FabGuys.com forum: Isn't this a site for Gay Guys?

By *androverman OP Man
over a year ago

Burton upon Trent

The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?

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By *arla999Man
over a year ago

glasgow

I agree with you, I'd love this site to be exclusively gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel it is for guys who like guys. And those who like cds too. After all. A cd is a guy and possibly gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *en22Man
over a year ago

renfrew

Agree with you. Sexuality is a spectrum, but anyone on here is interested in men,whether they care to admit it or not.

Those with a fetish for their wives underwear are hoping to turn men on.

Those who dress in traditionally what is classed as women's clothes because they like it, for whatever reason, are also wanting sex with men.

Genuine trans women however are different. Post or pre op, they are looking for men, albeit possibly bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s fabguys. Not

“Fabguys that are gay and only want other gay men “

I love men

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By *adame BootsTV/TS
over a year ago

Tetbury

Always surprised by the "wife talk" on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always surprised by the "wife talk" on here.

Have you read the "husband talk"?

Over on Mumsnet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well, so much for inclusivity eh?

Anyway, what about the trans community on here? Where does it leave them?

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By *ick1961Man
over a year ago

near herne bay....ish

Not this again.

Yawn !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree over the years I’ve been a member on and off it is less gay if that’s the politically correct thing to say

It is a wide spectrum but isn’t fabswingers made for that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always surprised by the "wife talk" on here.

Have you read the "husband talk"?

Over on Mumsnet.

Isn't Mumsnet also known as the 'House of Karen's'? 😂

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By *it old manMan
over a year ago

Havant

I'm hetero, but I happen to enjoy being fucked an sucking cock. I quite enjoy kissing as well. So what is my pronoun?

I think I'll stick to "he", after all it is the beginning of hedonism.

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By *evinmanMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?"

I agree with you 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally there are a lot of married gay or bi guys on here,so if your bi you like guys and girls,im bi and married but much prefer sex with guys,but stop trying to claim fabguys as an exclusively gay site

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By *ublinBottomGuyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

The public forums seem far more focused on breast sizes, celebrity women you want to shag and also make misogynistic comments about, panties, bras, wives, cuckolds ,dressing.

If anyone mentions a dick they're probably only trying to force another rant about Keir Starmer into an irrelevant thread.

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By *ondon RimmerMan
over a year ago

Islington

Unlike most sites for meeting guys, this one is very heavily populated by bi and married guys.

Shame there's no separate forum for all the hetty stuff, but it is what it is, no point complaining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?"

You are absolutely not the only one thinking this

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By *0yguyMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Personally there are a lot of married gay or bi guys on here,so if your bi you like guys and girls,im bi and married but much prefer sex with guys,but stop trying to claim fabguys as an exclusively gay site"

If you are “married gay or bi guy on here” and you like guys and women, but much prefer sex with guys, why go on about women on this site?

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By *tr8m8bfastMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Always surprised by the "wife talk" on here.

Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unlike most sites for meeting guys, this one is very heavily populated by bi and married guys.

Shame there's no separate forum for all the hetty stuff, but it is what it is, no point complaining."

Nothing wrong with us bi married men,im here for cock and sex with guys,is that not wot your here for

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By *amie1402Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I'm hetero, but I happen to enjoy being fucked an sucking cock. I quite enjoy kissing as well. So what is my pronoun?

I think I'll stick to "he", after all it is the beginning of hedonism."

How can you be hetero if you like cock ?

Get real.

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By *tr8m8bfastMan
over a year ago

belfast

"Not this again.

Yawn !"

Awk sure it's a couple of days since the last one whinged.

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By *tr8m8bfastMan
over a year ago

belfast

"I'm hetero, but I happen to enjoy being fucked an sucking cock. I quite enjoy kissing as well. So what is my pronoun?

I think I'll stick to "he", after all it is the beginning of hedonism.

How can you be hetero if you like cock ?

Get real. "

Lol. I love it when they can't admit what they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm hetero, but I happen to enjoy being fucked an sucking cock. I quite enjoy kissing as well. So what is my pronoun?

I think I'll stick to "he", after all it is the beginning of hedonism.

How can you be hetero if you like cock ?

Get real.

Lol. I love it when they can't admit what they are. "

Whats there to admit,you can like both you no

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By *ichey6Man
over a year ago

aberdeen

"I'm hetero, but I happen to enjoy being fucked an sucking cock. I quite enjoy kissing as well. So what is my pronoun?

I think I'll stick to "he", after all it is the beginning of hedonism.

How can you be hetero if you like cock ?

Get real. "

...

👍

Fake Tough Guys immersed in denial. They just don't have the strength of character to get real...

The obfuscation they offer is best viewed as comedy.

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By *tr8m8bfastMan
over a year ago

belfast

"I'm hetero, but I happen to enjoy being fucked an sucking cock. I quite enjoy kissing as well. So what is my pronoun?

I think I'll stick to "he", after all it is the beginning of hedonism.

How can you be hetero if you like cock ?

Get real.

Lol. I love it when they can't admit what they are.

Whats there to admit,you can like both you no"

But you're not fucking hetero if you do.

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

Fabguys is a pickup joint for men who want to have either a BJ, wank or full anal sex with men, non heterosexual men can also have fun with either 'men or women and other persuasion s' and discuss them too it's a spectrum and very very good for all, diversity, ethnicity and inclusion, best sex ever here if you are patient and know what you are looking for. Mx

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By *it old manMan
over a year ago

Havant

I admit what I am. I'm polyawxual, and that doesn't mean I fancy parrots. However, I do draw the line at vegetables. I tried a hollowed out marrow once, but it gave me the pip.

When reading some of my posts you could think "Is that a cock in his cheek, no I think its his tongue".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the world isn’t divided and polarised enough, we need this?

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By *ick1961Man
over a year ago

near herne bay....ish

Not this again.

Yawn !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a site for guys who like guys.

That covers every guy imo, gay, but, curious, in denial...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not but, bi lol

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By *ick1961Man
over a year ago

near herne bay....ish

Oops I posted this twice !

Doh !

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By *it old manMan
over a year ago

Havant

"Not this again.

Yawn !"

Hey, it's a good thread to play in. Life is too serious to be serious.

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By *exmachineCouple (MM)
over a year ago

kent

Personally I don’t mind whatever status men have, it’s the chat about their wives, etc. that I find slightly too much!

I think, and this is just my honest opinion, that this forum for GAY guys is the reason why most of us are on here. We have a need for interaction with and to be excited by things men enjoy sexually with other men! No offence intended.

Is the Fab swingers forum not more appropriate for a more mixed friendly group? I’m sure most men mean well, but it is becoming much…

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By *ublinBottomGuyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do see posts about trans or xdressers and the like.Im not into any of that stuff so I just dont read them.But i dont get offended that theyre there.Why does it bother you when you have the choice to scroll down?

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?"

I get your point but it's the men that come here from there so they can have sex with people like you and I , whether dressed, gay,bi or whatever it's just sex talk, where is the harm. Mx

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By *luvnylonstockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

portsmouth

Im a bi married tv ,i love to be fucked and suck cock but also love women ,but out of respect for the site and patrons i would never discuss women,wife etc on here ,thats for swingers .

When i go to the local sauna dressed ,non admirers accept me and respect what i like ,so i respect that gay guys arnt intrested in women talk.same here .

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By *LASGOW 60s GUYMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Always surprised by the "wife talk" on here.

Why?"

Because we are here to meet guys. Those of us who are gay, out or not, have no interest in hearing about anyone's wife/gf. If you want to chat about women there may be better places where we gay guys won't be around to complain

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

"Im a bi married tv ,i love to be fucked and suck cock but also love women ,but out of respect for the site and patrons i would never discuss women,wife etc on here ,thats for swingers .

When i go to the local sauna dressed ,non admirers accept me and respect what i like ,so i respect that gay guys arnt intrested in women talk.same here .

I take your point, but the reality is this website is not exclusive to gay guys , just as fabswingers is definitely not exclusive to swinging couples. The spectrum is what is being discussed and is all inclusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still can't see the issue. Just don't read the threads that don't interest you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?

You are absolutely not the only one thinking this"

He isn’t and you obviously haven’t read the forum

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By *en22Man
over a year ago

renfrew

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?

I get your point but it's the men that come here from there so they can have sex with people like you and I , whether dressed, gay,bi or whatever it's just sex talk, where is the harm. Mx

I get your point, but those who have sex with you, are having sex with a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?"

But there's gay guys and girls on Fabswingers too. Are you saying they shouldn't be allowed on there?

I'm a member of both but so what?

And if people don't like a thread, just scroll past it rather than trying to police it.

There's more than enough judgementalism in our lives as it is, do we really want it here too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?

But there's gay guys and girls on Fabswingers too. Are you saying they shouldn't be allowed on there?

I'm a member of both but so what?

And if people don't like a thread, just scroll past it rather than trying to police it.

There's more than enough judgementalism in our lives as it is, do we really want it here too?"

Says the guy who didn’t take his own advice and spool past the forum and gives his opinion trying to police it don’t you love it 🥰

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By *3versMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?"

Because women would not stand for the way they are talked about on here, the chat would be quickly closed down by them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wife chat with other bisexual married guys, can be a lot of horny fun.

Gay guys need not apply

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?

I get your point but it's the men that come here from there so they can have sex with people like you and I , whether dressed, gay,bi or whatever it's just sex talk, where is the harm. Mx

I get your point, but those who have sex with you, are having sex with a man."

Erm yes I never said they were not!? it's just that I am not a gay man they're having sex with is the point I was making that you have failed to grasp.

The spectrum is for all and can and should be accommodated , inclusion is what this is all about and a space for men to be men . Mx

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By *hubsloverMan
over a year ago

East/west sussex

Don’t understand why is so hard for some people to respect and understand other people choices, imagine this site was only for gay guys , you would be moaning again how boring this site is , I had sex with bi guys more than gay guys on here x

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By *lackbootzMan
over a year ago

Hayes, Middx

" … it is what it is, no point complaining."

These are the wisest words on the subject.

Because such a wide spectrum use this site, I have met some fantastic bi and married guys I possibly wouldn’t have on a bog standard gay hook up site.

Because people with different tastes inhabit the site, I also have to navigate past guys who want me to wank over their wife’s knickers or fuck their girlfriend (I’m not into women) or truckers in cheap acrylic wigs who look like my late godmother.

It is not beyond the wit of man to sift past what doesn’t interest you and look for what does. We all have to do that anyway whatever our sexuality or preferences. Having such a big tizzy about it suggests poor sifting techniques…

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By *hubsloverMan
over a year ago

East/west sussex

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By *hubsloverMan
over a year ago

East/west sussex

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?

Because women would not stand for the way they are talked about on here, the chat would be quickly closed down by them"

You absolutely right , they dominate the site and the majority of them hate the bi guys.

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By *hrisUKMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm bi but I could do without most of the tit talk on here; much of it sounds very sad and misogynistic. If it has to exist, FG could at least set aside a forum topic/space for this type of chat.

Interesting that the 'Lounge' url shows as 'https://m.fabguys.com/forum/gay-lounge'... that's gay lounge folks... a lot of the chat in the lounge is anything but gay. Quite a few videos, and pics, of male/female couples having sex on here these days too. I come here for cock.

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By *ublinBottomGuyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?

But there's gay guys and girls on Fabswingers too. Are you saying they shouldn't be allowed on there?

I'm a member of both but so what?

And if people don't like a thread, just scroll past it rather than trying to police it.

There's more than enough judgementalism in our lives as it is, do we really want it here too?"

No I'm not saying they shouldn't be allowed, FFS. That tactic of suggesting that a contrary opinion is the same as saying something isn't allowed is actually tiresome as the closest cased tits chat here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If female appearance was so unacceptable to many on here why is it the tgirls on here get plenty of meets...?

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By *ublinBottomGuyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?

Because women would not stand for the way they are talked about on here, the chat would be quickly closed down by them

You absolutely right , they dominate the site and the majority of them hate the bi guys. "

If the bi guys are as misogynistic there as many of the men on here are I can't blame them.

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By *3versMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"If female appearance was so unacceptable to many on here why is it the tgirls on here get plenty of meets...?"

Female appearance is debatable

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By *ublinBottomGuyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"If female appearance was so unacceptable to many on here why is it the tgirls on here get plenty of meets...?"

Who's said that? No one has said that the "female appearance" is "unacceptable". They just get bored of all the "wife's out, knickers on, cock out" threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is what the site was created for: guys who have sex with guys.

That is the definition of a gay guy.

If you are bi, you come here to embrace the gay aide of your sexuality, not the hetero side of your sexuality.

Leave the wife/gf talk for fabswingers.

And if you look at the sign-in page of fabguys, it does brand itself as a site for gay guys.

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By *hrisUKMan
over a year ago

Leicester

And if you look at the sign-in page of fabguys, it does brand itself as a site for gay guys. "

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By *ammy aka SammyTV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?"
its called fabguys. Com not fabgays. The forum is only a small part of the site, and as it's an open forum all men are welcome regardless of how they dress ,You can actually be gay and wear a dress didja know xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone who has met another guy on here was to claim he wasn’t gay he would get told very quickly that he was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is what the site was created for: guys who have sex with guys.

That is the definition of a gay guy.

If you are bi, you come here to embrace the gay aide of your sexuality, not the hetero side of your sexuality.

Leave the wife/gf talk for fabswingers.

And if you look at the sign-in page of fabguys, it does brand itself as a site for gay guys. "

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By *3versMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"If anyone who has met another guy on here was to claim he wasn’t gay he would get told very quickly that he was. "

Nah, it's the ones who claim to be straight

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By *oosterladMan
over a year ago

ipswich

It's a site for cock lovers. Doesnt matter what your other interests or commitments are you're here for cock and welcome. We dont need to hear about tits fannies wives girlfriends etc. Leave them at home, you're here to enjoy cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If female appearance was so unacceptable to many on here why is it the tgirls on here get plenty of meets...?

Female appearance is debatable "

Drag queen's are more feminine that most of the trannies on here

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By *amie1402Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

"If female appearance was so unacceptable to many on here why is it the tgirls on here get plenty of meets...?

Female appearance is debatable

Drag queen's are more feminine that most of the trannies on here"

You’re obviously looking at the wrong ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If anyone who has met another guy on here was to claim he wasn’t gay he would get told very quickly that he was.

Nah, it's the ones who claim to be straight"

Point is plenty on here would soon tell them they were gay, whatever they called themselves.

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By *amie1402Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Why do so many gay guys hate the TVs ?

I reckon it’s because they think the TVs are stealing their men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?

But there's gay guys and girls on Fabswingers too. Are you saying they shouldn't be allowed on there?

I'm a member of both but so what?

And if people don't like a thread, just scroll past it rather than trying to police it.

There's more than enough judgementalism in our lives as it is, do we really want it here too?

Says the guy who didn’t take his own advice and spool past the forum and gives his opinion trying to police it don’t you love it 🥰 "

I don't see how discussing the merits or otherwise of forum inclusivity amounts to "policing". In fact it's exactly the opposite because I'm not one of those people suggesting that people with certain sexualities shouldn't be allowed on the site.

I don't like elitism in any form. It's toxic and divisive but as far as I can see that's exactly what's being suggested by some on this thread.

That's policing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting how, despite this site barely changing in all the time virtually everyone has been on here, some think that it should actually be all about what they want.

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By *lverston GuyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *ublinBottomGuyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Why do so many gay guys hate the TVs ?

I reckon it’s because they think the TVs are stealing their men. "

Who said anything about hating TVs? Not seen that even mentioned.

The sort of guy who chooses a guy in women's clothing instead isn't a guy I'd be too worried about losing out on.

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By *ublinBottomGuyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?

But there's gay guys and girls on Fabswingers too. Are you saying they shouldn't be allowed on there?

I'm a member of both but so what?

And if people don't like a thread, just scroll past it rather than trying to police it.

There's more than enough judgementalism in our lives as it is, do we really want it here too?

Says the guy who didn’t take his own advice and spool past the forum and gives his opinion trying to police it don’t you love it 🥰

I don't like elitism in any form. It's toxic and divisive but as far as I can see that's exactly what's being suggested by some on this thread.

That's policing!"

no one has said any group shouldn't be allowed, but keep repeating that. Maybe someone else will believe it other than you.

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By *lverston GuyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?"

Totally agree with you! Well put!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder if some of the proper gay men on here went into a proper gay men bar and saw TVs or women in there ,would they walk out...or perhaps complain to the barman that the bar was for proper gay men only......

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By *astguy7Man
over a year ago

Herefordshire

Nothing against bi guys or cds. It's the "sniff my step daughters panties" that pisses me off. Far too much of that on here.

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

"Always surprised by the "wife talk" on here.

Have you read the "husband talk"?

Over on Mumsnet.

It's a veritable feast of 'husband out, finger in vag' and 'who wants to finger bang me whilst I sniff their bf's boxers?' threads!

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

"Oh well, so much for inclusivity eh?

Anyway, what about the trans community on here? Where does it leave them?"

The trans community on here?

All three of them!

Mace was genuinely trans and in terms of forum posters was the only one I can think of who posted here. There maybe a few more who just peruse the profiles, but numbers are few I reckon.

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

"If female appearance was so unacceptable to many on here why is it the tgirls on here get plenty of meets...?"

Female appearance?

Truckers in frilly knickers caked in blood red lipstick are not very feminine.

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?"

Perving over Holly Willoughby and all that stuff would be seen as mysogynistic and predatory. Doubt even the real slutty ladies on fabswingers.com want to read about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If female appearance was so unacceptable to many on here why is it the tgirls on here get plenty of meets...?

Female appearance is debatable

Drag queen's are more feminine that most of the trannies on here

I tend not to look at trannies on here thnx, quite off putting.

You’re obviously looking at the wrong ones "

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By *oodpeckerMan
over a year ago

Falkirk

"Why do so many gay guys hate the TVs ?

I reckon it’s because they think the TVs are stealing their men.

Who said anything about hating TVs? Not seen that even mentioned.

The sort of guy who chooses a guy in women's clothing instead isn't a guy I'd be too worried about losing out on."

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By *hubsloverMan
over a year ago

East/west sussex

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?

Because women would not stand for the way they are talked about on here, the chat would be quickly closed down by them

You absolutely right , they dominate the site and the majority of them hate the bi guys.

If the bi guys are as misogynistic there as many of the men on here are I can't blame them. "
The reason they hate bi men because the straight men spoiled them and nothing else. Simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do so many gay guys hate the TVs ?

I reckon it’s because they think the TVs are stealing their men. "

The gay guys I've discussed the subject with would say they don't hate TVs they are just not attracted to them in any way.

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By *onmar01Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Bargoed

"I agree with you, I'd love this site to be exclusively gay"

Yep. Too many guys who enjoy womens clothing, each to thier own, just not for me sorry. I want any hook ups to be with a man.

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By *irralblokeMan
over a year ago

wallasey

Is there somebody with a gun who forces people to read every thread posted?

Some people aren't happy unless they are moaning about something.

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By *ames canMan
over a year ago

monaghan

"Always surprised by the "wife talk" on here.

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...you don't have to read it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If female appearance was so unacceptable to many on here why is it the tgirls on here get plenty of meets...?

Female appearance is debatable "

Ouch!

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By *ttmn1Man
over a year ago

Shoreditch- east London

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?"

What about the FtM trans community who identify as a gay male? Where would u suggest they go?

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By *lackbootzMan
over a year ago

Hayes, Middx

" … Perving over Holly Willoughby and all that stuff would be seen as mysogynistic and predatory… "

Holly Willoughbooby!!!!

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By *iExCuckMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Always makes me laugh seeing these type of Forum posts.

Fabguys is a site for Gay and Bisexual men. So you will get all types of sexual interest here. The one common thing in the Forums is the Forum Title. Just read the Title and choose to either join in or skip over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think if it was soley for gay guys there would be less timewasters and fakes ???

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By *androverman OP Man
over a year ago

Burton upon Trent

"Personally I don’t mind whatever status men have, it’s the chat about their wives, etc. that I find slightly too much!

Is the Fab swingers forum not more appropriate for a more mixed friendly group? I’m sure most men mean well, but it is becoming much…

Thanks for the interesting discussion guys and there's some great comments, it's good to chat about it.

The quote above sums up a lot of what I was thinking about with the kind of things being posted in the forums. As many suggest, I do already try to edit out the "sniffing my step daughters panties" and similar posts, but I find post titles are often so ambiguous you don't know what you are going to find, so it's difficult to avoid at times.

I just didn't understand why there was so much of it on here, when there's a great site over at swingers for such things.

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
over a year ago

Heathrow

We are all men looking for cock doesn't matter how you dress it up

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

"Personally I don’t mind whatever status men have, it’s the chat about their wives, etc. that I find slightly too much!

Is the Fab swingers forum not more appropriate for a more mixed friendly group? I’m sure most men mean well, but it is becoming much…

Thanks for the interesting discussion guys and there's some great comments, it's good to chat about it.

I just didn't understand why there was so much of it on here, when there's a great site over at swingers for such things."

Because the men from swinger's come on here to get guys for sex away from the women's prying eyes is my experience. And long may it continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Approximately half of the messages I've had over on Fab Swingers have been from straight men...

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By *airythighs61Man
over a year ago

North Norfolk

So agree with you ...far too many men wearing their wife's knickers ... what's all that about ?

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

"Approximately half of the messages I've had over on Fab Swingers have been from straight men..."

Only half?!

😂😂😂😂

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are “married gay or bi guy on here” and you like guys and women, but much prefer sex with guys, why go on about women on this site?"

I dont go on about women on here,but im bi so it dosnt bother me if guys do mention women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So agree with you ...far too many men wearing their wife's knickers ... what's all that about ? "

I dont wear my wifes knickers,i have my own stash of lingerie,but that is my preference,just as im sure you have your preference,but im not asking what thats about,just enjoy what you enjoy and not worry about others

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By *treyu500Man
over a year ago

wickow

It is a site for gay/bi/other men.

This topic is getting a bit tired. The solution is for the moderators and site owners to give a seperate section for wife/women talk and for the cds/admirers.

It overtaking the theme of the website which is men liking men. That's just a fact.

Fabswingers is there to talk about wives and women. As a bi man, I use that. I come here for all things men - cocks, ass, armpits and everything in between.

As for crossdressing. It's got nothing to do with being gay, bi or straight. It's a fetish. End of story. Clothes don't have anything to do with sexuality. If you think being a "sissy slut" or whatever is a gay/bi thing, that's great for you but,but I'm sure you can imagine it's completely irrelevant to most of us and probably offensive to some (which is their issue I suppose).

Maybe some people associate dressing in feminine underwear a gay thing. It's really not. If that's how they want to express themselves , great for them.

It is frustrating to have to sift though all the women and cd posts. All it needs is its own section. The argument that this site is simply for everyone doesn't hold up that well tbh. Fabswingers is one tab away. Talk about fanny till the cows come home. And there's a reason why the fabswingers forum isn't full of chats from bi men talking about cock and women's underwear.

It doesn't fit the overarching theme and they would be right to complain of it was talking up a lot for space in the forum's.

Literally just give a seperate space on here for posts and women and cds and everyone will be happy

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By *noggrMan
over a year ago

New Forest

I would just like a photos and videos section dedicated to kissing, and it wouldn't matter to me who posted in it.

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By *0yguyMan
over a year ago

Cumbria

"Surely the Fab swingers place is better for all the wives and tits chat, otherwise what's the point of the two different sites if they're both used to chat about women?"

Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are like Take a Break or Chat magazine for me. Mostly harmless, pretty desperate and sometimes terribly funny. They keep me grounded and compassionate for the general public but also fearful that everyone is walking the streets and have the same legal rights as me. At times it brings out that primal rejection of weakness and pushes me towards genocide but then I remember that they are doing their best (which is embarrassing) and I cannot legally kill anyone.

Quite the rollercoaster really.

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By *nthony 2.0Man
over a year ago

ear Oldham

And bi guys

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By *iExCuckMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I agree with those suggesting different Forum categories, as this is a free for all site. Makes complete sense but I know from my own experience, both on here and Fab Swingers, that the site owners don't do anything that people suggest unless its going to affect their income.

I've been a bi swinger for many years and ever since the internet became big, I've been on many different sites over the years.

The most successful sites are those that grow with their members but their prices grow accordingly.

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By *ananabrumMan
over a year ago

castle bromwich

Why would you want it restricted to just gay men. There just as much if not more bi people about. I just cant understand why you would you want less cock on the site

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

"Why would you want it restricted to just gay men. There just as much if not more bi people about. I just cant understand why you would you want less cock on the site"

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By *treyu500Man
over a year ago

wickow

"Why would you want it restricted to just gay men. There just as much if not more bi people about. I just cant understand why you would you want less cock on the site"

Nobody is arguing against bi men, I am one myself. The point of the forum thread is to have more cock on the site and less stuff that doesn't fit that theme or to at least give the less relevant stuff it's own space.

If you're a man and you engage in sex with a man, that is infact GAY SEX regardless of if you're bi, straight, or otherwise.

It's not complicated.

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By *rottingfun69Man
over a year ago

derby

I understand where your coming from but there is so many bi people who actually support the site and are very nice people who love to meet.

Also is it not better to have a forum full of all kinds of discussions than one thats not used at all and people who do not interact with others ?

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

"Why would you want it restricted to just gay men. There just as much if not more bi people about. I just cant understand why you would you want less cock on the site"

Not just gay men, but just gay sex?

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By *onameyetMan
over a year ago

chorley

Wouldn’t it be called fab gays if it was exclusively gay?

Just saying

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By *os001Man
over a year ago

Oxford

It should be a site for those who love sex with men and love the cock lol.

Anything else is not of interest really.

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By *ogwhammerMan
over a year ago

Rainham KENT

If it was exclusively for gay guys there wouldn’t be a bi option in the first profile section.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many profiles here have also chosen to mirror the profile on swingers which isn’t gay so any restrictions in Fabguys should also be reflected on swingers potentially meaning they are rejected from there. I’m not fussed either way but fair is fair.

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By *astenotimeMan
over a year ago

Gedling

I'm only interested in gay or bi men. Married or not.

Not interested in reading about women, wives or what they are wearing etc and yes, I do scroll on!

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By *astenotimeMan
over a year ago

Gedling

"Wouldn’t it be called fab gays if it was exclusively gay?

Just saying

It was started off as the mindset of gays/ bis but morphed over time into anyone jumping on the bandwagon.

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By *DC2000Man
over a year ago

Coningsby

I don't understand why people are judgemental (if that's the case) on a site for casual sexual encounters. I don't care if a guy claims to be straight, curious, bi, gay, TV or anything else...if I fancy the profile, it's why I'm here. This is a site for casual hookups, end of.

If I've missed the point, I apologise.

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By *astenotimeMan
over a year ago

Gedling

"I don't understand why people are judgemental (if that's the case) on a site for casual sexual encounters. I don't care if a guy claims to be straight, curious, bi, gay, TV or anything else...if I fancy the profile, it's why I'm here. This is a site for casual hookups, end of.

If I've missed the point, I apologise.

I suppose it's because one has to trawl through the site to bi pass what they seek and might not have the time or patience to avoid the aforementioned

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By *owalskiMan
over a year ago

Addlestone

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?"

No, you're not. So many men on here absolutely desperate to talk about their wives. Frankly, they should give it a fkn' rest.

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By *astenotimeMan
over a year ago

Gedling

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?

No, you're not. So many men on here absolutely desperate to talk about their wives. Frankly, they should give it a fkn' rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?

No, you're not. So many men on here absolutely desperate to talk about their wives. Frankly, they should give it a fkn' rest.

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?

No, you're not. So many men on here absolutely desperate to talk about their wives. Frankly, they should give it a fkn' rest.

They have to talk about her, because they can't satisfy her. She's either just not interested in sex or just not interested in him.

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By *iExCuckMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

This thread has gone round in so many circles, its getting dizzy lol

The site is used by many and therefore will be many varieties of people and profiles and discussions. The site won't do anything to change what is discussed other than keeping it legal which for me is very important, but essentially you can see the various Forum Titles and if unsure, wont take you long to go in and if its not to your taste then move on.

If not, there are many gay hookup sites out there to choose from. For those not computer literate enough to find these, there are AI's out there that will help you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ildwestheroMan
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

"I'm hetero, but I happen to enjoy being fucked an sucking cock. I quite enjoy kissing as well. So what is my pronoun?

I think I'll stick to "he", after all it is the beginning of hedonism."

Your pronouns are obviously he/him but you certainly ain't hetero.

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By *977mkMan
over a year ago

Lancs

I like it all - gay, bi, TV, CD and those that identify as a piece of broccoli

What would help is more subforums for specific kinks, in the meantime it’s ground hog day with this subject folks!

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By *wordfight70Man
over a year ago

Baldock

OP: No, it's a site for gay and bi men, but since you raise tbe problem of forums being dominated by women chat...

There are a total of 72 threads across page 1 of the main chat areas, 36 on page 1 of the lounge, and 36 on page 1 of the introduction sub fora.

There are currently 4 threads amongst those which reference women in some way, namely "wife being out", "wife being in", (both of which refer mainly to male masturbation opportunities rather than the female herself), preferred tit sizes, and Emma Raducanu.

It's hardly been fucking annexed by "the straights" has it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

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By *ildwestheroMan
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

Whether you are gay or bi this site is basically about men who are looking for and enjoy sex with other men. So discussing sex with women or the finer points of some female minor celebrity, actress of newsreader seems a bit strange. Would you discuss the best way to cook a T-Bone steak on a vegan website?

Suppose it is the way things have gone. Gay bars seem to be popular with non-gay people these days so you don't know who to try and chat up. I went to a couple of meetings of a so-called gay group but all they seemed to do was talk about trans issues and so-called non-binary issues. Can't help but feel we ordinary gay blokes are being marginalised these days.

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By *avewill1Man
over a year ago

melksham

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?"
. Probably not the only one. But according to the site owners it's for Gay and Bisexual. So yes your wrong 🤣

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By *avewill1Man
over a year ago

melksham

"It is a site for gay/bi/other men.

This topic is getting a bit tired. The solution is for the moderators and site owners to give a seperate section for wife/women talk and for the cds/admirers.

It overtaking the theme of the website which is men liking men. That's just a fact.

Fabswingers is there to talk about wives and women. As a bi man, I use that. I come here for all things men - cocks, ass, armpits and everything in between.

Maybe some people associate dressing in feminine underwear a gay thing. It's really not. If that's how they want to express themselves , great for them.

It doesn't fit the overarching theme and they would be right to complain of it was talking up a lot for space in the forum's.

Literally just give a seperate space on here for posts and women and cds and everyone will be happy

"
. What is more practical is set up an area just for Gays only. Leave rest of the site as it is for gay bi crossdresser s and straight people. Simple and that will make everyone happy

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By *eepeter4Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

"It is a site for gay/bi/other men.

This topic is getting a bit tired. The solution is for the moderators and site owners to give a seperate section for wife/women talk and for the cds/admirers.

It overtaking the theme of the website which is men liking men. That's just a fact.

Fabswingers is there to talk about wives and women. As a bi man, I use that. I come here for all things men - cocks, ass, armpits and everything in between.

Maybe some people associate dressing in feminine underwear a gay thing. It's really not. If that's how they want to express themselves , great for them.

It doesn't fit the overarching theme and they would be right to complain of it was talking up a lot for space in the forum's.

Literally just give a seperate space on here for posts and women and cds and everyone will be happy

. What is more practical is set up an area just for Gays only. Leave rest of the site as it is for gay bi crossdresser s and straight people. Simple and that will make everyone happy

"
👇👇👇👇

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By *iBobOxonMan
over a year ago

Thame/Aylesbury

"I'm hetero, but I happen to enjoy being fucked an sucking cock. I quite enjoy kissing as well. So what is my pronoun?

I think I'll stick to "he", after all it is the beginning of hedonism."

This is hilarious

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By *amie87hMan
over a year ago

Poulton

"Agree over the years I’ve been a member on and off it is less gay if that’s the politically correct thing to say

It is a wide spectrum but isn’t fabswingers made for that?"

As a married guy that is a closeted bisexual;

I wouldn’t be interested in fabswingers because I’m not interested in seeing another woman in the slightest. I like tv/cd and older guys generally and I like to express my sub/fem side and being with dominant gay guys gives me this - so I feel this is the right place for me.

The guys (fully gold star gay guys) that I have met seem to get a kick out of me being married. I don’t know why that would turn them on but if it does, that’s all the better for me.

I’ve never been homophobic and I’m surprised that people still are however, there’s more animosity from the gay community toward bisexuality than anything despite us struggling massively with it and feeling that we can’t come out as such. Why do some gay people not want us included?

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By *androverman OP Man
over a year ago

Burton upon Trent

"Whether you are gay or bi this site is basically about men who are looking for and enjoy sex with other men. So discussing sex with women or the finer points of some female minor celebrity, actress of newsreader seems a bit strange. Would you discuss the best way to cook a T-Bone steak on a vegan website?

Great point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not interest in posts about sex with women or whether some TV wants to know if his/her arse looks big in knickers either. But I just scroll on past and let them get on with it, there are still plenty of gay and bi guys looking for sex so just be more selective with your reading.

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By *en22Man
over a year ago

renfrew

"Agree over the years I’ve been a member on and off it is less gay if that’s the politically correct thing to say

It is a wide spectrum but isn’t fabswingers made for that?

As a married guy that is a closeted bisexual;

The guys (fully gold star gay guys) that I have met seem to get a kick out of me being married. I don’t know why that would turn them on but if it does, that’s all the better for me.

Gay men, from my experience, aren't hostile to bi or married men. You, like anyone, can find men on here who turn you on. It's a site for men to meet men after all. Not to constantly go on about wives panties etc.

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By *ickthrobbingMan
over a year ago

Maidenhead

I agree with this.

The site although its subtitle say for "gay guys" surely its about men who enjoy the intimate company of other men, be they gay, bi or bi-curious.

It is about personal preference if like to meet cross dressers, TV guys with beards, clean shaven pubes .........

Lets just get on with what really matters enjoying getting close and personal with another male body

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By *lackbootzMan
over a year ago

Hayes, Middx

" … Would you discuss the best way to cook a T-Bone steak on a vegan website? ..."

There are a number of regular Forum posters who would go out of their way to do exactly that!

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By *ranford cruiserTV/TS
over a year ago

Heathrow

"I'm hetero, but I happen to enjoy being fucked an sucking cock. I quite enjoy kissing as well. So what is my pronoun?

I think I'll stick to "he", after all it is the beginning of hedonism.

How can you be hetero if you like cock ?

Get real. If don't push back on a cock doesn't make you gay pmsl if you're offering your bum to someone you ain't straight

Lol. I love it when they can't admit what they are.

Whats there to admit,you can like both you no

But you're not fucking hetero if you do. "

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By *or one nught onlyMan
over a year ago

dundee

"I'm hetero, but I happen to enjoy being fucked an sucking cock. I quite enjoy kissing as well. So what is my pronoun?

I think I'll stick to "he", after all it is the beginning of hedonism."

Not quite heterosexual then. Sorry to be pedantic.

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By *lackbootzMan
over a year ago

Hayes, Middx

Transphobia ≠ Mocking rueful choices of bad wigs and sad truckers in charity shop clothes that someone has chosen to post in the public domain of the site.

Aggression towards the bi community ≠ Being bored shitless due to yet another thread about your wife’s panties that someone has chosen to post in the public domain of the site.

Homophobia ≠ Yet more unsubtle and near identical photos of a gaping arsehole that someone has chosen to post in the public domain of the site.

This thread is full of victims seeking victimhood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a place closeted guys can come and fantasise/recall some old memories and possibly make new ones before they return to their everyday lives, reading the daily fail and chatting bollocks with their mates about how the country is woke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s easy to forget that the sad whinners and moaners on this forum are largely the same small handful of entitled twats out of the many thousands who use the site daily without any problem and never visit the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anything say it’s exclusively for gay? Also. If we had a cd app. You gay men would be on there. Im bi. I like cock. That’s why I’m here. If they dress too. It a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love guys, cocks and arse . But also like pussy some days

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By *yker76Man
over a year ago

travel

It’s only gay if you kiss xxxx

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By *ildwestheroMan
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

"Does anything say it’s exclusively for gay? Also. If we had a cd app. You gay men would be on there. Im bi. I like cock. That’s why I’m here. If they dress too. It a bonus "

No it is a gay/bi site BUT the whole point of the site is about men enjoying having sex with other men. Hence no women members and discussing sex with women does seem a bit odd in the circumstances.

As for your suggestion that if there was a cd app. we gay guys would be on there well I don't think so. This gay guy most certainly would not. Not exclusively of course, but on the whole gay men are only interested in men who look like men. Most crossdresssers and their admirers tend to be bi.

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By *cunnySucker69Man
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think the site is for gay men, bi sexual men and bi curious men, some will have already met men for sex and some are thinking about it, all of whom have a right to be on this site, we are all different and our circumstances are also different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the site is for gay men, bi sexual men and bi curious men, some will have already met men for sex and some are thinking about it, all of whom have a right to be on this site, we are all different and our circumstances are also different. "

Well said

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By *ickthrobbingMan
over a year ago

Maidenhead

"It’s only gay if you kiss xxxx"

Errrrrrr no

Kissing is about being personal and intimate with another person male or female

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By *heffstarMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

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By *heffstarMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?"

get the point a little but using me as an example...an A typical man does nothing for me as such but tgirls yes but then oddly(people find it) in a group setting with female or tgirl i am happy to with male.also enjoy getting men excited with chat/pic swaps of getting off over his partner and cuck chat etc..i do have to agree posts about specific female interests like which female do you want you be fuck then no place on here

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By *ohnnyangerMan
over a year ago

I think the interesting part is how much more sexualised the chat is here about women than whenever I have looked at the fabswingers forum. I imagine a lot of blokes wouldn't want women to see how gross they are about them...

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By *amie87hMan
over a year ago

Poulton

Yeah I digressed a bit with my last comment. With regards stories of sex with females I get that. I’ve had some good experiences with females in the past but I’m here for guys. I only see other guys for sex and have no interest in females.

A lot of bi guys will get off on the stories of females though, and this site is for bi guys as well.

Shit for gay only guys but I don’t see how it could be different.

You might not be into hairy guys whilst another gay guy might be, so you probably wouldn’t want to hear his discussions of hairy guys.

I think what’s important is that we are all guys here x

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By *vmarisaTV/TS
over a year ago

Motherwell

"I think the interesting part is how much more sexualised the chat is here about women than whenever I have looked at the fabswingers forum. I imagine a lot of blokes wouldn't want women to see how gross they are about them..."

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By *yker76Man
over a year ago

travel

"It’s only gay if you kiss xxxx

Errrrrrr no

Kissing is about being personal and intimate with another person male or female "

Wooooshhh…….That one was lost on you…

Ok it’s only gay if you push back

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By *avewill1Man
over a year ago

melksham

"The clue is in the title at the top of the page... "fun, free & fabulous for gay guys"

So I'll probably get a load of abuse for saying this, but why are there so many guys on here posting things about women or their wives/girlfriends?

Appreciate there's going to be a little crossover with Bi guys and TVs, but I just find it odd seen as this is supposed to be a contact site for gay guys?

Am I the only one thinking this?

No, you're not. So many men on here absolutely desperate to talk about their wives. Frankly, they should give it a fkn' rest.

They have to talk about her, because they can't satisfy her. She's either just not interested in sex or just not interested in him."
. And gays don't resents others on this site? Ok 🤣🤣

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By *avewill1Man
over a year ago

melksham

"Agree over the years I’ve been a member on and off it is less gay if that’s the politically correct thing to say

It is a wide spectrum but isn’t fabswingers made for that?

As a married guy that is a closeted bisexual;

The guys (fully gold star gay guys) that I have met seem to get a kick out of me being married. I don’t know why that would turn them on but if it does, that’s all the better for me.

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By *aid2TV/TS
over a year ago

Swindon

This is exactly it! As a tv on both sites i get sent things that they would absolutely never send a woman but probably want to. Vulgar insulting messages that they probably think are charming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't discover my bi side till late in life and wish I had discovered it sooner I am versatile but prefer bottom I am probably more on the gay side now lol

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

Exactly. I doubt the guys om fabswingers are admitting to sniffing the undies of various female friends of the wife or the desire to shag the mother-in-law either.

They're too busy trying to be a suave James Bond kind of guy to let the mask slip on their predatory behaviour.

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By *owzerMan
over a year ago

Chester... Where the streets have no name

All the hetero chat...

is a bit of a drag. So that's perfect for this site.

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By *suckcoxMan
over a year ago

Luton

Lol, gay Kevin's, want everything your way, lol.

If you don't like chat about women or girls, then don't read them, simple KEVIN.

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By *ookingFor...Man
over a year ago

Horsham/Crawley/Gatwick

Gay guys can suffer marginalisation in the offline world. Bi guys often hide behind their straight marriage and don't suffer that same marginalisation.

On here, gay guys are often told they're essentially just bits of meat for bi guys who won't kiss them and don't fancy them...

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By *ildwestheroMan
over a year ago

Llandrindod Wells

Half the time I think it is back to the old gay stigma. If you say your are gay and don't mention your lust for women then you imagine everyone thinks you are going to be a weak, limp-wristed, 6 stone fairy who talks with a lithp.

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By *en22Man
over a year ago

renfrew

"Does anything say it’s exclusively for gay? Also. If we had a cd app. You gay men would be on there. Im bi. I like cock. That’s why I’m here. If they dress too. It a bonus

No it is a gay/bi site BUT the whole point of the site is about men enjoying having sex with other men. Hence no women members and discussing sex with women does seem a bit odd in the circumstances.

Agreed. No gay man I've ever known has shown the slightest bit interest in women's clothes.( Excluding drag,and that is not sexual).I'm sure there will be some who do.

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By *en22Man
over a year ago

renfrew

"Lol, gay Kevin's, want everything your way, lol.

If you don't like chat about women or girls, then don't read them, simple KEVIN."

Ok Karen. Your profile suggests you like men just as much as gay guys do. Maybe save your women chat for your wife.

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By *aul697Man
over a year ago

Northants

I agree that there are more so called bisexual guys on here. Even obvious gay guys put bisexual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a problem with any man being on here, gay, bi, trans, cd, tv, or whatever label they choose for themselves.

But it is a site for men looking for men.

Discussions about wives, mothers in law, sisters in law, female co-workers, female presenters, tits, or whatever it is concerning women, doesn’t and shouldn’t have a place on here.

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By *iExCuckMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

LOL

If there is a directory of sexual kinks, I think this forum would be the perfect example given for Bitter Taste Kink

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By *ublinBottomGuyMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Lol, gay Kevin's, want everything your way, lol.

If you don't like chat about women or girls, then don't read them, simple KEVIN."

Stop trying to make the Kevin thing happen. Makes you sound even more ridiculous when you're screeching like some annoyed middle aged woman.

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