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By *choFly OP Man
13 weeks ago
Stamford |
I thought I would share some thoughts about preparation for anal play.
Preparation is Key
Before engaging in anal intercourse, it's crucial for the bottom to prioritise hygiene and comfort. One effective method for cleansing the anal passage is douching, which can be achieved using a shower hose with a gentle spray nozzle. This helps remove any fecal matter and reduces the risk of discomfort during intercourse. Alternatively, using an enema like Microlax or its equivalent can also be beneficial. However, it's essential to follow the instructions carefully and avoid overusing enemas, as this can lead to irritation and discomfort.
Fucking Time: Tips for a Smooth Experience
When it comes to anal intercourse, choosing the right lubricant is vital. Silicon-based lubes are generally recommended over water-based ones due to their longer-lasting properties and reduced risk of irritation. Apply a generous amount of lube to both the condom, cock and the anal passage to ensure a smooth entry.
To relax the sphincter muscles, start by massaging the outer area of the anus gently. Spend sufficient time on this step, as rushing can lead to discomfort and tension. Once you're ready to proceed, inserting one or two fingers can help loosen up the muscles further. Some individuals also find using a butt plug before intercourse helpful in preparing the anus for penetration.
Penetration: Pace Yourself
During penetration, especially if it's your first time or your partner's first time bottoming, communication is key. Go at the pace of the bottom, allowing them to guide you on their comfort level. Instead of thrusting aggressively, encourage your partner to push against your cock gently; this helps them feel more in control and reduces potential pain.
For first-timers, there's often a psychological barrier related to fear of pain or discomfort. It's essential to approach this experience with an open mind and focus on relaxation rather than anticipation of pain. Building trust and confidence between partners is crucial for overcoming these initial hurdles.
Gradual Progression
As you begin penetration, wait until your partner is fully comfortable before proceeding further. Gradually introduce more of your shaft at their pace until you're fully inserted. Only then should you consider starting slow strokes, allowing both partners to adjust to the sensation.
Remember, every individual's experience with anal sex is unique, so patience and communication are paramount for ensuring both parties enjoy themselves safely.
Sharing Tips and Best Practices
Feel free to share any personal tips or experiences that have contributed positively to your encounters with anal sex!
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