
| Back to forum list |
| Back to The Lounge |
| Jump to newest |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Lack of sleep. " | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Whats it like ? Never done it before and im nervous about it " Burps, farts and snoring. That is all. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I am always happy, if a guy wants to stay with me, overnight. But, not getting any meets at the moment. I can accom in Edinburgh. Prefer younger, smooth guys." You're in yours 80s and want guys half your age... | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"It's great right up until he falls asleep before you do and starts snoring." 😂 That's so true | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Used to go regularly to Blackpool with a guy from up here. Went three or four times a year, had a room in a nice hotel and all the sex we wanted. Worked well until he met a guy from Wales in one of the saunas. 6 months later my pal moved 200 miles to live with the guy. Haven't shared an overnight since although I still go to Blackpool" 🕯️ | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Whats it like ? Never done it before and im nervous about it " Wouldn't you think that it's down to who you are, who they are, how much you know each other, and where you stay? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Whats it like ? Never done it before and im nervous about it " How come ? You registered yourself here perfectly as a gay/bi man . | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Double Tent in the Morning. First one awake, sucks the other one awake." Great idea. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Don't expect a restful night. Sleep deprivation will hit you at some point the next day. I love waking up with the guy whom I fell asleep with when he was fucking me. Morning sex is even better than the sex the night before." Every second Friday for me currently, still looking for another Friday night guy, totally agree with you the Saturday early 'morning glory' sex is wonderful. Mx | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Double Tent in the Morning. First one awake, sucks the other one awake." Perfect | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"One of the best overnighters I experienced was when we'd had great sex and I'd been fucked, then after sleeping for a while I was woken by him slipping his cock back in me. So we had sex again then went back to sleep until the morning when he had me on his kitchen table. I'd love that ! Would love to be woken up to be ficked - still stretched and lubed from the last fucking | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"When you look like you've been dragged through a hedge backwards, and he still wants to fuck you, I'd say he's a keeper | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Whats it like ? Never done it before and im nervous about it Burps, farts and snoring. That is all. " Totally agree , we all do it whether it's just a one-night stand or for something more regular. However , just try to have a lot of fun together , and find out each other's likes , have fun discovering each other . | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I stayed overnight in a hotel with the man who opened my bisexuality. We didn't sleep very much. Sadly it was the last time we had sex; it lasted a summer. " Ah, the memories. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I stayed overnight in a hotel with the man who opened my bisexuality. We didn't sleep very much. Sadly it was the last time we had sex; it lasted a summer. Ah, the memories. Very good ones. Would love to make new ones. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Waking up sandwiched between two big cuddly hairy bears, sharing a morning shower, staying naked for a nice relaxing breakfast before having another all-day session. yum. " . Mmkm | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Dennis Nilson..... I used to go to the Soho pub where he picked guys up around that time waiting for my boyfriend. My mother warned me about strangers and luckily he wasnt my type. I've had a few stay over and yes get up early to shave and freshen up before them then snuggle up again. Its risky if you dont know and trust the guy these days. You might not wake up at all or wake up and find your wallet and keys gone. Happy memories. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Whats it like ? Never done it before and im nervous about it Burps, farts and snoring. That is all. " Lol, a real answer. Yes, sleeping over with a man is exactly as you would imagine. Open a window...lol Boners will probably happen, they'll let you know by pressing against you or you to them. Make good use of the morning boner | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Whats it like ? Never done it before and im nervous about it Burps, farts and snoring. That is all. Lol, a real answer. Yes, sleeping over with a man is exactly as you would imagine. Open a window...lol Boners will probably happen, they'll let you know by pressing against you or you to them. Make good use of the morning boner Slept over at a guys once he was pressing his boner into my bum as we lay, I wasn't interested in him though so I just shook him my bum away from and went to sleep. Was that rude seeing as I was sleeping over? Or was I right to not reciprocate as I didnt fancy him? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"First time is always a little nervous I’ve never slept with someone who I wasn’t in a relationship with. But sleeping with someone you have that connection with is wonderful. I love waking up and if you’re not already cuddling- reaching over to find them. Then you cuddle up. Even better is waking up with their arms around you, their dick growing hard between your arse cheeks and for me, feeling the wiry rub of their body hair against my back. " So well put- and what so many of us crave | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Whats it like ? Never done it before and im nervous about it Burps, farts and snoring. That is all. Lol, a real answer. Yes, sleeping over with a man is exactly as you would imagine. Open a window...lol Boners will probably happen, they'll let you know by pressing against you or you to them. Make good use of the morning boner No it wasn't rude. Consent is important. He took a shot and you said no. It was a simple exchange, no harm done. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I will always remember my first overnighter. I was only a few months into being out to myself and had had about ten meets - mostly one offs but a few repeats. They had all been sessions where we met and got down to the fucking. This guy’s profile said he was demisexual and stupidly I assumed that meant bi. Turns out it means he can only get aroused if he curbs a connection. I went to his assuming I’d be in the nude in seconds and in him in a few seconds more. Rather I was seated at a table for a candlelit dinner. About an hour and a half, three courses and two bottles of wine later he had forged his required connection. We went upstairs and played and like the rest of the evening, it was a long slow but exciting session. By the stage we finished, it was late and he suggested I stay as it was too late to get a train. We snuggled in and slept. At 3:30, I was woken up by a hand in my dick. It responded before I fully woke up and I had no objection to my host having another roll in the hay. We dozed afterwards and my phone alarm went off at about 7:30 - plenty of time to be at work for 9. I was happy that I work in a hospital and keep my uniforms there so no need to go home first. I was late for work. You can guess why. " Thank you for that story. I dislike how many labels are thrown around in our community. Tbh, demisexual or pansexual would probably suit me best as I prefer to have a connection. I just enjoy sex so much better if there's a bit of trust. I just mean, a quick chat or a coffee, or meet a few times for milder fun first and build to something bigger. People understand what bisexual means so it's just simpler to say that even if it's not entirely accurate. I have a theory about sex and the hookup culture. That men and women but men particularly, have needs. They try to satisfy those needs and they think sex is the answer. So they screw anything that moves and it never scratches that itch. And , Its my opinion that the need they are missing, that they are not meeting is "intimacy". A quick fuck or suck doesn't necessarily meet your intimacy needs and there is a big difference between both needs for intimacy and sex. Especially if you're relationship is broken down at home. By all means - you can meet your intimacy needs without it being sexual at all. Sleeping over with another man is a great place to start lol. And of course , you can "slip in" some fun too, pardon the pun | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I met this guy on another platform months ago and fancied the pants off him straight away. We started chatting on Facebook about meeting up. He lives 230 miles away. I invited him to come visit, agreed to split the costs. I'm still wondering if this is a wild good chase. All the way up until the moment he walked through my door on Tuesday afternoon. Wow | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Spent the night with a guy just once so far. A guy I had met a number of times, always passionate and affectionate time together. He had fucked me sometimes on our two hour meetings. The overnight was different, we both wanted extended foreplay so decided not to fuck. A night of cuddling, stroking, kissing and exploration, plenty of cock sucking and even fell asleep during a 69 at one point. It continued when we woke, morning wood needed felling, then a long shower together. Fantastic night. The fucking resumed on the next daytime meet, but that night was for real, close, sharing of each other." How fab | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Don't expect a restful night. Sleep deprivation will hit you at some point the next day. I love waking up with the guy whom I fell asleep with when he was fucking me. Morning sex is even better than the sex the night before." You fell asleep while he was fucking you ? Big him up why don’t ya….. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"If its with right guy you'll have incredible time. First time I woke up in middle of night and he was hard again and in morning he was hard again we where just taking naps in between the sex" That's the best thing. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Why do guys do that rob the people they fuck" That's why I no longer accommodate. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I did it once, years ago. I’d swapped numbers with a guy from gaydar, had no idea what he looked like (camera phones weren’t a big thing back then), all I knew was he was hung, hairy and 20+ years older than me and I’d gone out for a few beers one Sunday afternoon. The more I drank, the hornier our texts got and before I knew it, I was staggering home and his car pulled up along side me. I remember getting back to his, I remember snogging and groping him in the living room and then the next thing I remember is waking up very naked in his bed, his hairy arm over me and his hard cock twitching against my arse. When he realised I was awake he asked if I was ok, I said I was and he started kissing my neck and playing with my nipples, I was grinding on his cock and before I knew it, he was sliding into my arse. We spooned for ages and he came deep in me. We laid there for a bit and chatted and dozed and then I woke up as he started fucking me a second time. It was only as he came in me again that I realised I still had no idea what he looked like! He turned out to be an alright guy and we met a few times after that " | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Better hope they don’t snore " Easy cure for that ,just agree with them at the outset that if they start to snore they're ok for you to gently slip your cock inside them , that generally works .. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I love to wake up with a nice warm body cuddled up behind me, their arm over me, feeling the warmth of their breath on the back of my neck. Trouble is it has been a long time now since it last happened and I do miss it." I'd love to have that intimacy agian. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I love to wake up with a nice warm body cuddled up behind me, their arm over me, feeling the warmth of their breath on the back of my neck. Trouble is it has been a long time now since it last happened and I do miss it." Nice | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Post new Message to Thread |
| back to top |