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By *ubguy2023 OP   Man
2 days ago

hyde

This may be slightly controversial, but frankly I don’t care Isn’t this what the forums are here for to provoke debate and interesting conversation?

So this doesn’t happen so much on this platform, but that is maybe to do with the way it structured but it happens an awful lot on the platform with the mask begins with G the word you’re not allowed to say on here

So this is obviously very personal to me and I don’t really understand it but they’re quite a lot of couples guys in open relationships who are looking to meet. I get the whole having a 3rd to spice up what may will be becoming a dull sexual relationship but what I don’t get is guys in a couple or relationship who will meet separately like I said probably controversial but I don’t quite get the mindset that if you found somebody whether you’re going behind your partners back or not cause many do say partner on here (knows what I’m up to) so they’re pretty open about it but why do they want to fuck or be fucked by somebody else? Is it just sexual gratification.

On said platform I just block them if I was lucky enough to have a bf I wouldn’t be on any platform but then I long for my halcyon days wearing tinted sunglasses and flowers round the door

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
2 days ago

Bristol East

I can be emotionally attached to someone, and have no problem with them having sex with someone else, because I know it is always me they will be waking up with.

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By *ubguy2023 OP   Man
2 days ago

hyde


"I can be emotionally attached to someone, and have no problem with them having sex with someone else, because I know it is always me they will be waking up with."

So no jealousy that that guy will be a better fuck?

The what if he fancies him more etc

Does letting someone go in this case to fuck around mean that they’ll always return metaphorically?

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
2 days ago

Bristol East

It's down to faith in the strength of your relationship, and your ability to communicate if/when that faith feels jeopardised

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By *ubguy2023 OP   Man
2 days ago

hyde


"It's down to faith in the strength of your relationship, and your ability to communicate if/when that faith feels jeopardised "

I don’t think I’ll get a better answer than that to my ridiculous question. Should close the forum now.

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By *anmannersMan
2 days ago

NG4


"This may be slightly controversial, but frankly I don’t care Isn’t this what the forums are here for to provoke debate and interesting conversation?

So this doesn’t happen so much on this platform, but that is maybe to do with the way it structured but it happens an awful lot on the platform with the mask begins with G the word you’re not allowed to say on here

So this is obviously very personal to me and I don’t really understand it but they’re quite a lot of couples guys in open relationships who are looking to meet. I get the whole having a 3rd to spice up what may will be becoming a dull sexual relationship but what I don’t get is guys in a couple or relationship who will meet separately like I said probably controversial but I don’t quite get the mindset that if you found somebody whether you’re going behind your partners back or not cause many do say partner on here (knows what I’m up to) so they’re pretty open about it but why do they want to fuck or be fucked by somebody else? Is it just sexual gratification.

On said platform I just block them if I was lucky enough to have a bf I wouldn’t be on any platform but then I long for my halcyon days wearing tinted sunglasses and flowers round the door "

How old are you? Why does it need an explanation. I've been with my wonderful adorable husband for 40 years. Open relationship for most of that time based on honesty and trust.

Now rarely, we have been to saunas, or when one is out, the other, at home, enjoyed a session with no upset to either one of us.

It suits us.

I only love my husband and that will never falter. I couldn't love anyone else like that

What suits and works for one couple is different for another .

It appears that you may enjoy sex without being in a relationship as yet, so I don't see a problem. Good luck.

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By *ockednikiMan
2 days ago

Newhaven


"It's down to faith in the strength of your relationship, and your ability to communicate if/when that faith feels jeopardised "

Agreed 👍

I'm in a 'open relationship', my gf knows I meet and is very supportive. She meets other men when she wants. We are fully committed to each other for over 15 years. Honesty and communication are key x

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By *ubterffugeMan
2 days ago

Bishop ish

From experience, unless you're static both of continue to evolve and though the love persists, your mutual sexual interests may lessen or diverge.

When jealousy occurs, it isn't driven by fear of losing him, but by suspicion that he might be having a better time than you!

Oddly, you each intuit the superficiality of that type of jealousy, and it doesn't threaten you.

It's faith, I suppose.

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By *ubguy2023 OP   Man
2 days ago

hyde


"This may be slightly controversial, but frankly I don’t care Isn’t this what the forums are here for to provoke debate and interesting conversation?

So this doesn’t happen so much on this platform, but that is maybe to do with the way it structured but it happens an awful lot on the platform with the mask begins with G the word you’re not allowed to say on here

So this is obviously very personal to me and I don’t really understand it but they’re quite a lot of couples guys in open relationships who are looking to meet. I get the whole having a 3rd to spice up what may will be becoming a dull sexual relationship but what I don’t get is guys in a couple or relationship who will meet separately like I said probably controversial but I don’t quite get the mindset that if you found somebody whether you’re going behind your partners back or not cause many do say partner on here (knows what I’m up to) so they’re pretty open about it but why do they want to fuck or be fucked by somebody else? Is it just sexual gratification.

On said platform I just block them if I was lucky enough to have a bf I wouldn’t be on any platform but then I long for my halcyon days wearing tinted sunglasses and flowers round the door

How old are you? Why does it need an explanation. I've been with my wonderful adorable husband for 40 years. Open relationship for most of that time based on honesty and trust.

Now rarely, we have been to saunas, or when one is out, the other, at home, enjoyed a session with no upset to either one of us.

It suits us.

I only love my husband and that will never falter. I couldn't love anyone else like that

What suits and works for one couple is different for another .

It appears that you may enjoy sex without being in a relationship as yet, so I don't see a problem. Good luck. "

So you understand absolutely everything about life and I’ve never asked a question? Are you Einstein?

I genuinely don’t get it, and I’ll be honest. It’s not my problem if you don’t understand that good luck.

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By *ubguy2023 OP   Man
2 days ago

hyde


"It's down to faith in the strength of your relationship, and your ability to communicate if/when that faith feels jeopardised

Agreed 👍

I'm in a 'open relationship', my gf knows I meet and is very supportive. She meets other men when she wants. We are fully committed to each other for over 15 years. Honesty and communication are key x"

Ok

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By *ubguy2023 OP   Man
2 days ago

hyde

Oh, and you know how old I am because you looked at my profile

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By *ubterffugeMan
2 days ago

Bishop ish


"This may be slightly controversial, but frankly I don’t care Isn’t this what the forums are here for to provoke debate and interesting conversation?

So this doesn’t happen so much on this platform, but that is maybe to do with the way it structured but it happens an awful lot on the platform with the mask begins with G the word you’re not allowed to say on here

So this is obviously very personal to me and I don’t really understand it but they’re quite a lot of couples guys in open relationships who are looking to meet. I get the whole having a 3rd to spice up what may will be becoming a dull sexual relationship but what I don’t get is guys in a couple or relationship who will meet separately like I said probably controversial but I don’t quite get the mindset that if you found somebody whether you’re going behind your partners back or not cause many do say partner on here (knows what I’m up to) so they’re pretty open about it but why do they want to fuck or be fucked by somebody else? Is it just sexual gratification.

On said platform I just block them if I was lucky enough to have a bf I wouldn’t be on any platform but then I long for my halcyon days wearing tinted sunglasses and flowers round the door

How old are you? Why does it need an explanation. I've been with my wonderful adorable husband for 40 years. Open relationship for most of that time based on honesty and trust.

Now rarely, we have been to saunas, or when one is out, the other, at home, enjoyed a session with no upset to either one of us.

It suits us.

I only love my husband and that will never falter. I couldn't love anyone else like that

What suits and works for one couple is different for another .

It appears that you may enjoy sex without being in a relationship as yet, so I don't see a problem. Good luck. "

He asked a question. I didn't see him offer a critique?

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By *anmannersMan
2 days ago

NG4

Whatever. !! No one is criticizing.

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By *anmannersMan
2 days ago

NG4


"This may be slightly controversial, but frankly I don’t care Isn’t this what the forums are here for to provoke debate and interesting conversation?

So this doesn’t happen so much on this platform, but that is maybe to do with the way it structured but it happens an awful lot on the platform with the mask begins with G the word you’re not allowed to say on here

So this is obviously very personal to me and I don’t really understand it but they’re quite a lot of couples guys in open relationships who are looking to meet. I get the whole having a 3rd to spice up what may will be becoming a dull sexual relationship but what I don’t get is guys in a couple or relationship who will meet separately like I said probably controversial but I don’t quite get the mindset that if you found somebody whether you’re going behind your partners back or not cause many do say partner on here (knows what I’m up to) so they’re pretty open about it but why do they want to fuck or be fucked by somebody else? Is it just sexual gratification.

On said platform I just block them if I was lucky enough to have a bf I wouldn’t be on any platform but then I long for my halcyon days wearing tinted sunglasses and flowers round the door

How old are you? Why does it need an explanation. I've been with my wonderful adorable husband for 40 years. Open relationship for most of that time based on honesty and trust.

Now rarely, we have been to saunas, or when one is out, the other, at home, enjoyed a session with no upset to either one of us.

It suits us.

I only love my husband and that will never falter. I couldn't love anyone else like that

What suits and works for one couple is different for another .

It appears that you may enjoy sex without being in a relationship as yet, so I don't see a problem. Good luck.

He asked a question. I didn't see him offer a critique? "

And I answered it without malice.

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By *arti G xTV/TS
2 days ago

Chandlers Ford

If was lucky enough to be in a relationship then would prefer it if partner was involved than to go behind their back, communication is key as they say

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By *teelballsMan
2 days ago

central london

I think, quite simply, loads of people just fancy something different in their life; whether it’s just occasionally or something more long term.

Pretty obviously an anonymous hook up site would tend to attract those looking for the occasional meet/play/go type of arrangement.

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By *ookingFor...Man
2 days ago

West Sussex

At a guess I'd say that sexually they're not completely satisfied.

If you're into something he is not, what do you do?

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By *lue555Man
2 days ago

harrow

Being with the same person for many years can get boring sometimes something new is exciting should be easy to understand.

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By *amie1402Man
2 days ago

Merseyside

It’s simple

All men are fundamentally promiscuous.

They are programmed that way biologically.

It’s the urge to spread their seed.

Those urges can be restrained by feelings and by social rules of course.

But the urge to have sex with others is always present, even if only in thought and never acted upon.

So some men - many men - break the rules.

There isn’t a man alive who has never thought about sex with a different partner

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By *oggoglasMan
2 days ago

Lincoln

For me it’s a no,if I’m not good enough sexually and emotionally they can fornicate off..plenty more fish in the proverbial sea

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By *ookingFor...Man
2 days ago

West Sussex


"For me it’s a no,if I’m not good enough sexually and emotionally they can fornicate off..plenty more fish in the proverbial sea "

But you'll only travel to a meet when your best mate is available?

Threesome?

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
2 days ago

London

True love is unconditional. My partner is not my possession. He is an individual, a person to be cherished, and set free to discover himself and to grow in confidence. I like him to have a great time and sex fun with other guys too because it is good for him - it is a path in search of oneself and grow more in confidence. To us , sex is not love because love takes a much longer time to develop. We agree an open sexual relationship or ethical polyamory and it works very well. Sometimes we play together with other guys and sometimes alone. Great fun. Good to enjoy sex with other guys too before we can't do it anymore. This is life really lived, truly human truly alive.

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
2 days ago

London


"True love is unconditional. My partner is not my possession. He is an individual, a person to be cherished, and set free to discover himself and to grow in confidence. I like him to have a great time and sex fun with other guys too because it is good for him - it is a path in search of oneself and grow more in confidence. To us , sex is not love because love takes a much longer time to develop. We agree an open sexual relationship or ethical polyamory and it works very well. Sometimes we play together with other guys and sometimes alone. Great fun. Good to enjoy sex with other guys too before we can't do it anymore. This is life really lived, truly human truly alive.

"

Sex is merely a biochemistry, a physical need, just like when one is hungry, one eats. My partner is allowed to try other food or other men. He doesn't need to have sex only with an East Asian guy like me. He can have sex with other guys too. I don't mind. Love takes a longer time to develop. If there is love, it will come back to us, no need sex to do that. Sex is just for play, fun, excitement, relaxation, self discovery and a therapy to develop self confidence. Man has his needs sexually too.

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By *ubguy2023 OP   Man
2 days ago

hyde


"Being with the same person for many years can get boring sometimes something new is exciting should be easy to understand. "

When I get bored of my car, I change it. What’s the difference?

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By *ubguy2023 OP   Man
2 days ago

hyde


"It’s simple

All men are fundamentally promiscuous.

They are programmed that way biologically.

It’s the urge to spread their seed.

Those urges can be restrained by feelings and by social rules of course.

But the urge to have sex with others is always present, even if only in thought and never acted upon.

So some men - many men - break the rules.

There isn’t a man alive who has never thought about sex with a different

partner

"

Yes, men are biologically born to procreate but that’s with a woman spreading your seed into a guy‘s arse. I guess it’s just the same age without the procreation.

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By *oggoglasMan
2 days ago

Lincoln


"For me it’s a no,if I’m not good enough sexually and emotionally they can fornicate off..plenty more fish in the proverbial sea

But you'll only travel to a meet when your best mate is available?

Threesome? "

The amount of people who message me that,he’s straight as a dye

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By *ookingFor...Man
2 days ago

West Sussex

Your straight best mate gives you lifts to meet guys?

Does he wait outside?

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By *oggoglasMan
2 days ago

Lincoln

No because I always aim for a more leisurely meet and not to far as I don’t want impose on his time.

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By *airFetishMan
2 days ago

Maldon


"This may be slightly controversial, but frankly I don’t care Isn’t this what the forums are here for to provoke debate and interesting conversation?

So this doesn’t happen so much on this platform, but that is maybe to do with the way it structured but it happens an awful lot on the platform with the mask begins with G the word you’re not allowed to say on here

So this is obviously very personal to me and I don’t really understand it but they’re quite a lot of couples guys in open relationships who are looking to meet. I get the whole having a 3rd to spice up what may will be becoming a dull sexual relationship but what I don’t get is guys in a couple or relationship who will meet separately like I said probably controversial but I don’t quite get the mindset that if you found somebody whether you’re going behind your partners back or not cause many do say partner on here (knows what I’m up to) so they’re pretty open about it but why do they want to fuck or be fucked by somebody else? Is it just sexual gratification.

On said platform I just block them if I was lucky enough to have a bf I wouldn’t be on any platform but then I long for my halcyon days wearing tinted sunglasses and flowers round the door "

It’s only an issue for those who assume that unlike every other activity that members of a couple engage in, that sex between them must be exclusive or they can’t really be in love.

I find this bizarre. It’s as though the assumption is that “we may have been together for years but if you touch another man’s cock you can’t love me and will leave me for him”.

Yes, it may become more than sex but a romantic attraction could start at weekly bell-ringing sessions!

Your question of why people want to fuck with someone other than their partner is incredibly naive. Does nobody fuck until they have a committed partner? No? Why would they wait given that a good fuck is so horny and feels absolutely amazing. That’s why people want to fuck anyone, partner or not.

To have sex to make babies and to ensure you knew who the father was you had to have monogamy. When you look at the breaking of monogamy by kings, queens, clergy and humans generally you wonder why the idea still has such a grip on the collective mind when so many seem to want to have sex elsewhere. What purpose does it serve?

I’d love to have group sex with my partner but he’s no longer interested in any sex except maybe once a year. So I go off to have it on my own. My first partner back in the 80s had sex on his own, as did I and we picked up others for group sex and it was great. That to me is the ideal way or polyamory but I’ve never experienced that.

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By *airFetishMan
2 days ago

Maldon


"True love is unconditional. My partner is not my possession. He is an individual, a person to be cherished, and set free to discover himself and to grow in confidence. I like him to have a great time and sex fun with other guys too because it is good for him - it is a path in search of oneself and grow more in confidence. To us , sex is not love because love takes a much longer time to develop. We agree an open sexual relationship or ethical polyamory and it works very well. Sometimes we play together with other guys and sometimes alone. Great fun. Good to enjoy sex with other guys too before we can't do it anymore. This is life really lived, truly human truly alive.

Sex is merely a biochemistry, a physical need, just like when one is hungry, one eats. My partner is allowed to try other food or other men. He doesn't need to have sex only with an East Asian guy like me. He can have sex with other guys too. I don't mind. Love takes a longer time to develop. If there is love, it will come back to us, no need sex to do that. Sex is just for play, fun, excitement, relaxation, self discovery and a therapy to develop self confidence. Man has his needs sexually too. "

That is such a lovely explanation and assertion.

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By *ubguy2023 OP   Man
2 days ago

hyde


"This may be slightly controversial, but frankly I don’t care Isn’t this what the forums are here for to provoke debate and interesting conversation?

So this doesn’t happen so much on this platform, but that is maybe to do with the way it structured but it happens an awful lot on the platform with the mask begins with G the word you’re not allowed to say on here

So this is obviously very personal to me and I don’t really understand it but they’re quite a lot of couples guys in open relationships who are looking to meet. I get the whole having a 3rd to spice up what may will be becoming a dull sexual relationship but what I don’t get is guys in a couple or relationship who will meet separately like I said probably controversial but I don’t quite get the mindset that if you found somebody whether you’re going behind your partners back or not cause many do say partner on here (knows what I’m up to) so they’re pretty open about it but why do they want to fuck or be fucked by somebody else? Is it just sexual gratification.

On said platform I just block them if I was lucky enough to have a bf I wouldn’t be on any platform but then I long for my halcyon days wearing tinted sunglasses and flowers round the door

It’s only an issue for those who assume that unlike every other activity that members of a couple engage in, that sex between them must be exclusive or they can’t really be in love.

I find this bizarre. It’s as though the assumption is that “we may have been together for years but if you touch another man’s cock you can’t love me and will leave me for him”.

Yes, it may become more than sex but a romantic attraction could start at weekly bell-ringing sessions!

Your question of why people want to fuck with someone other than their partner is incredibly naive. Does nobody fuck until they have a committed partner? No? Why would they wait given that a good fuck is so horny and feels absolutely amazing. That’s why people want to fuck anyone, partner or not.

To have sex to make babies and to ensure you knew who the father was you had to have monogamy. When you look at the breaking of monogamy by kings, queens, clergy and humans generally you wonder why the idea still has such a grip on the collective mind when so many seem to want to have sex elsewhere. What purpose does it serve?

I’d love to have group sex with my partner but he’s no longer interested in any sex except maybe once a year. So I go off to have it on my own. My first partner back in the 80s had sex on his own, as did I and we picked up others for group sex and it was great. That to me is the ideal way or polyamory but I’ve never experienced that. "

All I see is guys many many in loving relationships looking to fuck other guys on fuck sites

Does nobody fuck until in a committed relationship stupid statement of course they do my point which you seem to have taken personally and have singularly failed to grasp is

I fuck another guy whether my bf knows about it or not then come back climb into bed say I love you and cuddle

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By *aohiaochiaokengMan
2 days ago

London

Dear HairFetish,

Thank you too for liking my comment on open sexual relationship/ethical polyamory.

At first I was shy - that was 15 years ago. But after my Scottish partner invited me to have sex with his friends, I learn to love it.

It was nice to kiss, lick, suck and fucked by other guys while my partner watched or me watching him.

First time saw him being sucked by other guys made me spunked up twice, so horny !

My shyness disappeared and I feel freed, freed from my years of inhibitions, shyness and fear conditioned by my strict Christian upbringing. So, now I love my partner to have sex with other guys too. I don't want him to feel restrained or trapped by conventions or fear like me and wasted years of my life overcompensating and not really lived to the full.

Just let go in search of self, enjoy the company of people, great fun with friends and enjoy life together. Have fun and enjoy!

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
2 days ago

Bedford

Ive been married 54years always in an open marriage relationship open and ad honesty xxx

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By *amie1402Man
17 hours ago

Merseyside

As I said - there isn’t a man alive who hasn’t at least thought about having sex with a different person.

Straight, gay or bi. All have.

Question should be why do some men actually do it and others refrain.

Probable answer is because they can. Or think they can.

Why does a dog lick its dick - same answer. Because it can.

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By *andomguy321Man
17 hours ago

reading


"Why does a dog lick its dick - same answer. Because it can. "

'Dogs lick their genitals primarily as a form of self-grooming to keep the area clean, similar to how they lick other parts of their body; however, excessive licking can be a sign of a medical issue like a urinary tract infection, allergies, yeast infection, or impacted anal glands, and should prompt a visit to the vet'

(Yea, I Googled it)

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By *rslimMan
15 hours ago

paris

My wife and I make love. She has sex with others for fun. Works great for us

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
14 hours ago

Bargoed

We have been together for 34 years and have always enjoyed to company of others. We've been to sauna and clubs with dark rooms and each go for a wander and have fun.

Due to a recent change in circumstances I'm now home alone more whilst the hubby is away with work, sometimes for a week or two at a time.

He's happy for me to have fun by myself as long as I tell him afterwards, even better if the other person allows pics to be taken of our encounter. Hubby enjoys hearing what fun I've been up to and gets off on seeing the pics.

As others have said, we make love, but enjoy sex with other guys. There is never any emotional attachment as its just a release and pure sex.

Understand that it doesn't work for everyone, but it works for us. We have always been open and honest. But have spoken to plenty of others who don't tell thier partners, for whatever reason, it's not my place to judge.

If it works it works, if not then don't do it.

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By *owzerMan
12 hours ago

Chester.....


"This may be slightly controversial, but frankly I don’t care Isn’t this what the forums are here for to provoke debate and interesting conversation?

So this doesn’t happen so much on this platform, but that is maybe to do with the way it structured but it happens an awful lot on the platform with the mask begins with G the word you’re not allowed to say on here

So this is obviously very personal to me and I don’t really understand it but they’re quite a lot of couples guys in open relationships who are looking to meet. I get the whole having a 3rd to spice up what may will be becoming a dull sexual relationship but what I don’t get is guys in a couple or relationship who will meet separately like I said probably controversial but I don’t quite get the mindset that if you found somebody whether you’re going behind your partners back or not cause many do say partner on here (knows what I’m up to) so they’re pretty open about it but why do they want to fuck or be fucked by somebody else? Is it just sexual gratification.

On said platform I just block them if I was lucky enough to have a bf I wouldn’t be on any platform but then I long for my halcyon days wearing tinted sunglasses and flowers round the door "

FOMO

Gotta poke 'em all

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By *amie1402Man
10 hours ago

Merseyside


"Why does a dog lick its dick - same answer. Because it can.

'Dogs lick their genitals primarily as a form of self-grooming to keep the area clean, similar to how they lick other parts of their body; however, excessive licking can be a sign of a medical issue like a urinary tract infection, allergies, yeast infection, or impacted anal glands, and should prompt a visit to the vet'

(Yea, I Googled it) "

Might have know some boring smartarse would give the medically correct answer not the humorous one.

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By *ara JevoTV/TS
9 hours ago

Bristol East

That’s right. If you are male, it’s quite easy to separate sex from love ❤️

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By *tar33Man
8 hours ago

North London (outer)


"Why does a dog lick its dick - same answer. Because it can.

'Dogs lick their genitals primarily as a form of self-grooming to keep the area clean, similar to how they lick other parts of their body; however, excessive licking can be a sign of a medical issue like a urinary tract infection, allergies, yeast infection, or impacted anal glands, and should prompt a visit to the vet'

(Yea, I Googled it)

Might have know some boring smartarse would give the medically correct answer not the humorous one. "

Speak for yourself, many of us don't find education boring.

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By *exborough Bi-GuyMan
8 hours ago

Mexborough


"I can be emotionally attached to someone, and have no problem with them having sex with someone else, because I know it is always me they will be waking up with.

So no jealousy that that guy will be a better fuck?

The what if he fancies him more etc

Does letting someone go in this case to fuck around mean that they’ll always return metaphorically?"

The first and most important law of swinging is that jealousy is toxic and will kill a relationship.

I've been swinging for years and had no problem with make and female partners fucking other people.

In fact, more often than not they'd come home and tell me about it and we'd have a bloody good session.

The same applied if it was me meeting somebody.

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By *ranslover64Man
8 hours ago

Doncaster

Quite early in our marriage the wife asked me if all women taste the same, she told me she’d had a d*unken snog with a lesbian friend before we met but didn’t go further, after a bit of chatting she admitted she regretted not taking it further with her friend, I said if she wanted to try it then I wouldn’t mind, what guy wouldn’t, she said she didn’t want a threesome so that put me in my place, long story short she slept with 4 different women, I was only there for one of those along with the other women’s husband, we could only watch them join our respective partners, I must admit I was worried that my wife may decide she preferred the fairer sex over me, but she reassured me she loved me and wouldn’t be going anywhere, within a year she’d got it out of her system, when I questioned it she said the last GF she had wanted far more than she was willing to give, I tried to encourage her to carry on if she wished but to no avail.

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