". How did you decide that? If the cockring is not being used sexually then it's jewellery just as any piercing is. He was not doing anything sexual from the original post information. | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about Your glans is part of your body. It's like saying everyone can see your navel, 😱 But most guys only expose glans in a sexual setting " Simple solution. Just don't go there then. | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about Your glans is part of your body. It's like saying everyone can see your navel, 😱 But most guys only expose glans in a sexual setting " I really don't get this. Are u saying men pull their foreskins back to expose their glands do it for sexual reasons? I know a few uncut guys whose foreskins retract naturally and it's not meant to be sexual but just the natural state of their soft penises. Yes a lot of guys when erect their foreskin rolls back, again that's their natural state. Equally there are many guys that remain covered when hard. I also don't understand why someone who is conscious about their exposed glands would visit an event that makes them feel akward or uncomfortable. Doesn't that defeat the object of going to feel relaxed and enjoy the event? Why would anyone put themselves through that as the whole point is to feel free and inhibited. | |||
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"I occasionally attend a naked swim event , which is held monthly and is family friendly Last time I attended there was a guy with not only a Prince Albert ( which I don’t feel appropriate) but also wearing a metal cock ring Surely this is too much for this setting? Of course there was no inappropriate behaviour or erections I sometimes feel self conscious being circumcised and my glans in show when younger children about Your glans is part of your body. It's like saying everyone can see your navel, 😱 But most guys only expose glans in a sexual setting " Well god help circumcised men, or men with very short foreskins. I don't know if you're trying to be funny or seriously naive | |||
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"Totally agree.. I love being naked especially in the summer..been told about some nudist holidays abroad..but the whole family walk around naked.. from the youngest to the oldest.. don’t know how I would feel about that.. as was told most of the adults are swingers.!! Good to here your thoughts.." I've been to lots of naturist beaches where families visit, it just feels natural. Kids don't care, they love being naked and have no issues with adults being naked. And on real naturist beaches it's not true that most adults are swingers. | |||
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"I go to naked adult swims, being naked around children is weird to me" Ditto Not sure what it says about my untrusting-nature, or the impact on us by the deluge of news nowadays, but id be very wary of my kids being naked in a pool with other single naked men in there too. Teaching body-positivity, I get. Naturism, I get. Families together experiencing naturism, I get. But single guys there… sorry… I don’t get. I’d be too worried by their motives. Sorry if that offends the genuine. And as for a PA AND a cock-ring… he should’ve been turned-away. He sounds like one of the ‘porn-film inspired’ posters on here. Wrong on so many levels! | |||
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"I go to naked adult swims, being naked around children is weird to me" Do you go in the area local to your profile? I'm aware there is one in Northampton once a month but I am struggling to find other options! | |||
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"Family friendly naked swim, to me that just sounds wrong " I agree | |||
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"I go to naked adult swims, being naked around children is weird to me Do you go in the area local to your profile? I'm aware there is one in Northampton once a month but I am struggling to find other options!" If you google ‘Desford naturist swim’ it should be the first link on Google | |||
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