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By *ranger OP   Man
over a year ago

merseyside

Hi guys I am in a sexless marriage I want to meet a couple.

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By *igbiguymikeMan
over a year ago

redditch

Get across to fabswingers then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d start by trying to talk to ur other half about it

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By *kigaiMan
over a year ago

Northampton

We know. You tell us about it all the time.

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick


"Hi guys I am in a sexless marriage I want to meet a couple. "

Yes, we know.

You told us many times during 2024!

If it was going to happen it would've happened by now I'm sure.

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By *owzerMan
over a year ago

Chester... Where the streets have no name


"Hi guys I am in a sexless marriage I want to meet a couple. "

If you build it, they will come 🙏

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe improve yr image - buy a razor and new underwear that is not 2 sizes too big

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By *reakawayMan
14 weeks ago

Black country

A sexless marriage can be a very lonely place.

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By *ugged NorthernerMan
14 weeks ago

North East


"A sexless marriage can be a very lonely place. "

Yep 👍

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By *ickSeekerMan
14 weeks ago

Canterbury

😔

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By (user no longer on site)
14 weeks ago


"A sexless marriage can be a very lonely place. "

It is a lonely place even worse when she had been so active plus your still getting feelings. Hope you understand what I mean.

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By *aptain BreederMan
14 weeks ago

Livingston


"Hi guys I am in a sexless marriage I want to meet a couple.

If you build it, they will come 🙏"

Did you just give out a RAY LIOTTA ??

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By *ayboy1966Man
14 weeks ago

Glasgow

Yip, that’s me!

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By *azaMan
14 weeks ago

Walsall

I.have been in a sexless marriage for years now I love her and would love to Fuck her but she just anit interested so that's why I have turned to guys the know what they want and go and get it

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By *arriedbiMan
14 weeks ago

Aldershot

Sexless which made transition from bi to gay easy X as older I got more I realised attracted to men but less n less to women

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By *jh59Man
14 weeks ago

Hinckley

Was in a sexless marriage for years

When she left it was the best thing that happened to me in terms of making the transition from bi to gay

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By *lmparkgreenMan
14 weeks ago

Hornchurch

Been in a sexless marriage for years, made me explore my bi side

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By *racknell DeepthroaterMan
14 weeks ago

Bracknell

Always happy to service guys who are in a sexless marriage. I will such and deep throat you,I will swallow to completion or you can give me a facial with your loaf too. I am a bottom too for those who would like to top...

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By *westMan
13 weeks ago

Hull

I was exploring my bi side a long time before my wife went off sex. If she left me I would only want to be with men.

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By *tevieboiMan
13 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

in the same boat here

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By *DEmileyRoseTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Derry(Ballymagroarty), Ireland


"Hi guys I am in a sexless marriage I want to meet a couple. "

Maybe fab swinger's lol

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By *onstant.Man
13 weeks ago

Middlesbrough

I've not had sex with my wife for 15 years now.

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By *aveyboyxxxoMan
13 weeks ago

Warwickshire

Im also in a sexless marriage , thats why i decided to come on here ... met some lovely old men , and had sex with them instead . Love it !!

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Last five years of my marriage was sexless. For me at least. Love the freedom I have now even if I mostly use it to wank.

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By *anDadBodMan
13 weeks ago

Speke

One of many symptoms to menopause is a drop in libido, my mrs is currently going through it and has commented saying she would love to have sex again but she just doesn’t feel in the mood for it, once through the menopause the libido will rise again, so hopefully she will get back on the cock, im hoping she gets back in to swinging too.

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By *erscumdumpMan
13 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"One of many symptoms to menopause is a drop in libido, my mrs is currently going through it and has commented saying she would love to have sex again but she just doesn’t feel in the mood for it, once through the menopause the libido will rise again, so hopefully she will get back on the cock, im hoping she gets back in to swinging too."

From a hormonal and psychological point of view, there's no guarantee libido returns. For a significantly high percentage it doesn't. Ive got a fair few female friends who have come out the other side who wouldn't care if they never have sex again.

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By *ustPeekinMan
13 weeks ago

Alresford

Sadly, the usual outcome is that once it’s gone, it doesn’t come back.

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By *anDadBodMan
13 weeks ago

Speke


"Sadly, the usual outcome is that once it’s gone, it doesn’t come back. "

plenty of women in their 50s and 60s on the sister site enjoying sex again 👍🏻

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By *erscumdumpMan
13 weeks ago

Watford & Worth Matravers


"Sadly, the usual outcome is that once it’s gone, it doesn’t come back.

plenty of women in their 50s and 60s on the sister site enjoying sex again 👍🏻"

Where it's 100 men for each woman. Lucky them

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By *ustPeekinMan
13 weeks ago

Alresford

I think the ones for whom it returns are in the minority.

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By *eedtoMan
13 weeks ago

grimsby

Anyone get their 6 monthly condescending sympathy wank by their partner? Carried out by straight first finger and thumb, obviously going to great lengths that the tiny single drop of cum doesn't go anywhere near anything it could contaminate as though it's nuclear fall out. There, that's better isn't it?

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By *uckmeslow555Man
13 weeks ago

oakham

Me she’s not interested not been any for years

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By *ensualblokeMan
13 weeks ago

London /Colchester

Honestly think the 'marriage' thing is an outdated model - so much unhappiness and resentment in this thread. If it's not working : talk, and if that doesn't work- bin them off, and find a solution that does work for you.

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By *erasusMan
13 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Honestly think the 'marriage' thing is an outdated model - so much unhappiness and resentment in this thread. If it's not working : talk, and if that doesn't work- bin them off, and find a solution that does work for you. "

Don’t think that applies to just a marriage. Will happen in all types of arrangements/commitments

It’s relationships that are fucked lol

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By *ensualblokeMan
13 weeks ago

London /Colchester


"Honestly think the 'marriage' thing is an outdated model - so much unhappiness and resentment in this thread. If it's not working : talk, and if that doesn't work- bin them off, and find a solution that does work for you.

Don’t think that applies to just a marriage. Will happen in all types of arrangements/commitments

It’s relationships that are fucked lol "

True- good point, the bigger picture is very much that. Fucked in every hole.

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By *V ShazTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Haydock

Wives appetite for sex does return.

It's when your dead and the inheritance goes her and finding another man.

Enjoy man sex instead

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By *V ShazTV/TS
13 weeks ago

Haydock

Wives appetite for sex does return.

It's when your dead and the inheritance goes and she is left finding another man.

Enjoy man sex instead

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago


"Honestly think the 'marriage' thing is an outdated model - so much unhappiness and resentment in this thread. If it's not working : talk, and if that doesn't work- bin them off, and find a solution that does work for you. "

Been married, had a number of GF since, dipped in and out of here in between. Have to say, unless I find someone who likes the swingers lifestyle and is happy being with a Bi Guy I’m going to give the single life a proper go now. Been a lot happier pleasing myself rather than not doing stuff if it doesn’t fit.

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By *ldderMan
13 weeks ago

Oxford and Sevenoaks. Lymington spar

Been in a sexless marriage for years. Did me a favour really I now get my real enjoyment a nice cock

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By *alking HeadMan
13 weeks ago

Bolton


"Anyone get their 6 monthly condescending sympathy wank by their partner? Carried out by straight first finger and thumb, obviously going to great lengths that the tiny single drop of cum doesn't go anywhere near anything it could contaminate as though it's nuclear fall out. There, that's better isn't it?"

Don't even get that. It's got to the point over the years, if it was offered I would refuse. She's spent years prior to menopause putting it on ration, so if she even came out of the other side raring to go, I think I'd refuse. It might be cutting off my nose to spite my face but I've lived like this so long I can cope. I don't care if it raises her suspicions if I'm getting it elsewhere.

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By *orcester GuyMan
13 weeks ago

Worcestershire North

Know exactly how you all feel

Last time tried about 2 years ago

Felt like she was trying to do me a favour

Had a row and told her to forget it

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By *ike21TV/TS
13 weeks ago

Fareham

My wife lets me give her head as I finger get ass

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By *reakawayMan
11 weeks ago

Black country

Im nursing another hard on tonight. The wife is in bed asleep. Lonely game this married lark is. A lonely, lonely game.

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By *iggreenockMan
11 weeks ago

Greenock

Been together 27 years and we still fuck regularly. I don't take her for granted like so many do!

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By *ackie9TV/TS
11 weeks ago

Ilkeston

Been well over 6 months since my wife allowed me sex with her, I've lost interest in her and go out to adult clubs when I can

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By *wadbisexualMan
10 weeks ago

Castle Gresley

Many couples over 50 in a long term relationship or married are sexless, including me, in short it's want sexual satisfaction, no woman i know of will provide that for me, but plenty of men will... hence here i am.

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By *olderhead1234Man
10 weeks ago

forfar

Been a year and half since I had off the wife so decided to explore my bi side and enjoyed so far need to experience more though

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By *iggreenockMan
10 weeks ago

Greenock

Did any of you try talking to your wife before deciding your marriage was sexless?

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By *wanseajack2014Man
10 weeks ago

Neath

Me and the Mrs are a swinging cpl. But I have her permission to meet guys on here alone and she has mine to fuck other ladies alone. Need to chat to your wives. Maybe they think the sex has gone stale just like you guys.

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By *ose_bristolTV/TS
10 weeks ago

Bristol

I'm jn the same boat, no sex with my other half for nearly 10 years, she just doesnt like sex, we have talked about it, but for now its still seperate bedrooms and a peck on the cheek before bedtime.

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By *iggreenockMan
10 weeks ago

Greenock

Its interesting that men say "she doesn't want sex" without realising she means sex with them.

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By *am187Man
10 weeks ago

Glasgow


"Its interesting that men say "she doesn't want sex" without realising she means sex with them. "
true this

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By *eephole30Man
10 weeks ago

Teesdale /Durham

I’m in a sexless marriage and we sleep in separate bedrooms she’s older than me but she seems to like chatting to men younger and men of nearly her age I think she gets turned on by it .

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By *ehnicussmMan
10 weeks ago

Dunstable

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By *airythighs61Man
10 weeks ago

North Norfolk

Sexless marriages can be between two men too !

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By *reakawayMan
10 weeks ago

Black country

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By *reakawayMan
10 weeks ago

Black country


"Did any of you try talking to your wife before deciding your marriage was sexless?"

Yes. Many times. She wont have a bar of it. Doesnt want to talk about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Mine isn’t too bad once a month but it’s not enough for me so hence I just get my pleasure from men

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By *ugo1000Man
10 weeks ago

Haverfordwest

Mine lets me wank next to her

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By *arried KentMan
10 weeks ago

Rochester

I have sexless marriage but I love her to bits

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By *arriedbiMan
10 weeks ago

Aldershot

Sexless but love her X even tho now gay but secret I wouldn't hurt her

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By *nmykneesagainMan
10 weeks ago

salford

Not had sex with her for 2 yr, thats why im on here, and i know she has guys behind my back

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By *heoilcanMan
10 weeks ago

solihull

I agree with _reakaway,we seem to be the same where marriage is concerned

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By *ucker4you80Man
10 weeks ago

Chippenham


"I agree with _reakaway,we seem to be the same where marriage is concerned"

These are always odd threads. It seems you're on here because you have a sexless marriage, so you're getting cock instead. Great, problem solved. Do you still feel hard-done-by? You've got your marriage and you get to have cock too, what's the issue?

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By *ustOneBearMan
10 weeks ago

Neath


"Sexless marriages can be between two men too ! "

Yes, but you don’t see threads of them complaining about it, do you. They don’t seem to resent the lack of sex, they accept desires change.

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By *acingfanMan
10 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Not married. But could not live without sex.

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By *ubmanpaulMan
10 weeks ago

near ripon

Sexless marriage here but I much prefer man sex anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

If its dead ,Get out .I did and in the long run its the best result

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By *reakawayMan
3 days ago

Black country

To be honest, Im in a bad place with this (mostly) sexless marriage issue now. Not the marriage itself. Just the sex. Its a complicated story but increasingly feel Ive got nowhere to turn. I dont think the wife wants to listen or if she does, she doesnt understand. Is anyone else feeling the same way? It would be good to have someone to talk to. Great if they were local to meet up for a chat. Other than that any ideas or thoughts would be good. And before anyone pipes up and says get out of the marriage, let me save you the trouble. Thats an option Im definitely not considering. The marriage is OK but the sex is dull with poor prospects.

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By *erscumdumpMan
3 days ago

Watford & Worth Matravers

If you're getting sex elsewhere, does it matter that a marriage has become sexless? There's far more to a partnership than sex after all.

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